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writes:I'm 14. Yes, I'm really young. I've known I liked boys (unsure about girls) since a while ago.Recently, I've been pretty... dormant. I haven't looked at boys (since this is what the topic's about) or thought about anything involving them. I recently met this amazing guy, and he does know I'm gay/bi, and he treats me like anyone else, which I love.The problem is that I know he doesn't like me, but I can't get my mind off of him. Infatuation, yes.I'm /not/ looking for a sexual/physically intimate relationship with anyone. I know I'm too young for that. I just want someone to be there for me in a way that ordinary friends can't.So what do I do? Move on and just cut him out for all the trouble he's causing? Or just try to ease him into the "friend" category?I'm asking here for unbiased opinions.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (21 January 2009):
 I'm gathering you want him to be your boyfriend (since you say you want him to be there in a way that "ordinary" friends can't), but he's heterosexual.
If you can stand to be his friend knowing that it will never be more, continue to be his friend. If you can't be his friend because of those feelings, that's your personal choice. I would give myself time before making that decision because right now you seem to frustrated to really think about it with a clear head.
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