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writes:MOD NOTE: Poster says they are in 7th grade, but age is 19. I like this boy in seventh grade that always hangs out with me in the morning. One of my friends thinks he's a creep, and always tells him to go away. How do I ask him out? And how do I deal with my friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDont listen to the Mod Note, I am in seventh grade, I just use the age 19 so people cant stalk me.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (3 December 2009):
 if she doesn't have a good explanation, maybe she is jealous of the time that it's taking away from you two. i would try to include her in a couple hanging out sessions with the 2 of you, maybe she'll get to know the good side of him that you see; relationships can be exciting and fun in the beginning but be sure that you don't leave her behind while exploring this romance
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
Well, just in case your friend knows something you don't, ask her why she feels that way. And listen carefully. When we fancy someone, we have the habit of only seeing good points, without any warning signs. Why is your friend acting like she is? What makes her think that?
As for the boy, if you feel safe in his company, and if your friend really can't give a good reason, then say to him you like him and would like to get to know him more. Hopefully he'll be mature enough to understand, and he'll open up and tell you how he feels. Do listen to your friend though, just in case.
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