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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Four weeks after I found out she cheated, she's texting him again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend had been texting some guy constantly for over 2 years at first I thought nothing of it but it was getting out of hand and if I were to touch her phone would go mad. I did only to find out she has been sleeping with him for 2 years on and off. She begged me to stay ... (114 words)

I hear my dad masturbating and it's really bothering me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i am a 14 year old female and i have a big problem! my dad keeps constantly masturbating and its really bothering me! he gets up at the middle of the night to turn on the TV and masturbate and its really disturbing! like the noises he make!! later on he cleans the sperm or ... (114 words)

He's really sweet but I'm not sure I fancy him as a boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I met a really sweet and handsome guy last Sunday and we spent three days in a row together! Thing is I really like his personality and he's incredibly into me but I'm not sure I fancy him enough to get more deeply involved. I mean he is very attractive but has an ... (102 words)

I found out she cheated on me a year ago!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together for four and a half years. Since the middle of our sophomore year of college. We started at the same graduate school last year and I'm planning on finishing with my Master's in Education while she wants to go on to her PhD in Medicine. That's ... (156 words)

Is it just innocent flirting or does he really fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! As the advice you all give me, shall help me decide what to do! So i really need help! Sorry for making it so long. I just really need your help! Well, there's a boy! Of course.. And recently i had invited him to come play badminton with me and my friends... (579 words)

Is it possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to cum without feeling it?... (8 words)

Do you think there's a chance my baby will survive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out I was about two months pregnant, about 2 two weeks ago. I went to the hospital two days ago because was having a cramp on my left side for ten minutes straight and had a light to medium brown discharge. They told me that I will miscarry and that when they did an ... (133 words)

Unprotected sex and now I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a situation here i had unprotected sex on the 24th and on the 26th i started my periods,i was expecting start my next cycle either on the 21st or today 26th but i havent started yet could their be chances that am pregnant?please any help ... (48 words)

Can I be helped? Would counselling be an answer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question to do with my social anxiety disorder which is linked with depression. I can't explain to my boyfriend why sometimes it is that I get exceedingly angry for no reason and burst into tears complaining about being ugly and uncared about regularly. I use... (258 words)

He likes me more than I like him....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it necessarily a bad thing if my boyfriend is a lot more into me than I am him? He liked me for longer than I liked him before we got together and we've been dating for about a month and a half. He seems a lot more confident in our relationship than I am, and I'm wondering ... (82 words)

Did something to make him mad but I really like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help to win back or get this guy i like all together. ok i worked with this guy and started to like him cuz he was giving some extra attention dumb stuff like throw things down my shirt and stuff plus hes bomb. at first i thought he liked me but his friends said he did ... (154 words)

Found emails he sent to another woman. Did he cheat or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i found out that my husband had some kind of relationship with another woman (don't know how far it went). He assures me that nothing happened, but the emails that he sent her, the words he told her sounded like he was either in love or had a huge crush. i don't trust him and ... (71 words)

He threw me out because I don't agree with him all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend kicked me out of our home on sunday, leaving me heart broken and homeless. his reasons were basically to cut a long story short that i react differently to him in situations and this frustrates him, im a very emotional person. I have done a lot for him, including ... (346 words)

Once a cheat always a cheat? Can you be faithful to "the one"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have cheated in the past but then I thought I had met the "one" and I could never do it to them. People say once a cheat always a cheat I don't believe this. Does anyone think that once you have messed someone around its simply because they are not the one and there for you ... (64 words)

Holiday romance ... what is his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my name is lisa and i met this guy away on holidays and i spent the week with him. it was like a holiday romance, but i didnt do with him. we all got back to dublin and i forgot bout the holiday. he never asked for my number but he found me on bebo. ever since that we have ... (126 words)

Was she just doing her job, or did she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - okay there's this girl that works in a drive up esspresso and when I drive up to buy coffee she's very nice and I never gave her a tip just to see if she's only nice because she wants a tip, anyways she was the first to say how is your day and then we talk alittle. once I g... (292 words)

Should I spend the money on the "morning after" pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had sex a few days ago using a condom, but it broke. I started my period on the 21st and we had sex on the 24th while I was still menstruating. I'm worried about pregnancy. I feel like the chances are very low I would be pregnant considering I have a very ... (188 words)

We want to make the most of the years we have left, but I'm worried I'm too old for her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age - I have a very difficult situation: I am dating a woman 18 years younger than myself she is 43 and I am 61 although I am very fit go to the gym every day and look a lot younger! We are both married although both of our partners are badly brain damaged without any prospect of ... (308 words)

Why would he lie and say he had sex with her when he did not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My childhood friend and I have had feelings for each other on and off for the past 15 years of our friendship. But of course always at separate times. I was going to confront him about my feelings this time. Though it isn't as easy as I thought it would be, I figured we ... (251 words)

Her special-needs sister is moving in, and I'm concerned. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm about to move out of a condominium I've shared for two years with a roommate. Her parents are the owners and the reason why I'm leaving is that her sister is moving in to attend school. My roommate is supposed to look out for and teach her kid sister h... (218 words)

I'm shy and in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i have known this guy for like 5 years and he spoke to me loads at first (i was really shy) but he wasnt single so i thought nothin of it. he split up with his girlfriend but never said why and from then on he spoke to me even more and we had a sorta love hate realatio... (207 words)

Are good gut feelings always right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just wondering, has anyone around here had proven that their gut feeling is right? Can we trust our gut feeling whether it be negative or positive? Why do I always read stories here that negative gut feelings are right like for example cheating? But what about the positi... (119 words)

Is there any way to make my penis smaller?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a situation that requires your expert advice. I have tried other online advice and have never been taking seriously. I have an abnormally large penis and it is causing physical and emotional issues for me and my wife. To begin, my flaccid penis ranges from 10 inches t... (426 words)

What's the worst that can happen if I don't treat my yeast infection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what's the worst that can happen if i don't treat my yeast infection?... (13 words)

I need ideas for sex please..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im only starting to have sex so i want to no about new postions can you tell me any ne ones and in good detail... (25 words)

I'm really afraid of everyone finding out about me and him, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - It's a long story. I was in love with a guy who was 19, but i was too young at 14 and I knew it. my friend who was a bit older went out with him for a bit, but she didnt like it and they split up. He said he loved me. i loved him so we went out but kept quiet. my mum found out ... (211 words)

Should I consider my wife holding another man's hand as cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I asked a question a few weeks ago regarding staying in my marriage. Well, a new development has happened. In talking with my wife she felt it "necessary" to tell me that on a business trip about 4 years ago she had too much to drink with a male business companion and ended ... (143 words)

Since my friend was assaulted, she hasn't spoken or gotten in contact with anyone! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

- I really need advice on what to do with my best friend. A couple of weeks ago she was assaulted by another girl on a night out and was taken home in an ambulance. I spoke to her on the phone (I wasnt with her at the time) and she seemed ok and I said I would call the next day. ... (133 words)

A family member of mine had a stroke... has anyone else gone through the same thing, and if so, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hello. has anyone had a close family member suffer a stoke? my father had one on sunday night. he has lost the use of his left arm and hand, his speech is slurred but can still make out what he is saying, he can walk aided, and trys to feed himself. please has someone expe... (85 words)

My ex won't leave me alone, how can I get rid of him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an ex that just wont leave me alone. he's 20 and i'm 17. he tried to control me when we were together and i got fed up after 2 months and ended it. i've recently started to get back to talking with my close friends and i've also started dating a new guy. but i'm afraid ... (152 words)

I love her but she just wants us to remain friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I ran into dis girl some months ago after a very longtym so we became buddies.meanwhile i had a strong feeling for then i decided to let her know.she replied by say'n she lyks me and would only want us to remain friends i tried to convince her but she always says she does'nt ... (106 words)

I'm having second thoughts about trying to conceive right now because my husband is sometimes cold with me and his daughter is going to move in! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for one year now... and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the last 6 months and is not happening. He has a daughter with another woman, she is 10 yrs old and is coming to live with us. She is a 'good" girl but i really dont want her to live ... (207 words)

I think my boyfriend is planning to kiss me next to he sees me, but I'm not sure how to! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, So im 13 and i have just met this boy who I really like. We are seeing each other for the moment... but I will only see him like every month. He lives 15 minutes away but I only see him when at a holiday home every month. He is the nicest person ever and really caring. I... (115 words)

Did I do the right thing by not taking her number? And how can I stop worrying that every girl I meet might be lying about them being single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I met a woman today when I was in my local city centre. I'm 23 years old, she's 25 - not much of an age difference really, in my opinion. She seemed like a nice person and we got on well enough. She asked me if I wanted to walk her to the bus stop, and I did. I told h... (243 words)

Why is taking longer for my girlfriend to climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a post mark to is my girlfriend a player. When we first started dating when we have sex she would climax within 15 minutes, orally sometimes within 5. After December it became the time double and she became to incorporate a vibrator into sex. Now she wont have sex ... (70 words)

It feels like her love for me is fading...what can I do? Can I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is probably going to be a long story. So Like a year ago I was going out with this girl she's in the 10th grade now and I'm in the 9th, We broke up some time ago. Well about 6 months ago I started seeing her sister and we are still together... for now. I love her more... (475 words)

My friend died. Could I have stopped it? Do I talk to my friend about it or will it cause him problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kinda a long qustion and one that has probably been a long time coming but which has suddenly been brought to the surface. I'm in a really awkward situation and I don't know what to do. When I was 14, my best friend killed himself. It was completely out the blue and... (858 words)

I need help! Wife is cheating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I've been married for 6 years and its been hard. My wife and I have two kids. Now, a couple of years ago she cheated on me when she went out with some friends to santa monica to spend the night. She sadi she thought someone gave her sonething because she could not remember but ... (303 words)

Girlfriend slept with flat mate..now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I live in a flat with four people. the other guy is "mike" and I am dating "Nicole" Now I was drunk one night and as a joke suggested that "nicole" and I team up with "mike" and his girlfriend "stacey"... "Nicole" quickly replies, she has already done that, and ... (88 words)

My wife's best friend is coming onto me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I who are .. decently happy have a mutual friend named "Sarah" now, sarah is beautiful and fun and always is around. She is a very close friend, and whenever either of us need advice she is there. But as of recent she is being more adamant to alone time betwe... (148 words)

The unknown factor in our "relationship" is driving me crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, Here's the situation. In the past I met woman often times while travelling and things moved quickly. When one is travelling and connects with someone, everything in a sense has to move forward at warp factor 5. Using that as a point of departure a relationshi... (869 words)

Ever met someone so perfect that you're ashamed of your baser feelings/instinct?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Have you ever met someone who is so beautiful, so pure, intelligent, fun-loving and wittingly sweet that it makes you feel ashamed of your baser cravings and the animalistic urge to make her your own? I didn't know people like her existed until I met a girl so beautiful ... (342 words)

Cousin is confiding in me..how do I tell him I'm attracted to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my cousin we kissed when i was 10 and he was 12 and i didnt see him for like 7 years and now that we saw each other everything is soo awkard between us he will give me eye contacts and stuff but we didnt do anything he would tease me he is sooo handsome... (167 words)

I'm in love with an old friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love wit an old classmate of mine so i decided to tell her.she said she doesn't feel like having a relationship wit anyone.i asked why but she wouldn't say why.i tried to convince her that i really love her but she said she would only prefer that we remain friends but i ... (61 words)

His wife refused him a divorce now we cant be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have known someone for twelve years only as a customer to him. we have spoken to each other on lots of occasions outside his work place up to recently he asked me to go out with him as he was divorcing his wife he also asked me to wait for him. she refused to divorce him she ... (136 words)

We hardly ever have sex anymore! Is my vagina too big, or is his penis too small?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. When we first started dating, we were very sexually active. However, we aren’t anymore, well we have sex but its barely ever and I have make him want to and when we are laying in bed and i want to have sex it’s like i ... (98 words)

I love my boyfriend very much but I hate that he doesn't work and I pay for everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfiend for just over 3 years now and I love him very much but I hate the fact that he does not work and I have to pay for everything. He says that he is looking for work but all he every does is sit on social networking sites all day. I have tried to sit ... (164 words)

Can this relationship be saved? I think I was driving him into another girl's arms!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my boyfriend who I have been with for over 6 months has been texting another girl for about a week. I called the girl myself to ask what was going on and she had said the the day before he told her that he loves her and would date her in a heart beat. She told ... (417 words)

My girlfriend wanted to kiss her male friend! Can I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has just told me that she wanted to kiss her male friend while she was on a night out where he happened to be. She didnt kiss him but should i be worried by the fact she wanted to? Also i tried telling her i dont want her to keep in contact with him and back off ... (99 words)

My ex terminated our pregnancy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with a girl I thought was forever, but we no longer clicked I guess. We were together for a significant amount of time, and we tried to conceive. She calls me three months after we broke up, saying shes pregnant and terminating the pregnancy. I feel awful, Wh... (94 words)

How do I tell my neighbour I don't like him the way he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,i need advice on how to tell my next door neighbor that i dont like him in the way he likes me. My next door neighbor is 1 year older than me , he has had a crush on me for 2 years now , and im not joking about that. He trys to make me jealous with making up girls names an... (200 words)

My daughter is dating a much older man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice from people I don't know. My daughter is 19, and will be 20 in March. She dated a guy more her age, but he didn't treat her like a man should. She met another guy that is 31, will be 32 in September. This guy has teated her so good. What is bad is I really like ... (159 words)

What do you think of the emails my boyfriend and his ex exchanged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Annoying emails! Hi again, So my boyfriend and I got together he has been split up from his ex a couple of months, but he broke up with her and was not over it, so she started to stir a few rumours up. I told him i thought he should email her to make sure that they are o... (295 words)

What are the Do's and Don'ts when meeting your partners parents for the first time? I'm new to this and really nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a South African who has been dating a German guy for almost a year. We've lived together for almost a year as well. We both live in Dubai. Next week we are going to Germany for a month-long vacation and I am also meeting his parents for the first time. We will also be ... (160 words)

Do I have the right to be hurt and upset because my boyfriend didn't get me anything for our anniversary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have always had a challenging yet loving relationship. There's a very strong mutual attraction and although I don't know if he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, I have a lot of love for him. He is pretty different from me in a lot of ways ... (801 words)

How do I find out if the man I am attracted to is gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm Gay and I am sexually attracted to a man, but I don't know if he is Gay.. How can I find out?... (23 words)

How can I change her mind about going to this party?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i have a weird situation this girl i like and she knows i like her invited me to her friends b'day party only thing is it's a sex fest party they only want one guy there and theres like 4 of her friends. Im not really keen on the idea of having sex with her friends like ... (124 words)

I've gone off women and I'm only having sexual thoughts about men!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've gone off women. I'm not sure whether I've just 'come into my sexuality' or not but recently, I've gone completely off women and on to men. Sexual thoughts about men started for me a long time ago but only in the background and I pursued various hetrosexual rela... (396 words)

I hate him for making me like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I know has been treating me differently. I hate him for making me like him. He probably doesn't like me anymore but he does things to make me think otherwise. I hate how he talks to other girls who are his friends and not me. I liked him liking me it made me feel like ... (100 words)

Should I seduce my brother in law or just forget about him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello aunty, I am a married lady, 33 years old..I am a leading drama actress also, few months back I did a romantic play, where my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) was acting opposite me, being a romantic play we had a few smooches and a steamy scene..my brother-in-law is ... (155 words)

6 strangers, 6 one-night stands and no condoms! And yet she still shows no remorse!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How would you feel if you found out the women you love had slept with 7 guys before you, but... 6 of them were one night stands in the space of 2 years, and no protection was used? What does that say about the women you love and who she used to be? Its not coming to terms ... (773 words)

Help! I came out to my best friend by text last night, don't know what to do now?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old female, and after weeks of struggling to find the perfect moment to tell my best friend I'm gay I decided to tell her by text last night. I was to scared of her reaction if i told her face to face, so I decided it was better to text her than to carry on lying ... (291 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend just to spend 9 days with him, but now he doesn't want to see me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this year i took part in a show and one of the boys doing the show i got on with really well. at that time i had a boyfriend but as i started seeing more of this other boy, i started to develop feelings for him and i didnt know what to do. when he told me he really liked me and ... (322 words)

He's in love with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been with my Boy friend for a year and a half and we have our ups and downs and at one point I left as he was not given me what I wanted. he made a real effort and I finaly came round because he told me he loved me and that was horrible with out me, he is from another ... (231 words)

I feel so lonely and have no idea how to find a real relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - helloo I posted a few months ago on here about a bad experience i had and what i learnt from it. To cut a long story short, I have a lonely life no close friends and never been in a relationship. I was also very into porn and visited a brothel (my first ever sexual ex... (278 words)

I'm unbelievably shy and cannot bring myself to ask this woman out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this may take a while but the way im feeling, i really need to express myself. The first thing you should know about me is that im unbelievably shy. I've liked this woman for about 6 months now and i have no idea how to take it further. this isnt just another... (183 words)

I fell in love in Thailand and desperately want to keep in touch with him, but he hasn't replied to my text!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long story but I'll try to be as succinct as possible. I hope you can bear with me. I recently went on a 2 month trip to Thailand, my main purpose being to teach English to the local schoolchildren there. I was staying at a resort for the entirety of these 2 month... (351 words)

I feel like I'm completely useless and have nothing good in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - so depressed so given up like a hopeless case i could barely write all of this even though i realize that asking this question online to bunch of people who know me at all is all in all one another dumb thing to do but frankly speaking guys lol i have faced and experienced so ... (350 words)

I can't have a sexual relationship because of premature ejactulation! Does anyone else have problems with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I cant stay the distance in bed and because of this I cant maintain a sexual relationship. I'm 36 and have a major problem with premature ejaculation. Because of this I've ended up in some very embarrassing situations and have never been able to maintain a relationship bey... (519 words)

Girls: would you prefer for guys to shave all their pubic hair or trim it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

26 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm 14, do you think that i should shave my pubic hair fully of or should i just trim it, this questioni is mainly aimed at the girls reading this... (30 words)

Do actions really speak louder than words? He never compliments me or tells me he loves me!

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 and a half years. He has said he loves me about 3 or 4 times in our entire relationship, and it has always been prompted. He rarely tells me he likes me, cares about me, is proud of me, compliments me, etc. (by rare, i mean once every ... (387 words)

My ex never showed any interest in my children, and I think this new guy might be the same too! What can I do?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a terrible relationship that ended a little over a year ago. The guy never wanted to have anything to do with my kids--I waited thinking things would eventually click between them, but it never did. Now I am dating a really great guy (for a month, now), and I thought ... (206 words)

I don't know how to keep maintaining this LDR with my boyfriend, and I feel like his parents don't approve of me. Please help!

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Maintaining a long-term relationship with my boyfriend of five years has become unbearable for a while now, more so that he's away for two months to work in another country. I am deeply hurt knowing that his family never approved of me. I guess I am not good enough. I love him ... (424 words)

My girlfriend has arranged for me to have sex with her friends! Should I run a mile?

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know how this is going to sound but it's the truth, I swear to God. I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. She's the woman of my dreams to say the least and our sex life has always been fantastic. However, I've discovered a side of her that I never knew exist... (451 words)

I know I have to leave him for good, but my heart is saying otherwise. Please help me

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - confused and felling stupied Ive bin in my relationship for 15yrs, have 2 lovely boys, but their father is such a looser, abusers the 3 of us mentally but also physically abusers me, I feel like a bad mum allowing my children to grow up around him but he is their father, Yo... (126 words)

Becoming distant with the world, seeking authentication beyond myself

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26 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Good evening/morning... I have a feeling I might regret this, but I wish to share some of my thoughts in the form of questions with the rest of the member-base, out of being semi-anonymous. ^o^ As I age, I feel more and more distant to common society, as I become mor... (405 words)

Am I in denial about being stood up? Or could something have happened to him? I'm really worried!

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused! there is this guy that I have liked for ages and ages. we work together and are always flirting and the tention was just building and building. the night before last, i had a few of my friends round from work, including him. well we walked down to the bottom ... (328 words)

What's going on? Isn't he man enough to tell me it's over instead of messing me around?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people. Please advice a sister. I had an argument with my boyfriend of long distance. Weve been dating for 3years but we barely see each other. I came back home and his best pal told me the guy has another girlfriend which he denies. I tried not to listen to 3rd party. Well ... (201 words)

What are the steps in having a healthy relationship? And how can I get my boyfriend to propose to me?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What can i do to make my boyfriend propose marriage to me? What are the steps to a healthy relationship?... (21 words)

I want to be with him but there are barriers that would need to be overcome. What should I do?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 14, I met someone with whom I fell absolutely in love. I lost my virginity to him at that age, but then decided (something I've always regretted) that we couldn't possibly work - he was 24 and lives about 2000 miles away from me, and so I ended it with him before it ... (479 words)

I'm never in the mood for sex, how long will I feel like this? It seems like more than just a phase!

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ,,ive been with my partner for 4 years,, im 20 hes 26 and we have a 1 year old! tings are ussually great between us, but when it comes to in the bedroom ,, i never seem in the mood anymore, i know i could be if he tried more i think i dont no how to explain this o him,, i ... (121 words)

Should I throw away our relationship for someone that I might not have a chance with?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started to get close to this guy, I would only see him every couple of weeks but eventually he told me he was falling for me. I was very happy, because I was at last getting somewhere with him. Then I started hanging out with a friend of a friend. He was really nice, an... (229 words)

I unloaded on him during an argument, now he's shut up shop, how do I get him back?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my honey have been together for 2years we have a 7m old baby together things have been ruff latly im always tired dont get much help but he does hes share any ways stress and me dont go together im not any good with it and it isnt an excuse i feel terrible! Well we had ... (218 words)

Frustrated with my ex, does he want me or not?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im super frustrated.my ex and i have been in contact *been broken up over a mo*.We've slept together 2x, he's supposedly dating/hanging w/ someone we know, rubbed it in my face as much as possible *to get me jealous it seems*.Seems hes into hanging w/ her cos she pays for ... (480 words)

We live apart, are friends, he has a girlfriend, but I think he's interested, what do I do?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I recently went to visit a friend of mine who I haven't seen in a couple of years, and after spending the weekend together I realized that I have some pretty strong feelings for him. We have known each other for about 5 years or so, lived in the same city and no... (283 words)

How do I get over him? I've been in love with him for nearly a year now and the feelings are not going away!

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I'm 16 years old, and have been 'in love' with this previous teacher of mine for nearly a year now. We flirted like hell (he was only 24) and ended up liking each other a lot. He promised me he'd come back to see me (he was from America), but never did. That wa... (374 words)

Does my ex want me back?

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26 August 2009 (F)

- Does my ex bf want me back? He broke up with me. We had a fight because he was really upset/annoyed with me because I woudln't change my values and personality to be who he wanted. I believe in waiting for sex, where as he is fine with casual sex. Im not into clubbing and par... (313 words)

How do I get through to her?

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help! I had an emotional affair about 9 months ago but it was because i didnt love my gf "K". The other girl "A" stole my heart and apparently i stole hers. "A" now cant bring herself to trust me so that i may prove that i love her and "K" isnt helping. What do i do?!? I ... (84 words)

Does he still care, or am I looking too far into this?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I recently broke up, and I knew it was coming, even though he hadn't shown and signs or anything, but we decided on being friends. When he broke up with me he said that he loves me, but can't love anyone right now whatever that means. I've been a crying wreck, ... (109 words)

Is passion in a relationship just a fairytale?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age - I've been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. We only see each other on weekends because he has been building a house. He is a truthful, loyal, intelligent man. My problem is that he lacks passion. He doesn't really enjoy kissing and is content to sleep over on the ... (133 words)

Do I take the chance or give up before anyone gets hurt?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before the story my question is do I take the chance or give up before anyone gets hurt? The background is we met at work, he pursued me but I rejected him at first because I just don't want to be hurt again. Ended up giving him my number like 2 weeks after he originall... (280 words)

My verbal abuse has caused my ex to become a different person, how can I fix this?

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - In my past relationship, I verbally abused my wife. At the time I apparently never noticed what I was doing and I've finally come to terms with this over the past few months and I've been working on it tremendously. What really concerns me though... what is killing me right ... (217 words)

Will this older man take me seriously in the future?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 17 years old and he's almost 35. This Fall will mark the third year of my feelings for him. After I was no longer his student he was okay w/ seeing me/chatting for a few hours online/public places, and I always had 1 friend w/ me, when we met up(and he knew I liked ... (223 words)

Why do people want and desire to marry?

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26 August 2009 (M)

- This is not the rant of a commitment-phobic partner, it's a real and serious question. I plan on getting married. I want to and when I really think about it, I honestly have no genuine idea why. None. We've created this institution called marriage. I don't care about... (90 words)

I've just had an abortion, and I'm having trouble coming to terms with it

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've decided to have an Abortion.. how will I ever get through it? I feel so hopeless. My boyfriend broke up with me. I feel so alone. I didn't want this, but I know it's the best choice for me. I am young.. and my boyfriend (well ex) is a big LOSER. I constantly cry..... (102 words)

How do I get him to see he doesn't treat me well?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok well here goes i really need some help with whats going on in my life, im young and i have started out at a bad start already i will be 19 years old next month got a wonderful lil girl, i had her with my bf xbf what ever he is. im very confussed and feel stuck and would ... (254 words)

I'm always the one to call or text him!

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I need your advice on two things: WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him. I've known this guy for over a year now, but recently we were involved in something together so I got to see him a few times a week. He didn't have a car so I offered to drive... (395 words)

My husband is no longer interested in me; I'm responsible for my own happiness, right?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age - My husband is very focused on obtaining work, increasing income and needs to relax watching TV every night. I have not been good at getting his attention and would like to without forcing him. His interest has diminished completely. He is 61, I'm 50. I'm thinking of fixing this ... (64 words)

I think I'm just his date for the moment

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for a month. I feel worried that I am just someone he is dating for the moment (and I am getting very deep feelings for him). He never tells me how he feels about me--like if he loves me, or even if he just cares about me. He does text me every day ... (201 words)

Should I tell my ex who I like after he said he loved me?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii , My name is Taylor and i am asking for some advice on my situation, I am sorry that this is so long. I have recently had my sweet 16th birthday and the night before my birthday my ex came to visit me. We are okai friends its just weird between us. Well anways he came to my ... (309 words)

Christian help with addiction problems

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26 August 2009 (M)

age - I need help, christian help if possible I am having an addiction problem and need help can't find here where I live ... (22 words)

I get aggrevated by the smallest things..is it hormones?

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok hey guys I'm a 14 year old guy and I've got a pretty good life with my friends and family but over the past few months I've noticed that I get aggrovated very easly by small things like for example a dog barking can make me so angry and I will just grind my teeth and ... (263 words)

My friend never mentions his g/f to me

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My good friend, who I work with, recently separated from his wife and I later found out that he started dating this other woman. When he told me about this other woman (I had to ask him if he was dating) he also told me that before and after his separation he often thought ... (238 words)

After finding out what he did, I don't know if I love him

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so i'm 21 and have been with my bf (who is also 21) for almost 4 years. about a year after we started dating I went to a guys house that I worked with and made out with him, the next day I told my bf what happened (but not all the details) he decided to forgive me and work ... (205 words)

Regret deciding not to hang out

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - met this girl a while back, had a great internet friendship going for a while, hung out with her and after one time she told me that she's seeing someone but does not want to miss the opportunity to get to know me. took her out a few times, and she admitted she was developi... (856 words)

Had sex with her, but she lied about her age - shes underage but now wants it every time we meet. What should I do?

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and she's 15 ... i really like her but she's fairly sexually aggressive and it's illegal ... what should i do? i mean she's not only in it for sex but she loves it ... she had told me she was 16 at the beginning and i apparently did something right but now she wants it ... (62 words)

Crushing on the neighbor 2 years older than me

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i really like this guy and ive known him for about 5 years because hes my neighbor but this summer we started texting and i really like him.. i mean ALOT! and all i can think about is him and all i dream about is him.. yea ive got it bad... but i dont know if he feels the ... (120 words)

Things got weird between us and I don't know where we stand

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26 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hey :)ok so me and this guy "R" have known each other about 6 years but i would only say we've been proper mates for about 3. anyway ive never really liked him before, id say hes always just been one of my better boy friends. recently though we been hanging out a bit more, just ... (509 words)

First date; should I go for another?

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I just went on a coffee date after meeting on an on-line singles site. All seemed to go fairly well, as we departed company I asked if she would be interested in another date, which she replied "yes, but I'm busy for the next 3 weekends". Should I take that as a polite "no" or ... (86 words)

I'm tired of waiting for him to make a decision

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for 5 years. I admit the 1st 2 didn't mean much because for 1 we were just friends having fun and secondly he had a gf (who he had been datin since the 10th grade and we are now 26) however she lived in Rhode island. We have been through a lot. As ... (224 words)

Sometimes I yearn for the single life and the thrill of a first kiss

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a committed relationship, but at times I still want to see other girls, I still want to be in single life, and have that thrill of the first kiss. Sometimes I feel like my current girlfriend doesn't even appreciate me. What do I do?... (51 words)

I'm engaged, but still hung up on my ex

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26 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this amazing girl for almost four years. And despite the fact I am engaged now I still have thoughts of my ex come into my mind. They're not just casual, they're not just passive, honestly I have had dreams about her and I getting back together, falling for each... (88 words)

My insecurity is undermining my relationship -- help!

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26 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend gave me an ultimatum... we've been together for 3 years, and he's my first boyfriend, I'm 20, he's 24. The thing is, we've had our ups and downs, he has matured a lot, but now I seem to be the one with the problem. Mainly, I have issues with: 1. Insecurity, envy... (583 words)

I love him, but could it be that I'd be better off without him?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are expecting our first child, i am now 7 months pregnant, i am 18 and he is 22, although we wasnt together long before we concieved we both knew it was love at first sight, we were made for eachother. I broke it off a few ... (365 words)

I caught my husband cheating by text. Will I scare him away by being too needy?

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26 August 2009 (F)

age - I recently discovered my husband has been cheating by texting and a bit more (but no sex as far as I know). He finished it when I found out and acted full of remorse. This has made me very insecure and I keep feeling I need to gain his approval all the time. For example,... (191 words)