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How do I get the oourage to actually speak to him and not just text him?

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Question - (20 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eely-h writes:

dear cupid

hi last week i wrote with a problem i have had a crush on a boy for about a year.i got his number off his mate and and i have been textinghim for about A MONTH he wants to talk to me but i find it hard to pluck up the courage. i saw yesterday and he looked at me for a while but my freind kept screaming and pointing at him (shes a bit crazy lol ) and i got embarresed.

any sugestions on what i can say to him when i do talk to him and how can i pluck up the courage to do so?

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell you got the courage to get his number from his friend so thats a start! I think you should try and speak to him the next time you see him when your friend is not around (so she wont embarrass you!) and try and get him alone too.

Boys tend to try and be all macho and look cool when they are with their friends so definately only talk to him when he is alone. If he has been texting you back then thats a clear sign he likes you, he is probably too shy to talk to you too!

Just remember you have nothing to lose by talking to him and while it will be akward at first, just be yourself and hopefully things will go well! Keep the conversation short and sweet, if you cant think of what to say then maybe talk to him on a friday so you can ask him what his plans are for the weekend etc. Try and sound interested in him and what he likes and hopefully he will reciprocate.

Good luck!

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