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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is my Mother's problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother is in relationship and its going fab and i do like the man but she is very mean to him at times and makes him feel really bad about himself. She also makes me feel bad but i think she is playing me and her partner in a way. Because when she argues with him shes so ... (163 words)

Late thirties and single. Am I going to be on my own forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - How practical and realistic is it for a single woman between the age of 35 to 40 to find a single guy, really??... (23 words)

I can't trust him... I really need help to control this obsessive behaviour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help! Hi, I am having major problems trusting my boyfriend after he cheated and lied for the first year. We got together very soon after he broke up from a long term relationship...I think I should have been his rebound but we fell in love, he had a hard time getting ... (295 words)

I'm going to give my boyfriend a blowjob. Will a condom decrease pleasure, and where can I buy them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, im going to give my boyfiriend a blow job, and he is going to use a condom,... does it increase or decrease the pleasure for the guy if they wear a condom when you give them a blow job?? thanx Im buying condoms for my boyfriend, how can i tell in the shop which ones are... (78 words)

I cant cum when we have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of new says that he loves everything about me but I can not come with sex. He is use to getting off quick then going a second time for even longer. With me he has no urge to continue a second time. He also says its not that I am not tight I even get too wet. He can ... (152 words)

In love with my teacher and nervous about going back to school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I know I have already put a comment up about my love for a certain teacher, but we have been off for 6 weeks, we go back in a week I'm nervous as hell, I have been counting down the days til we go back and now I'm like scared. Can anyone give me any advice on.... 1.how ... (147 words)

I'm dating a man who flirts with other girls at the treatment centre we met at and is always blowing hot and cold, but I still want to make it work. How can I prove my love for him is worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy the day i got out of a treatment center he used to go to meetings in the facility and the things he said were so inspiring!! imagine my suprise that right after we started dating he was still going to meetings not to stay sober but to flirt with the ... (221 words)

Having an affair with a married woman. She's hesitant about leaving incase we don't work out, and I've tried to stop contacting her but it doesn't work! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im madly in love with a women who's been married to this guy for 8 years and they have 3 kids in common. Im in a situation were I live with my mom and sis and they pretty much depend on me financial wise, she was actually my mom's friend and that's how I met her. We been having ... (239 words)

More advice needed please! Is he just being a smooth-talker when he says he doesn't want sex with my friend unless I'm included?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age - Hi, want to know under a regestered user name an answer, my hang up is I just dont want him to be more attractied to her than I. He agreed that he would never contact her without me or would he have any sexual activity with her without me, he says it is the me part being ... (234 words)

She is my life, but I feel like nothing to her as she seems to be looking elsewhere... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I wonder if you can help me with some advice. I've been with the my partner for 6 years and we have two children togeather. Everything is perfect but I feel so sad its unpresidented. I love my partner so much and we have had a lots of downs and ups but I can't de... (570 words)

Do you think I should tell my friend he's got a new girlfriend, even if it may hurt her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey readers, I'd like your advice on my situation of being stuck between two friends. Basically, I met the guy at work, and he was my best buddy. Unfortunately, he and his wife were going through a rough patch. He started seeing a girl from work, who I had also become ... (285 words)

I want manageable hair, but also loose and sexy hair for my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel rather vain asking this question but hopefully everyone out there can give me another idea. My boyfriend likes my hair down, especially when we're having sex. I usually pull my hair up and definitely want to when it's going to get tangled and be hot (like when we're ha... (109 words)

How do I fix the hurt I caused my bestie and build bridges?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and have been very stupid recently. I have a friend that i have gradually and slowly drifted from; shall we call her Penny? Well recently i went out with a bunch of friends to get drunk and high which is my escape from my problems though i know not a very good one. I... (268 words)

Is it normal to feel insecure this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I have a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together online for 8 months now and we both love each other very much. I know she loves me, and I do trust her when she says I'm the only person she wants in the world, so why is it that I still find myself being ins... (298 words)

Tips to break up with my boyfriend please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! ! I need to break up with my boyfriend but I don’t know how; I’m 17 my boyfriend is 18 with a 10months old baby, we’ve been going out for 6months now and at the time when I went out with him I didn’t think about the emotional problems I’ll have with going out with... (246 words)

How can I bring him back into my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Small problem here. Apparently, there was this boy who fancied me around this April but wouldn't do anything to make it official as he was probably scared as i had a thing going on with another boy and he didn't want to ruin it. I have no idea how or why he did fancy me. I'... (122 words)

We broke up, now I have to see her everyday and it hurts, how do I stop the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago, she found somebody else about 8 days after we broke up and i have found nobody, i dont intend to at the moment either as i have larger things on my mind. Now i have to see her everyday at work, and its impossible to avoid her. i;m not ... (162 words)

Should I cut my family out of my life for the man I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I have been having a terrible time with my family and friends harrasing me about the man I have been dating for the last year. He is kind, respectful, and treats me better than any man I have ever been with and I am hoping we could get married someday soon. The only... (190 words)

Am I being pushy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy likes me and I like him, we talk a lot on aim but every time I ask when can we hang out he seems to not know or doesn't answer me. I don't understand. Also ever since then he seems to flirt less and less. I think I just made him uninterested in me. What do I do? ... (60 words)

Is it possible to remain just friends after an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

24 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - My situation is this, I am best friends with a married man and we have crossed the boundary. We both know what we have done is wrong and have committed to each other that we would stop. We would like to remain best friends without the sex part as we truly treasure each other as ... (81 words)

Where should we meet up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always able to access the internet bec... (225 words)

Should I take advantage of her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for about two weeks with a girl that I met online. We are compatible in a variety of ways, and we find each other attractive. However, even before we met in person, I realized that I don't want a relationship, and that I think I am emotionally unfit ... (227 words)

When I turn 18 and I'm going to risk losing my family by leaving with my step-brother, who I'm in love in. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm 15 years old. I'll be 16 in a few weeks. I have this step brother who i'm madly in love with. And he feels the same way about me. We've both been liking eachother since we were 13 and we can't seem to stop. In the summer of 2007 my mother and his father got married. And ... (241 words)

My husband and I always fighting about his adult children, and he also refuses to go to counselling. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - help! when i married my husband, he had 3 grown children who are now 26, 29 and 30. they have not achieved as he would like and hold menial jobs though all are college educated. they don't accept his counsel or advice and often start disastrous relationships. the problem is ... (316 words)

Did I do the right thing by leaving? And should I leave him alone now and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, about three months ago i met a guy in work. He said he came into my shop just to see me coz he thought i was beautiful. I'd been through depression and anxiety after a break up and wasnt sure at first. He worked in the shop and we got closer and eventually started dating. ... (231 words)

He hides his phone from me and I found condoms in his car when we don't even use them! Do you think he's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he cheating when i find condoms in the car and i know that we dont use them. but he say that they been in there. unused but its the fact that he has condoms in the car.... also is he hinding something from me when he wont let me see his phone sayin that i dont pay his bill ... (107 words)

Do you think the shift patterns they've given me is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i just started my first job in a nursing home. they put me down for FOUR 12 hour shifts in a row. I never worked this long in my life let alone in 4 days. I feel exhausted and didnt have time to wash my hair in the past 4 days, it was a nightmare to be honest. do you think ... (76 words)

Me and my husband had a threesome with my friend, he wants to try it again but It's worrying me. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, My husbamd and I have been married 6 years we are in our 40's my husband and I have sex and talk naughty about threesomes often it is very hot. about 4 years ago we went to a hotel and I got him a stripper it was hot as hell. there was no invasesive things going on. But ... (159 words)

Since we broke up he's accused me of stealing his money, and it hurts me to see him with someone else. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship for over a year with this gentalman, he had circumstances that came up and we went through some changes, and he kept accusing me of cheating and seeing other people. So therefore, he told me to go to the bank and withdraw some money to pay a bill (this ... (228 words)

How can I let go of my ex and move on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh gosh, were do I even begin. I'm 21 years old and have been in love with an awsome guy for the past 5 years . For the past 3 years it has been a long distance relationship because he lives in Florida where I used to live but had to move to newyork after highschool. I never ... (686 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I nearly cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - okay so im 19. with my bf for 2 years and love him. i went away on a college holiday. all of us were talking about which teachers we fancied the most and the tecahers were there. there was a lot of us doing this just as fun because for some of the people it was the last t... (981 words)

Should I take her back if she picks me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I were having trouble at the end of summer and so she started distancing herself and hanging out more with her friends. At the end, she said she wasn't sure if she was in love with me, and I told her after two years together, I didn't know if I could be with ... (442 words)

How do I become more confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i get more confidence and make friends, i always feel uncomfortable around people because i have no confidence because i have no confidence . ... (26 words)

Is there anything I can do to stop sweating so much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay - I enjoy sport and I play alot of it. Unfortuantely I also tend to sweat quite a bit so I end up with some pretty unattractive sweat marks and this is a little embarrassing! Would this be a real turn off to guys? Or if they are the sporting type would they understand?... (102 words)

I have a reunion with my ex in 2 weeks and now he's disappeared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the last month, my ex and i started talking again, and it's been so wonderful, he really made the effort, because he had been really hurt. and we've been talking everyday, and been planning to meet up again, for the first time in a over a year. i've moved away and he's ... (268 words)

How can I get out of this depressive state?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a young lady who has had hardships all my life and they seem never to stop.. from the loss of my mum to my boyfriend for seven years to lack of a job for a year..... though some times problems seem to overwhelm me...i never give up... 1st: i lost my mum at a young age an... (320 words)

Am I a repressed homosexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Am I gay? For as long as I can remember (I'm 30) I've fantasized about men. Everyday I end up fantasizing about having sex with men or men having sex with each ohter. I watch homosexual porn, shemale and bi stuff and I always get an errection. I have even had sexula dreams in... (302 words)

I feel like I am too young for a serious relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Im 15 and have been with the same boy now for 2 years. Our relationship didn't get off to a good start, I'm only seeing that now as at the time I was so 'in love' etc. I just thought he was great and excused everything he done.. Long story short, he w... (313 words)

I'm having a hard time being "just friends" with my wife..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I ran into some serious relationship issues back in March/April of this year. We started counseling in May/June and after 3 sessions (the 3rd one being a private one with my wife) I was told and I quote "to prepare for the end of your marriage and for us to ... (263 words)

I've had a crush on her since seventh grade but now she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, in the the seventh or eight grade there was this girl who I always thought was really pretty and I kinda liked. I was always nice to her and besides her girl friends almost everyone in our class made fun of her. I never really knew why because she was so nice and pretty, ... (171 words)

If he calls me, should I go back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age - Should i go back to the man who just left me if he ever calls me back? I have loved this man for 21 yrs now. By the way we are not married, he is single and so am I. I hope to hear from you soon. This is such a wonderful website - the coolest yet. thank you for coming along.... (62 words)

I confessed my feelings to my cousin and now she won't speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me in my cousin were sooo very close. We were each other best friend. But I started having feeling for her, and naturally confessed to her. However, she freaked out, saying it was wrong because we were of the same family. Now, i'm hurt and always crying. She isn't talking to me ... (65 words)

Is it worthwhile staying with him or should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about 9 months. We have broken up once but quickly got back together. When we first started dating, he seemed like he had his life somewhat together. He had a good paying job, an apartment, and he was able to take me out every once in a ... (370 words)

What are his real reasons for breaking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know what I want. I am successful in business, own my own beautiful home, have a good family, and have interests that I maintain. I am confident and beautiful. We dated for 5 years. We talked about marriage, retiring, building our dream home. However, there were issues betw... (456 words)

How can I overcome my destructive insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Basically I need some advice regarding my current relationship, or more precisely how I can change my behaviour/outlook so that I dont ruin it. Ive been seeing my current man, Sam since January. At first it was very casual, meeting up once perhaps twice a week for dr... (800 words)

I feel unloved and my marriage is falling apart...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel unloved and its got to the point where I can't be bothered with my appearance. My husband takes no interest in me and our marriage is all but over. He is 40 and I am 37 we have no children as things have been falling apart for quite some time. His family rejected me ... (278 words)

My bf has problems keeping it up! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for 9 months and we both love each other very much, but he tends to lose his erection when i go near him. or like halfway thru sex. but if i am playing with it, it stys hard. he says its not me and that it might be because he gets an erection as soon as ... (100 words)

He likes shemales porn!?!?!? Can I still marry him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of nearly a decade recently asked me to marry him and I accepted. Just about a month later I now find that he's been watching shemale porn on the internet! He was certainly enjoying it too! When I confronted him he tried to deny it and then became angry that I ... (313 words)

I talked about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i never liked this guy, however he would write to me and stuff saying that he loved me. i was quite young then and ignored it because i was really confused. during the time where i ignored him, i talked about him behind his back a few times. i then didn't feel so good, and... (122 words)

Best friend has dumped me for boyfriend and I feel lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In the space of a month i have lost 2 out of 4 of my best friends. One betrayed me, the other went out with my other best friends boyfriend and is in love with him so has no time for anyone else. I feel like my world has literally been turned upside down. We did everythi... (139 words)

Broken up as he didnt love me, but he still wants to have sex with me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am gay my boyfriend has just broken up with me 3 weeks ago. He says he wasnt in love with me as he lost the spark for me but said he still found me amazing in bed so the sex has not stopped. We continue to have sex when we meet. I am trying to make sense why he doesnt ... (104 words)

Had a holiday romance, the guy doesn't seem interested now we're back home, and I can't get over it! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I am still upset, and grieving after a one week holiday romance that happened 6 weeks ago now. I don;t know what 's the matter with me, but I run it over and over in my head, and miss him so badly, night and day. I tried contacting him a few times on my return h... (229 words)

I'ved moved away from my ex, who repeatedly cheated on me, but I still love and miss him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated guy on and off for 9 monthes.. he cheated on me 8 times.. no matter what he put me through i still can't get over him. i try. i date other guys, nothing works. i love him. he knows that. he just moved to oklahoma and i have no way to contact him. it's killing me.... (67 words)

For the last few years of our marriage, my husband has treated me like crap, why is it happening now and not earlier on in the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, my husband and I have been married for 8 and a half years, when we got married he was 20 and I 24, it was partly so that he could get his green card but we were madly in love and infatuated with each other at the time, too, and I certainly marrie... (797 words)

How can I warn others that he used to beat me without landing him in jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i just came across this site so i thought what the hell i'll try it:) i was in an abusive relationship which the only way i got out was a real bad car wreck that almost killed me. i have been in recovery for 5 months now i should have a full recovery. my question is a legal ... (162 words)

Could I be getting pregnancy symptoms 10 days after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex 10 days ago and since yesterday i have been feeling differant eg. i sat down to eat a sandwitch witch my stomake was rumbling for so i sat down to eat it took one mouth full and felt sick and could not eat it anymore and i keep getting these sickly feelings just ... (95 words)

What can my friend do to stop having feelings for an older guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a friend who is 16 years old and she needs help. I've advised her the best way possible but want to get a bigger perspective. What the scenario is that she likes someone who is a 23 year old male and can't get over him. There is nothing going on between them... (174 words)

Why does a wife need to know every detail of her husband's affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does the wife need to hear every detail of the affair to be able to move on. Husband has said, yes he had an affair and it's over now, why isn't that enough for the wife. Your opinion please.... (41 words)

How can I make the next time we have sex less painful? And how far inside is the hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, and have been with my boyfriend 2 months. I'm a virgin, and until him I hadn't done anything sexually. We tried having sex last week but he only got in a couple of inches before I could take the pain no more. How can I lessen the pain? We used lubricant, and lots of ... (78 words)

Dating & deadlines

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy 2 years ago, when we worked on the same audit firm. I worked there for 4 months only, and i guessed he was attracted on me but after i resigned from that firm, i could say nothing happen. We just went to movie once, lunch once, some calls from him, and emails ... (356 words)

I couldn't feel anything during sex, did he have that feeling too so he hasn't contacted me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you and hello Andrew.I justwanted to ask a personal question that's quite embarrassing but has been weighing on my mind.On Thursday night my friend and i had sex for the first time before he left for his hometown.We've discussed having sex before but nothings ever ... (245 words)

7 days pill break equals no sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are starting to get closer in bed, im still a virgin but I know he is the right guy and we're going to be togeter forever. But the only proble is im on my 7 day break on the pill. Ive heard that you're not supposed to have sex for 7 days after taking the ... (109 words)

I want my foreskin restored

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I hate being circumcised, I am not religious and I would like it if my foreskin was intact. I am afraid that girls do not like cut penises. Is there any way I can restore the foreskin. ... (37 words)

How can we improve things in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when my boyfriend and i have sex its great i love it but i wish he would show me more moves and get in to it more he said he is in to it but sometimes i dont think he is and i like to talk to dirty but he has a hard time doin that and i dont know how to make things better... (65 words)

This girl said she only appeared interested, to get at her ex. What should I feel or do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've never been good at talking to girls, so when if found someone who seemed interested in me, I went with it. I asked her out, but she always had some kind of excuse to get out of it. Then one day when I asked her out again, she told me that she was ... (103 words)

Should I try and make it work with my boyfriend of 2 years, or move on and see if me and friend have a chance together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'll try and make this quick. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been happy throughout most of those years, but of course have had our downs too. He is a year and a half younger than me and I can definitely feel the difference in maturity when we ... (295 words)

I'm scared that if say the wrong thing, he'll beat me again! Please help

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i've been seeing a guy for almost 3 months now , and on saturday, he beat me.. i dnt how to forget the images of when he beat , i love him and dont want to leave him, i love him too much, how do i go about getting things back to normal,but m scared that if i say so... (81 words)

We're getting divorced...so why is she flaunting our wedding pictures on Myspace? Is there more to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm going through a divorce right now and I'm just confused by what my ex does. It was her decision for the divorce and all that, which leaves me more stunned by her Time and time again she makes her default picture on her myspace,facebook etc.pictures from our wedding.. M... (261 words)

I'm in love with two men...and I need to choose. Has anything else been through this?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old female that has been seeing a guy that is in prison for about 14 month's now.I love him so much and what to be with him in ever way I know this men for about 10 year's and when I was 18 we had been seeing one other for 3 year's on and off and than he got him ... (678 words)

Have I lost my virginity or not?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am a 19 year old female. I have been with a guy now for a little over 8 months and We both know that we will be together for life. We play around sexually like 3 or 4 times a week. I was a virgin when I met him. At first it started off just kissing and him touching my ... (267 words)

When I tell guys I'm dating that sex is important to me, they laugh! Is what I'm saying weird?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello So, i have been single for around six or seven months and it does not bother me (right now), i get alot of attention from guys and go on many dates, the problem is if im not sleeping with the guy on the third/fourth date or time i see them they seem to not be inte... (204 words)

I want to see a gynecologist but what to tell my mother so she doesn't know I'm sexually active?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I want to see an obgyn for a general check-up. but I don't want my mom to know I'm sexually active(we don't have the best relationship where we can share everything). if I ask to see an obgyn she is gonna think im sexually active, which is far from what I... (83 words)

I told him I don't like him smoking when we first started going out, and he's been smoking on and off since. I don't want to force him to keep trying to quit, so what do I do?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have been planning our future together and everything has been great. Mostly we've been able to work through anything fairly easily. During the beginning of our relationship I found out he smoked. I told him that I was ... (277 words)

I'm scared I won't be able to commit when I get older...

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can not commit to anyone. I'm scared to commit to a person because I don't want to be heartbroken again. I know I'm young but I'm scared I won't be able to commit when I get older.... (41 words)

How can we get more intimate?

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24 August 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Me and my girl are considering getting intimate. How can we get more intimate? Ladies, do you have any ideas for this? Any ideas for getting intimate? ... (28 words)

About how long does it take to enjoy sex... since first time sex?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone :) quick question....about how long does it take to enjoy sex?? i lost my virginity last month; the first time hurt a little so i tried to relax and that worked. so the next time i did the same thing....but it didnt feel "good" when he put it in.....is it me o... (80 words)

How will a younger man react to seeing an older woman naked?

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24 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I have been seeing a younger man and we are considering getting intimate. He wants to. How will I know that he as a younger man will enjoy seeing me as an older woman naked? Ladies, do you have any experience with this? Any ideas for finding out if he would not be turned off by ... (61 words)

My younger cousin touched me in my sleep, and is now threatening to tell her parents that I made her do it!! Help!

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24 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem I'm 18 and my cousin has a girlfriend she's like 40 and she has a lil girl that's about 10 I think I know them about 2 years now they all ways come over to my house and about a month ago the lil girl (madelin) came over the house the front door was open so she ... (202 words)

What should we do to avoid risks of pregnancy?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Tomorrow is the last day of summer and I've been dating my boyfriend for a little while and they most we've done is makeout and kiss. How ever tomorrow he is coming over and I wanna go skinny dipping with him for a memorable last day of summer, not only to remember it I ... (104 words)

How can we make a transition between relationship to friendship? Are we going about this the right way?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend of one year broke up with me recently as he is too dependant on me and needs to experience life and grow up by himself. I support this and am very happy for him. The problem though is that we both still have feelings for eachother and are finding it very ... (238 words)

Do you think this guy really even likes me?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i started working at lunch with this one guy and began to like him. well after awhile i lost intrest becouse i thought he didnt like me at all. so i ended up get his number from a frined didnt call or text him just kept in my phone just because. after a few weeks in summer i ... (198 words)

I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me, how can I prepare for that?

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24 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me, how can I prepare for that? He says he's tired of my insecurities and behaviors (because sometimes I have problems controlling anger or sadness... I cry a lot and yell sometimes). We were talking over MSN and he said we neede... (199 words)

WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I need your advice on two things: WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him. I've known this guy for over a year now, but recently we were involved in something together so I got to see him a few times a week. He didn't have a car so I offered to drive... (395 words)

I know what I want, but what does he want?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really liking this guy and all. I met him off of a dating site. He lives like a hour and a bit away from me, but it's easy transit. We have gone out on dates and stuff like that a number of times now and been talking for a month and some what. I met his friends they seem ... (172 words)

Is it normal to bleed when you stop taking the pill, especially considering I have already had my period this month?

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24 August 2009 (F)

- I started taking the pill because I was thinking of maybe having sex with my bf sometime in the future. So I thought it would be a good idea to be prepared for when I am ready. I took it for about two weeks. The first week I took the sugar pills when I first got my period for ... (142 words)

Is my appearance holding me back?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to ask guys what attracts you to a woman? I am not a typical girl i am 6 foot tall, alternative looking, pierced and tattooed but i wear small jewellery in them. I have 3 in my lip and 2 in my nose. I have auburn hair its shoulder length and wavy. I wear glasses. i am ... (322 words)

Dated many guys and its always the same thing

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I have separated from my husband over an year and I have been dated many guys and the more guys I met moreI realise I will end up alone, so I need your help to know ig the problem is with me or it is just the way things are. I am lost. I have dated many guys and it is a... (206 words)

Don't want it to end, but scared I am no longer 'in' love

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancé for eight years now. I was madly in love with him and I still do love him but I am scared I am no longer 'in' love with him. I have to make a decision about what to do. We have always had hard things to deal with. Health problems, depressi... (224 words)

Every time I get too close to someone I lie! I'm horrible. What to do about my online friend?

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24 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - ok this will be long. And i have to clear this first because it's the main reason of this whole thing: I have problems with lying, since i was a younger, i was under treatment but i stopped going, i was raped when i was 13 and i'm pretty much ashamed of the way i look, i'm a bo... (1242 words)

I want to be with her, but I'm only going to pull her down. What should I do?

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24 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I met my best friend in April. We completely skipped that awkward phase at the start and soon were being more open, honest and trusting with each other than anyone else I know. She recently told me that she really likes me, I had to say no, but then our friendship got better, ... (101 words)

I'm afraid I wont find love again. I need some advice.

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24 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex broke up with me over 5 months ago. I loved here dearly and was devistated when she broke up with me. I did all the wrong things for 4 months after the break up. I kept in contact with her a lot and I acted extremely needy and desperate. It, of course, pushed her ... (227 words)

My wife has been cheating A LOT and I need her to open up to me...Any advice?

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24 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have been married 9years.... in that 9years she has cheated on me 5times that i know of... out of the 5times i have decided too get a hold of one of the guys.... me being me i wanted too see what she was acting like.... come too find out he was told by her that ... (173 words)

I'm 14 and feel like I'm breaking down looking after everyone else!

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and my mum suffers from depression everyonce in awhile she has a breakdown and says she wants to kill herself and cries everyday, she is like this at the moment and my sister has a boyfriend right now so is not helping me to look after her because her and her boyfriend ... (147 words)

I don't totally trust the pill and don't want my boyfriend to wear a condom!

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I wrote a while back with a question about the pill. Now I really do not know what to do. Basically I'm worrying a lot that the pill won't work and I will get pregnant whilst using it. I just cannot trust it no matter how hard I try. It's so annoying because... (260 words)

Whats going on with me? He is perfect now

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. and after the first 2 years he left me to be with one of my friends, i was depressed for those 4 months he left me. in between that time he would come back and say he wanted to be with me and i would take him back and i would tell him ... (720 words)

Want to date, but his best friend is complicating things. Should we not just sit down and talk to his friend?

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24 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently a friend of mine told me he liked me, and I feel the same way, we both want to take it further. However, his best friend has liked me for quite awhile but I have no feelings for him. The bad thing is, the first boy doesn't want to upset his friend so suggested we just ... (141 words)