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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Shouldn't he remove her from his contact list?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 8 months now. he broke off the relationship with his former girlfriend before we met, but because it was winter he still had his motorcyle and car stored in her garage. that bothered me because i felt there was still a connection then. two ... (185 words)

I love him and I don't want it to end...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for a year, and in January we broke up b/c I found out some things about him that he had been hiding from me. Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs, mainly b/c he had issues with commitment. However, for the most part I was extremely happy. He made ... (302 words)

One guy is cruel..the other guy is so kind! Why am I so torn as to which one to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been stuck in a serious dilemma between 2 guys. One is the sweetest, kindest and most unselfish man who would do anything for me and would make an unbelievable husband/father. The other is selfish, unmotivated and somewhat cruel at times. Obviously I should chose the ... (240 words)

I don't understand I"m confused as to why b/f did this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im confused because me and my bf have been going out for two monthss and we were getting on finee he said he loved mee so much never wanted to losee me and all this but then he went to wales and we were still going out but the relationship got a bit distant he ended it and then ... (131 words)

Too many bad things have happened and I don't know how to deal with it all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right where do I begin... A couple of months ago my brother fell into a severe depression which led to him committing suicide by standing in front of train, 2 weeks after my mum sadly became ill with a perforated bowel and had to be admitted into intensive care after havin... (387 words)

Advice on quitting smoking

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to quit smoking and have asked me to help him, I don't know how to. I never smoked either nor how addicting it can be. Are there any product that REALLY does help? Gum doesn't work for him. Plus if anyone know of reasons why to quite smoking or site tha... (88 words)

He's giving me the eye but he has a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age - Hi, basically I'm a gay guy and have had a very attractive (to me) guy giving me the eye for a few weeks as a customer in the shop I work in, and I plucked up courage to ask him for a date, to be told very sweetly that he had a boyfriend - I said 'Oh I'm sorry I did'nt realise' ... (209 words)

My gorgeous gf gets hit on by other guys and she hates it. How can we deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, My Problem isn't really a big one but its driving me mad!My Girlfriend is super attractive Shes 5 11' skinny long brown hair she could pass as a model.Thats not the problem though the problem is every where we go shes constantly being hit on and checked ... (76 words)

Dating 7 months and he won't tell his Mother about us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. There is a 10 year age gap. We are very happy. He says he loves me, but he hasn't told his mom about me. He is 30 I am 39 an i have 2 kids from a previous relationship. Am i wasting my time?... (59 words)

I need to know some good "make-out' do's and don'ts..any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what are some good make out do's and dont's for me? (a guy)....trying to please my gf. and if we have only made out once in 3 months- is that moving too slow? and if my gf doesn't express her feelings for me as much as i do to her....is there something wrong there?... (54 words)

Long distance relationship and now, he doesn't text me back! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy and we dated for about 3 weeks. We both felt a great connection and really liked each other. We do not live near each other, so we talked over text message when I had to return home. At first the texts were very nice and sweet and said things like "I miss you", but ... (80 words)

We want a 3rd person to videotape our sex sessions? Good idea or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I and my husband are seriously discussing to have our love making session video taped by another person. We are not exhibitionists or swingers, and have never done anything like this before. We don't want that person to join us for any sex play. What would you recommend? Is it ... (88 words)

His 30 year old daughter has big problems, she dislikes me and now we are forced to sneak around to meet up!

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7 August 2009 (F)

age - Should i stay or should i go? Ive been with my bloke for about 10 yrs. We are really good together when we're together (and alone) problem for me is his daughter (around 30) still lives at home and uses him for entertainment and sustennance. She is often arrogant, rude, an... (363 words)

Is he not sexually attracted to me? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - i have a man who tells me he's not into sexual things for instance, like trying new things with food, me dancing for him, or doing all the freaky things I would love, to please him. Is it because he's not sexually attracted to me? help, what am i to do or what can i do about ... (60 words)

Married 18 years in a horrible marriage! I need to get out and move on, but I can’t..advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I am going out of my head and just need advice. I have been with my husband for over 18 years, no children. The last few years have been the worst of my life and I just feel completely and utterly trapped and alone. My husband and I have been living separate lives ... (875 words)

It ended with me looking like the bad guy! I feel so down..help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for one year and then we broke up and we were dating for 2 years, but we were not in a relationship. for the past two years he stopped calling me less, he said he did not feel 100 percent sure about our relationship but we kept seeing each other.. ... (286 words)

Period trouble..is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I had my period about 3 weeks ago it goes away in about a week so its been at least 2 weeks since I finished it . I went to my dr the day I finished and I started using the birth control patch but I took the 1st one off cause I got paranoid of the side effects then the ... (135 words)

Anal sex has caused me to bleed...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So last week me and my boyfriend had anal sex, we have done this once before with lube. But this time we were in the shower and just in the mood to try it again although, this time we didn't use lube. Now he started off slow and gentle cause it did hurt alot but after a few ... (150 words)

He's a great guy but...I've lost respect for him! Help, I'm disillusioned here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Simple to explain my situation, but don't know what to do about it. I have a partner who is a good guy I've know for 15 years and we've been together 10 years. I think he genuinely loves me, although it's never been exactly passionate and I have increasingly had my head tur... (264 words)

He comes, he goes...how do I deal with this odd relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months and we have got a 5 month old baby but we keep arguing really bad and he moved out but then i begged him to come home but now hes back i want him to leave but if he leaves i know i will want him back and i just dont ... (75 words)

A guy has asked me to his senior prom, but I don't want my boyfriend to get mad. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - not a major question but i was just looking for some advice. well theres this guy who asked me to go to his senior prom with him next year, and i didn't know how to answer him. because i have a boyfriend who i've been with for 10 months and i know we'll be together next ye... (194 words)

How do I ask this guy where we stand?

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7 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi all I've a question. I was seeing a man younger than me. He is very nice and sweet. He didn't want his friends to know about our relationship. Mainly because they aren't very mature. I think it's cause of my age. Am 33. We'd meet up every week or so. And call during t... (223 words)

Does online dating work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone here ever tried online dating? Does it ever work like you can expect something serious to come out of this? I am asking because I am about to try this out and would want to know if its worth the time and effort generally. If not I will abort this idea.... (56 words)

I don't know what to do about my boyfriend's friend... help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I HATE my boyfriend's friend. We've been together for over a year now, he only met his new friend less than a year. We're 20 and 21, his friend is 30something. They met accidently when I threw some stuff out by curb for free and boyfriend was coming home from work at same ... (485 words)

I want to arrange a threesome for me and my boyfriend... but I think my jealousy will get in the way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. I know his fantasy is a threesome, which I've no qualms with having as I'm bisexual and have had many more years with women than men. I love him dearly and I know he loves me too. I think maybe I bring the subjec... (222 words)

Is this normal ... or am I going crazy?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just finished chatting with a very wonderful guy I met online. Aside from that, I am answering emails from guys who said to me they are interested to get to know me. As a matter of fact, I am confused now who said this or that and I always reread their emails to keep up with ... (297 words)

It hurts like hell down there! What's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

7 August 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Right hey everyone. Me and my bf are sexually active but thats not why Im writting. After doing this one time it was quite rough and now from then on everytime I pee it well, it used to burn but now it just hurts. Its on the inside wall. Please can sombody help me!!! It really ... (64 words)

He was the one to end things... so why is he talking so badly about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me in June after six months together. This guy told me I was the love of his life, his soulmate and the girl he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. We had an amazing connection. He had never really had a serious relationship before me though a... (309 words)

How can I make first-time sex for my girlfriend as painless as possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently 17 and my girlfriend is 16. We have what you would call a pretty LONG distance relationship because she lives in Arizona and I live in North Carolina. However, as soon as I get a job and my first few paychecks I plan on taking a trip to see her and she really ... (230 words)

How can I learn to live with knowing that he doesn't find me attractive? Is that even important?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age - My husband told me before me we married that he does not look at porn, but about 6 months ago I caught him at it, and he admitted he has been doing it throughout our 2 year marriage. When we were dating, he couldn't keep his hands off me and wanted to have sex alot. He also ... (214 words)

Things are in the way of our relationship, should I call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so im still going out with my boyfriend and we've finnaly went out on a date so, a week later my mom put me on punishment so i cant call him or see him, so now that its almost the end of summer and i might not get to see anymore becaus eof my punishment, and were not going ... (80 words)

Why can't or won't my husband tell me the truth about his infidelities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently I found out my husband of 13 1/2 years moved up from visiting porn sites to answering escort ads from sites like craigslist. I also found out that he has been visiting asian massage places for a while for r and t...found his account and postings on a blog site. I ... (522 words)

What should I say in my text message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, i met a boy this week. He's so nice. Well, he's like.. perfect for me. And, i have his phone number since this afternoon but i don't know what to send to him and he hasn't got my number. But i asked him his number. I mean, it's not a friend who did it for me :). W... (133 words)

Have you ever found lost love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone out there ever recovered lost love? How did you do it? Please share your experience because I am hoping to recover mine, in time... thanks... (30 words)

I'm at the end of my tether with our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore. I love him to pieces but he is always making me feel small. I have to go home whenever he wants to see one of his friends. I cant be there because his friends dont like me ... (283 words)

In a LDR, do you think this is worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Its been 8 months now since I first met my boyfriend, we started going out as friends and only having a good time, things happened and now Im inlove but im in new jersey and his in key west.I fly to see him at least once a month for 3 days he has an amazing job and Im a studen... (107 words)

I want to lose my virginity but I'm afraid of being 'bad' in bed. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im dating this guy who is a little older than me. he is the nicest person in the world, and i do belive i love him. i trust him. etc. and i think im ready to lose my virginity to him. but as hes a bit older hes had experince with girls and i dont know what to do. i dont want to ... (68 words)

Is it selfish of me to be friends with a married man I'm seeing, if we can't be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been seeing this guy for 4 months now and has recently gone back to his own country (spain he is english) to live with his wife and daughter however he has told me how bad things are between him and his wife she beets himquite often and causes fights over nothing ... (315 words)

Why is the girl I had a crush on so interested in hooking me up with someone? Is there more to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok had a crush on my female friend but she never gave us a chance even when i told her everything from my heart ,and then when she hooks up with a guy she tells me not to talk to her aagain. so she gets back in contact with me after the break up and keeps asking why im not ... (149 words)

The girl I like is seeing someone else, would it be weird to contact her occasionaly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently- A girl found out that I was interested in her, but she was already seeing someone else. Will it weird her out if I still occasionally send a text/ leave a post on facebook? Should I talk to her less or not at all? Help me out please! ... (49 words)

Could a UTI be harmful to my baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had three uti's since july. the first time i got medicine for it, the second time it went away on it's own, now i have it for the third time, i am also 6 weeks pregnant, so i was wondering if this is harmful to the baby? and what i can do to prevent getting uti's and why ... (75 words)

My affair has been going on for 5 years now but I cant help think of how it would be if we were together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a a heavy heart. I am reasonably happily married with 2 lovely children. I am involved with a married man - we have sex together. Once my husband caught us. We got over that, but I lied and have continued to see the other man - for 2 main reasons, the sex and that I like ... (208 words)

9 months of trying for baby no 3. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all and thank you for taking the time to read this. :) ok here goes, i have been trying for a baby 9 months now, every month same answer, negative! Its starting to really dishearten me. We had no problems conceiving our other children, i have two and he has one both from ... (187 words)

Questions about sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what is wrong with me? After sex, I don't want to see the person anymore or have any sort of contact with them. I don't even care if they don't want to ever see me again as well. When they do contact me, I feel so disgusted and I end up starting fights with them ... (88 words)

Troubles with sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 24 year old women and me and my fiance has been together for 3 years and we have a 1 year old together and have a 7 year old from a previous relationship and since and me fiance started having sex everything has been wonderful no problems what so ever now for the last ... (118 words)

She has slept with numerous men whilst we were dating and now she has disappeared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I started a courtship with a girl in 2003, at the end of 2004 we stopped the courtship because she was pregnant and she had never slept with me. A year later we started dating again and developed an interesting and serious relationship. She is now pregnant for four months. All ... (252 words)

Trying to survive the family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

- My entire family (sisters and their husbands/partners, nieces, nephew, father, etc.) is descending on me in a few days. There has been some tension because of how my mother's last days/months were handled, and other things. Now we will bury her ashes. I'm a nervous wreck! D... (58 words)

Was I just some joke to him or does he actually like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this lad yesturday and we had an amazing time in town, he had his arm round me and was tickleing me and making me laugh. I felt really happy being with him. When we was waiting for the bus he even kissed me and when we was sat on the bus he did as well. But today when i ... (117 words)

Stay with boyfriend or take chance with the ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in a relationship and i really care for my boyfriend and love him dearly. i am 14 years old. recently i have seen my ex and realised i still love him. he broke up with me last month but i want him back and i am not sure what to do. do i stay with my boyfriend or take a ... (66 words)

Long distance confusion and heartbreak

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - HI, I met a lovely guy when I went on holiday a month ago. We had a really fab and romantic time, and it felt great! he lives where I went on holiday in Tunisia. We swapped emails, address's etc, and I put it down to a holiday romance although he kept asking me to go back and ... (508 words)

I'm taking the pill and not sure if this is normal what has happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started taking the pill. The doctors told me to only start taking it once my next period came and when it did, I started taking the pills. Normally, my periods only last about 5 days so I was expecting the same with this period, if not for it to be shorter. It did ... (176 words)

Why would he settle for second best when I bring out the best in him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what do i do i walk round with such a feeling of sadness and lonelyness in my heart. theirs one man i want put hes just not ready to settle down. weve been together 3 yrs on and off he did try but it always raises its ugly had that hes not ready. i love him dearly and i cant ... (298 words)

Do girls cum?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Do girls cum? if so what is it? and how does it happen? i know guys cum but was just wondering if girls did to.... (25 words)

We decided to try for a baby but once I got pregnant he asked me to have an abortion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. in februry we decided to try for a baby, infact it was his suggestion. i am now 13 weeks pregnant and when i told him he wanted an abortion. i obviously refused (if i didnt want a family i wouldnt have gone along with his suggestion) ... (168 words)

I don't believe in true love so I want my friend to pop my cherry!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I convince my friend to pop my cherry before I go off to the college? I really don't believe in "True Love", so I'm not waiting for the right man.... (32 words)

Sex problems - it's spoiling our relationship! How can we fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Long question, but can you please advise me? I've been in a relationship for about a month or so now, and it has recently become a sexual relationship. But for how ever many reasons, it isn't as simple as I think it should be. There are a number of problems. The first is... (491 words)

I found out she had got another boyfriend whilst I was ill in hospital, but now she claims to be missing me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of excuses. On few occasion we quarrled ... (220 words)

Teen porn

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here it goes. My boyfriend and I don't live together, and we are both in our early twenties. Every once in a while I'll go over to his place and use his computer to check my facebook and myspace. His browser history pops up every time I start to type something in and low and ... (392 words)

I really want our marriage to work, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband left a week ago. We have been married just over a year and he has only been home for 3 months. I had some trust issues with him before he left, he was drunk one night and made a mistake it was nothing physical but it still hurt the same. I freaked out and would go ... (849 words)

How to handle feelings for married teacher/mentor?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have begun to think of my martial art master in a romantic way. He is kind, generous, and giving. In martial arts we show respect and have trust relationship with our teacher/master. I know he is treating me just like all of his adult students but it is a warmth I do not ... (118 words)

I have NOT dated anyone for the past years because I get too wet during sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem where for the past 7 years or so (Im 36 now), I get so incredibly wet when I masturbate and orgasm that I have NOT dated anyone since then because of it. Well, I also don't date because I've learned the hard way that guys just want to use you for sex and then ... (300 words)

My friends accuse me of being with my b/f for his money, not true! How to deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend runs a web hosting company. It's not just online though - he does meet with clients offline (i.e. face-to-face, these are business clients, not members of the public). When I told friends what he does they accused him of being as bad as online gaming addicts, p... (367 words)

My b/f started talking to a boy about this hot girl with whom he used to watch porn... in front of me. Is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a pretty good relationship with my (relatively new) boyfriend, but the other night we had a little hiccup. This hiccup in itself is definitely nothing we won't get over but it led me to think further about the issue and my reaction to it. Basically a group of us went out... (158 words)

How can I tell her the truth about how many people I slept with, without losing her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have told my girlfriend that I only slept with 5 people as she has only slept with 4. I did this at the start of the relationship. Last night she asked me again for the names of the people but I could not remember who I had told her as my figure is more like 35. I a... (152 words)

Seeing a woman who's separated from her husband... now I think she's seeing him again while I'm away!

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i have a big question ..i have been with this girl for 14 months..she has been working on her divorce for the last 3.5 years from this guy.where she lives now. its taken her 3-4 years to divorce she says he didnt want to..iam thinking she did why..well the other day i made he... (1000 words)

He walked out on me after I said one too many drunken things. Should I try and work things out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i have just lost my man of three yrs because of my jealousy and insecurity. I came home after 2 many drinks and told him i wanted to be by myself and i wanted him out of my life.well this is not the first time i have done this and now he is gone. i feel i have done too ... (119 words)

Did I scare him away by telling him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Did I ruin things by saying I love you? We've been seeing each other for four months. He has told me many times how he loves being with me, wants me to open up to him, and that he was falling in love with me. He told me "love ya" tonight, and I said I love you. He responded ... (133 words)

Am I doing something wrong here or is it him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and everytime we have sex or oral sex he cums eveytime. Just resently when I give him oral sex he takes forever or never to cum. He says he's enjoying it. And I can tell that he does. But I'm getting worried is it me that's doin ... (65 words)

Should I have a threesome with my best friend?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my bestie is like 25 and he has a booty call gurl shes 21 and bi iam 19 and bi so my firen well we were kindda dating when i was 15. hes gurl likes me and i like her shes koo but not like immma steal her from him but they both wanna have a 3some cuz the... (218 words)

Am I having anxiety attacks again?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i feel like there is some thing wrong today.. like a bad feeling in my chest and its drivng me crzy .... i just need someone to make me feel better rite now , im very restless at this tim for this feeling in my chest as if somethings is wrong... am i having anx... (497 words)

My husband never shows me any affection, what do I do?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello to all the readers of this. Im still young still in my early 20's and im married for the 2nd time. The first marriage ended after 3 years of him beating me. I finally left him. Well i was single for about 3 years and now im married to a miliatry guy. And yes i know how ... (409 words)

Give him the boot or no?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thank-you very much for reading my question =) .. I have been going out with this guy for 9 months now. I've been falling in and out of love with him because he's changed a lot throughout the past months. He also started to randomly talk to girls and also craigslist sex ... (148 words)

Do you think I should just scrap the idea of going to visit him?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupids, I have just started sort of seeing a guy. We became friends very quickly and ended up in bed very quickly too. I thought it might just be a one off thing, but we both felt this incredible connection and like we'd been together forever. One of the problems is he had j... (269 words)

Why do people in relationships play these games?!

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Games! Why do people in relationships play these games?! My bf has weird phrases that he uses and I don't know if he means them or not. Like when we argue, he'll say something like "I honestly don't think this is going to work out anymore.." and then I'll want to walk away ... (169 words)

Why do I suddenly feel guilty after masturbating?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started masturbating when I was 13 years old, and have never felt any guilt about it until recently (8 years later). It feels great and I don't feel bad while I'm doing it, but afterward I now find that I am feeling very guilty/ashamed/embarrassed with myself. I believe... (155 words)

I dated my cousin and am jealous he's moving on

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My cousin has been talking with one of my best friends. She is 4 years younger than him, several months younger than me. I can't help it but feel jealous. I dated my cousin for a while. Please try not to be disgusted, we're not blood related. He talks with her more than he ... (95 words)

How can I have sex with him without his GF knowing

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7 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have this best friend to wants me to have sex with him nd give him blow jobs . but he has a qirlfriend nd I feel very uncomfortable with it . so wat can I do to actually give him the sex he wants with out his girlfriend findinq out. ?... (52 words)

Just realized I have feelings for my boss! Should I say something?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I just turned 18, and my boss is 23. I just realized my feelings for him about 2 weeks ago. We flirt back and forth, playful jokes and gestures... But how do I know he's not just goofy like that with everyone? should i say something? Im trying to get a new job so i can ... (87 words)

It seems there's three people in our relationship

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my fiance and i live with her bestfriend ( a gay man) and this is not my choosing. Well we are having a baby and it turns out she had discussed with him that he should have legal rights of our child if anything happens to us. Not my choice, she already told him its what she ... (285 words)

Stay in a sexless marraige or take a chance?

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7 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I;m only in my early forties ,and my husband does not want to have any sexual contact with me due to some unclear psychological problems. I need sex, i don't believe in cheating, shoud I leave him? It is a tragedy for me, I never thought it will turn out like this. Tried eve... (83 words)

Do I give up? Back off? Keep trying?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy I met almost a month ago. I've had some trouble with guys in the past, so I was skepticle about letting this guy into my life. I'm 15 and he's 17. I really like him, and I thought he liked me. We're friends for now, but he knows I like him as more than a ... (173 words)

What should I do about my friend? I'm not sure if she likes me..

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 17and work at a camp. Lately I've become attracted to one of my friends who also works there. She is 19 and I think that she might like me but I am not sure. She always comes to visit me when she has time off and usually wants a hug from me. However, lately she has ... (132 words)

I am very concerned about a problem with my period

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thanks for reading, you don't know how scared i am at the point of trembling as i type these words. The truth is my period started when i was 11 (about 9 years ago) but since about nine months or so i haven't had a single regular one. Since i didn't want to bother o... (300 words)

I love my husband and his family needs him, but he works so much!

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7 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - My husband is a work-a-holic. He has lost a tremendous amount of weight because all he does is work! He doesn’t eat, barely sleeps, and as a result has little time for me and the children. Recently, he was in a car accident, and there have been other occasions where ... (183 words)

Do you think I can get my friend back?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a friend I'll call Alexa. We met about 18 months ago and hit it off well. We were FWB; at one time I think I had a thing for her, but we remained friends more than anything else. She is a very "sensitive" girl imo. She can take the littlest thing the wrong way an... (751 words)

Is it OK to be 34 and be strictly platonic friends with a 15 year old girl?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know that guys in their mid-30's shouldn't really be friends with teenagers (especially girls), but one of my friends has a 15-year-old daughter who really wants to be my friend. I think she is really awesome and I would like to be her friend also, but I haven't been friends ... (119 words)

Am I moving to fast in this friendhship?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a very shy guy and don't have many friends and have only dated one girl in my life. We were together for about a year but she ended it and it tore me up but as time has gone by I've gotten over it (2 months now). Anyway a friend of mine suggested one of her girlfrien... (254 words)

I hate apologizing, but I think I'm in love with him.

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy so much.I feel like i messed up my chances with him. He flirts a lot with other girls, and he seems to know that he's just so sexy. I get jealous very easily, and i have been having so much mood swings with him lately. I can give him the cold shoulder and act ... (146 words)

He checks his email, but doesn't reply to me.

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy, not exclusively (though neither of us has been seeing anyone else, we're just trying not to pressure what we have) for almost a year now. About 5 months ago, I moved 1000 miles away for work and we flew back and forth every couple of weekends to see ... (229 words)

Doesn't express his feelings, should I say something?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've known this guy for about 10 months. I started dating him about a month after we met... things were good for about 3 months and then he broke up with me saying that i wasnt "his type" and he just wanted to be single, which was fine with me. I still like him a lot ... (200 words)

Ways to gain weight to increase breast size

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am a 13 year old girl and i am looking for ways to gain weight.i know the obvious answer would be to eat alot but i tried that.i have been skinny all my life.i want to gain weight because i want to increase the size of my breast.kids pick on me all the time at school and i ... (65 words)

Should I make my move? I am very shy!

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started working two weeks ago at a research lab in a university. There I work with a variety of people (post docs, graduate students, undergrads, etc). There is a grad student that I like a lot. We both stare at each other everytime we have a chance. I'm a very shy person and ... (95 words)

Men: Why do you check out other women when you have a girlfriend?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do men always check out other women when they have a girlfriend? I know all the theory of men instinctively wanting variety in women, but I'd still like a male perspective on it. Particularly when the guy is actually with his girlfriend. I don't mind them doing it, but not ... (127 words)

I keep going back to my ex even though I know I need to move on! Any tips?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi well my problem is that me and my ex boyfriend where together for four years and that was two years ago we randomly sleep together when we see eachother which i regret after every time. Could you give me some tips on how to let go and stop going back because its embarass... (252 words)

Does this guy have a thing for me or is it just my imagination?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I am really confused. About more than a month ago, I started this new waitress job at a new restaurant. I worked with this guy who got hired, along with his brother. I will call this guy Neon. I will call his brother Sam. Anyway, I was fine working with them the ... (1578 words)

Could I become pregnant so soon after stopping the pill?

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I Was on the Yaz pill for 2 months straight, I started to take my 3rd pack but in the first week I stopped because they were causing horrible migraines. My period came 6 days later like it normally does because my cycles are regular. Well 2 weeks after I stopped the pill and 1 ... (82 words)

I don't want to blow my chances with guys. I crave attention and get worried if they don't call!

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7 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been feeling lost since I broke up with my boyfriend at the end of last year. Don't get me wrong, I'm so glad I split up with him - he was emotionally abusive etc for 3 years. But when we were together, he half had me convinced we'd get married soon and he made all the ... (282 words)

Am I foolish in thinking we could rekindle what we once had?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently been talking to an ex-girlfriend for whom i have not seen or spoken too for many years,i guess she was ok at the time but unfortunately it did not work out between us due to my insecurities the thing is i am in a relationship with a wonderful girl who i know ... (152 words)

Is he just afraid of his own feelings? I'm getting mixed signals.

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7 August 2009 (F)

age - I don't understand my ex. He puts on the full court press and then I don't hear from him for 4 days. Is he just afraid of putting it out there again since he is afraid of his own feelings? word on the street, since I am new to the area is that he is a great guy but very ... (326 words)

Should I take the risk or just bottle up my feelings for her?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My roomate recently told me that she is getting a new job. This really scared me because I realized that she may eventually move closer to this new job. I have tried not to feel anything for her because I am not only her roomate but her landlord but ever since she told me about ... (188 words)

How do I 'make out' with a girl?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 14, and never like 'made out' with a girl and its really embarrassing, and i really want to, and my friends at school laugh at me and call me names over it, and when ive came so close to doing it i get reall nervous nd feel sick, i think its mainly because im nervous and ... (95 words)

Does watching gay porn make me gay?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, i am 14, and a male, and i am straight, but sometimes when im watching porn i like to go to gay porn and watch it and when doing so i fantasize about my male best friend and i like it alot and it turns me on more than women do, but when ive finished i think ew thats grose ... (106 words)

How can I be less possessive and learn to trust her?

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7 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i m from india and i got engaged with a girl couple months ago , i love her she is very sweet straight and clear to the point ,but i m so possesive about her , as an indian traditional guy i always wanted a clean girl with high character, but some how whenever i talk to her ... (138 words)