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Am I gay if I like anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - she was on her period so we had anal sex, it was all good but afterwards she asked if she could bum me, i've always wondered so i let her ( she used a strap on ) It felt so amazing, i started thinking afterwards, does this mean i could be gay?... (52 words

I'm falling for my sister in law...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 41-50 - ok i want my sister in law she is alwaus talking to me about her husband and her having problems and what he did to her and she tells me how she had dreans about me anand stuff i like her alots but im afraid to make my move on her i always give her money everytime she comes ... (120 words

She doesn't give great handjobs...how can I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ladies i need some advice i don't want to upset my girlfriend but i don't like the way she gives me handjobs she never pulls my foreskin all the way back to stimulate my bellend my ex did this and felt great any ideas of how you would tackle this please... (51 words

I slept with my friend's girlfriend, then caught him cheating too! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - Okay so i slept with my best friends girlfriend ( well there on a break ) and i felt reallly bad about it becuase im not a mean guy, so i went round his house one night to tell him. Anyway, cutting a long story short i walked into his room and saw him sleeping with so... (71 words

He's making excuses and I'm sick of it! How can I tell him this without ruining anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - okay so this guy and i like eachother, we aren't dating because he doesn't want to rush...we have had these feelings for about a month! we have already had sex twice...i feel like this is going nowhere and that i am wasting my time...i don't want him to be my boyfriend because ... (180 words

Can't get that "other man" off my mind! I'm married and I want to just get on with my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for several years and I am very much in love with him still. Although we have been going through some tough times, I've always known that I want to be with him. I am going through a really hard time right now because I met someone. My heart feels ... (204 words

She can't love me..but how can I make her love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - How can you make a woman you do love, love you?? Even though she already told you that she cannot love you?... (22 words

He dumped me because apparently, I didn't communicate enough! Is this a good enough reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm not quiet sure of what my question is but was hoping some people can shed some light on this scenario so i can understand things better to move on. recently a boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke it off with me, out of the blue. it has been the best relationship ive been in ... (263 words

Am I pregnant..how long before I take a test?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - Ok well hi, I just want to know if I should get a pregnancy test or not. im 17 and I lost my virginity on July 8th. I had sex 3 times that day WITH a condom, then once more on july 11th with a condom. They didn't break or have any holes that we could see. But my period was due ... (177 words

Break up after 7 years...will I ever get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - ive just finished with the love of my life of 7 years, my question is how do i get over this? will i ever stop thinking about him? should i stop all contact as we still talk online ... (42 words

Is there a way to cope with continuous rejection by guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - is there any answer to continuous rejection.guys don't like me no matter what i do .i need help please. can some one anwers my question its really up setting me i never had first boyfriend and let first kiss.guys just continuous hurt me and i did nothing to them.they cal... (77 words

I'm jealous! He spent more on his ex than me! How do I shake these feelings off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend went into debt buying things for his ex. But he doesn't spend very much money on me- he did learn and grow wiser from having made so many mistakes from that relationship but I am still mildly jealous that she got him to spend vast amounts of money and I c... (85 words

We broke up and I'm lost without him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - i just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and i truely thought we had something special. he told me we'd be together forever and he even knew when he was gonna propse. im lost without him, i know it sounds stupid but i just really need someone to talk to, no one round here ... (174 words

I heard Mom and Dad having sex and now I'm disgusted! How can I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - i need some help on this one well one night i was lying in my bed and I heard my mum and dad having sex i then felt really sick looking at them the next day i felt disgusted with them. is it normal to feel this way towards them Im to scared to talk to them about it if anyone ... (77 words

He's dumped me twice before and now again! How do I get things back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 years has just broke up with me due to alot of problems. He's now saying he doesn't have enough feelings to be in the relationship with me. He's done this twice before so how do i get things back on track?... (45 words

Should I have someone check on my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - My husband treats my like a queen. However he has lied to me about some very serious issues and some very petty issues.I don't think my husband is sexually cheating on me but I get this gut feeling that something isn't right either. When I get this feeling it actually makes me ... (91 words

Should I ask my counsellor to be my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - hi im seeing a alcohol counselor for my problem. she also teaches dance class on a tuesday that i have been going to only, for women. i would like to remain friends with my counsellor i am not in love with her should i ask her about friendship i dont know what to do. i think ... (106 words

I have been left heartbroken and I can't funtion! What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey. My boyfriend has recently broke my heart. I started a new job about 6 months ago and there was this guy that worked there that I got on really well with. As the months went by we started gettin really close. Two months after I started he asked me out and I sai... (223 words

Please tell me...does he like me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - hey everyone, ok so there's this guy that i really like and i'm not sure if he likes me back. last week me, him and a group of friends went to sixflags and me and him would get on most of the rides together. here are some signs that make me think that he likes me........... (197 words

My boyfriend's ex is having his baby and I feel jealous

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I don't know where to start... When I first got together with my guy, I knew his ex was having his baby, and I seemed alright with it. I was warned, when I first met her, that she wasn't actually a nice person, in fact, she was manipulative and has done a lot of awful things ... (448 words

Mother in abusive relationship, won't leave, I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - hey im 13. my mom has been in a relationship with this guy. over the years he has started getting more and more controling. they fight every single dayy... okay well last year we have bought a condo.. my mom cant afford it on her own and he helps her pay so he always argues.... (578 words

27 never in relationship, I don't seem to attract the right guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - hi, i am a 27 year old girl whose never been in a relationship. i am not that beautiful, but i think i look nice. but as the years pass by, i don't think any guy is attracted to me, and i'm starting to have the feeling that i'm lonely, especially that all the girls that i ... (91 words

What's this guy up to? It's like he wants me to NOT like him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - me and sam were together for six months but then he started to argue with me for me to not to like him no more. i told him how he was carrying on but said he dont know why this happens to him so he decides that he dont want to hurt me. so we become friends. i explained that i ... (132 words

It seems like its his friends or me..and I don't want to be stuck in this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for about 8 months now. We ussually get along great. However, we have a small problem: his close childhood friends. His friends mean the world to him and him them, I totally appreciate and respect that. They have known each other for years and are totally ... (292 words

Why is sex so good only after emotionally intense moments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Why is it that the most incredible sex/love making seems to take place after an emotional moment between two madly in love people???? I mean we have been together a little over six months but we have known each other a year, and the sex is usually really good, but he doesn't ... (111 words

LDR and he has no phone or internet access

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, bear with me, this is a long one. My boyfriend and I ave been in together for just over 3 months. We have been Long distance for 7 weeks now - i was travelling and now he's travelling (both independant plans we'd organised months before we met). Everything has b... (354 words

Tips on giving a guy oral

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok we I have gave my bf oral a couple times but I think he doesnt enjoy it he says he does but I just feel like he's just saying that. So I wanted to know what will make my guy love the oral and ask me for more any tips? Things guy love and enjoy?... (56 words

Is this the start of any affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am confused about whether I am in a frienship or the beggining of a relationship as I have lost confidence and self- esteem . I am divorced with three children after my husband walked out on us. I have known a this guy as a friend for three years and he is married. Sinc... (141 words

Do men like sexy eyes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - Do you men like sexy eyes? what so special about a woman eyes? men always look into my eyes and tell me how pretty they are but that is the regular response for a woman like me who like nice comments, I was at a resturant ordering something to eat when a man said to me baby ... (89 words

I like Ricky..but Trey asked me out! what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - So there is the guy, we shall call him Ricky, I am hanging out with. As Ricky explains it and it did start off that way, but now its changed. We are still hanging out, but when we do...we don't act like just friends. We stand there and he will hold me. There will be times he ... (313 words

We're both married, its been 10 years, why is Ex contacting me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 51-59 - Hello, A couple of days ago, my ex-girlfriend (Girl-A) sent me a message through my Facebook account. Here is our background story: Girl-A and I dated for about six months, ten years ago. I broke up with her to date Girl-B, who later broke up with me. (Karma?). Having rea... (424 words

Could I be bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - (i am a 16 year old girl)ok, so for the past year now i have been questioning my sexuality. i have gone out with one guy before and that was cause i have never gone out with anyone before. that was in 8th grade and then i had to break up with him. since i moved i dont date any ... (165 words

Why did he leave his cellphone with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so if yu guys seen my other question then yull know who im talking about. if not then hes just my lover. ok so the guy that i live with was going to go to work today but he said here take my cellphone, and i was like why?he said idk fer safety. i dont have my cellphone r... (123 words

What are signs of a good marriage? And what are the signs that it's time to leave a marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - What do you think when is a marriage not worth it anymore? When do you think it;s time to leave? ANd what are the signs,if your marriage is a good one?... (33 words

I love my boyfriend but don't want to be intimate with him... could this have anything to do with my pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much...we have fun he makes me laugh and were expected a baby in about 4months.but i just dont kno what happened.maybe becuz im pregnant but its like i dont wanna have sex anymore with him like i really dont like it.i just do it cuz he want it.at first ... (100 words

Please tell me how to get over this breakup...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hello everybody my name is alex and i am 22 years old, and im on here because i seriously need help with my situation i have talked to many people many friends but i feel like i need the outside of this world for help,and i need to get this of my chest and i cant take this pai... (932 words

My children are horrible, my husband is impotent.. I'm lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age - I have very serious problems with my 5 children. They are all totally messed upon different ways. None of them has a relationship, and all of the dysfunctional on different ways. They had been in therapy, and several other ways to help them. We tried to understand it for ... (262 words

Loving someone that loves someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi I am a twenty years old girl, im dating this 27 years old guy. I like dating older guys because they are mature and also i want to settle down and have a serious relationship. He told me about his ex, they were dating for 9 years so I asked him if he still love her and ... (152 words

I'm participating in his affair but I don't want to be..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - I just got out of a abusive relationship and all my past relationships were either abusive physically or emotionally or both, my question is how do I stop currently having sex with my boss who is married. I used to always say no but I finally gave in and said yes and now we ... (141 words

I need help in my decision to lose my virginity and have a baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey... im a 15 year old girl. and i jus wana no wat people think and if they have any advice.. ive been in a relationship with this boy for jus over a month. and i reli wana lose mi virginity and have a baby!! i no people are goin 2 say im to young. but, i reli dont no ... (125 words

My son is dating a much older married man and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - I found out from a good family friend that my son (he's 16) is in a relationship with a well-known local judge in our area. The friend said he'd seen my son drinking coke with this man, and they were kissing passionately in a Pizza Hut together in the far corner of it. H... (414 words

What's going on in my ex's head??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 41-50 - Myself and my ex went for a meal last week. I thought it would be a good idea to see if i had still any feelings for her. As she told a friend of mine she was depressed i thought it would be a good idea to bring her to a park she loved, however when we got there it was closed ... (267 words

I'm in love with my best friend... how do I get past the friend zone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and I am bisexual. My best friend is also bisexual. We recently came out and told each other that we like each other alot. She says she thinks i could be the one.. and i think the same thing about her. She just broke up with her boyfriend so were ... (114 words

I broke up with my girlfriend and we tried to be friends, but now she's distancing herself, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - my ex gf used to be very caring ...and a big opportunist 2 talk to me ...she was damn crazy abt me and loved me from all her heart when we were going around ...then i dumped her because my feelings changed and we became friends ...she was obsessed and i did all the tactics of ... (183 words

How can I please a woman and make myself last longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - how can i make myself last longer in bed and allso how can i easly make a women cum... (19 words

My married lover went back to his wife when he said he wouldn't!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm in love with a married man. he was thrown out of his home on several occasions. 4 out 7 times he came to live with me. so the last time he said to me he wasn't going back. he did!!! I'm so hurt over it but knows I got to move on ! please help me understand this issue... (60 words

A few questions on pregnancy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - can you get pregnant from anal sex? my friends say that it won't count as you losing your virginity and you can't get pregnant.also can you get pregnant if he pulls it out before he releases sperm can you get pregnant? thats also what they told me but i still would'nt do it... (53 words

Do guys prefer slim girls to chubby girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - i wonder if guys like skinny girls more than chubby or fat ones?like one day it was this guy and he was in the restaurant sitting down then he will look at all the skinny girls and say hi and stuff.but when a fat girl went pass he didnt say anything. but laughed and she really ... (81 words

How can I stop my husbands excessive partying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone I got married 4 months ago and my husband has changed for the worse. I'm a security guard who works for a large security firm (my shifts are daytime at an office in a large city, night-time at another business who also hires the firm I work for), my husband is... (514 words

I'm In a terribly sad place in my marriage, and want to leave, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 51-59 - I am in a terribly sad place and am looking for any advice from people who may have been through something similar. I was married in 1991 when I was 24 to a woman that is a few years older. Since then we have had 2 wonderful kids and lived a pretty good life in terms of ... (773 words

I'm falling for my cousin...but he has a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I slept with my first cousin about 3 weeks ago.. i then started to care for him very much and he the same. i dont know what to do bc we text eachother and talk everyday. it is becoming a long distance relationship, bc he lives 2 hours away. I do nothing but think about him. he ... (197 words

Don't know what to do with myself after this breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - So I recently broke up wit my boyfriend. We were together 2 months. Not a long time but I felt we had a very good connection. I got introduced to his family and he was introduced to mine. I only really seen him twice a week in the end. But one day when I called him he didn't ... (191 words

How can I deal with this? Found supervisor naked with my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - My workmate was staying with us after a party and when i had gone to bed she seduced my husband-i came down stairs to find them both naked. the following morning i didnt mention it to her as i was in shock. My hubby and i have discussed it and are able to cope but the problem ... (117 words

Am I miss out on things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey all. Im 17, and so is my boyfriend. We have been together two years. Dont get me wrong, our relationship is fine; we have ups and downs but who doesnt. I love him, and imagine one day starting a life with him and all sorts. The only thing is, lately, i've been feeling.... (145 words

Are there risks in marrying a man whose never even kissed anyone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello I was just wondering if there is any risk in marrying a man who hasn't even kissed or been with another woman sexually? Is there more likelihood for cheating and/or divorce? Thank you =)... (35 words

I'm having an emotional affair with my cousin and don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - I'm married and not in love with my husband. I've been with my husband for 12 years.I have been in love with another guy every sense my teenage years. The catch is he is a 5th cousin. I've tried to keep it a serect even from him but I told him and we have been seeing one ... (134 words

Stick around? Stop talking? or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and half and I resently broke up. Neither he nor I have told anyone of the breakup. Is hard for me to believe it happen. He says he wants to take me back but I need to change because I annoy him too much. He is also talking to other girls right now and ... (320 words

How do I get over losing my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18, and cos my mom went through a lot of stuff with my dad, cos she was pregnant before they got married, she advised me to keep it until I got married. I was going to, and I did until I got to uni. Just before the school year ran out, however, my ex- bf cheated ... (299 words

Do you think I'm being unfair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship and living with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years.Some problems have risen regarding my childrens father who is a prisoner and my boyfriend who is a correctional officer that could possibly cost my boyfriend his job since he is associating with a ... (209 words

I have no idea what goes on in my head. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - What is wrong with me???? I don't understand it. Ever since me and my ex broke up, which was 3 years ago, I have been wanting someone I can have something special with. To have true and real love and someone who will love me who I can love back. My ex gave me such a passio... (592 words

What are lube bottles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - what are lube bottless?... (4 words

I've found out my wife is a slut

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night stands, some where just ... (146 words

My boyfriend and best friend have been fooling around whilst I was on holiday, how do I talk to them about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now he's 15 im 14 and sexually active. im worrying as recently i went to Turkey on holiday and when i came back i found out my boyfriend and supposed best friend have been playing a question game. a sexual question game. t... (158 words

How do I tell him that I need some more time without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - About a week ago I dumped my boyfriend of two years. It was the hardest thing I've ever done and I never want to go through that again. The reason that it was so hard is because I do love him, and I still love him. He is my best friend hands down. I don't have many people that ... (336 words

Is it possible to wait for my husband to get over his midlife crisis and create a loving relationship with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - Is it midlife crisis or narcissism? My now ex husband of 19y had an affair with a coworker, refused to end it, divorced me, left me with our 6 children to move out of state and marry his pregnant gf. He financially supports our children, but for the most part pretends we ... (319 words

I cant seem to move on from the last relationship - should I give this new girl more time or break it off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 51-59 - I am recently out of a long term relationship. I started to see this girl for about three months now. I thought I was ready for a relationship when I met her but I feel like a black hole. I have given it three months and she is a great girl but I can’t seem to move on from ... (82 words

How can I stop wanting him back so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for close to a year. It was long distance, but we were making plans to move in with each other and my boyfriend had proposed. I accepted his proposal and we were happy. Being 18 and a senior in high school I could not go down to where he lived until I ... (278 words

This girl is making me feel like I'm going crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - Am i going crazy? am i really like this or does she just turn things around? this past weekend the girl ive been talking to sure made me feel like it... She had been really upset about her ex the last week for whatever reason and kind of ignored me cuz she was "SO" upset so ... (275 words

How do you know that something bothers a guy?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - How do you know that something bothers a guy? My friend his friends like to pick on him by calling him fat and poking him in the stomach. Or sitting on him and I feel really bad about it. Even though he looks at me or laughs. I feel like it bothers him or that hes embarassed in ... (104 words

How to get an angry ex to meet up face-to-face so I can apologise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a 3 year relationship, broke up 5 months ago on Valentine's. After the break we remained good friends - best friends. We hang out together often, do everything together, hang out with his classmates and all except for saying "I love you". A platonic ... (650 words

How can I convince my mum and dad to allow me to spend time with my boyfriend alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - My mum and dad wont leave me and my boyfriend alone. Hes 17 and im 15. We do love each other. But were not aloud to be on our own in a house together and were not aloud upstairs. I want my mum and dad to stop worrying so much about it. I just want to be on my own with him . I ... (106 words

I want to run away with my boyfriend because my parents wont accept him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone i wrote a few weeks ago about my parents not accepting my boyfriend. and me and my boyfriend have decided that we want to leave except ill be running away from home but his parents will know im scared and there is something that is holding me back and i dont know ... (159 words

I'm curious about sex and want to try masturbation, but I cant seem to get myself off!

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10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am entering an awkward stage in my pre-sex life, now that I'm curious about what sounds like a mind blowing experience that a good majority seem to enjoy. My goal is to wait until marriage, but I don't want *it* to hurt, so I've tried masterbation. Problem is I can't seem ... (98 words

For the men out there......how do escort/massage review forums work?

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10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - Recently I confronted my husband, of 13 years, with some postings I found on a local escort type review forum. The postings gave me the impression he had been visiting Asian Massage Palours as well as visiting escorts. He says that he made up the reviews based on what he... (209 words

He hasn't seen his "girlfriend" since May last year, but he still wont break up with her!

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have this major problem with a guy at my work. I have never met someone who is so easy to talk to and we have really in depth conversations, he's like my best friend. Of course, naturally I developed a crush on him, although now I would describe it as far more than that. Its ... (455 words

I'm worried the girl I am dating will get back together with her ex when he comes back from Iraq!

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - alright here it goes... iv been seeing this girl for about a month now. we hav hit it off very well her friends love me and mine love her... we are not officailly an object yet but pretty close. weve had sex a few times alredy and hav hung out every day since we met. here is my ... (197 words

Not once has he said he loves me but sends messages to his other girl telling her he loves her and misses her!

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - i am stuck in a relationship thats not really a relationship. we started to talk back in 07 and still talking. only thing is that he is a lier and a cheat. see when we first start talking we were not a we just fb's but i got attached and some how he did too. but he just cant be ... (228 words

Someone told a guy at work that I fancy him and now he treats me like dirt!

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - I fancy this guy i work with i fell for him the minute i met him but someone told him i fancied him and we dont really speak anymore he use to smile at me a lot now he does nothing i dont know what ive done i dont think he fancies me at all i wish i could get over him because ... (106 words

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

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10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. So a little more back gro... (613 words

I'm pregnant and worry that man can't be trusted, am I being taken for granted?

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10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I;ve just stumbled across this site and hope somebody could help me find some clarity. I've been with my partner for just over a year and a half. He seemed like he doted on me in the start and was so absorbed by me that he didnt seem to ogle other women. A few month... (577 words

He seems to be testing me to see if I like him!

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10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - hi, im badly needing some advice as what to do without going mad! i met a guy on holiday we got on really well. he wanted to keep the relationship going when i returned home and keep travelling to his country and him come to mine sometimes. i told him i wasnt prepared to have a ... (170 words

What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?

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10 August 2009 (M age 41-50 - Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "degrading" In sex with my partn... (331 words

My girlfriend is too shy to express her real feelings!

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - hey everyone, im having problems with my gf. shes great and all but shes just too different and she kinda scared me. she acts really weird acting as if she tries to avoid her true feelings, when im trying to be serious she turns it into a joke, her mom judges me differently, ... (211 words

Back in the world of dating again, and finding it very confusing!

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok so I joined an online dating website and the main reasons for this are because I dont have the time to be going out and meeting people due to my job, and I've just moved to a new city where I dont know many people hence I thought using online dating would be the best option ... (527 words

Is there a chance I am pregnant from his pre-cum?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I had sex for first time...we didnt use a condom but he didnt come in me..the problem is im worried about the pre-cum because i was told it can pregnate you.. well, he hadn't ejaculated before and he peed since the last time he had ejaculated(as i found on the ... (76 words

I like being in a relationship with a man, but like having sex with a woman! What do I do about this?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - This is a really weird problem... I love men...but i dont like having sex with them... but i love being in a relationship. But having sex with a woman is wonderful but i don't want to be in a relationship with them. What do I do? Both are equally important... the relationship ... (74 words

I've been left broken hearted... do I stay at his place as 'friends' or leave?

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10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hey all from broken heart, Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me , and he clarified to me that he doesn’t want me anymore, I live in his place since 8 months He told me to move , I am destroyed , exhausted , dying , Today I talked to him about the possibilities of thi... (184 words

I'm building up resentment for my boyfriend because of the things he says to me...I don't know what to do !

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10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Living together for 4. We have had some tough times but seem to have come through them. The problems we have are nothing new, it's mostly communication but he constantly reminds me when I've done something wrong, what I'v... (224 words

She says she's not interested...but her actions say otherwise! Do you think I've got a chance?

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old male who has fallen into a very well known hole. My best friend is a girl, and its nothing new, but lately my 'more than friends' feelings have been really stressing me out. We originally met through another close friend of mine whom she dated. Pretty much ... (360 words

How can I meet single women who's marriage material, without them being put off by my lack of experience?

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10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - I am 25, nearly 26 years old and still a virgin. I have also never had a girlfriend. When i was younger, i was extremely shy of women and of people generally but i have always managed to hide my shyness by coming across as aloof or arrogant. At 19, i realised that i would never ... (292 words

I want to be in a relationship with an older man but I'm unsure...what do you think?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so Im 17 going on 18 next year and I like an older guy and hes 26 years old going on 27 in september. Were friends and hes really nice. I know just because guys are nice doesnt mean theyll be like that all the time. And because of our age difference. Im wondering what you ... (78 words

My boyfriend doesn't tell me he loves me or does anything with me. Do you think he wants to be elsewhere?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi i am 21 and my boyfriend is 24 and we have 2 kids,he does not tell me that he loves me anymore and he wants to everything alone. we use to do everything together but not anymore.... well i just want to now if he wants to be with me or does he have someone else or does he ... (66 words

What size condom?

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - I was wondering what size condom i would get if my penis is 7.25 inches long, give or take a little, and about 5.20 inches in girth... (27 words

I just can't accept that men always look at beautiful women!

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - My first boyfriend ever left me, we were together for 3 years and we had some issues because he was jealous of my past. This had some impact on my self esteem, and I started feeling more and more ugly all the time (I've always felt ugly because I've been called ugly all my ... (391 words

How do I stop wishing he would come back to me?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I graduated high school two months ago, and though we're not going to the same college, we had never really discussed what was going to happen with our relationship this fall. We're both virgins, and recently he started pressuring me to have sex. I'm not ... (359 words

If I don't start it, we don't have sex

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hey I am 23 years old and can not figure out why my husband to be dont want me anymore. We have been together going in 4 years now but in the past 5 months he has not wanted me sexually. What is wrong with me? What can I do to change this? He is 22 years old. We use to have sex ... (112 words

Oral sex--tips to do, not to do

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10 August 2009 (M age 51-59 - hey guys and gals, oral..... girls hints and tips on what you love when a guy goes down on you........ guys hints and tips on what your partner loves you to do. my wifes clit is so touchy that i can only give her oral for a couple of minutes before she can not bear it anym... (88 words

G/f slept in bed with a former fling!

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10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - I just found out from a friend that while I was away for school (my girlfriend and i lived in different cities but saw eachother every weekend and some weekdays), she slept in another guys bed with him. I know they did not have sex but I don't know if anything else happened. ... (116 words

How to get my wife more interested in foreplay

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10 August 2009 (M age 51-59 - hello all, i have been married for 11yrs and we have 5 children together. we had a bad split up but are back together now. my wife did play around while we were apart. since then to me sex just hasn't been the say(in my mind i wonder if she did it the same way with them.) any ... (122 words

We went too far and now she doesn't want to do anything

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend has recently lost an interest or 'need' I guess you could say in intimacy. When asked about it, and I spoke with her about it, she said it was because the last time we fooled around we went too far. (Keep in mind we are both still virgins.) I can understand that ... (107 words

He wants sex once a week and I want it every 2-3 days!

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. i had a month old son when we got together, who is now 3, and he has raised him as his own. how awesome is he right? ... we also have a 2 year old daughter together. well of course we have had our ups and downs and have ... (339 words

I'm single and missing sex!

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Basically I'm single again and really missing sex. My supervisor's noticed I'm not getting much work done - I just can't concentrate on anything, it's really bad. Has anyone else had this problem? What do you do to satisfy your cravings when you're single? I masturbate but that ... (188 words

Where can I meet girls?

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 17 Year Old boy..who Looks very Handsome..and I haven't had a GF in 6 1/2 Years..I Usually come off as Too cocky and girls get offended..well My question Is where can I Meet Girls My age Besides the obvious Malls..movies..And Party's...and when i get There Information How ... (57 words

Does he just want to hook up for sex?

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10 August 2009 (? age 36-40 - Same problem with my ex. Except we're not talking now because I chosed not to. I want to get back together offcially. He said to be friends and hook up so that he can see if he wants to get back. I said friends is fine but no hook up. (Because I don't want to feel us... (120 words

Will one of us wander while we are seperated?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and eight months now, starting when he was a sophomore and I was junior in high school. I am about to start my sophomore (and final) year at a local community college and he's starting his freshman year at a university 6.5 ... (191 words

Whats a good gift for a lady whom you are intimate with?

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10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - I have sex with a woman I really like and wanted to get in bed. I would like to give her a gift to let her know that I still think of her. Any advice for giving a gift to a woman you have had sex with? Does lingerie make a good gift for a woman you have had sex with? Ladies w... (72 words

How do we handle the situation at the B&B we'll be staying at?

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10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been seeing a younger man The other night my young man took me out to a nice dinner and he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away It is believed there is nothing more wonderful than feeling sexy, and beautiful, and being pursued by a younger man... (193 words

Performance anxity or erectile dysfunction?

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10 August 2009 (M age 51-59 - I'm having erection problems during sex but don't now why. I almost always wake up with strong morning wood. When I masterbate, which maybe I do too often, I have no problem getting hard and ejaculating. When I'm with a woman, sometimes I'm fine and the only problem is ... (212 words

I'm willing to do almost anything but he'd rather watch it on the computer!

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10 August 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hey - I have been having a little problem for a while now regarding my boyfriend of 3 years. He is a great guy and i love him. But our sex life can be a bit lacking at times and i find myself knowing some things i shouldnt- because i snoop. (wich i HATE doing - but it's lik... (560 words

I'm afraid everyone I date will leave me just like my dad did

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10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - I love this guy, no doubt about it. And he loves me back. He wants to date me but I just can't. I have had so many problems with anytype of relationship since my dad walked out of my life a year and a half ago I tried everything to get him to stay, but now whenever I go out ... (112 words

What is going through his head?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy at the beginning of the year at a college group who has stared ever since we saw each other. I am talking more than a few seconds. It's like 5 minutes whether I return it or not. One time he stopped in the middle of the kitchen when we were all leaving and stared, ... (391 words

What will people think seeing me working in a restaurant?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Well I think this may seem juvenile, but I've been getting bad anxiety about this and it's making me lose motivation. I was living in a large city, but I ended up getting laid off my job and moved back home, to my much smaller city. The city isn't so tiny, but it isn't big ... (353 words

One of my boyfriend's friends loves him!

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10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - A few days ago I found out that one of my boyfriend's friends are, apparently, 'in love' with him. And that he may like her back. I love him so much, and that thought is making me go crazy. I can't stand the thought of him being with someone else. It makes me feel downright ... (91 words

Reopening a huge can of history - would you contact him?

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10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hello there. I really appreciate your listening as well as your advice. Its kind of a doozy. But I will keep it as short as possible. My bf and I broke up about 8 years ago. Mainly, because we were young and he was embarking on a career that would land him around the world. H... (356 words

Desperately in need of some sound advice, one-on-one

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have an incredible amount of confusion going round in my head at the moment and its driving me crazy, like I just really need to talk some things through with anyone that will listen, but all my friends see me as the easy going one, like I dn't let things get to me so they ... (176 words

Should I get involved in a FWB relationship with my ex?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - I just broke up with my child's father. The best thing in our relationship was sex. It was awesome. There was never a time when it wasn't good. We've been broken up for a month and have had sex twice. It would have been more than that, but a few times I've said no and so has ... (132 words

Just out of a bad relationship and this other guy wants to date me. How do I tell him...I'm not ready!!

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - I just got out of a tumultuous relationship with my child's father. I don't want to be in another relationship right away. I just want to hang out, mostly by myself, go back to school, take care of my girls and just get a grip on life. But my ex-boyfriend wants to come back in ... (311 words

He says he can't orgasm during sex as he masturbates too much! It isn't me is it?

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10 August 2009 (F - My bf says he has never been able to ever cum when having sex with any girl that he has had sex with. He can however when he masturbates himself. He says he cant come during sex because he has masturbated so much. For him to cum he needs it to be REALLY hard and fast. I feel ... (121 words

Not sure if I should date her, as she has a baby! Any advice?

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - she's really fit and i would like to date her, i know she likes me too, the problem is she has a baby and im not sure if im ready for that commit ment what should i do *-)... (39 words

Met another guy..how do I tell my current bf I want a break?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I met J online 7 years ago and we became friends. After two years of emails, letters and phone calls, he confessed his feelings for me. I did have feeling for J too at that time. We've been together for 5 years now and have met each other twice in real life (since... (329 words

I don't have feelings for my bf but I have kissed this other guy! What do I do now?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years.We've always had a very strong friendship but we no longer seem like a couple and haven't slept together in 5 months. A few months ago while on a work night out his friend(who is also a friend of mine and who i've liked for a ... (138 words

After dating, this younger fellow,he tells me he wants to be with a woman closer to his age! Advise appreciated

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10 August 2009 (F age - 3 months ago I met a lovely man and we had an almost instant connection. We shared the same intellectual level, and revelled in each others company. Our friendship deepened and we became intimate. The big problem was that he is 50 and I am a young looking 69. I own my own ... (160 words

We're great friends..but how do I tell her I have fallen in love with her?

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10 August 2009 (M age - i hae been seeing this woman for about 2 years and i do not know how to tell her that i have fallen in love with her.all this time we have been great friends we share the good and bad times together. we have had small dates like going to the movies and dinner,walks in the park... (127 words

Why is my ex bf making contact after five months?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - So I dated this guy I was totally crazy about for three or four months. We broke up because he "wouldn't commit" because he claimed he was too busy and felt like he shouldn't get involved in something serious because he will need to move to complete his residency (moving to go ... (358 words

His ex gf is trying to break us up and I'm upset! Am I wrong to feel this way?

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10 August 2009 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. His best friend is a girl. They dated before, but it didn't work out. She is still in love with him, and she even admits to it. She is always trying to start things and break us up. She is always mouthing me. My boyfriend ... (144 words

My husband won't french kiss me! What can I do?

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10 August 2009 (F age - My husband has never french kiss me. He just have sex with me. I feel very lonely and rejected. He says he will never french kiss any women. He works hard and help me around the house a lot. He keeps our house up good. we have one grown daughter and in good standing... (85 words

She's a friend I like a lot..but she doesn't have much spare time to date...what the best way to approach this?

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10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - hello I am writing as I need advice on my current situation, i deeply care for a friend and would like to hook up with her as more then just good friends, my problem is that she is a carer for her disabled mother who suffers from pain issues due to a bodged op in the... (151 words

I want to spend more time with my boyfriend. How do I get him to come over?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend has been dating for 6 mouths and he never wants to come over he says he loves me and i say it back and i want him to pay a little more attention to meh how do i do this ... (56 words

I'm becoming attracted to me best friend's ex.

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10 August 2009 (M age 30-35 - i've started flirting with my best friend's ex girl, i never thought of her as atractive till she told me about her sexual fantasies and such, now i feel like i'd love to tap that, but what do i do?... (40 words

Why does a guy who thinks you're great keep backing off?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Why does a guy who thinks you're great keep backing off? I've been seeing this guy for 3 or 4 months now and we really don't know each other that well still. We can go for over a week without speaking (I don't like to contact him twice in a row without a reply first). I've met ... (197 words

Please help.. she tried to make me jealous I think, and it worked!

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10 August 2009 (M age 36-40 - i am a 24 yrs old male. i had a sex with my coworker who already has 3 kids and is 29 yrs old. she is divoreced and loves sex. we had it for 3 times now.it was my 1st time in life that i had sex with her. but now, i think i am really serious with her and i like her.also, I ... (131 words

I can't cope having a purely physical relationship.

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I know I'm young, so I'm not going to naively throw the word 'love' around, but if there ever was anyone, it would be him, I've had strong feelings for him for nearing 4 years now, we've always gotten on really well and known how we've felt about each other but we've never ... (386 words

We get in fights all the time and don't have anything in common. what should I do?

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10 August 2009 (F age 26-29 - Well.....everytime me n my ex BF Jon break up and we r friends in the beginning of the friendship but then later we'll get in fights a bout somthing stupid and idk why we always get in fights with each other after we break up.....it seems like the only thing we have in common ... (94 words

How can I put our relationship back on track?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi i split up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. we met up for the first time tonight and discussed our relationship. he told me that he deffinatley wants to see me again and that he wants to take it slow. i said to him that i feel like part of you wants me and part of you ... (103 words

How does horniness work.. ?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - is it possible for a horney guy to just be horney for a specific girl? and if a guy gets horney from thinkin of you, could it be because he likes you? not just physically... (38 words

I don't know how to handle my step-dad without hurting anyone?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I dont know what to do, my step dad has just told me he has feelings for me. I have no feeling for him, apart from him being my step dad . What do i do , i dont want to tell my mum. She is in love with him. I love her and dont want to hurt her by telling her. What do i d... (69 words

Do you think she knows he's cheating on her with me?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and he's 40 and married, and we have been seeing each other for about 2 and a half months. We usually have sex in his car or a hotel room. Once after we had sex in his car his wife said she could smell perfume, but he said it was his mums perfume and he said that she ... (81 words

How do I tell him he's become unattractive to me now?

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10 August 2009 (F age 36-40 - Lately I haven't been sexually attracted to my fiance, and have been looking more at other men and women. His weight gain has increased so much, and I think that this could be why i'm so uninterested. I don't know how I would go about telling him that i'm not attracted to him, ... (87 words

Does my ex really love his new girlfriend?

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, well I'm new here. 6 months ago my heart was broken by a man I loved with all my heart. We had been arguing a bit more than usual, but we always got through it and he was as loving as ever, so it was a real surprise when he left me saying he didn't love me anymore. Anyway, ... (484 words

My boyfriend has started acting completely differently with me..

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10 August 2009 (F age 30-35 - hiya, The guy im seeing doesnt do anything nice for me anymore, he talks to me like im stupid and makes me feel like shit. Most times we make plans he chnages them and everything seems to be ok only if it suits him. He wants sex but hardly kisses me, he texts other gir... (100 words

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