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female
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30-35,
*heesy18
writes:So me and my group of friends are having huge difficulties. We are 6 girls and last year we were a tight group but this year is all weird. I know people change but its all drama shit. My bff elizabeth started telling some pretty shitty lies where she did it just to draw attention to herself (pretended to get punched by a guy and applied make up for a black eye). Its wrong i know but my friends and i decided to ignore it. But then after summer lindsay was like thats not cool and got fed up with all her lies and anger problems. so i was put in the middle of that situation (kept out of it). But then my friend Soles got a bf who hates my friend Kay so they arent talking and then my friend Bessy was put in the middle of that which then caused her to leak information that was said out of frustration by Kay towards Lindsay. So basically the group is cut in 2 Kay Elizabeth and then lindsay and soles. Bessy is playing both sides but is more so with lindsay and soles but i am seriously in the middle and i dont know what to do i'm sick of the drama and the ripping they do on each other. Should i just hang out with them separately?try to get them to make up? or what i'm at a loss for what to do because its no fun doing something with one friend when u wish the other could be there. Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 December 2009):
 Be tough, try and get them all together in a neutral place, (coffee shop or something) and then tell them their childish antics are doing your head in, and they either sort themselves out or you walk away until they do. Give them a few minutes, and if nothing happens, pick up your purse and walk without a word or a backward glance.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
That's a really crap place to be, so you have my sympathy. We males are a bit luckier with friends, because we don't rely on them so much, whereas women do need good friendships to be happy. This means that female friendships are open to a lot of feuds and anger. You're in the middle, which can be tough. However, the best thing to do would be to see each group separately, rather than to take sides or make them up. They have to make it all up themselves. Be neutral and also make sure you're mixing with other people, just so you have friends who aren't so volotile.
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