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Too old to be living at home and no one will date you?

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Question - (20 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am still living at home with my parents,but no one is really at home because my father travels with his job. my mother takes care of her parents at their home.

so i have been told you are too old to be living at home and no one will date you if you don't have your own place.

is this true? is this a turn off to girls?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

Like she said below, yeah, it can be for some. I wouldn't mind either. I really think though, that those type of people aren't worth your time anyway. They judge you way too quickly and you don't want friends or a girlfriend/boyfriend like that. You want one that is understanding of your situation. Just as long as you're not a bum and you're working, or working towards something, like you have ambitions in your life, I think that bring a good impression not just with your potential mate, but everyone else.

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A female reader, tabycakes United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

how old are you?

Anyways...it depends on the person. We all have our faults. It whether the person you choose will look past it and accept it.

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

2old4this agony auntYea, sometimes it is. I mean, if you are still in college or something like that, then it's cool. Women just want to know you are independant and if you are a young twenty something year old guy still living at home they sometimes think something is wrong.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

It only really matters to superficial women, of which there are a lot. Any woman that see's it as a turn off is an idiot and not worth your time and effort anyway.

It also kinda depends on your reasons for still living at home. A lot of women see guys your age still living at home as either lazy or cheap.

I still live at home at 28 to take care of my disabled mom both physically and financially. I've met women that thought I was loser for still living at home and I've met girls that it didn't bother. For some reason it doesn't work the other way around, there's no stigma attached to a woman still living at home in her 20's.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

honestly yes it is to some. i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it but some girls do. get a job get money and move out if you really want to find someone you gotta fly away from the nest.

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