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writes:Okay, theres this teacher at my school who teaches me English and well...basically every time I see him, I get hormonal..so to speak, I cant help it, I guess you could say I lust for him. Anyway...a few days ago I had a detention with him (for not handing in homework) and well...I did a pretty stupid thing I guess. I told him how I felt towards him...he looked a bit surprised actually (and I cant blame him) Anyway, I kissed him, I was pretty shocked when he kissed back, he probably was too to be honest...but then things...got out of hand, he got worried when I tried to go further than fellatio so we left it there and I went home.See that was yesterday...and I have English with him on Friday, its Wednesday now...and I'm worried about seeing him again, I want more...I want to go all the way with him, I mean...I've been craving him for ages and the incident has only increased that craving.Please, help me...I'm confused...I dont know what I should do...seduce him again? I dont want him to get into trouble...Its just, I want to go further and I don't know how to without us getting into trouble? Reply to this Question
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reader, shuhyb  +, writes (7 January 2010):
maybe this explains why you are gay at such a young age,whatever,are you still having an affair with your teacher.Wondering?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry i havent updated in so long...
anyway, @Ask oldersister... I was abused by a relative on a regular basis from when I was 4 till when I was 11 but he got send to prison for a different crime so.. yeah, hes out of the picture now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Even if you made the move on him, he shouldn't of kissed you back, his job is to teach you, not to seduce you.
& by kissing you, he may think "Well that's that over and done with" but in fact it's made things worse.
He doesn't sound like a very responsable teacher, whether he likes you in that way or not.
Do not whatever you do seduce him again, unless of course you want him to go to prison, lose his job, and everything important in his life. & you'll ruin your chances at getting anywhere too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Hi sorry for the delay
I'm disturbed by your follow-up, this was your first 'willing' sexual experience, from which I'm inferring that you have been subjected to an unwilling one, which may or may not have had an impact on your sexual identity.
This is beyond my field of experience. If you have been abused, you need to raise it with someone you trust, and also inform the police to prevent it happening to anyone else.
In the meantime, please stay away from your teacher.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Shuhyb: Naw, hes about 25-30 maybe..idk his exact age.
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reader, shuhyb +, writes (5 December 2009):
whats the teachers age 52? world is weird
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey its me...Thanks for your answers guys.And in response to heartfullalove's questions...1. Was this your first sexual experience? My first willing one yes.2. And what age exactly are you? I'm 13, nearly 14.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Have I got this right...you're 15 (at the oldest) and you've fellated your English teacher?
Irrespective of whether you were the one who initiated it, he has already broken the law and could land on the sex-offenders register for life as a result of what he's done. No-one here in their right mind is going to advise you to 'seduce him again' or 'go all the way'.
This is a complex one. Assuming that your story is accurate in every detail, you're asking us what you should do. You 'don't want him to get into trouble'. In that case, you need to forget about any notion of further sexual contact with him, not just until you reach the age of consent, but until you've left school. After that, the situation becomes different and you're both free agents. But right now, you are playing with fire.
I've two questions for you: was this your first sexual experience? And what age exactly are you?
Be extremely careful
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reader, 25aa  +, writes (3 December 2009):
If you don't want trouble then you shouldn't do anything more with him. No matter how consensual it is he will get into a LOT of trouble, could lose his job and could even be never able to work as a teacher again.
I understand your frustration and desire for him. Sometimes when we know the outcome will be bad we just have to suck it up and not give in to our desires.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I just wanted to say that on your part you really havent done too much wrong, you are young and I'm sure you realize your hormones are just all over the place and loads of young people crush on teachers or just older people because of the influence they have in your life.Kissing him was taking this too far, but this has happened now and you can't take it back. He has made a big mistake. A man that is willing to kiss and allow a child (please dont feel offended but in the eyes of the law you are a child, even if you dont feel like one) to pleasure him isn't a man that is to be respected. The fact is he has committed an offence by what happened and has made a huge breach of conduct by abusing his position as a teacher.Have a sensible think about this situation and please take on board the comments everyone here has made. Take care of yourself.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 December 2009):
 If you don't stop you WILL get him into trouble. However HE is the adult here and should have NEVER let it get as far as a kiss even.
Either way it spells disaster.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Honestly, from reading what you have said you shouldn't do anything at all.
You "lust" him yes? you don't actually care about him. He kissed you back despite not even knowning you liked him until a couple of minutes prvious or something?, so he obviously won't have sprouted feelings for you in any other way rather than a fun past time.
Seducing him will get you in trouble, his reacting to this will get him in trouble, although in theory you would both be in so much trouble anyway.
Just don't do it, you're going to regret it. ;(
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