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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Missed a day of my birth control pill, could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I missed a day of my birth control pills. I ended up having sex the next day after I doubled up the pills to make up for the day I missed. A little over two days later, I took Plan B because I worried about the pills not working since I missed taking them. I'm on the last week ... (94 words)

He keeps trying to get in contact with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex left me for his colleague last year. Until now, we are friends (which I regret). I could not say no since I know that he have helped me a lot during my hard times. Recently, he said that his GF (the one whom he left me for) has moved to his house. I'm sad since I know ... (203 words)

Men, please help me? Is watching tranny porn normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Almost a year ago this month we met. He was obsessed with my sex!! Wanted it all the time, everyday every night....now he is always tired when he comes home from work. Or he complains about how it sucks getting old his body is out of shape. I left him not too long ago and when ... (247 words)

Dating a new guy and he's going away for a month...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a man 2 weeks before through a friend. We hit it off and have met a couple of times ever since. He did tell me that he has been divorced last year and has a 3 yr old child. his ex wife and child lives in another country, he visits his child from time to time. We... (299 words)

How do I end this affair with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have been seeing a married man. Didn't find out until the third time we met that he was married, because something was telling me there was something not rite. We usually meet up about once a week for a few hours then go our separate ways. Lately there have been a bunch ... (205 words)

It upsets me that even NOW she is still saying things behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - After my boyfriend and I broke up, I went to my best friend for comfort. She helped me, but there were times when she was tired of hearing me sob about him, so she didn't console me as much. During this time, my boyfriend started talking to her to find out more about me since I ... (752 words)

I thought I was going to be engaged by Christmas, now my whole life is turned up side down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there! I have been in a 4 year relationship, we have talked about getting married and being together on many different occasions. We are each others first loves, I have dated other guys prior to dating him, but he had not. Recently he broke up with me, telling me he want... (322 words)

I don't feel special in this relationship - I feel like I'm in her shadow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hello, I have to warn you guys of the length of this post- but I hope a few of you read it and give me some good advice. I have been with a man for about 2 years and to be honest things are pretty good. We live together and he is a wonderful partner; he is funny, trustwort... (414 words)

Every year when we go back to school he usually ignores me and blocks me out of his life!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in an off and on relationship for the past 4 years. This guy and I have summer houses beside each other. I only see him in the summer. There are a few problems, he lives 3 hours away from where I live in the winter and my parent’s don’t really like him that much. We ... (302 words)

Will having anal sex without a condom or lube be safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had anal sex before with condoms but, no lube,(i was okay with it). Now he wants to try it without a condom,im not worried about the pain but, will it be safe?... (37 words)

I literally flip out thinking that when we have sex he is thinking of them or that he will find them sexier than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help! Duh, the site lol anyways, i met my amazing man and 3 months later we were married. (His cousin is my best friend so i did know of him) well he was single for 5 years prior to me and has came used to checking out everything that has boobs. I have explained ... (276 words)

I want another birth control choice other than the pill!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I want to get on birth control I was on the shot but I want something else. But I don’t want the pill so does anyone know a good one And please don’t say I’m too young to be having sex I only done it once but I want to keep myself protected and responsible. ... (62 words)

Cheated with my ex and confused about which one I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with this guys for almost 2 months. I haven't seen him in 1 month and a week because of vacation, but just last weekend I went to a friend's house and I cheated on him with my ex.. I know its bad to cheat but I just don't know who to be with .. my boyfriend who ... (87 words)

I've fallen for my stepbrother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum and her partner have been together for 2 years now and had a baby togther. About a year ago i met my mums partners children and for the past 6 monthes i have been in love with his son which soon will become my stepbrother as there due to get married. you can't help who ... (146 words)

Confused about a new girl's behavior to me!

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got out of a relationship and one of my female friends who wants me to get out and about again suggested I get in contact with one of her girlfriends. I don't usually listen to suggestions like that from my friends but been feeling kinda lonely I went for it. My ... (263 words)

I'm so very confused about why I feel the way I do! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had 3 loves in my life. Only 2 I dated and one was my best friend, which during a few times with my exs, I still had feelings for. I was so sure about these men being the one for me. I spent countless nights talking/imagining having kids and getting married. but I ... (160 words)

Girl A, Girl B and me! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I may like this boy I have been hanging out with recently. But he was in a relationship with girl a then dumped her for girl b because he loved girl b but girl b dumped him after couple of days. Girl b is my friend. What do i do?????????????... (50 words)

Will I bleed again if I don't have sex for 3 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a question. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 2 years and we only have had sex 3 times and in those 3 times its been painful for me and ive bled. Now me and him have broken up and i dont want to get back with him but in my culture you have to be a virgin when ... (84 words)

Is there a high probability that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i was at a friends house.And there was this guy. We fooled around. I gave him a hand job and i gave him a blow job he blew sperm on him self. Then we had sex we use two condems. and niether on eof then broke. Is there any high chance i could be pregnant?... (58 words)

Should I be concerned about this or is this all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In senior year, I began to be friends with one of my friends girlfriends. She was really nice and very outgoing. However, one day when we were hanging out -just the two of us- she says, "Want to go to the movies later? Bring your boyfriend." I thought it would just be the two ... (245 words)

Is open marriage a solution for bad sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I am split in two. I have been married for the last almost 5 years, and I love and adore my husband. He is a very loving, kind and caring person. The only problem is, the sex is pretty boring. It is not just his fault, obviously, we never clicked a 100% in ... (880 words)

How do I tell him I'm interested now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21years old and i've been friends with this guy 5yrs nw and he said he really liked me but i didn't like him in that. till now i started to see him in a different way and don't know how to tell him. can you help me?... (48 words)

My head is all mixed up in this affair I'm having.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man two and half years ago. I was going thro a divorce and he said he was leaving his wife. having had affair for a year with him he did leave his wife.He has become obsessive and controlling to the point he has turned my room upside down. he has done some great things ... (113 words)

What does messing around mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I'm seeing totally me he's a virgin. He said he's only messed around with girls he's met at clubs and his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what that means. I really don't want him to go into detail about it either. I always thought messing around, fooling around are the ... (67 words)

Having past and maybe present sex problems....should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got back together with an ex who broke up with me 2 months ago. During our relationship, I put too high a value on sex. She told me I satisfied her, I started to believe I wasn't really. Beginning last winter, I think I started putting so much pressure on myself ... (318 words)

Why don't I feel happy with my body? I know I'm healthy and should be happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question 'per se', I guess it's about the relationship with myself? In short: I hate my body. This makes me feel bad in may ways. I get tearful just thinking how meaningless it is to hate my body, especially since I feel it's THE body I should lo... (619 words)

Paranoia that people dislike me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and friends tell me I always over analyse things and get it wrong. A recurring thing is thinking people dislike me when they actually don't have an opinion on me, maybe its slight paranoia. Like I met my boyfriend's friends and convinced myself they thought I was a ... (58 words)

My young ex-boyfriend broke up with me

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im really depressed because i didnt expect that we gonna turned like this. we spent two years. i am 20 years old now and now my ex bf is 18 years old now. i met him when he was 16 years old and i was 18 that time. i am his FIRST TRUE LOVE,I AM almost his first in ... (520 words)

What's normal as far as noise goes, during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a really great guy with whom I recently became sexually active for the first time. I enjoy being intimate with him, and he says he feels the same way, but he expresses concern that I don't make a sound during any type of sexual stimulation. Being silent during sex is ... (76 words)

I'm tired of fighting with him and I need help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have always had our ups and downs. (A lot more downs than ups) We weren't together when we started 'messing' around. He was still with his ex (not during the messing) but around there roughly. He broke my heart. We... (635 words)

Doesn't it sound lik eI'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have being trying to concieve a baby, in the last 2 weeks i have being having dizzy spells, headaches, stomach cramps, fatigue, and nausea. i had diarreah for 3 days (sorry for t.m.i) i had what i think was meant to be my period a few days ago but it only ... (164 words)

I don't know how to talk to him about his abnormal interest in porn.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So through accidental find, I now know my boyfriend has a shocking sexual attraction to young girls and young trannys. I dont know how to feel about this. We have children male and female, so my mind is working overtime trying to figure out if he is an in the closet homosexual ... (126 words)

How do I trust my boyfriend again after his sex addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice on how to deal with my boyfriends sexual addiction. He is currently in therapy, has been for about a month and a half. How do I begin to trust him again? ... (34 words)

My boyfriend's a physco.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, first off, i regret everything i have done 100% and I am doing everything I can to make it up to my boyfriend. Anyway, me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months, and i have cheated on him twice according to him (i was talking to guys on msn and flirting wit... (219 words)

I need skincare advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi friends!! i need your peoples advice how to reduce the dark spots on my face...? what natural things can i use in the house reduce to get rid of them please advice me if you guys know about it and for how long to keep and when should i do apart from creams or some medicines ... (63 words)

I don't want to be like her dog but I want her back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old with no children and my girlfriend is 26 with a 9 year old son. We have been together for 3 months which doesn't seem long but it was a pretty intense 3 months. We seemed to be doing really good until about the beginning of the third month. Thats when she ... (703 words)

My boyfriend prefers porn to hot sex with me - and lies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 18 months now and at first we had an amazingly erotic and stimulating sex life, did it everywhere, all the time. Things started to slow down. I knew that he did porn, I knew he went on prostitute website to look at their profiles and ... (615 words)

My grandma keeps hitting on me..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, and in college, studying technology and design. We go down to my grandparents' house every other weekend. In the past few weeks my grandmother has been trying to touch my bottom in a sexual manner, and it's made me feel upset. She's tried to slap it to... (200 words)

How can I find out what people really think of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age - How can I find out what do people REALLY think of me??? This is really a huge secret, what sometimes we don't find out even before we die,Or never. Not even from your family... Did you ever hear this things, when someone has a nick name,behinde his'her back, but she never he... (221 words)

Relationship needing help big time please....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my girlfriend split up a little over 1 week ago we moved really fast some people said we were mad the first night we met she never left (moved in) she lived with me for a little over 3 months but I have fallen in love with her so much. Within these 3 months we have... (401 words)

Why do people care if their partner cheats on them?

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12 August 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Why do people care if their partner cheats on them? I mean I wouldn't care less if my girlfriend cheated on me with various men, it's her body so she can do what she wants. As long as the person uses protection I don't see a problem. Humans in this world over-complicate ... (59 words)

What's going on with this guy? Since I told him I was Bi him and his friend have ignored me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - All the girls think he is gay, and thought i was gay just for associating with him.. He talks and dresses pretty gay although the other guys are hoodwinked..anyway after class he accepted my invitation to go out for drinks with me btw im bi..he did mild flirting and would smile ... (204 words)

How can I be there for my ex after his fathers death, without getting in between him and his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen back in love with my ex, he has a new girlfriend, and even though me and him are still friends I have taken a step back and had less contact with him because of her. Although I would love to have him back I am not the sort of woman who would try to break them up ... (212 words)

Am I being selfish for wanting more affection from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi ive been seeing some1 for 4months now,ive known him awhile but im already totally in love with him, but he shows no affection im wondering if he even likes me never mind loves me we could go weeks without even kissing or cuddleing even thou we sleep in same bed and there is ... (102 words)

What do you think of our situation? I'm cheating with a girl who can't leave her relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im dating a girl but she has a boyfriend. she told me the first time we met so she never lied to me. we talk everyday and we like each other a lot.. she tells me that she likes me more but shes been with him for 5 years now and she cant just leave.. i understand if shes ... (190 words)

I'm afraid that my cheating on my LDR boyfriend will come back to haunt me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2years. We have been on a long distance relationship. But 7months ago my boyfriend kept distance and he barely communicated with me. So ididnt know what to think about our relationship. I tried to talk to him but he was cold whenever he ... (200 words)

After 7.5 years together she wants a break. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend broke up with me out of nowhere so i have dated my ex for 7 years. We have had a rough relationship through the years she cheated on me once along time ago. When we were about 16 she went off with the guy he went to my church and so did she so i saw them to... (341 words)

Do I tell him I like him on our first date or wait a little longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for two months now.We talk to each other on the phone a lot when we're not too busy. We'll be going on our first date this weekend scine we met two months ago. My feelings for him is getting stronger, do i tell him when we meet or do i wait some more?... (57 words)

Is it true that addictions can run in the family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age - Is it true,that addiction runs in families,and the genetics can skip generations? Me and my husband never been addicted to drug or alcohol, but our sons are in the worst cas of addiction. They had a total alcoholic great grandma, who died from alcoholism. Also do you think... (90 words)

For 5 years my boyfriend has lied to me about watching porn. What should I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has lied to me for five years about watching porn, what should I do? I feel so uncomfortable that my boyfriend watches porn. I know he used to watch porn a lot when he was single and i know a lot of men do that. But after we started dating I told him how I felt a... (183 words)

How can I stay in touch over a long distance without being clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a great guy an we dated for about 3 weeks. Now we communicate long distance over text message and facebook, but I don't know how to initiate conversation, or what to say to keep in touch.We both promised we would stay in touch, but I personally don't know what to ask ... (57 words)

I logged into his myspace to leave him a surprise but I'm the one who got the surprise!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been going out for almost 2 years now. I am no longer sure if I can trust him any more. I was just messing around on myspace.com I was going to sign in to his account to leave a message for him as a surprise when he log on next, but when I put in his info. ... (284 words)

How can I boost my self esteem? People compliment me but I find it hard to believe them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I have very low self esteem. And I honestly don't know why, I hate they way I look I don't think I am anywhere near pretty, not even kinda cute. I have no reason to think this though no one has ever told me I was 'ugly' everyone always tells me I'm pretty, beautiful, ... (86 words)

Her mixed feelings are driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - After 9 amazing months my girlfriend was having tough times (family and finances) so when the summer started we both had jobs and both lived an hour away. During our 9 months there were no indications that she thought we were 2 serious. I could tell she was dealing with ... (406 words)

He left me and now I don't understand his actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my lover and I broke up. he decided he would leave without me knowing. I was really hurt to the fact I really was caring for this man. I folded his clothes, cooked him dinner and gave him plenty of sex. he and I talked about our future.he would say what ever you want you can ... (176 words)

My husband still needs to masturbate even though we have sex at least once a night!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is that a man in a sexually healthy relationship would be masterbating? My husband is 39 and wants sex at least every night and sometimes 3-4 times in a 24 hour period. Is this normal and is jerking off normal when you have intercourse that often? Please help!!!... (49 words)

I cannot stop contacting him, and am hurting real bad.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I am really hurting right now, as I guy I have been pursuing doesn;t look like he is interested - even though we has a passionate love afair a month ago when I was on holiday in his country. He has only ever responded to me, and never intitates contact , and no... (396 words)

Does the operation for bladder cancer create problems when getting an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i am going to be having an operation for bladder cancer soon i read that sometimes it does affect the dick to get an erection has anyone out there had a bladder cancer operation and had this problem as i just want to know what it would be like and if there is any help out ... (89 words)

I love flirting, so why do girls seem to lose interest after a few months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - why when i start flirting with girls they get very interested as some of the girls they have always admired me for a very long time and then we start flirting and joking they say all nice things and how they feel when they are with me though they are mostly all married like me, ... (115 words)

I'd like some outside perspective on my situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I feel uncomfortable around my boyfriend and at least most of the time. I think it is because of small things, which I take to mean something more serious or which simply cramp my style and we're incompatible on this plane. Here's the story. I'll start at the beginning to... (797 words)

BF's standing up in wedding and I'm hesitant on attending.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

- There is a wedding going on this weekend that my boyfriend is the best man for. I am friends with the couple getting married, but I do not know anyone else that will be there except for my boyfriend of course and he's standing up. I have told him that I will not be going to the ... (226 words)

Was lied to about wife being a prostitute...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been married to my wife for 6 years. Right when we met and started dating, she told me she had been a prostitute for one night, and felt so bad she never did it again. Throughout our marriage, she's lied to me about a few things (nothing too major.. smoking, th... (134 words)

Is a month too soon to tell someone you love them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl i met a month ago have been talking a lot almost every day. well 2 days ago she out of the blue tells me she loves me. I'm like huh? she said i love you. i love everything about u. i like her but can't say love. Is a month too soon to tell someone you love ... (62 words)

I feel more like a friend with benefits!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age - I've been seeing a guy for 5 months 3 times a week we play pool cards talk spend time together we have sex once a week, he always comes to my house i have been to his once... i have met is 11 year old daughter but apart from that i have not met anyone else he knows. he t... (277 words)

How do I take it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year.. and we're both still to shy to really talk to each other.. we text, he calls me but the only time he really says something really sweet to me is when we text.. I want to kiss him so bad! I want our relationship to get f... (68 words)

Pregnant and he might not be the dad! Help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 yrs old and I'm pregnant. At the time i was in a relationship and thought i was pregnant with my boyfriend. I wasnt and we end up breaking up but i didnt tell him i wasnt pregnant because i didnt know for sure. My high school sweetheart and i started a relationship after ... (189 words)

Will he choose them over us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best friend are very very close to and 18 years old. He's 19 in 2 months. Over the past 18 months we've argued god knows how many times but always got through whatever has been thrown at the three of us, but heres the problem, me and my best friend went away for a ... (236 words)

She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks.... (45 words)

My husband is texting a work colleague, should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - By looking at phone bills I have seen that my husband has been calling and texting an old work colleague. He has never mentioned her to me. In the month of July alone he has sent her 38 text messages? I think this is very strange. I have looked back and he always gets rid of ... (102 words)

Can someone tell me what to do about my family problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and it feels like my family is falling apart. i have two older sisters - one is 18, one is 20, a younger sister who is 14 and a younger brother who is 9. my mum and dad are still together, but argue a lot. my mum spends most of her time on her laptop talking to ... (260 words)

Will we last when he moves away for school?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we're in highschool..and in love. and honestly,after two years, i feel like our relationship has been structured perfectly. i'm just worried..because next year hes going off to Boston for prep school..however will be returning before college. we've already been seperate... (95 words)

I don't know who I want!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been with my boyfriend for over a year and i was pretty happy, although at times i felt so controlled by him like he didnt like me going out to parties and drinking or anything and he'd get really overprotective. At a friends party one night he had been at a friends ... (209 words)

Why is he putting so much effort into getting a rise out of me?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - SO here's a tough one: A month ago, the guy I was seeing (for two months) told me he started talking to his ex. After he told me that, I never responded- like with anger or sadness... nothing. I didn't want to feed his ego and I was really upset. I liked getting to know ... (227 words)

She lies and still has feelings for an ex who passed away

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - im in a new relationship and i made it clear fron the day one that i had trust issues and my partner has lied to me more than ten times and admitted that she had feelings for her dead former partner and her brother and her were constantly bring him up which i found upsetting ... (122 words)

Will I ever feel love for anyone the way I love my teacher?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i used to Love my school teacher, he was everything to me.I thought we were meant to be and i loved being with him he made me feel important and loved, i hated being away from him. Sometimes it would feel like he loved me to i knew it and sometimes he would lead me on, look at ... (264 words)

I'm trying to enforce boundaries and his response is that he might go to Thailand!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have had to set boundaries with my boyfriend as he has treated me badly and I feel bad enforcing them. I would be grateful for opinions on enforcing boundaries in situations like mine. We have a 3 year old and lived together until feb this year. When we lived together h... (277 words)

What is the big deal about masturbation?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What is the big deal bout masterbating/cuming/orgasm? I have never masterbated in my life, but even on this sight there's something bout it. You hear stories bout people using hair brushes and carrots and whatnot to stick them up ya, i think its a bit gross especially when u h... (106 words)

Why is still telling me she wants space but she's sleeping in my bed?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i dont kno what i got my self into this time but i kno im not happy because of the desisions i made... ok a little background... i met this girl thru a friend i hadnt seen in years. we met at a party and hit it off well... we hung out many times as a group of friends and ... (304 words)

I drink a lot so I flush my waste a lot... but sometimes my pants "smell". Is this normal?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this is rather embarressing i'm between 18-20 i'd rather keep it like that as i'm very embarressed by this. i've not got a weak bladder i wouldn't say i pee regularly i'm healthy there i drink alot therefore i flush my waste alot, but sometimes when i get home my pants sm... (102 words)

He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other and he started calling me ... (423 words)

He's cheated on me for the 2nd time in 16 months! We have a young daughter together. What am I going to do?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A year ago I found out that my partner had been cheating on me. We talked things through and I decided to give the relationship another go, only now 16 months later he is at it again. I had a feeling something was going on but like the last time I had no proof because he doesn... (273 words)

My girlfriend is having an arranged marriage! I'm devastated! What should I do?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I found out yesterday my girlfriend who I have been with for 17 months is engaged and due to be married this month. She informed me she was going on holiday to Bangladesh about 5 months ago and left last month. I have been counting down the days until she comes home and n... (215 words)

I can't maintain an erection with my current partner! What can I do?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are having some problems with sex. I can't seem to maintain my erections with her. I've never had this problem with any of my previous partners, so I don't believe (and really want to refuse to believe) that it's some sort of medical issue. But if it's not ... (177 words)

I'm not sure I fancy the man I'm seeing, but I don't want to lose him either! Help!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old woman who has recently started a new relationship. We met through an online site, and on the first date I thought 'well I don't fancy him, but he makes me laugh and I feel very safe with him' We went on some more dates which were really enjoyable. After about ... (233 words)

I can give my boyfriend and orgasm, but he can't give me one. Is it because I'm a virgin?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I are in bed at night and get really close, I can give him an orgasm, but ive never had one. Why is this? Is this because I'm still a virgin and he isn't? Please help as I think it is gettin to my boyfriend alot.... (50 words)

My boyfriend doesn't tust me, and now he wants us to just be friends. I'm so confused, what does he really want from me?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now, and i am a bit confused as to where this is going. We meet my freshman year in college in the library, he is 23 and i am 20... Every since the first time we got together, we have been INSEPRABLE. That is until, he had to go back ... (373 words)

My girlfriend says that sex is painful. Is she telling the truth?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have gf friend dat have dating for year now. Any time we make love she either cry or shout dat is painfull. Is she pretending or truly painful as she claimed.... (32 words)

I want to stop masturbating permenantly. Can you give me any advice on how to stop?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been masturbating 4 4yrs now and i want 2 stop bcos i have seen the conseqences. But how do i stop? I have tried 2 stop many times, sometimes it last 4 a months or weeks but i want 2 stop it permanently. So pls help me with advice.... (54 words)

Hit with a hockey stick, and the swelling has finally gone down. But is it possible I could have a hairline fracture?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. just a question about a month n a half ago i was hit with a hockey stick during a game on the left of my left eye on the socket, so not my temple. i wasnt knocked unconscious but had a serious concussion and was in hospital. i had a ct scan which came back clear,... (173 words)

I want to wait before having sex with my boyfriend, but he makes me feel bad about it...and there are other problems too...

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12 August 2009 (F)

- My bf is trying to pressure and manipulate me into having sex with him. I keep saying that I want to wait. Im not saying no, just not right now as I want to know him better and I think trust needs to be built, and that level of trust can only be built over a period of time. ... (677 words)

I don't know what my husband is doing or who he's with and it's driving me crazy!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with this man for 2 years married one year. He is a very smooth talker. until people starting telling me things about him. That he has been with plenty of women, Im is third marriage a couple long term relationships. his wifes left him however all the women hes been ... (275 words)

Before I send this text message to my ex, would you guys tell me what you think? Feel free to edit!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had enough of my ex who keeps delaying his payment of debt to me. So I am sending him a final text message. The message is exactly like this: You know, I am forced to let go of your debt. Coz I realized, if you want to pay me, you had paid me a long time ago. You can... (144 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is very attractive...

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my bf for 9 months and I love him so much. The problem is that I find his best friend extremely attractive and I find myself thinking about him all the time. I think he might find me attractive too because he always hangs out with me in the group and gives me a lot of ... (136 words)

I'm in love with my Godfather

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a relationship with him but don't want ... (90 words)

Girlfriend spends much time with her married guy friend and it bothers me!

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend has a married guy friend that she spends time with, including having him over to her house for dinner and drinks and occationally going out to dinner with drinks. The mans wife is also her dear friend and supports the friendship that he and my girlfriend have. ... (175 words)

My ex is stalking me and ruining our lives

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex husband and I have a 2 year old daughter together which he continues to use her to get to me and make me feel bad that we're not together anymore. He does nothing but stalk me, harass me, has broken up two of my relationships and lies constently about about how horrible ... (279 words)

He has a hard time keeping it hard!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a new relationship with this guy, and it been almost 2 mos. He told me that he has a problem keeping it up when it's time for sex. Is it because he been with a transsexual and didn't know that he was after the intercourse happened with them two. Before this horrible ... (70 words)

Boyfriend's brother just messing with me? Or does he like me?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, Ive been with this guy for about 2 years, we're not so good together In my opinion, tried to break It off numerous times, never worked cuz hes really over dramatic and does seriously everything to make me stay so I have pity on him. I met his brother before him, me and him ... (280 words)

I like them both..now what?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i have a boyfriend i have been dating for 8 months.. and i love him dearly whenever i am with him it is perfect, and people say they can tell we are in love. but i liked this one other guy a year or so ago, and now i sorta like him again and he likes me too.. he is ... (69 words)

His foreskin broke during sex

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, when i was having sex with my ex boyfriend, i was on top and then i broke his for-skin.. im really embarrassed, is this my fault and should i be embarrassed? ... (32 words)

Clexane to prevent pregnancy loss - has anyone had success with this?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had three miscarriages (all before 12 wks) in the past year. After the third my partner and I were offered some testing (genetic, bloods, sperm etc)in order to eliminate possible "causes". Most things have come back "normal" except for a slightly elevated cardiolipin ... (134 words)

My 15 year old Greek Tragedy

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and i have fallen in love with my cousin. I went to France to visit family that i have never met. (i've never been overseas and i was going by myself) i stayed with my aunt. A and uncle J. and two cousins that i have met before because they had come visit me in ame... (424 words)

I was told my BF of 3 years lives with his wife and kids

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod note - two questions merged] If I was told my bf of 3 year lives with his wife ands kids and he says its not true. What do i do? How do I deal with my issues from my passed relationship its harming my new relationship... ... (49 words)

I moved on but can't get him out of my head

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I been with this guy for a couple of years we live together and we have a baby together i do love him but i still feel like i'm in love with my ex i was with my ex for 4years why do i still feel in love with him how can i get over that its been years i moved on but i just cant ... (72 words)

She's still friends with the man she had an affair with during her first marriage

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I never saw myself on one of these things, ever, but I find myself really confused, so here we go... I'm in love!, she was once married. She had an affair. She has been very honest with me with everything, including the details of how the marriage failed. Now I'v... (188 words)

How can I tell someone I like them

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i tell someone i like them... (8 words)

Should I tell this guy about my past before he hears the rumours?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in a serious relationship with a boy, lets call him Ryan, awhile back. We had sex, and things got around school about us doing so. Now that we are over, people are talking. I haven't had sex with anyone since Ryan and I broke up. I recently got close to a guy, David, just ... (181 words)

Does the size of your boobs depend on the size of the areolas?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Does the size of your boobs depend on the size of the areolas or nipples?... (15 words)

I ruined it, can it be saved?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating an awesome girl for almost 4 years and she told me she wants a break as my actions at times pushed her away..she loves me most of the time, she says i'm such a great person, all the things she loves about me, etc., but the sway i act sometimes devastates her ... (720 words)

Thinking about having sex with my BF, but have some doubts

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a real serious problem. Myself and my boyfriend (16y/o) have been together off and on since like 3rd grade I am now alot older and very much more mature I am 15 years old and I have been thinking about having sex with him (he has not been presuring me at all!). ... (163 words)

Is he grooming these men, or should we be more open minded?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont really know how to put this , but ill start from the beginning. there is a guy thats about 48 and he is gay - the thing is , my friend and her ex partner met him a year ago, on their first date, this gay guy is really in to his drugs at the moment, and he offered her ex ... (457 words)

I cant help bringing my trust issues into my new relationship

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently "got over" a long-term ex who cheated on and me and then broke up with me. I've moved on and am now with someone else, but I still have residual trust issues and they are making me feel very clingy. I don't have a large group of friends that I hang out with,... (279 words)

Jealous, Emotionally unstable, controlling GF

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi... How should I say this. I meet the most wonderful women in my life a while ago, shes very interesting, fun, quirky, funny, cute and a very wonderful person overall and I love her dearly and she means the world to me. Except she has PTSD, depression and has brain s... (829 words)

I can't imagine a life without oral ...

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm having a big problem with my fiance... he loves getting orals, even insists on it... but won't give me any. the main problem is that fondling and all the rest, including penetration give me orgasm, but not really powerful. my ex always gave me head, and it truly is the ... (133 words)

I just want a chance to tell him how I feel...what do you think?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, about two years ago I met the love of my life, my true love and at the time I didn’t realize how I felt until I let him go. Long story short I had a boyfriend for fours that treated me like crap. I broke up with my BF of 4 years to be with my true love but I couldn’t ... (241 words)

He's cheating with a woman he knew 25 years ago! How can I cope with all this?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age - I've been married to my husband for 20 years now. We've built a dream together; a life together. We have five beautiful children; our youngest is 12. I simply can not imagine life without my family. I love them all so dearly. So why is it that my husband decided to cheat... (443 words)

He said there is no spark anymore...and I love him so much!! What should I do?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met in high school and have been together for almost 4 years. Since the day I met him I knew he was "the one". We've been through so much in our relationship and have come a long way. We've talked about marriage and babies and the whole bit. We broke up ... (635 words)

How do you stop a married guy from hitting on you??

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am single and was on a business trip abroad. My business partner is a very kind helpful person and good fun to be with. He is happily married with a beautiful wife. Suddenly he is sending me very wrong signals. He came to the airport to drop me - extra long hug. Sms- "I am ... (82 words)

Funny little marks under my breasts! Would it be unattractive to men?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. This question is mainly for males becuase im wondering what they think. I have little spots (not freckles or beauty marks) probably irritated hair follicles or something under my breasts. there not very dark at all but they personally bother me. getting to the question.... (87 words)

I have erection problems and my wife is quite frustrated. what can I do?

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12 August 2009 (M)

age - I don't know why am I not horny anymore. I used to be very sexual, but now I almost never feel, the need of sex. I love my wife, 26 years married. I can't say, I'm not attracted to her. I do have ED, but it is unclear why. I do work a lot, but i'm not sure it could be the... (118 words)

We're in love...is it possible at our age?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically before this guy, i didnt believe in serious relationships in your adolescence. i met him freshmen year and now we're going into junior year and still together, even though i switched schools. our relationship has been nearly perfect with one minor setback, he liked a ... (199 words)

Bad waxing experience!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just made a very bad attempt at a do it yourself bikini line kit and now feeling the side effects -didnt even work . I was wondering if the pain is really worth it? Does anyone actually find waxing off your pubes attractive? Is there any other alternatives but waxing? ... (74 words)

Is there such a thing as too perfect a relationship???

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12 August 2009 (F)

Harrassment!

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is my so called ex-boyfriend harrassing me after accusing me of things which were wrong about me and he had to apologise, so then i let him know i had seen his facebook account and the reason he would not add me(other women and ex girlfriends) he then said i was wrong and ... (119 words)

How can I get my dad to stop touching my butt???

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay.. well this is really awkward, but i've been having a major problem with my dad lately. He always touches my butt! Not like grabbing or anything like that, but he always bumps his hand into it when i'm standing next to him, or walking by him. I've told him MANY times ... (124 words)

Tickly throat problems...

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12 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Gah someone help :( For about 3 days now, and ONLY at night, there has been this tickle in my throat, and a sore throat (it feels more in the back of my throat kinda) and whenever I swallow I feel like I need to cough, because it tickles. But it's only at night, like I feel ... (74 words)

Should I try and get over her or wait around and see if she does love me back?

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12 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Im in love with my best friend who's also a girl, i'm bisexual but she is confused whether or not she is. ive completly fell for her, and ive told her recently and she was very understanding and has said she is very flattered, but she was with her boyfriend and im her best ... (171 words)

Girlfriend refuses to show bikini

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12 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now. However now that college has come around, I am living in my dorm room. She told me that she was going to go swimming at the ocean today, and said she had a new bikini. I asked her if she would send me a ... (108 words)

Men... how do you really feel about you wife's post baby belly?

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12 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - To all the married men with kids..... how do you really feel about your wife's post-baby belly. I have 3 kids, one under a year, and I just can't stand the way I look. I've almost lost all the baby weight and am in relatively good shape considering. Most of my old clothes ... (127 words)