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*elissmiss4
writes:I am looking for opinions about the intentions of a guy I am interested in. I cannot tell if we have that special connection or if he just views me as a friend.I met this guy a year ago in the same building I worked in, he was nice, flirty, and I really felt a connection. A few month later I left that job and we exchanged numbers and he even gave me his buisnesscard and said "this is my email address that goes straight to my blackberry". So I email him a few days later and found out he had a girlfriend and I completly backed off. I didn't contact him and we didn't even hang out outside of the office. Fastforward to me enjoying life four months later.. And we run into each other very randomly. We were both excited to see each other and talked about getting together. I never contacted him and he never contacted me. I continue in my happy life and then six month later he finds me on Facebook and adds me as a friend. I find this weird because we really are not friends. How can I just happened to be on his mind after months of not talking and NEVER hanging out? I took it as a sign that he wanted me in his life not sure his reasoning since on his facebook page I realized he was ENGAGED! It doesn't bother me he was engaged but why was he contacting me? Then, a few months ago he IM's me and after talking about our relationship problems he tells me he broke up with his fiance because she cheated on him. So, finally we go out on a nice relaxing beach day. The night before the beach day he invited me out for a drink. Then, During the beach day he said he was over the EX and very happy to be single. Is he happy to be single cause he can date anyone or ME? He has only been single maybe 4 or 5 months but I'm just saying.. We went out again a month later because he left on buisness and vacationing in Europe. The 2nd time we hung out was two weeks ago at a bar and it was fun, but there hasn't been any kissing or anything like that. Maybe he's not attracted to me in the same way I am? Maybe he's insecure about taking things to a physical level? Yes we have only hung out twice in the last year of knowing each other but I'm not the one the was keeping in contact.My question is do guys normally seek friendships with girls like this guy has done? What is your opinion on the story? Am I analzing him too much? I would have thought after I left the office building it would be done with and would never hear about him again. Is this one of those "signs"?Thanks for reading! :)
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reader, Melissmiss4 +, writes (21 September 2009):
Melissmiss4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think you are right and after thinking about it today I'm just not going waist my time. I never know why guys do the things they do! :) Thanks for the comment.
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