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writes:I asked what my girlfriend liked, and she said she wanted a dominating man. I am pretty dominant in my own life, I run it no one else. But I'm not sure how to be dominant in a relationship.I try to initiate the kisses, I lead in the conversations, and I choose when to hangout.But I don't know what else to do. And if you could go into detail in each suggestion. Like say kissing, maybe how to be more dominant in kissing, etc. That would be great.I asked what she meant and she said in every aspect she likes dominance. I asked if there were boundaries and she said no. And would tell me if I went too far. So I have to green light to be dominating, and I should or loose her, but I need advice.If anyone has suggestions on how to be more dominant I would appreciate it. She once said "do what you want when you want".
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): Thank you strongfp, and satindesire.
I did ask her, we really got into discussing it, and well hot damn. She did mean in the bedroom, kind of. But really to do whatever I want and let my hormones take control. And gave me some real specifics.
Thanks guys!
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reader, pinkgoblin15 +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Maybe she just wants dominance in the bedroom bro
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (21 September 2009):
usually lovers complain about the dominance and fight each other for it. To be honest though, you are who you are and theres no point changing it, its just unnatural. Best you can do is to tell her you will lead and protect her but she should take you as you are.
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