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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:when me + my boyriend got together we were both virgins . we have been together for 8 months + have been having safe sex for just 1 month. i enjoy having sex with him, but it always seems to be the same. he will innitiate it, + then lie back + expect me to take control. but being on top all the time can get tiring + boring.i don't think he means to be selfish as he is definately not when it come to foreplay.how can i encourage him too take control and engage more in our sex life?
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reader, j321  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Some guys like an agressive woman and like it when they take control it makes them feel she really likes him. The next time he starts out and then just lay back, tell it is his turn to be on top mister. You are still in control and you are giving the control to him. Some guys are just like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): Research online together, I don't mean watching porn together although there is nothing wrong with that,but there are lots of sites out there, with different positions, find ones that you both fancy trying etc.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (29 May 2011):
 tell him you want him to go on top, tell him you love it when he does that, give him lots of praise etc when he does this for you, that will give him more confidence. he may be a bit unsure of his ability
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