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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will circumcision make me last longer in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Due to having very tight foreskin when my penis is erect and also suffering from frenulum breve i am having a circumcision. I suffer from premature ejaculation. Quite serious, only lasting around 20 seconds when having intercourse but looking around the internet this ma... (88 words)

In love with my teacher. He is single and I want to get more involved

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had feelings for my teacher for a while now and I;m pretty sure he feels the same way by the way he talks to me, approaches me, and we even hug and slightly touch sometimes. Anyway, he's single and I want to get more involved but im not sure how. Can anyone help me?... (55 words)

Relative is flirting with me after giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What is she after?? Please help, there is this girl who is a friend and a relative of mine. Since years now our friendship has been some times spicy and some times cold. Finally a year ago she suddenly got flirtatious and I got a little excited and started sending her 18+ ... (129 words)

Two one night stands with the same guy - How can I find out what is going on between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted on this site before about a man who I had a one night stand with.. Well, it happened again... I like to go out on Friday nights, I usually go by myself because I always see people that I know. Well, I saw M again, it had been a month or so since I last saw him, ... (263 words)

Should I wait for him to get over his ex, or find somone my own age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I first met this boy (for this story's purpose I'll call him Will) when we both went on a school trip. Will is 2 years younger than me. On the trip we were always together and flirting so so so much. All the people we knew on the trip said we should go out. We never talked ... (330 words)

I want to be with her all the time but I don't want to stifle her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age - I am recently married (1 year) after a divorce from a 35 year marriage. I am totally in love with this woman so much so that I am anxious when I am without her, even when she is at work(I am retired). I totally trust her, we have an unbelievable relationship, but I want to ... (234 words)

Was it a one off, or could it be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I bumped into this guy I've known vaguely for a while. We'd never spoken properly but we got chatting and exchanged numbers. He text me that week and we arranged to do something the following weekend. Which we did and ended up sleeping together, I realise this wasn't the wisest ... (197 words)

Do I put out vibes to attract losers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

- Thank you in advance to those who help me with this question. Went to a party last night with a friend. It was more of a get together and I did not know the people but they seemed nice enough. Everybody was pretty drunk but I was not as I needed to drive home as I had to work ... (206 words)

In love with an exchange student and she is leaving next week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically....I'm in love, well I am in love", with this girl called Kate(not actual name), shes amazing! The most beautiful beautiful girl iv'e ever laid eyes on. Shes funny and very smart, and i'm a a sucker for an accent yeah, I forgot to mention that shes an exchange... (198 words)

Someone told me my boyfriend is having a gay affair and I think its true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mate and I been together for five years. We were both virgins starting out in our realtionship. Within these five years I have yet to experince an orgasm. Well recently I received a email from a guy claiming him and my boyfriend have been having a sexual relation... (299 words)

My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me, and told me he's not in live with me anymore! I know I should let go, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really confused and don't know what to do. I'm 19 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. Last month he broke up with me because he didnt want to be in a relationship, but we got back together, he has done the same thing 4times since then. i know i should ... (204 words)

What do you make of this guys mixed signals toward me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age - What do you do when a guy doesn't make things clear. He says one thing and then does another. He acts like he wants a full commitment again and then when I agree he hides out again. I did not call him at all and he came running back and then when I let him back in again he ... (287 words)

Has my cheating ex changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Has my cheating ex changed? I was with my ex Sam for 10 years, we lived together for 7 and had two children together. The problems started right from the beginning when he cheated on me when i was pregnant with my first child. He told me when he was born and promised that tha... (296 words)

We love each other but we're starting to fight everyday...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I am in a relationship with this guy for around two years now,we liked each other from the beginning,we talk about our lives and problems always with each other,we have this beautiful relationship but in the past few months we start having a lot of fights,sometimes we say ... (114 words)

He's beaten me before and is now pushing for sex, should I or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi umm i need help with my relationship well we are not sexually active.He is really pushing sex though..He has beaten me to the point that Ive had to have stiches..but i still love him..I wonder he says if i love him I will have sex with and take our love to the next level..S... (59 words)

When in a relationship do people usually hit third base?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old girl, with an 18 year old boyfriend. (Canada) We've been going out for three months, and we hit 2nd base a while back. He started testing for 3rd, like carressing upper thigh, butt, etc. But he made sure I knew he'd never do anything untill I was sure I ... (130 words)

This LDR is starting to go downhill...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I started dating this girl I've known for some time. Things were great for a while, but we've been doing the long distance thing from the start, and have really only had a handful of weekends together over the course of about a half of a year. (I go to school in Cali a... (274 words)

There's this guy that has asked me out, but there are a few things in the way, and I like someone else! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Men are definately like buses!! I met this 21 year old throught my sister about a year ago and we've been talking on msn and such ever since, we've also met up a few times recently. He has now asked me out. However i have a number of problems 1) I am going to uni in 2... (295 words)

What are the signs that a guy likes you?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy=] I finished school and I am 16years Old,I be going College and I just wanted some Advice about guys!! I want to know? 1.Do they get Butterflies when they Kiss a girl 2.when they like someone what do they do any hints or signs 3.What do you do if your interested ba... (171 words)

I feel betrayed by the guy I like, and my friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This summer I went on a choir trip to Spain. My best friend told me she kind of liked this guy, but it was visabley apparent the only reason she liked him was because she was trying to get over the guy who she hooked up with for a while. He didn't want anything more but she was ... (283 words)

Do you think my colleague is using me for sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im just very confused about this guy from work. I cant say I know him that well, we used to just have small talk whenever we bumped into each other and one day he asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink, so we did and we had such a fun time that I ended up spending the ... (829 words)

How can I find out who this guy is start talking to him? It felt like love at first sight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if it's love at first sight(or lust at first sight) but I can't get a guy out of my head since I've seen him. I'm always thinking about him. AND he's really not the type of guy i'm normally interested in. he looks scary, dark and even retarded. aha. and he ... (138 words)

I want to date a guy I like, but my best friend doesn't approve! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, This is a relationship question, and im not sure on what i should do so im asking for your advice on what i should do.Okai im 16 years old and i just started dating a guy whos 19"Mark", My bestfriend hates him and told me that if me and mark start dating than its going to ... (167 words)

I think he introduced me to his children too soon, as I'm not ready for him to meet mine. Is it odd or am I making too much out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this gentleman for 3 weeks now. We met online and seem to have a lot in common. We both have young children, (6 years and under) and I have issues with meeting or introducing children to a potential relationship before I know if it's going to be serious or ... (195 words)

How do I know if a girl is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im butch and i have problems guessing who would really be interested in me.. and in a place like india its very difficult.. its highly taboo to be gay! i have never had a steady relationship at all.. and its been over an year i do not have a girlfriend.. i cant figure out why.. ... (61 words)

My boyfriend dumped me because I'm too emotional, and couldn't accept my past. How do I move on and get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I've been in a toxic relationship for 3 years, and I don't know what to do. You see in the beginning it was all perfect, it seemed to us (and everyone around us) that we'd been made for each other since we shared the same hobbies, thoughts, ideas, tastes, values, etc. The ... (564 words)

I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet up with his ex girlfriend when he flies over to his home country! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend we been together for 6 months and we are madly in love. we both have different culture and religion. but we both understand each other well. soon his going back to his country to see his family and im worried if we meets up with his ex girlfriends. he told ... (68 words)

He's my first boyfriend, so is it normal to feel jealous when he's talking to other girls? I fear he'll find someone better!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, ok so I'm 15 and I have a boyfriend who's 16 and he's my first boyfriend, but I'm not his first girlfriend. Anyways, whenever he talks to other girls I end up getting super jealous, and i thought that would be a sign showing that i care, but unfortunately he hates ... (131 words)

We're 18 months into our relationship, and suddenly our family and friends are predicting when we'll start having sex! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Allo peoples! My girlfriend and I are over the year and a half mark in our relationship. She's 18 I'm still 17 but 18 in a month. We love eachother very much, and although we're virgins, many people, friends, our mums, have suddenly been predicting we'll begin have sex v... (102 words)

What can I do to get my guy friend to talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend doesn't talk to me much! He keeps my texts and when I talked to him on IM he talked to me for a half an hour! But he only does that a few times a month. Why would he seem like a shy guy but talk a lot to his other friends. Me and him are friends but it doesn't ... (159 words)

Me and my girlfriend recently broke up, and I want her back, but I don't know how she feels. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. (Plz forgive my poor english) My girlfriend has recently broken up our 3 yr old relation. I really do love her and want her back in my life. Here's what has happened in brief- Last few months time was a patchy time in our relationship. We used to fight on small ... (404 words)

He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've never gone that far before. However ... (214 words)

Boyfriend or best friend? Who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so now I have a new problem. . . I'm still with my boyfriend, who can be a real jerk at times when he pokes fun at me for being book smart and is starting to flirt with other girls. Sometimes, I go days at a time where I just don't talk to him, but then he always apolog... (407 words)

Parenting advice for handling certain situations

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am planning to be a father soon, and I just wanted to get your opinions on how I should handle certain situations, should they rise. They are: 1. If I caught my son or daughter experimenting with the same gender, how should I go about handling that? I did read that experi... (77 words)

Kicked out because of a ladies night out!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm having a very difficult time in my relationship of 8 yrs. We share a child together and my "boyfriend"/ " husband" kicked me out of the house and took my car back due to me having a ladys night out a week ago and my friend and I had a little much to drink and ... (423 words)

How do I get my b/f's attention back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please someone help. My boyfriend and I, who have been together for seven months, aren't as close as we once were. We became a long distance relationship because we both thought the distance was well worth being with the other. We both are in college now and for the past thr... (266 words)

I'm in love with her she doesn't return the love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, just looking for some common ground on this one. I have been with my girl friend over 5 years and we have had a lot of ups and downs and have two children togeather. Recourring conversation is she is not in love with me and more and wouldnt marry me becasue of this.... (143 words)

When is the honeymoon stage of a new relationship over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A little over a year ago, I began a relationship with a great guy. He and I hit it off so well. We did several different activites together that we shared in common and best of all had an intense sex life. It didn't take long for us to more-or-less start living together. ... (200 words)

I feel like I NEED him and feeling very vulnerable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and well. Things are starting to get a bit shakey. We mutually decided that we were going to still date, even though we both are going to different colleges. But the thing about me is - I've been going to work, going t... (648 words)

Meeting up with man I've been chatting to online unsure what to expect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Met him, a divorcee thru a friendship website last Mar09. He sign up the website is to look for exchanging language friends. He has never dated online, don’t even know what is ‘online romance’ initially and after chatted for 3 months, he said he started to feel funny that ... (473 words)

I want to fix my marriage, but I'm not over the man I had an affair with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [MOD NOTE: Three questions into one] Hello, Long and short, i had an affair and can not get over my lover. Trying to work it out with the husband, but can not seem to get my lover out of my head. I have heard this is normal, but i just want to be back in love with my husband. ... (255 words)

He is so confusing! Is he afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age - What is going on with this guy? My ex and I keep coming back to each other but then he pulls away again. Last example: I went away for 3 weeks. He called me when I was away I did not call until I got back. The minute I called him back we got together for dinner that night ... (193 words)

I love my girlfriend, but I cant stay faithful? How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a women and I love her but I like having sex with other women. I want to get help for my promblem. What can i do? ... (28 words)

I think he wants to try again, but we are both afraid to take the next step

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age - I broke up with a man three months ago. We see each other often due to my child's hobby. We had lunch last week and it went very well (were talking for 1 1/2 hours). He knows I have been meeting men on-line with no luck. He also has dated but, had not luck either. I have ... (185 words)

If I masterbate am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys pls judge me. I have never make sex with any woman in my life. I think outside marriage sex is a sin but on many occasions I get attracted to porn pictures or scenes in movies. I helplessily find myself masterbating. Pls am I still a virgin or not? And to the christians ... (59 words)

Do you think I was TOO harsh with my ex? Should I apologise?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - It's me again, with the ex problem. Okay so I bought the Magic of Making up, and the guy who wrote it says that if I want to get back together with my ex I need to not have any contact with him for a month and write him a letter telling him these things * That I agree wit... (869 words)

How can I get over the break up, when he is so happy without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just been wondering about breaking up and how both partners feels toward it I broke up with my friend a month ago and I still feel pain in my heart until the moment We were happy and he decide to break up , I accepted that he doesn’t want me but why , why l... (361 words)

I kissed another man because I thought it was my fiance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Idont know what to do I admitted to my fiance of two years that I kissed another man but it wasnt intentional. I thought the man was my fiance and I pushed him away after relising it wasnt him. I know it seems hard to believe. I broke my fiance heart and I dont want to lose him... (135 words)

My best friend has been spreading lies about me, and now I feel very alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel very alone. I had a falling out with a best friend as she betrayed me. Now, she has turned almost everyone against me by spreading lies and rumors that paint me in a very bad light, all of which are completely untrue. I have not stooped to her level by spreading rumors ... (301 words)

How do I know when she has an orgasm?

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30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What are some good indications of a female orgasm? and im also a bit confused about their 'cum'. thanks... (19 words)

Ideas for our three month anniversary

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are approacing our 3 months tomorrow, and these 'milestones' so to say are important to us. I was wondering what I could to to show that it means alot to me if I cant see her because of school and the like. For our 2 month I stayed up till 12 to text her ... (77 words)

Is there any way of making a threesome comfortable for all involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About a year ago I was with a girl, and one night we almost had a threesome with one of my best friends (male), that I wasn't particularly comfortable with. Just after we'd got things started off we were interrupted by a couple of friends having a domestic next door, and then ... (166 words)

I love my husband but our sex life is dull! Can I really last a lifetime of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been married for just over a year and have been together since we were 16. We were each others firsts and used to really ennjoy sex. However, recently (past 4-5 months) I have found that our sex life is almost non existant. My husband doesn't want sex ... (189 words)

Our first attempt at sex was difficult...but is she still a virgin now or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone I'm 21 and my girlfriend is going to turn 18 soon, we have been together for about 8 months now, I've never met such a wonderful girl that is open to talk about anything, yesterday we decided to "try" as we are both virgins, We fore-played and when I had to put ... (219 words)

He's with a girl he cheated on me with, but I want to look past it and try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy have been together for seven months he alway use to say i fuss to much when we broke up we were still seeing each other over the summer and i just found out he was dating this girl i use to hear people say he talked to when we were together to make a story short ... (156 words)

Should I tell my female teacher how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female and I'm in love with a female teacher.She got me thinking am I bi or lesbian? Ever since I've been her teachers aid , I know we had a connection.She likes when I'm around and I visited her a lot.I'm 18 and she's 27. I graduated recently so thank god that it's ... (166 words)

I didn't have sex with her because she was a virgin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I started dating my ex when i was in year one in the University. We where so much in love. As time went on i became physically abusive but i didnt want to have sex with her partly because she was a virgin and i believed sex is not love. In my fourth year she broke up with me ... (248 words)

The more he knows I'm interested, the more he slips away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm really confused and i dont know wat to do theres this guy i used to like but i stopped liking him because he kept ignoring me all the time so my feelings for him went away..i remember one night when i went to a concert i kept trying to get his attention but he kept having h... (344 words)

How do I know I"m not in the relationship just for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guy simple question but might have a complicated answer. how do i know im not just in a relationship for sex? im a 17 year old male andim just wondering how i could know if im not just in a relationship subconsciously just for sex, i recently found out im not going ... (75 words)

She won't go to a hotel to have sex because she says its "dirty"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hello, I have been dating my gf for close to 2yrs. The first six months we had great sex. However we stopped for a while since her mom started staying home and we had no place to have sex. We love each other very much and we often talk about everything including sex. I always ... (194 words)

After girlfriend's seizure I'm not myself, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll just get right to it, I'm 16 and I can't masterbate anymore. My girlfriend has this problem that causes her to have seizures. It is now 8/30/09 and she had her first seizure since we've been dating on 8/27/09 I guess that's only 3 days but I was extremely upset. I cried ... (117 words)

Liking him but he has a girlfriend, do I call him? Text him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi.I like this actor who is a similar age to me, we are both in our twenties.I met him for the second time tonight, as i went seeing this show he was in again.He recognised me straight away and gave me a hug, it was him who held his arms out first to give me a hug !. I think i ... (491 words)

I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

30 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for me). It was quite a soul-... (460 words)

Why did this happen and why did I taste like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Heey. I'm 16 years of age. Yesterday my boyfriend (who's 17) and myself, had sex yesterday (doggy style)..now..after that we did the 69..i sucked him off as usual and he fingered and licked me out as usual...BUT! when he was fingering me and licking me out, i bl... (155 words)

Both were drunk and couldn't keep it going, was that being "whiskey drunk'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im an 18 yr old female, the last 2 guys ive had sex with, ive only slept with once each, with both guys in both situations we had been friends with a little bit more going on, both times the guys were drunk but i wasnt. both of them during foreplay had gotten almost ... (194 words)

We had sex and now bumping into him is very awkward!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently and very unexpectedly had sex with a guy I had just met from the neighbourhood. I thought he was a half decent person and didn't expect much afterwards. However, I ended up getting much less. Initially it was decided that we would get together again, but I didn't ... (189 words)

Does he not have to check with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid.org: My question is this: I have been married for 25 years and recently I asked my husband why he was randomly driving around a neighborhood we do not live in. He preceded to tell me that I shouldn't ask him that. That he is 47 years old and he can go and do ... (135 words)

I'm married and I've turned into an angry PMS bitch!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 13 years, and I've turned into the angry PMS bitch in the last 4 years or so. It just keeps getting worse every day. My husband just keeps getting dumber, and doing less. He will do "girl" work like wash dishes, bake cookies, and totally ignores ... (232 words)

G/f likes to watch porn while having sex!

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30 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this woman(41, I'm 40) for several months now. She always wants to have a porn flick on when we make love and I really hate it! For one thing, it's a distraction! I want to focus on her, not what some bimbo is doing to the mailman, etc.! Don't get me wro... (230 words)

Sex, pregnancy, and itchiness

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im now in a new relationship and well we have had sex twice.it was incredible not going to lie hes my second person to have sex with. And he and i looked at the condum and well i guess he came were not sure if it was pre cum or actually him cumming..i was on top and im ... (111 words)

Why he just joking? Why did he do this?

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - O.k.. When i was younger about 15 i was dating this guy. We dated for a while but never had sex.. we broke up when i moved and i didn't see or hear from him again until seven years later. i just recently ran into him again and we have been seeing each other for about five ... (424 words)

He keeps asking me what I like sexually and I don't know how to answer it!

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a guy I really like, but he keeps asking a question I don't know how to answer. More than once, he has asked me what I like in bed, or what turns me on, and I really don't know. I've only slept with one guy besides the one I'm currently seeing, so I guess I don't ... (130 words)

After 1 week I'm having dreams about the home room boy

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: Obviously this poster is NOT 40,please answer accordingly. Hi Everyone, Im Clearly Meet Someone This year his name Is John hes cute,Funny,Smart and we make each other laugh and we get along amazing he in my homeroom and in the morning we hang out one time we loo... (140 words)

I feel like I married my father

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 yr old female with two children. My husband and I have worked hard to get accomplish the American dream. We depend on each others income to maintain and if I leave everything will fall apart. What about my kids? Here’s the thing……. He's extremely critical of me and ... (216 words)

I don't like it shaved!

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30 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am what I think is a straight male. I however, cannot get aroused over a shaved pussy. There is nothing more repulsive than to see a five oclock shadow, stubble or worse, pimples! Now that ALL women shave and as I believe, we as a society are heading to a hairless lifestyle, ... (71 words)

B/f says he is goingthrough an identity crisis..what dos this mean?

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had been having a good relationship since our last break up, which was almost 7 months ago. Anyways, I thought everything was going great, he was being very attentive, sweet, and just perfect; but 1 week ago he started to get distant. He won't contact me ... (177 words)

After 1 week he's already having problems being in a LDR???

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30 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I truely appreciate the time that each have taken to read and advise me through this. this first paragraph is the background, so you can have some type of context. if you do not wish to read all, skip it.. I have been dating my boyfreind for 10 montsh now. What i like ... (425 words)

Should I tell my wife the truth that I don't find her sexy unless she is slim?

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30 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. First time poster. I've been with my wife for 10 years and we have been married for 4 years and I love her very much. She is my best friend and we get along really well. Sure we have the odd argument but we normally talk things through and overall we have a very str... (235 words)

When asked what is wrong, all husband will say is "Nothing"

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what would likely b the cause for this,he is very confusing,and i do get a lot of mixed message's also he has never been physical abusive. this is one of the extreme's.Description: if your husband never seemed attracted to u in any way,no sex,wont talk to you,pick's at you,c... (125 words)

Why won't my boyfriend be intimate with me?

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help with a very frustrating relationship problem I have. I've been with this guy for a little over a year now and at first he just seemed absolutly perfect, he was extremely nice, caring, fun, good looking, but now whenever I'm around him I just feel so insecure. You ... (417 words)

I like this guy and want him to know how I feel, but I don't want to make things awkward!

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm an average 17yr old girl and i'm in love. Simple as ... or so I thought. Here's some more info... I have never been with a guy before and have only kissed in games of spin the bottle. This new guy walks into my life and we get on really really well. I have hin... (146 words)

Lust or love not both?

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30 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, i only was marry for 11 months but since the beginig of the marriage i catch my husband waching porno, so for me that's was a red flag (my husband was a bachelor for almost 47 years he was never commited to any seious relationship)so we begin to go to marriage c... (132 words)