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I've got a g/f but can't get this guy out of my head

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Question - (20 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *ysteryguy writes:


Im bi sexual well im more into women really. Though i have been chatting to this older guy online. This guy gay and i have seen him on webcam and must say i find him attractive. He wants to meet for a beer and a chat but im not sure i have a gf who i adore and love. But i can't get this guy out of my mind what shall i do.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2009):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntchat to this guy as a friend and meet him in real life "as a friend". then feel out your feelings but dont cheat, you might just gain a new friend

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A female reader, JHi United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2009):

JHi agony auntThere's no harm in meeting this new guy, you've just got to be careful. It depends on your intentions - you may find him attractive but does it really go any deeper than that? If it does, then be wary as you don't want to cheat on your girlfriend. The fact is that you haven't seen them in person, things are a lot different in person than over the internet, you may realise that you don't like him after all. I think that maybe you want to see him because you want to know more about him - you want to meet up because you like him, and you want to get to know him better as a person. I would advise meeting with him to talk, as friends. Make sure that's clear between you as otherwise thnigs could get out of hand - you don't want to hurt your girlfriend here. But there is nothing wrong with meeting up with friends, so I say go for it, and have a good time :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

If you loved and adored your girlfriend you wouldn't be chatting with this guy in the first place. Maybe you should take a step back and decided if you really want to be in a relationship right now.

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