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51-59,
*adfacegirl
writes:I have a problem where for the past 7 years or so (Im 36 now), I get so incredibly wet when I masturbate and orgasm that I have NOT dated anyone since then because of it. Well, I also don't date because I've learned the hard way that guys just want to use you for sex and then leave. I have too much self respect to be a one night or a few month stand kinda gal. I'm just mortified that so much wetness comes out. Also, even if I fully empty my bladder, urine still comes out with my orgasm. No, it is NOT female ejaculation. I am 100 percent numb inside and do not have a gspot at all. Trust me. I have tried with many past boyfriends and nothing works. Oh, and when I DO have an orgasm, about 20 minutes later, I get ''armpit Body Odor" down there. I have imagined having a great night with a future lover only to wake the next morning to him grossed out at the lovely body odor. coming from down there. I have never had an STD, never had a yeast infection. nothing like that. I'm very clean (obviously because I do not sleep around at all).....I have found out that womens deodorant helps when I apply it to my "inner thigh pits". It does kind of stop the b.o., but still, after I get myself off, it comes back. I'm just really too gross to be with anyone; from being a gyser of wetness and urine to b.o. to being internally numb where it comes to sex (I literally feel nothing inside me. Nothing at all) I don't deserve anyone. Seriously .Just had to let this out. thanks for reading.
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reader, mahelp9 +, writes (27 June 2010):
I feel your pain. My suggestion will be go to the doctor no matter how difficult or embarrassing it is and see what can be done. No one deserve to go through life without sex. Be blessed and I hope everything works out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Course you deserve someone everyone in the world does!!!!
Some men are stupidly turned on my women who get very wet because its sign that ur horny so thats a possitive not a negative and for the bad odor maybe ask a doctor about it?
Dont put yourself down!!!!
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Hi - pls go to the doctor asap, and tell him all of your symptoms. You may have vaginal bacteritis, which is actully caused by washing too much down there!! and you may have a weak bladder. The doc wil be able to help you . :o) gd luck.! nx
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (7 August 2009):
 If what you say is true and you are really urinating when you orgasm, even on an empty bladder, you might want to see a doctor. Simple as that. The two aren't even supposed to connect really. As for the smell, everyone sweats after sex and perhaps masturbating too. That happens. And where there is sweat, there will be a little bit of body odor. That's completely natural. If you think it is too overpowering to be natural however, then again, you might have to see a doctor about it. Bodies change, especially in the thirties and forties.
As for the wetness? That just might be a good thing! Haha. As long as no one has complained about it in the past, then there isn't really an issue with it. As for guys using you for sex, they tend to do that when you give up having sex so easily. Especially the entire one night stand aspect. I would just date casually until someone right comes along. There are some good guys out there, you just need to look.
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