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I feel she wants to handcuff me during sex to get questions out of me! Should I do it?

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Question - (8 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A male Canada age 41-50, *unna_you writes:

hello aunties, Two weeks ago when I was sleeping with my neighbor, her husband found out about us and beat me.. 2 days back I met him in the gym again, he pushed and began teasing me about how he tied me and hit me, everyone was looking at us. Eventually I got angry and pushed him and we got in a fist fight, where I beat him and I teased him about his wife.

Now since yesterday my neighbor (the wife) as been coming to my house (I stay alone) She began seducing me and we did it again. I have some evidence from the past that she and I had an affair, also some of her pictures too.. (she also has some naked pictures of mine). After we had sex, I went to the bar to make a drink and I saw she was trying to look through my laptop for something. I have a feeling she wants to erase the evidence or take revenge for me beating up her husband in the gym today.

This morning she told me she brought some handcuffs, as she wants to tie me have sex.. I feel she will tie me to ask me questions about evidence or to punish me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

Bloody hell it's obvious she's up to something! Or maybe her husband is making her?? Come on, use ya nogin!!! All the best.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (8 January 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntBEING I DESPISE CHEATERS IN ANY FORM...YOU GOT WHAT YOU DESERVED WITH THE BEATDOWN! Cheaters get no symapthy from GrimmReality

You are lucky you didnt get killed.

Yes of course the female is pulling a fast one on you. She is gonna wait and get you in those cuffs, and then she's gonna let her hubby in the door and put you out of your misery.

I think it's about time for you to leave town

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (8 January 2009):

yum yum agony auntYou should terminate the sex contact with her and the contact all together!. I believe if you continue having an affair with her you could get into trouble. NEVER EVER let her tie you up during intercoarse aspecially if you can't trust her 100%. Stay away from her and her husband and do not let her again into your home. If he wants to pick up a fight with you again, go to the police. My advise to you is find other women in your life that you can trust. Take care!

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2009):

The Gentle Man agony auntIt smells like a trap. She will either try to get rid the the evidence. Let her husband come in and beat you up. Take comprimising pictures of you and blackmail you.

I'd just stay away.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (8 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntStop seeing this woman!!!!!!

Clearly she is nothing but trouble.

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