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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ever since sex I've been bleeding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since i've had sex with my boyfriend, i've been bleeding. does this mean i have a disease or anything? we used protection but not a condom, could he have anything too?... (32 words)

How do I forgive him for cheating on me with 6 different women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i have been with my kids father for about five years we have two beautiful children together we have known each other for a total of about nine years. he recently confessed that he cheated on me with six other females, okay dont call me crazy but i tried to understand his ... (376 words)

Haven't spoken in a year but I'm madly in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was in HS I met this guy who became a good friend of mine.I never told him this but I loved him with all my heart and soul.I still love him til this day.I haven't talked to him in a yr and i'm goin insane w/out him.I recently found out that he has a g/f.What should i ... (61 words)

Is it worth waiting 2 years to be with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months and 9 days. Now our parents found out about us dating and didnt approve so we are no longer to speak or see eachother but me and her sneak around and do it anyways. Now i love her to death and she says she loves me. I am ... (101 words)

What is the medical reason that I would need birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 22 year old college student and I recently went to the gynecologist to get birth control. SHe wrote me a prescription for Yaz but when I went to fill the prescription. I wsa told that I was not covered. I am a dependent on my mother's insurance and apparently birth ... (190 words)

Why is my cousin's wife so angry with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I haven't talked to my ex for a few years now because he is a jerk, I used to be good friends with my cousins wife or at least though we were, and recently she was talking to my parents saying how she's glad that I don't talk to my ex anymore because he's a jerk, then the ... (367 words)

What should you do if you've missed some pills and have unprotected sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i just wanted to ask, if u have been on the pill but missed a few pills and had unprotected sex, what should you do? I am goin on hols next week and i gota take my pill back to back so i dnt have my period wen im on holiday. but ive put on a lil weight, havin pains that fee... (99 words)

Torn between my husband the guy I'm obsessed with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I've been with my husband for 2 years but we got married a few months ago. I'm not happily married. He neglects me a lot. He can't work due to an accident he had and part of me feels torn. Two years ago I met this guy and we've been really good friends ... (134 words)

Should I use online dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and have never been in a relationship/kissed/ect. I was wondering when and if it is a good idea to use the on line dating sites? Or should I just wait till I am older?... (37 words)

Is the first kiss really that special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is a first kiss really all that special, are any after that all that special? i mean its just a kiss...your lips only touch for about a few secs and then its over. Caus everyone talks bout your first kiss being amazing and special and magical, but its not is it? Also what does ... (134 words)

Should my friend settle to be the othe woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The back story: My best friend has had a hard time recently, starting about nine months ago. She split up with her girlfriend of about three years, roughly a year into a thirty something year joint mortgage. The ex has since been diagnosed with severe depression, quit... (503 words)

I'm wondering if my husband is sincere in his commitment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age - Just me asking for your opinions again. I know you might think I'm stupid because obviously I know my husband better than anyone out there but I need constant reassurance. Well, since I last posted I've tried really hard to not cause any upset (yes I know some of you out there... (669 words)

Every time we have sex I think about her with others from her past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well im not going to write a book, but this is really putting a burden on my sex life with my girlfriend. Ive been dating my girlfriend for a year now. She is awsome, she really is a great girl. Last summer was kinda a roller coaster, it was great until one of my friends ... (549 words)

Brother is splashing the cash and I'm worried about his mental state!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My brother's spending habits have been concerning me - he spent $15,000 on underwear - with $5000 worth of unopened Y-fronts/briefs, $10000 worth of designer suits, and also a $20000 Chrysler Sebring sedan - never driven (he uses an old 1993 Ford Taurus!). He also spent $8000... (235 words)

He doesn't want to buy an engagement ring just because he's "supposed" to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a committed relationship for five years. Of the five years, we have lived together for four. I want to get married. He claims that he also wants to get married but will not be told what, when, and how to do it by other people. When confronted about an ... (95 words)

Should I go ahead and see what happens with this relationship, or forget it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i wonder if u can help me!! i have been speeking to this Turkish man for about 1 year now, we have got really close , talked everyday spooken on phone, msn, etc!. hes a really nice man with a wonderful personality, and also he lives no where near the holiday area's s... (346 words)

If he had lost interest and found someone else, then why did he tell me he'd love to see me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, hope you can help me out! Im 17 (today =]), and have a 28 year old guy who is 'after' me. It all started out with facebook emails. He would tell me how beautiful, amazing and gorgeous i am, all the normal chat up lines i suppose. He would text me all the time, to... (229 words)

Why don't I make noises during phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 14,pretty much horny whenever I talk to my boyfriend at night and he wants my to have phone sex..I just have one question, why don't I make noises?... (31 words)

I'm worried my ex will show or mention the pictures I sent him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this has got me climbing the walls. I sent pics to my ex bf of me in my bra and now im freaking out cause im afraid he's showed to somebody cause he's an idiot now i realize it duh too late. either way im freaking out and i did this almost a year ago but it stil hau... (124 words)

Seperated and awaiting divorce but I'm not sure about dating whilst going through this process. What are your views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I separated from my husband not even a month ago and we are getting a divorce shortly when we can afford it. Well I met a guy that went through a divorce himself and has been single for awhile. He's not a huge step up from my ex husband but better in many ways. So since I'm not ... (377 words)

What do you think... does he like me or is he just being a flirt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a boy called kylen. his mate is called brandon. my friend is called sisi. basically kylen is always with brandon and hbrandon and kylen always go to the same hang out place at school as me and sisi. anyways sisi won't talk to them!! so i talk to them instead... (421 words)

My girlfriend loves someone else, should I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - we've been in love for 2 yrs now My girlfriend is in love with another guy and i saw her giving him a hand job.i feel horrible.should i carry on What can i do... (37 words)

I want to remain friends with my ex but I think he still wants to be with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All I split with my ex nearly a month ago now after 18 mths together. It was a mutual agreement basically because I felt it wasn't going anywhere with him having a lot of baggage. We have said we would stay in touch and remain friends but now I'm not sure it's such a g... (285 words)

How can I show him that I think our relationship is worth saving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd appreciate some advice from readers (particularly any males out there) on how to go about showing my possibly ex-bf that what we have between us is worth holding on to. To cut a long story short, we got together 8 1/2 yrs ago after meeting at uni. We moved in 1 1/2 y... (793 words)

I'm always worrying about getting cancer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. This isnt a relationship question, but i do need some advice. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Im a 17 year old female, and i think im a hypercondriac. Not too the extreme though. Im forever worrying that im going to get cancer. Skin cance... (369 words)

How do I tell her that she must move on if she claims he is the love of her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My Cousin's fiance left her one day without telling her he was going for good, he told he was going to another city for a job interview. After various excuses and him eventually not coming back home she realised he had left her. Her mom had just passed away 2 months before so ... (360 words)

Cooking up trouble, we hooked up, I wouldn't go far enough, now he wants nothing to do with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been looking for answers to my predicament online, and i found this website--people seem to give actual answers--so i thouhgt i'd give it a shot. i met an older guy (he's 24, I'm 19) at a place i worked for a few months. --long story short: i was a waitress, he was... (796 words)

I said I didnt know if I loved him, now things have changed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This boy says he is in Love with me. I told him that i didn't know if i was in love with him. Now he is saying its hard to talk to me did i brake his heart ? Please help me!... (42 words)

Crossdressing question...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please tell me how to enter into the world of transgenderism or crossdressing? I enjoy wearing sarees and bras I have adopted to this practice from 5 years, I can no more control my feelings can you give me some advice? ... (42 words)

How do I go about asking her parents if I can take her out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who I really like and she really likes me, I'm 17 and she's 14. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but I'm afraid what her parents might say if I took her out. What do I do about her parents??... (45 words)

Suggestions for 'freaky' things to do with my BF

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this sounds kinda gross but my boyfriend and I wanna start getting "freaky." like I swallow and he loves it and he wants me to like snowball him. like spit the cum into his mouth and make out with him. do you guys know any other like freaky things to do?... (55 words)

How do you finish when your partner gives you a handjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you finish when your partner gives you a handjob? Whenever I'm giving my current partner a handjob he will always grab his penis as he's about to cum I suppose out of some kind of courtesy so he doesn't get all over my hand or the sheets or whatever and it's safely ... (105 words)

Ex BF at the same party, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my stepdad owns a construction company and he had this guy named.."jack" that worked for him. hes 9 years older than me. i met him when i was 15 and he was 24 i think. anyways it was obvious i had a crush on him. everyone knew. i would doodle in my notebooks and everything. but ... (224 words)

Is my partner just not interested in me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and the last time we made love was 1 year ago while on holidays in Spain! Now I must agree that sex is not my favourite thing I do enjoy it now and again. I am in counselling for work related stress and now feel more ready ... (158 words)

What does the term 'romantically fond (of)' mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age - Dear All, I only joined this forum a few days ago so please excuse me if the question I am about to send in has been asked before. Basically, I have heard about romantic love and I have also heard people talking about being 'romantically fond' of a particular person. What... (142 words)

How do I give a good kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. me and my girlfriend hav been together for 2 months now. we see each other most days and well, obviously, we kiss. however i dont think i please her when i do kiss her. is there any advice someone could give on how to give a good kiss?... (49 words)

Why do I overthink everything when I'm in a close relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do I overthink everything when I'm in a close relationship? When I meet a woman I don't really think of anything other than the moment. I'm relaxed, I can be myself, there's really no problems. So why is it as soon as we get close, or rather very close, it seems ... (156 words)

My girlfriend's a virgin and we're ready to have sex, how can I make sure I don't hurt her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with this girl for 4 months now and we have got really close. shes still a virgin but that doesnt bother me as I love her so much. She is saying that she is ready to have sex and so am I but she is worried about the pain, im scared if I will hurt her when the ... (78 words)

What did I do to deserve all this pain and suffering? I don't know how to move on and start over.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year a go i had to break up with my boyfriend because he treated me wrong. I'm 15 and we were together for 2 years. He was 16 when we first got together. For the first year it went perfect, We spent his birthday, My birthday and christmas together and acted like b... (514 words)

What can I do about my girlfriend? She's always moody and there's no passion in our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - before you read any further, please don't let the length of this question put you off readling it fully! i'm going out with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, we took a break for about a month a while ago but got back together. the night we decided to take the break we had ... (1069 words)

I like the feeling of being with someone but I don't like the man himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I'm worrying that this new guy I've been dating for 2 months is taking advantage of me or somehow expecting me to behave like I'm chasing Him which is SO NOT happening, ...for example, I got sooo lost trying to visit him where he lives (4 hours when it's like a 2 hr trip) and ... (412 words)

I would like to trust my online guy but my gut feelings about this guy are not good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there to everyone who has kindly been giving me advice regarding this Sydney internet guy. I have decided not to go to Sydney to see a guy who has clearly told me that he just wants sex even though at one point he said that how did I know that this would just be a sexual... (359 words)

Should I date my best friend's ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The boy i fancy, harvey, fancies me the only problem is he went out with my best mate a couple of months ago and broke her heart i dont wanna fall out but i really like him!! what should i do ????... (46 words)

Should I move out when I've done nothing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Im 15 years old atm and im having trouble with my family. The basic story is that my nan has dementia and my grandad and mum are trying to do the best for her. however they got into an argument over what would happen to her. Now they are in this big fight and are not talk... (309 words)

She wants me to trust her but.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Before anyone says I should speak to her about this, I have, I've told her times and times again. Me and my girlfriend have been together for roughly nine months now, And she keeps going on how I don't trust her.. Well, I don't. She is always out partying with her mates ... (177 words)

Is she unsure of her feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, this girl ive liked for half a year, we got really close. And she has also admitted that she likes me too. Thats where the problem starts, she just stop msging all of a sudden, asking that she give me an explanation the next day. i asked her was it cause she did not ... (99 words)

My partner is drinking to cope with the stress of our baby and work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi am 7 months pregnant my partner is excited but has started drinking nearly every night he says he is stressed with work and baby!sometimes its ten cans and he cant make work next day.have tried being nice and understanding and also telling him will leave him-he says it will ... (70 words)

I have the symptoms of being pregnant but it all sounds too soon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello and thanks in advance to all who reply to my question! Well i'm 21 and have been ttc for nearly 1 year now and this month i calculated my ovulation to be the 25th-30th July, which me and my partner had regular sex on those days (sorry if tmi) now my boobs feel swoll... (175 words)

I don't want to break up with him but I don't want to lose my parents respect, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m in a fairly long distance relationship with this really amazing guy who I love so much. My parents really seem to have such a huge problem with it though, they don’t want us speaking over the internet and they want him to come and see me rather than me travelling to see ... (104 words)

I started my next pack of birth control pills right after the last one so I wouldn't get my period...but I got it anyway. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and i started my period while we were doing it, im on the pill and i knew we were going to be having sex so i started to take another packet straight after i finished the last one so i wouldnt get a period. so how come i bleed, and i only ... (63 words)

I love him so much, but he's emotionally unstable. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years the other day. He is emotionally unstable in my opinion, I'm not trying to be rude I'm dead serious. I'm deciding tonight weather to go back with him. He has controlled me and emotionally abused me to some extent in the past year. I ... (225 words)

How should I go about asking her out? And what are some good date ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, Just after a bit of advice, as I wouldn't say i've had a whole heap of experience with dating. I met this girl a few months ago at my running club, we ran a few times together, and then she got sick, then went home for the holidays (she's from intersta... (245 words)

Having sex outside - is this legal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi The thought of sex outdoors really turns me on and i really want it. However is it legal to have sex outdoors what would happen if we got caught? Thanks... (37 words)

When we're alone, she's one way, but otherwise, she's different. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am really very confused at the moment. The girl who I really like was in a relationship, however when in that relationship she would make out with me, and always be saying how great it would be if she was with me, and if she were to become single she wouldnt be able to ... (219 words)

Should I leave him, or are our problems partly my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling very low and rundown and i blame my husband for the majority of our problems as i feel increasingly bitter towards him, i don't know if i should pull myself together and stop being so selfish or if it really is him thats being unreasonable, we owe a HUGE amount of ... (478 words)

Is it weird that I'm excited about my girlfriends pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi people, Just found out my partner is 4 weeks pregnant. I was just researching about tips for fathering, I researched about males thoughts on pregnancy and alot of it is negative! Some of them say my husband is not excited about our pregnancy and that and I don't w... (107 words)

His mum offers him a porn mag and I can't help comparing myself to pornstars

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Before me and my bofriend got together 3 years ago, he watched a lot of porn. Now i can't help but compare my body against a porn star. Also i don't know whether my boyfriend is still watching porn. I was once at his house and his mum asked him whether he had been watchin... (126 words)

I'm going to put all I have to say to him in an email so how do I write it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A year after I met my boyfriend I found out he was cheating, we argued and split up for two months. He contacted me via MSN and we got chatting again, within three weeks I went running back because I was still in love with him. I thought because he had contacted me he was ... (472 words)

I feel he will lose intrest in me if I don't become more intamate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) So I recentley started going out with this really great boy. And things are great, he say's he loves me alot, and that he wants a long serious relationship. However, I am 14 years old, and he is 16, and I'm not a naive little girl, and a long serious realtion... (173 words)

How much control is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How much control is too much control? My boyfriend of two years doesn't like me around ANY guys. All of my friends before him were guys, but now I've lost them. I didn't care at first but now it's a problem. I've been trying to work on it lately and he has too, I've been making ... (170 words)

My step-sister and her friends flirt with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i am in a very weird situation. there is two things i need help with. one has to do with my step sister. she is growing up and get hotter everytime i see her she is 14 and i am 16. sometimes i catch her looking at me before i start to change when im in a towel and ... (153 words)

We had sex and he ignored me. Now he trys contacting me. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy that i meet in janaury, we wasnt seeing each toher but we always spoke on facebook and text and we went cinema a few times and meet up. (Although i always felt like i was making the effort) But we got on so well. six months down the line of all this, we went cinema ... (370 words)

Shes twice my age! Does this matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Shes twice my age! is this an issue? ive recently started seeing an older women shes 40 im 20 i never even really considered actualy dating someone older was all a fantasy but its become real. we been meeting and chatting for a few months and we really click. when im with her i ... (77 words)

Should I give him a second chance or leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I give him a second chance? I've been with my boyfriend for two years. I really do love him. But recently he has been always down in the dumps, alomost depressed i think, and a little emotionally abusive towards me. Even though I know everyone will argue with me, I know ... (320 words)

Is this him getting back at me for ignoring him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About two weeks ago, things ended with the guy I was seeing for two months. THings were going great until he told me he started talking to his ex. He felt so guilty he couldn't even tell me over the phone what was wrong- he had to text me. I was so shocked I didn't say ... (191 words)

Am I being dramatic or am I right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half and lived together for a year,in the past week we have pretty much split up because i went to my parents house for a few drinks he was invited but decided he didnt want to come,just as i was on my way home he txt me ... (152 words)

How do I even out the workload during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend says that he does most of the work during sex. although i try to even out the work im still apparently not doing nearly enough. what can i do to change this?... (34 words)

Am I confused? Is he confused? It's all very confusing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi.. Well. I'm gay and I just want to know of anyone can give me advice... Well. I really like this guy from skool. I really like him like on the verge of crying. Evrytime I see him. I feel sad. Idk what to do about it. My freind thinks he might be gay. And wants me to talk to ... (95 words)

We do 'stuff' and I get an erection. How do I prevent it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, so ive been dating this girl for a little while now and have decided to not have sex or anything until we're both 16 in october. Anyway, the question is about other stuff....basically we make out, cuddle and stuff and most of the time I embarassingly ge... (101 words)

Update: What do you think now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

3 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi just some updates on whats been going on please tell me if you think things are going well thankyou. 2 nights ago i went over to her house about ten then left at 4 in the morning. txt her to tell her i got home safe and made a joke about having to control myself cause she... (526 words)

Why did he go cold, after we were having such a good time?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there.i was dating online, and got talking to someone who i was interested in. we hit it off straight away and had so much fun talking every night, and speaking on the phone. he wanted to meet so he could spoil me. told me all the time how beautiful i was. we flirted ... (295 words)

My boyfriend was talking about marriage and then out of the blue he decided he has concerns about the relationship!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a while, and lately things have gotten quite serious, he's been telling me that his mum would love me, and jokingly asking if i will marry him, then out of the blue he said he wants to talk through some concerns - he said he cant giv... (147 words)

He's leaving to go back to the USA but I want him to stay here with me!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How would i describe the something in my mind. It just happened last week. I met a guy from USA and i am Asian girl i think i love him. At all first met every thing so easy and happy. Miss, love and always talk on phone when we away from each other. Any way here is ... (209 words)

It daunts me that I may be in competition with a woman I know nothing about!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been seeing a guy for almost 5 months now. When we met he said he wanted to take things slow and that was fine, i'm at uni and pretty busy most of the time so it was something I was willing to try. Everything had been going great between us. He texts me first everyda... (624 words)

What do I do about my affair with an older man?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 years of age have 2 children aged 1 year and 4 years. Ive been with my husband since I was 17 and have been married 3 years.He is 33 years old. I started an affair 2 months ago with someone at my work he is 50+ he wont tell me his age.It is a sexual affair/relationship ... (184 words)

First time parent worries about miscarriage

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy! Myself and my partner are expecting a baby in April, just bit concerned about mis-carriages etc. Is it rare to have a mis-carriage? It's the first time that she is pregnant and everybody is excited about the news but I'm just worried about a mis-carriage...does it h... (86 words)

I feel inferior compared to my girlfriend!

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months and they've been wonderful, but I can't help but feel a little bit inferior. She is an amazing gymnast. She competes in meets all over America and I know she's gonna go on to be big. I just dont' see what she sees in me. As far as ... (78 words)

I want him to leave me alone and respect my privacy without feeling that I hate him

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3 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I broke-up with my ex two years ago. Two months ago I decided to return all of his things through a third party. I waited that long because I didn't want to talk to him or see him. I returned his things because I'm a christian and I believe keeping things that don't belong to ... (885 words)

I'm scared about having sex in case I do it wrong and he compares me to his ex!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive always been a 'good girl' so to say when it comes to relationships. But now I have got an amazing boyfriend who I love so much. The only problem is that ive never done anything sexual before with a guy, as it has never felt right until now. Ive been with my boyfriend for... (175 words)

We used to talk every day, and now it doesn't seem to bother him that we no longer speak! What the hell was that?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok...I met a dude on myspace we talked for about a week then I told him I was gay he didnt seem very surprised..he just said he already was thinking that. I asked him if he minded and he said that he didnt really care much he said he was open minded that sorta thing. So weeks ... (346 words)

I want to get rid of my sex drive!

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3 August 2009 (?) - Here's the thing - I don't want a sex drive. I don't want to get involved in a relationship because they always make me miserable. No way am I doing the casual sex thing. I really do not want a sex drive. how, how, how do I kill it? I'm a woman, and in my experience th... (271 words)

I think I am in love, so why do I fantasise about other women?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my dilemma is this: I have been living with a girl for just over one year, and to get to the punch line, I fantasise about having sex with other girls, random people on the street, colleagues at work, fellow students at college, whatever. While I want sex more often (more ... (382 words)

I love the girl that has been with every guy at school!

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so the thing is im 15 and i have a big problem and that is that im in love with a girl that has gone thru every guy in school and in February 14 2009 i gave her an ipod touch as a gift and that morning before i gave her the gift all of my friends were saying not to do it but ... (125 words)

What can I get my mom for her birthday?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - todays is my moms b day.what do i gift her ?please and thanks in advance... (15 words)

I've fallen for a guy who moved to my country to be with his girlfriend

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a fantastic foreign guy randomly on a night out when drinking with my work mates. He was by himself at a bus stop, and I started talking to him. We found out we had heaps in common, like music, favourite literature, travel, sense of humour etc etc, and I told him to ... (677 words)

I'm worried that if I tell her I love her she may reject me!

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship has finally backed me into a corner...I realized that I'm falling in love with my girlfriend. I've tried so hard not, because I doubted she could ever feel the same way about me, but I can't fight it anymore...she's the greatest girl I know and she's stealing ... (109 words)

Is it right to still be hurting after we broke up 8 months ago?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Eight months ago, I became single. My ex (first love) of exactly two years and one day had emotionally abused me and then cheated on me for who knows how long. I was able to build an iron-wall around my heart afterward. Nobody can get in. So why is it that whenever I think of ... (239 words)

Why is it ok for guys to pleasure themselves but women are considered dirty?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering why it is so publicly excepted for guys to pleasure themselves and nobody will think anything of it except that they're just being a guy, but when a girl does she is considered dirty, or a slut. What is the difference between a guy doing it and a girl doing it... (62 words)

Should I move on?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age - i was with my partner for nearly two years. Mostly we were fine. Our arguments were mainly about his obnoxious interfering mother. Two weeks ago i ended it because i felt upset he was annoyed with me for falling out with his mother. I tried to at least discuss things with him ... (69 words)

He wont have phone sex with me!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, this may be a silly question but it has been bugging me for a while now. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for a while now. My boyfriend is my best friend and he's never been anything short of amazing to me. It hurts that he is so far away. We used to have ... (176 words)

Am I crazy for wanting to wait for a dream guy to appear?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello my dear friends.could you help me?actually since 2 years i have changed 2 bfs and didnt find any one of them nice or the dream boy i think of!now 1 year has passed,i have left all ways and methods to find a guy whom i could love and in return find love too.i think someone ... (256 words)

Does he need to know everything about my sexual past?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A past boyfriend introduced me to phone sex, and when we broke up, I realized it was still a pretty good sexual outlet for me. It seemed problem-free, because I could easily find a guy on the internet, call him from a blocked number, and have an hour or so of fun, without any ... (159 words)

Spooning sex

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so my friend and I are thinking about having sex. She loves it when I hold her tight around the waist and hug her. I've come to the conclusion that we should try spooning. We're both first timers. I heard that this is a very comfortable and intimate position. Usua... (100 words)

I'm 19, and I am experiencing low sex drive?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright everyone first off I'm 19, and this should not be happening. I do not know what's going on? I took a pro horomone (testosterone booster) to gain muscle and I took a cycle of it 1 1/2 months ago. It's an extreme testosterone booster, blocks all estrogen, and contains ... (269 words)

Why did he act this way, when he has a girlfriend?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, there´s this guy at work who is getting closer to me lately. He haven´t said anything serious yet, like he kinda jokes he likes me and stuff. The point is he has a Girlfriend, which makes me feel we can get in trouble. Yesterday, we had a wedding of some mutual frie... (154 words)

It's only been 4 weeks and he's already distancing himself! Should I leave him or stay and hope we'll get closer?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So a about 3 weeks ago I meet a guy through another friend , It went great for a couple of days then he tells me he is bisexual I accept it at the time , then that night we start to talk and he uses this line I like you I just don't want to hurt you , So he asks me if I still ... (219 words)

Since my aunt and uncle found out about the bikini I wore in secret, they ridicule me and treat me like dirt! I don't know what to do...

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - It all started because i wanted to try wearing a woman's one piece bikini which i purchased on the net, I would wear it only in the house, I live downstairs in my aunt and uncles house and pay very little rent and don't have very much money and not a good paying job, one ... (925 words)

I caught my mum cheating by text, she insisted it won't happen again, and now she's supposedly going to visit her cousin! Does this sound dodgy to you?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - First off someone fix this already.. I'm 17 not 30 odd!!... right, i've recently come across a situation with my mother which has highly aroused my suspicion.. Long story short, she's been married to my father for 20ish years, and within the last couple of years I have com... (196 words)

He didn't go 'all the way in' and we used a condom, but could I still be pregnant?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i almost had sex, meaning he didn't "go all the way in" but it was there, he had a condom on, but i heard sometimes you can get pregnant cause of that? i didn't believe in that, but I've missed my period, I've missed it before, but i knew i wasn't pregnant or ... (68 words)

Don't know if I can put up with my fiancee's behaviour anymore! What should I do?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me I don't know what to do. My fiancees been lieing to me lately about little things because he doesn't want to hear me whine. Also he lets his best friend disrespect me and he disrespects me every now and then to. I tell him I don't like it he says he's only doing it ... (168 words)

Should I try getting to know the guy I like from highschool, when we start college?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've liked this guy forever. I've liked him all through high school and we've barely spoken. I've tried getting over him, I really have. I tried to get him out of my mind all through high school because I was in band, and tried to get my mind off him. I could never get him ... (209 words)

Do you think I lost my virginity?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old...virgin and never have sex....But at my first time I have a weird blood( like a slice blood)...and I don't know what is going on...Do you think I lost my virginity. I want to see a doctor to tell me what happened. Any thoughts?... (51 words)

I want to lose weight... any diet tips?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - =[. That's a bad way to start a question haha my problem is, im fat. everyone tells me im normal but im almost a large and nothing in my closet fits out of all my 20 pairs of jeans only 2 pair fit and bearly! I can't buy new clothes it's out of the question. Anyways, im 5'1 ... (87 words)

Should I continue to keep in touch with my ex and ruin my chance with this other guy, or cut contact?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. i went with this boy named Lamont and he lived right down the street from me and we rode the same bus to school and i used to go to his house after school and we went together for like 2 months he meet my mom and she liked him.. When we broke up it was hard from me bec... (172 words)

I slept with my ex's friend... and now I think my ex wants to get back with me! Should I tell him?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a long distance relationship and everything was great we were in love then he got scared and dumped me ,then wanted me back then dumped me again (long story cut short) ..........months went by i had a little contact which was all saying the relationship was over then ... (196 words)

I've tried numerous times to end it with this married man but I keep running back! Please help!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this might be quite a long story but here goes.. I have never actually told anyone the full details of my relationship with Mr A (yes the MM)! but i need to get things of my chest because i feel as though i haven't got anyone to talk to about it.... I met Mr A about two y... (1566 words)

What could these tiny bumps on his "area" be?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has little tiny bumps around his penis area that do not itch and are not red. He does shave once in a while. Most of the time he trims though. What could these be?... (36 words)

How do I break away from the nice guy?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about 6 weeks ago (I thought it was 4 but I was wrong...) I broke up with my bf because I was tired of the distance between us but he wanted to continue a friendship since he knew he could help me in the future after college... (he's in showbusiness and I am an aspiring ... (189 words)

A poop question..

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is wierd and I hope somebody knows what it is that is happening!. For the passed 2week myself and my girlfriend have had this strange happening when we go to the the toilet. When ever we go to the toilet to "poop", we have both noticed that we have blood after whiping ou... (121 words)

Is he staying with me just because it's convient??

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend decided to tell me after 11 months that "I may not be the one." After confronting him about how I felt we were wasting one anothers time, he said we weren't. Is this because he lives with me and it would inconvience him to leave? He says he loves me but I don't get ... (57 words)

Divorced and wondering if I'm a lesbian. Any thoughts?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, I am confused. I am a female, divorced and wondering about my sexuality. So let me start from the beginning. When I was ten years old i kissed a girl because I was curious and she accepted, I mean it was a gum exchange from mouth to mouth. I wasn't aroused but it was ... (281 words)

Do I give him another change or end it before I get hurt again?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got together within a few days of meeting each other. I was blissful. He had recently broken up with a long term girlfriend who was his best friend. We were together a month and then he grew distant and i broke up with him. He cited that whilst he adored me ... (1179 words)

Am I crazy for having a problem with this woman calling my husband all the time??

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently i found out my husband has a female friend who talks to on the phone and texts. One night i pretended to be him and texted her tha last text i sent was that i m going in my bed now before my wife starts to quarrel. next morning he is calling to me to ask if i quarrel ... (165 words)

She feels strongly about me but loves her boyfriend.. it's tearing me apart!

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am in love with a woman that has a boyfriend of over a year now, we have been seeing each other for several months now and been intimate. she says she loves her boyfriend but he doesn't love her. she insists on remaining with him. she says she feels very strongly about me but ... (83 words)

I feel my mother's actions are completely unreasonable. Any suggestions?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. i am 15 years old. and i would just like to hear some opinions on my situation. basically, i don't understand why my mother doesn't see that i'm responsible and mature and i dont know why she doesn't trust me. first of all, i do plenty of chores around the house wi... (1040 words)

He's having major troubles moving on from his ex. What do I do?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for about a year now. We have a great relationship. We travel together, care for each other, everything seems fine, but underneath there is something haunting me. He is much older than me. I'm a 20 year old guy, and he is 44, so as you can see age ... (497 words)

How can I help her to relax?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive tried having sex with my girlfriend twice now and it wont go in. she says she is too tense and that she needs to relax more. how can i help her relax more?... (34 words)

Roles reversed since our breakup: she's having the time of her life and I'm so unhappy!

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright so about a month ago I ended a relationship that I was very unhappy in. The girl didnt appreciate me, she lied a lot, and kinda just used me. While we were together lots of my friends said I should break up with her. Even some of her friends said that. So then I felt ... (229 words)

Should I let her past relationship with her cousin affect ours?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, i been in a relationship for six months with a girl who i really care about, infact Im even thinking of marriage. Shes 38 years old and Im 37. The only thing that bugs me is her past relatinships she had about 7 bad relationships but most of all she fell in love with a ... (87 words)

I go on chat sites and have had cybersex. Why do I do this?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do i do this? Hi all. I have been with my bf for 2 yr and we have a daughter together. He is a lovely wonderful bloke who i love very much. But 4 some reason i go on chat sites, yes i like the compliments, i like just chattin, think that is 2 do with feelin isolated, i have ... (154 words)

She likes older dudes, I like her. Should I stay out of it?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - whats up people. i need help with something. i like this girl but she likes older dudes. like around 17-20. we're both 13. a part of me wants to stay out of it but another part says "NO!!! You cant let her go!" i really dont wanna let her go but i dont think theres anything i ... (61 words)

How do I prove I love him more?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i just have a quick question. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months. and sometimes when were together i tell him i love him, and he says he loves me more. the thing is i dont see how thats possible so i argue and say no you dont. but then he says pro... (93 words)

Should I even consider getting back with my ex-girlfriend?

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3 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up on very bad terms a few months ago after I found out that she had been lying too me about her ex-boyfriend. She had told me that he was begging for her back and that she just hung up when he rung her/contacted her. She told me she loved me, that ... (333 words)

How do I toughen up? He cries whenever I try to break up with him!

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you deal with a breakup in which you know that your boyfriend is going to cry? I just know that things aren't working out with my boyfriend anymore. We've been together about a year and a half but I just don't feel the same about him. He wasn't the nicest guy at times... (382 words)

How can I make this LDR work?

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3 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I fall in love quick. But you kno what different about this time? When I'm not with Brandon my my heart hurts. I met him a few days ago when I was on a camping trip with a friend. And he lives 3 hours away from me.I have his number but he hasn't texted me for awhile. And I'm ... (94 words)