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I'm wondering if this is all for nothing!

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Question - (29 May 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I've been married for 3 years and I thought we were doing okay. My husband's has issues with the way I raise my children two teenage girls whom has been with us for 4 years now. He is very emotionally needy for a Soldier. I do everything around the house for he and the girls and I work. He has been away to school of some sort for the past 3 years also. Now he is gearing up to deploy and has told me he can't deal with this anymore. We need to go our separate ways. I need to adjust my thinking while he's deployed if or when we split. He came home before his deployment but there was no real affection going on. Did we have sex well yes a few times. Did we do things yes. We went on a cruise for 5 days, purchased me a new car, went riding, out to eat and just basically had good calm conversations. Since he's been gone I email him once a day. I give him updates on the house, etc and continue to let him know I love him. He does respond back with I miss you and I love you also. I'm just wandering is all this for nothing. At the end of the day I fill so empty.

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