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Is it cheating to kiss a girl when I have a boyfriend?

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Question - (20 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I'm bisexual and i have a boyfrind. But is it wrong to check out other girls when i have a boyfriend? Is it cheating to kiss a girl, even though it is a different sex then my boyfriend?

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

deejuliet agony auntCheating is doing something behind your loved ones back, without their permission, knowledge or consent, that they did not or would not approve of. If you are lying to him and doing it behind his back then yes, it is cheating. The sex of the person has less than nothing to do with whether it is cheating or not. If you talk to him and he is ok with you kissing girls, then it is not cheating. If you speak to him and he says no, but you persist in doing it anyway you are a cheater and a lier. If you do not speak to him and go do this anyway, you are a cheater and a lier. The point is that honesty is the key, not the sex of the recipient of your kisses.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2009):

This is one where different couples have different rules.

My husband would treat me kissing a girl in exactly the same way as if I kissed a man. He'd be devastated.

My ex said I could kiss as many girls as I wanted as long as he could watch.

Some guys mind and some don't. It's something you have to talk to him about.

Good Luck!! xx

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