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writes:Married lover just asked me to come to his place while his wife is out of town, and children sleeping. First time he has asked.I think he wants to get caught. I think he wants to push the matter.I am debating continuing the relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): did you tell him NO , that you do not want to DO IT in his marital bed with his kids asleep in the other room. OR did you tell him, NO, you cannot be his mistress anymore.
seems like you prefer him to be married than seperated/divorced. also seems like you do not now want to be a factor in his divorce. why the sudden moral high ground, if this is truly what it is???? you should be estatic that he wants to get caught so that he is finally with you. why the sudden change of heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question You are all correct.
Blinded by lust, love...
Told him, no.
He wants to have en excuse to end his marriage; he just doesn't want to admit it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): He would have you over when his children are in the home??? Do you have any sense of *wrong* at all? Does he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Make it easy - collect the emails, voicemails, letter and throw in a naked photo or two of him... and mail her a package... that will do it... CC the kids while your at it, they shouldn't be left out.
SERIOUSLY, dump this guy and NOW... and focus on dating single men. The world's hard enough with out this guys kids learning that daddy brough home a woman GF and screwed her in mommy's bed while she was away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): debating continuing the relationship?
end it!! thats so wrong being with a married man when there are so many single men out there... think about how u would feel if you were the one married and your husband was fooling around.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (21 September 2009):
 Ok let me get this straight, you are in a relationship with a MARRIED man and you are wondering if you should continue to be with him cause you think he is taking too many risks and wants his wife to catch you two having sex?
First of all what do you want??
You want to have sex with him but you don't want to get caught...what is the point of being with him?
You should also consider what you are doing. Do you realize just how much you are hurting his wife and kids by doing this?
Get out of this relationship...nothing good will come of this. Go find yourself a single man.
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