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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

First time anal sex and nervous about it. I need some tips.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend, have done everything in the bedroom, and we're both curious and we would like to try anal. Im very nervous about this, i was woundering if anal sex is painful and if so how painful? and does it get easier through time? and also anytips on how to make it ... (68 words)

23 year old son wants to meet with a girl he met online. Is it safe?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age - Our 23 year old son lives with us, and he's in university doing a 4-year business course - it got delayed for financial reasons. He's doing well academically. However, he told us yesterday he wants to meet this girl he met online - he got talking to her via email after m... (179 words)

I'm not as talkative and social as he wants me to be. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so me and my bf have been dating for now almost 4 months and he's a really social person. Flirts and talks with whomever. Im not. I honestly could care less about talking to people. I would much rather just sit there and read or something. It bugs him that I don't talk ... (80 words)

Voicemail from my partner's ex has made me paranoid!

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner has started talking to his ex again and I'm getting paranoid but he doesn't know I know. I found out the other day when I was home and he had left his phone at home. It started ringing and it was his ex. It then beeped saying she had left a voicemail. Now I... (308 words)

After two children, any ideas on how to tighten back up?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering that I have two kids now and i was wondering if anyone has any solutions how to get my vagina tighter so i feel more comfortable with having sex with my partner again? I feel that Im not fit for him anymore that I have had two children please anyone let me know ... (58 words)

Period issues and I'm getting a little worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have abit of period troubles. i am normaly regular and dont miss periods. but this time i am 8 days late. i am normaly late but i feel like i have missed this month. i have only been having periods for about 1 year and nine months. i am also having lower back pain ... (88 words)

Was he interested, and I shot him down?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Was he interested and I shot him down? I was taking private lessons at a school and I started to become attracted to my teacher (were both adults). I thought maybe he was too, but was not sure. I never knew if he was being nice because he was my teacher or because he was inte... (168 words)

Why do you think he gets so nervous around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, was just hoping you could give me some insight There's a guy who i really like, and have done for about a year now. For months I have noticed that he is very nervous around me and i'm wondering why? Here's a little background for you; He found out i liked him almost ... (386 words)

His ex is still in the picture. What should I do?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I was seeing this guy in the beginning of the summer and things ended after two months because "the ex came back into the picture and he had to "figure things out." He confessed this to me out of the blue. I was so shocked I didn't say anything and cut ties with him. Then I ... (189 words)

I have had enough! Do you think I should stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had enough! do you think i should stay? I met my current boyfriend through friends in my first year of Uni. We became good friends and started dating after 2 years later. We have now been together 3 years. The main problems are: 1. He lies to me, he says its bec... (406 words)

How do I get over this awful feeling of not being the first with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age - My wife of 48 years lost her virginity when she was 14. To this day I cannot get over it even though she told me about it while dating prior to getting married. How do I get over this awful feeling of not being the first with her especially since I have never had sex with a v... (61 words)

Just being friendly? Or does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right. So. Here's the deal. There's a guy I know from school, the same age as me. Let's call him X. We hang in different groups completely, let's say he would be in the popular crowd and I'd be in the 'geek' crowd if you like. Until a couple of years ago we never really spoke ... (352 words)

Boyfriend's ex stalks me but I'm scared to tell him...

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a bizarre problem and was wondering if anyone could give me some advice about how to deal with it. My boyfriend was with his ex girlfriend for 2 years and i know they meant loads to each other. they had a pretty rocky relationship and they hurt eachother l... (534 words)

We're apparently good friends, so is there a reason why we hardly talk to each other?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused...erm if you read this your a saint! And if u even attempt to try and think about it and reply to me....well your officially the best! You see, I'm very confused about one of my friends...he's male, we went to college together but we have now left. Thing is I... (818 words)

My parents will reject him for ethnic reasons. How do I make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. I'm having a huge problem. Me and my friend have been talking for a while and we really like each other, we recently began dating and it will be a month soon. He treats me exactly how I deserve. So caring, and nice, just really makes me feel loved I haven't ... (181 words)

Do I quit him or confront him? Met online, seemed sincere, lied about his job.

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22 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - After an exhausting break-up with my ex, I met this wonderful guy online. He seems like a really nice guy. Our conversation was always decent. We talk about our professions, our jobs, our families, our dreams in life, our likes and dislikes. We even talked about our exes and ... (287 words)

Constantly butting heads!!! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

- Don't know what to do about long term relationship that always seems like its in turmoil. B/f very emotional; blows up easily. I try to keep things calm but it doesn't always work out. He snaps at me and I'm learning to snap right back because he has changed my personality from ... (487 words)

Other than age and long distance, why do you think she won't go out with me?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OP asked two questions and they have been combined to save room for other OPs on this page. Question 1: Here's the story. I'm 17 an my last year of high school and have a crush on one of my friends from camp (19) who is going into second year at university. I worked up the ... (385 words)

Am I in way over my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HELPHELPHELP!!! ILL TELL YOU THE STORY! AND HOPEFULLY YOULL BE ABLE TO HELP ME okay so me and this guy ..#1.. were going out for three months, but he was to nervous to kiss me or anything, and he was 16! so i broke up with him, because i wanted to date someone who wasn... (387 words)

I don't know why I'm so sad all the time, I don't think I'm pregnant? please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First I wanna start off by saying I'm not pregnant I'm on birth control, but this started happening maybe a month or two ago, I've been getting really really emotional over little things, it mostly involves my bf, like just now he's gone somewhere because today's his 21st ... (169 words)

Should girl pursue guy or should guy pursue girl?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to know if I have pursued this guy too much or if I'm ok. I want to be a bit of a challenge for this guy, I want HIM to pursue me but I'm not sure how this whole pursuing thing works. He was the first to ask for my number, first to text me but i was the first to cal... (312 words)

I've been out of the dating scene for a bit so I'm not sure how to contact him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy travelling, nothing happened but I like him from start, we hung out together for a bit and then hooked up there last weekend, I really like him but am not sure how he feels. I want to get in contact with him either by text message or FB but am unsure of what to ... (88 words)

I don't know how to ask him about seeing other people.

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on 3 dates with a fantastic guy..! but how can i bring up the topic of seeing other people..? Its not something i want to do, and want to know if he is in the same level without sounding like im coming on to strong..! Is it to soon to have this talk? and how can i go ... (70 words)

My ex has moved on and I am not happy for her.

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex has broke up with me 3 weeks ago, we were together for extactly 2 years, i m in a very bad condition now, i m thinking about her every single second, i want to forget her completely but cannot at the end, she has already someone, n she said that she is very happy with him ... (362 words)

I like my ex and another guy

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i'm in a bad situation. My boyfriend and i broke up almost two weeks ago because he told me he lost feelings for me. We had sex, so i'm still sort of clung to him. Let's name him Jim. There's another guy who is so sweet, he's absolutely perfect. He's more ca... (208 words)

Playing games? Or likes me?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I kissed this guy a year and a half ago but the following night he said that he was drunk that night. I met him a few times since but nothing ever happened and we just talked. I bumped into him in a bar last weekend and he apologised for what happened a year and a half ago. We ... (118 words)

Webcam rumour and name-calling

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Moderator's note: OP asked two questions and they have been combined to save room on this page. Question 1: This is a very long story but I'm gonna try and make it as brief as possible. Quite a few months back I decided to create myself an msn account even though my mum clear... (566 words)

Just had back surgery but want to have sex & try anal

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex and we will use lube and a condom. he is very trusting and i know he loves me and he said he will take it slow. anyways like a month ago i had back surgery, i had scoliosis and they put rods on my spine and i want to know if anal ... (112 words)

When does communication get better in a relationship?

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22 August 2009 (F)

- When does communication get better in a relationship? My b/f and I have these stupid fights and it's always over the way we communicate with each other. Example, the light bulb needed changing in the bathroom. They are special lights; the light bulbs are small and fragile. He ... (393 words)

Should I tell him I read what he and his ex were talking about?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I went on vacation last week, and we met up with his ex-girlfriend and her boyfriend for drinks. My boyfriend dated this girl for about 2 years and he stopped dating her about 4 years ago. She emailed him the other day and he left his email open. So I read it. ... (136 words)

Crush on friend how do I act?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the story. I'm going into grade 12 and have a crush on one of my friends from camp who is going into second year at university. I worked up the courage to let her know that I liked her, even though I knew that she didn't like me. Although I am disappointed, I am fin... (150 words)

My boyfriend has alot of baggage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello people, i need some advice on my situation.i have been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year he's a really nice guy we both have children, i have twins from a previous relationship and he has 5 kids by 4 different women. there's no baby mama drama as a matter of ... (136 words)

How much does love matter in a relationship?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How much does love matter in a relationship? Can you be happy with someone who gives you everything you could want but you are not in love with them. By that I mean, a family, a home, money, a great social life and their love. Long term is this enough or will you always ... (72 words)

Should I tell her how I feel through an email?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In my senior year of highschool I had strong feelings for a teacher I had.I had her my sphomore year too,but I was just her TA my senior year. I'm in love with her.yes it's not a crush.i would always visit her during passing period we would always talk. I'm 18 and she's 27.not ... (200 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Am 22yrs old guy and have never had sex with a girl, but i do go through romance. But recently what all my friends talk about is their sex life. So i decided to disvirgin myself, so i met one girl and decided 2 sleep with her, but the girl has seen many men. So that day... (134 words)

How do I breakup with him and not break his heart?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three months is going to college 4 hours away and he wants to stay together. He's such a sweet guy and I know he cares about me so much, and offered to drive back and forth at least once a month, but I think it's a bad idea. I'll be a senior in high school, ... (120 words)

I can't get erect when I'm with my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been with this girl for about 4 months and we just recently got to the sex stage. The problem is, I am erect or can get an erection up until we get naked, then it just goes away. I can get erections around her and when I'm alone, it's just when we get naked it goes ... (140 words)

We've been sharing at each other but what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay.. i started highschool the 17th im a freshman and ihad my locker moved 2 times, first time the locker didnt work, second they gave me a locker someone already had, so they gave me a new locker all the way on the other side, before my locker was on the other side of the ... (294 words)

Should I tell him the way I feel or let him be with this other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help!! Basically the story goes me and my ex boyfriend met each other and talked the whole night at our friend’s 21st birthday party. Then about 3 months later we got together it was fab at first we were smitten with each other, but then after a while it got really ... (811 words)

Do all male djs cheat on their girls?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sounds weird.i've Just met a guy hes 19same as me of the net.. but hes a dj and well known in his area cuz he's really successful for his age.we have unlimted clals to eachother he spends most his spare time talking to me after our first night and day of talkinn he went... (124 words)

I've been in love for five years.. how do I make it go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so completely and utterly stuck, I do not know what to do. I'm trying to move on from the woman I fell in love with and I just can't. I'm just back at school now - I had an eight week summer and I thought I would have moved on from Ms. - the woman I have bee... (546 words)

I really want to be with him but is he just messing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE HELP! ok see i have a best friend who has a boyfriend called sam, and sam set me up with his best mate kabir (yes his mums indian but hes british, but he follows the muslim faith which can intefere with our "relationshp" becuase his parents cant no about me) and we have ... (262 words)

Is my dad forgetting about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, my dad and his ex girlfriend were together for 10 years they met when i was 5 and im now 15, and now he has a new girlfriend i hardly ever see him anymore, like he is going to the V festival with her and her family and when i asked if i could go he said there were no ... (104 words)

Husband lunching with one of my female colleagues. Should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has come to take me to lunch at work, if I couldn't go he would ask one of the the other girls to go, someone always went with him. Thinking about it now it was mostly the same person. I feel this was a bit off. We were only a few minutes from home, or I think he ... (90 words)

I love her and want her back, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a girl three years ago I was 27 she was 18, we fell in love and moved in. Now I am 30 and she is 21, we were due to get married next month and had been trying for a baby, we were happy, then 3mths ago she got a new job and a guy started getting close, she told me he ... (185 words)

My feelings about group sex have changed - where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been aking for us to have sex with another couple for years now. Before we were married I have had 2 foursomes (2 guys/another girl) and they were ok, but the first one ended my previous relationship. I have also had a threesome with another girl with my husband ... (192 words)

How do I talk to this unreasonable man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has really been upsetting me lately. The relationship is only new and he already expects me to start sharing sexual fantasies and thoughts with him...though I am not comfortable doing so because I am still a virgin and have never opened up/talked to anyone in this ... (167 words)

Should I text him to see if he wants to meet anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - yesterday i got asked out by a really cute guy,who is pretty shy and polite.i gave him my messenger ID,my phone number(he asked for them) and he gave me his phone number as well.last night he texted me and told me he's happy we got closer to each other and we'll talk tomorrow ... (124 words)

Why did he take the condoms with him? How should I handle this issue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. I would like some advise. I have asked my friends but i feel that the more advise i get the better i can handle the situation. I met this guy, rather oddly in the street, about two months ago. ( we live about 200 miles from each other) We have been exchanging post,... (301 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and the guilt is taking over my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have guilt that is eating me alive every day, multiple times a day. 5 months ago I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years, the man I am sure I want to marry one day. I don't know what got into me but at the time I felt like a different person, I felt like I wanted to be single ... (220 words)

I'm torn between these two girls...I don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok well a few days ago i posted a question about my ex and how i was falling in love with her again. Heres a link to that qestion which you may have to read to understand this one. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/after-a-difficult-break-up-i-still-love.html Ok well that g... (1160 words)

She told me to change after we broke up, but I can't! I just want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year,i broke up with my ex-girlfriend.She told me to move on and get over.She is over me but i am still in love with her.Every time we talk. I always bring up the past which makes her doesn't want to talk to me again which end up having a short conversation.She told me to ... (71 words)

Is he not happy with me? And if I am this insecure, should I be in the relationship at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going to give lots of detail so that I may get a more objective response... My fiancee (B) and I have known eachother for 13 years, but we've only been together for 10 months, engaged for 6. We had tried dating before, but long distance was difficult and he liked to move... (953 words)

Things are changing in our relationship, including our sex life! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girlfriend and I have been together for around 8 years. Things were great we always had fun together but over time she started taking me for granted. I left her for awhile then came back, I missed her alot. Everything was good for awhile but it went back the way it used to ... (292 words)

My boyfriend said he likes me but not as much as I like him. I want to be with someone where the like is equal!, but I don't want to give up on him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend tells me that he likes me but not as much as I like him. I want to know how I can go about that because I am only 16 but I tend to express my thoughts and feelings a lot. It just comes with my personality. My boyfriend always mean what he says otherwise he would ... (131 words)

He's not being as affectionate as he is usually...could he be cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a few months now, we have talked about kids and moving in together and the future already. At first he was the sweetest guy ever. And all of a sudden the past 2 to 3 weeks hes just been an ass. Once in awhile he will be sweet but not to ... (94 words)

What excercises should I do, and what food should I eat, to help me lose weight?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. i know this is a relationship advice site...and my question hasnt much to do with that, but i was wondering if you could help me out. im a 16 year old teenager, who is about 5'5". i weigh about 145 and wear size seven jeans. i want to loose weight and am wo... (96 words)

After dating him again for the second time, I slept with him. Now a few days later, he hasn't contacted me! Was I used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What does he want? Recently i met a gut out at a club and we were dancing a bit and kissed. I saw him out a few weeks later and he asked me for my number and we started going on little dates, like to the movies and stuff and we would kiss but that was it. A friend of mine fou... (256 words)

I feel like my boyfriend and my best friend are a little too close! What should I do?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend calls my best friend much more than he calls me. Sometimes, he'll just spend the whole night on the phone with her and not bother to call me at all. They do little surveys together (they've done atleast around 15 by now) and post their inside jokes from their co... (297 words)

Why does my girlfriend only come for a short while whilst having sex?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have one question. While me and my GF having sex, after a while she losses her juice in the pussy and it gets dry. So of course it starts to heart her. Please help me, I am really worried about this. Thanks to everyone who try to help me.... (54 words)

Does he like me, or only see me as a really good friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this great guy for about three months and recently, we've been hanging out a lot I really like him (he is 25) He is a really nice guy, which is why its so hard for me to tell if he likes me as more than a friend. I know he is single and he doesnt have too many girl ... (193 words)

How can I start trusting him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf had been together for about 13 months but i always had trust issues with him so he left me,we broke up for 2 months and just got back together 5 days ago.Now its even harder because i found out he got a gf while we broke up but he didn't last a week with her,he ... (167 words)

Is it wrong of me to want my husband to give up porn for his family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong that I want my husband to give up porn for his family?... (15 words)

How can I tell him I'm interested, in a subtle way?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - There is this great guy that I really like a lot and I don't know how he feels about me. I'm 38, never been married and my last serious relationship left me heart broken and lacking confidence. What can I do to subtly let him know I'm interested? I don't want to make him ... (72 words)

What can I do to make my next kiss better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OMG! so today i had my first real kiss and it ended up being the most awkward thing ever cause i didn't know what i was doing...so for future reference, WHAT DO I DO???? HELP!... (35 words)

How do I end things with him and get over him dating another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and me and this guy have had a thing since 5th grade, I'm in 8th grade and we've been on and off a lot. I'm going out with him right now and he's so confusing. He can be the most amazing, and sweetest guy ever, but sometimes, mostly..he is the meanest guy ever. I keep ... (151 words)

What should I do so we can be best friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who i have know since i was in the 4th who was my best friend(im 19 btw). but after the 8th grade we lost touch because i moved to another school and im in my second year of college and only seen him twice since the 8th grade, and i jjust recently found out he ... (133 words)

Why was my boyfriend so horrible to me in front of his friends? It hurt me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I understand that guys will be jerks to you infront of their friends but can you just please tell me about it. I am very heart broken because my sweet boyfriend of almost 9 months was an arrogant asshole to me today, for the first time ever. I mean I can't believe ... (459 words)

How do I find out if my ex wants me back, or at least misses me?

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22 August 2009 (F)

- Should I contact my ex or not??? My ex broke up with me. Butttt it was partly my fault. I kind of influenced him to break up with me. See we had a fight because I wouldn't do something for him (which went against my values) which he wanted me to do. So I said to him "what doe... (404 words)

My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me because he feels like he is missing something. It's taking it's toll on me!

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my boyfriend have been together sence highschool and lately evry now and then he gets to thinking that hes missing something becuse hes been with the same person for so long. and that he will never get to experance the college life. he tells me he feals like hes been ... (208 words)

I'm starting to get the feeling she's cheating on me with her boss!

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a young guy and i have a beautiful girlfriend whom i love. We have been together 3 years and plan on getting married. She is 22 and currently doing some work abroad as part of her career. She has been gone 3 months now and I'm starting to get the feeling she is cheating on ... (210 words)

Why is my boyfriend being overprotective all of a sudden?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very confused at the moment. My boyfriend wasn't always like this. Why is he being overproctective all of a sudden? Are these signs of a controlling relationship? - I can't even talk to my guy friends. There was also a fistfight ordeal, that I don't really want to t... (151 words)

I like a guy with the same same as my brother and it's really bothering me!

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm madly in love with a guy right now (but he isn't my boyfriend; I haven't told him I love him yet), but he has the same first name as my brother! Whenever I try to think about the guy I love, out of nowhere a thought of my brother pops into my head and ruins everything! All ... (121 words)

Should I tell this woman that her husband was cheating on her?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a bit of a dilemma, my new girlfriend has admitted to me that before we got together she was having sexual relations with a man who is engaged over the period of a few months. She shows no remorse for her actions, and i really think i should send an anonymous email ... (107 words)

I'm feeling insecure after giving birth and our sex life is dieing. Please help!

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22yrs old and my fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years on 10/24/09. We also have a almost 3year old daughter. Since I had her I feel insecure about my body and only want to have sex w/ the lights off. He tells me that he's getting board with our sex life ... (99 words)

I'm pregnant with his child and hes verbally abusive

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi My husband and i was going thru tuff time, i thought that it was over, so i made the biggest mistake by cheating on him.he decide to patch thing upwith me and move on,so 8 months later i told my sitter what happen so she use that against me, i kick her out, so now my husband ... (238 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend to stop having anal sex

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22 August 2009 (F)

age - my bf said he wanted to try anal sex with a man....it was his fantasy. I said he could try it. now, he says he wants to see the guy twice a month as he needs anal sex. he says I won't be replaced ever but if I want him to stop, tell him now and he will. I refuse to do that. I ... (120 words)

I'm worried I will get rejected but my friends say go for it

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Ive got myself into a bit of a problem here, you've probably heard all this before, but this is new to me and its driving me nuts! Theres a girl that I like...alot. Alot being I must be thinking about her once every 5 minutes, it's really hard to describe how I fe... (200 words)

Is she trying to make me dump him? Who should I believe?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age - help i have been seing a married man for nearly 7 years we get on great have had loads of holidays together and functions etc all was ok until his wife done her detective work and found about about us. He left her and moved in with me for the last 2 months and monday night he ... (280 words)

Do you think he loves her and will treat her better than he treated me?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex was manipulative and verbally abusive, in my opinion. His mother was terminally ill so I felt sorry for him and let him get away with a lot. He told me that he is emotionless and insensitive. He would call me names: stupid, hoodrate, whore; and date behind my back and ... (242 words)

Was having sex with him a mistake? I can't get over him

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, there was this guy i met about a year back at a football game,, i have always thought i would never like him, well at least not as more then freinds. well one day he added me on myspace and had appeared to have changed..alott! we started talking immediatly,, he messaged me ... (483 words)

What can I do to get girls to really like me?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i get girls to like me? i need some tips and tricks. im 16 year old and alot of the time get on with girls but when i ask them to go out or meet up or do they like me more than a friend they say no they just want to be friends...Any advice?... (57 words)

How can I move on from his online emotional affair?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband was having an emotional online affair. It started the day before our 18th anniversary. It took place with a girl he went to school with. He would sleep until 3 or so in the afternoon get up and be online with her till 4 or 5 that next morning. So the kids and I never ... (198 words)

My ex is spreading rumors about me. How do I handle this?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay there is a lot of little things I could say about this but I think I can keep it very brief. My ex gf is spreading rumors about me. I was 100% loyal to her although she was not to me. She is now with a guy who I know is not loyal to her. However somehow she finds it ... (108 words)

Is it better to loved and lost than to have never of loved at all?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,, Well, recently i have met up with this guy who i reallly like. I think i am in love with him and i think he feels the same. We text practically from when we wake up to when we go to sleep and i can't stop thinking about him. I visit him a lot and he is coming to visit... (204 words)

When he holds me all I can think of is his betrayal. Is breaking up the answer?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i gess the best way to ask for your help is to just tell you the story. iv been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and for the first 9 months i wasnt aware of any problems between the two of us. there was a constant bother from his ex but at the time i trusted him ... (380 words)

Should I play the player?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 8yrs ago i fell hook line and sinker for this stunning man he had looks,charm,flash car, lots of friends made me feel like the most amazing woman in the world!! then i found out he had other women on the go he was a PLAYER!! i was broken hearted to say the least! well he has ... (150 words)

I said something I shouldn't and I'm afraid hes going to split from me!

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16. We met a while ago while he was on vacation here and we liked each other a lot, so he asked me out. He lives 7 hours away and we're in a long distance relationship. Before last night, everything was great. He is the most sweetest guy on ... (381 words)

Will it always be this difficult to make this relationship work?

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22 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I don't relly know where to start. I have been in a somewhat shaky, on again, off again more off then on relationship for the past three years with this persom. Most of the the break ups I will have to say has been her fault. Wanting others things, going back to ex's and ... (402 words)

Should I take the plunge and destroy their marrige or stay friends?

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22 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love him, he loves me but he is with another woman because thay have a baby together. We have a history together but are just friends right now. He has never loved his babies mum and says he will leave her tomorrow if I would be with him. I dont want to split up a fami... (179 words)