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30-35,
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writes:im a very insecure person, i dont like the way i look at all and unfortunately its started to effect my way of living. to make things slightly worse, i have a very good looking boyfriend. he knows it and so does everyone else. i always get 'you're so lucky to have him' from his mates and even he says to me 'what were the nice things my friends were saying...' and 'oh im so good looking' he also brags to everyone about the expensive things he brought me.. even though ive brought just as expensive things for him. its starting to make me feel insecure about myself, and feeling the need to wear loads of make-up/dress nicely, to impress him. its literally got to the point where ive had to leave on a night out because i feel not worthy of him. i dont understand, is it normal to feel s***? why does he need to do this when he knows how insecure i am?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): You're beautiful in you're way, cause God makes not mistakes.
Why are you insecure? When he tells everyone that he bought expensive gifts for YOU? He says mentions that you're his gf. And you are pretty. I'm 100% sure, mate. You have to socialize more. Go out without a second look in the mirror. Before...did Oprah look "beautiful"? No. She was fat. Still, with her kindness, it never mattered. Everyone still loves her. So chill out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): He sounds like he can be rather insecure himself in a different way. Don't be afraid to be you! bottom line is don't make someone a star in your movie if they only have you as an extra in theirs...
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