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writes:hi, i have just lost my man of three yrs because of my jealousy and insecurity. I came home after 2 many drinks and told him i wanted to be by myself and i wanted him out of my life.well this is not the first time i have done this and now he is gone. i feel i have done too much damage and think it is best i leave him to move on with his life. i am wondering if i should call him up and have a yarn with him, i feel disgusted with myself, but i think i have lost the best thing that ever happened to me. can someone plz give me some advice.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Sned him a card saying sorry, and that you are going to start looking for some help outside, as you realise that this will end up ruining the relationship , and tell him how much you value him. I really hope he comes back. :o) XXX
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Stop drinking. Call him and tell him you're sorry and that you realise that it's only because of the alcohol you said those things and you're willing to give up the booze to keep him around. Keep your word.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Alcohol does terrible things to people!! I think you should call him and apologise for your bad behaviour and then leave it up to him to decide whether he wants to be with you or not.When drunk we let down out inhibitions and say and do things we dont have the courage to do when sober. You have told him that you want to be on your own, so he is giving you the space.Apologise and hope for the best!
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