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writes:You see... one of us is moving to a new country which is on the other side of the world. I think that it's impossible to marry each other in the future because of this. We will be apart for years and years without seeing each other. Now I'm not sure whether I still love him or not.My questions is, do you keep a relationship with a guy who you are sure you won't marry?I'm starting to feel unsure about this. It seems useless sometimes! Reply to this Question
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 Well if you want to get married and you say you will never marry this guy, then you should break up. I tend to not date people I can't see myself marrying in the future but most people aren't like that. A lot of people just go with the flow rather than plan out their future. So it all depends on how you are. If it feels useless then there is no point on continuing this relationship. And you aren't sure if you love him. And long distance relationships are extremely hard, even for people who know what they want and know they are in love. I think it would be best if you let him go.
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reader, loveuxoxo +, writes (8 January 2009):
 if u cant see a future with him then no. and long distance is soo hard so many people cant do it. only people who truley love each other and know there destination is with them then long distance can work. but you said u cant see a future with him. so there for if u cant see a future with him and dont know if you love him anymore then i would end it. BUT THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU DO SO. hope this helps.
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reader, tinylass  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 tht depends do you think tht you could be faithful to him and him to you or do you think it would be easier just to enjoy the time you have together now and end it on good terms so tht you can stay in touch as mates.
i hope this helps good luck x
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