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writes:My boyfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up 3 months ago. I was not able to give him what he needed due to a number of reasons, a job that required most of my energy, i averaged 12 hours per day, aging parents living in a different state, my youngest son having an addiction problem, and I was dealing with some health issues. All of this left me in some sort of shock, or something as I was left almost unable to function. And was not able to make solid decisions, like should I move home to take care of my parents, what can I do to help my son, he is also in a different state.....my boyfriend asked me to marry him, i told him I could not say yes until I could figure out what I should do with all of my problems, I didn't want to say yes and then not follow through.......Anyway, we broke up, I did not want to, he says he thought I wanted to, no real communication it was basically done over the phone. He said it's over and hung up on me. I was devastated. I ended up with a being diagnosed with breast cancer ....had a bilateral mastectomy, should not need chemo, thank God...my problem is that I truly miss my guy. I did not see how much I loved him until he was out of my life.He already has a "friend" and I would like to see if we could work out our problems and get him back. Should I call him, write him a letter, how does one work at getting their ex back? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): its a tricky one as i find it hard to understand how he could want to marry you, yet could not understand that you had a lot of drama going on in your life, did you not explain all that was going on?. I guess he ended things as he was hurt and felt he was wasting his time with someone who didnt have time for him. obviously this wasn't the case but he probably just felt rejected.If you are really sure he is the right man for you and your not just thinking you miss him because now u dont have him then i say you should call him, write to him.. do whatever it takes to get your man back!! he put himself out there asking you to marry him so now you have to make a big gesture to let him know you really do love him.goodluck!!
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