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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My sister married a loser, and how she and I never speak.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Older sister was in love once before, and engaged. Her previous relationship cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. Now, she left that guy and met the guy she is married to now. and he is a total loser. No job, no drive, no personality. He is very drab, devoid of ... (119 words)

I'm in love with my cousin's daughter and need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, I fell in love with my cousin's daughter. (I'm 21, she's 18) I know some people think it's wrong and immoral but I truly have developed feelings for her. We don't get to see each other since we live far away from each other, we mostly talk via phone or chat. W... (190 words)

Is it over?? Even though it never officially started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I’m 15 yo. I had this huge crush on this boy called 'wb' we go to the same school but now it’s summer break n I haven’t seen him since the last day at school!!!!!He went to Canada I think!! I still think of him all the time and I dream about him mostly eve... (168 words)

Embarrassed that I have to be tested for an STD again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to go for an STI check-up as I stupidly participated in drunken fore play with someone who I don't know that well. I have been disagnosed with an STI before (my ex-boyfriend cheated on me) and I'm just worried about the reaction of the people I'll have to deal with if ... (92 words)

He always has a gleam in his eye when he talks to me, but never texts or messages me!

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today on the bus I was talking to my guy friend and he talked to me for the first time I've seen him. He thought that I was absent for 7 days. I told him that I was here for the first two days of school. He argued with me and smiled like he was right. He said that he hasn't ... (153 words)

He hasn't physically cheated, but I feel betrayed. How to work on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is long but I had a hard time cutting the fat from this thread. Here's the whole story. After I wrote and proofread this I realized I don't feel better at all. I'm sure you will have no difficulty understanding how that is. On Thursday I asked my bf to delete pro... (1544 words)

Is this my fault? This is not how I imagined love and commitment to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating the same guy for 4 years. Well, we had an 18 month break in between where we still saw each other and slept with each other daily. I continued to help pay his rent and taking care of his daughter during this time. I felt like that was my way of keeping ... (277 words)

My boyfriend and his new best friend... he seems suddenly secretive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a new female friend who he has been somewhat secretive about. Should I be worried? I've been with him two years now and I've never met or heard of this women. Supposedly they were friends in middle school, but they haven't spoken for at least thre... (285 words)

I love everything about him, except that he drinks too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly two years and i love almost everything about him apart from the fact that i think he drinks way too much. He says he's not an alcoholic and could stop if he wanted to but he doesn't want to. I don't want h... (160 words)

I'm in love with my brother's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i tell my brother i am in love with his best friend? I have been seeing my brothers best friend (david) for about a month now behind my brothers back. David says we need to tell my brother so we can have a more opened relationship. I dont know or how to tell my broth... (88 words)

How do I help relieve the stress in her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry this might be a little long, but I need help relieving my girlfriend's stress. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and we live together. My girlfriend is and I are both in college and have jobs but she is doing way too much, well at least I think. My ... (332 words)

I really dislike my boyfriend's sister...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry to say this, but I really dislike my boyfriend's sister. She just isn't a nice girl. She is so rude. She is constantly belching and farting, and doesn't even bother to excuse herself. I know everyone burps and farts, but the fact that she is always letting 'em rip ... (310 words)

Too much in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age - I have been married a little over a year after a divorce from a 35 year marriage. We are both madly in love with each other and spend every minute we can together, we just can't seem to get enough of each other. I moved to a new city to enable her to stay at her job, I am ... (202 words)

How do I punish my son for what he did?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Our 3 year old is very intelligent. He can write his name, sing the alphabet and ride a bike without training wheels. He is an excellent talker and even uses big words to describe things in detail. HOWEVER, he is mean to our dog. I keep threatening to give the dog away and I ... (334 words)

What do I tell people about how and why we broke up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello , me and my boyfriend recently broke up . we both dicided that it ws best not to go out any more . the probem is that lots of people are saying that i dumped him by text and that i was really harsh and all but the truth is , he was just as much a part of it as i was !... (139 words)

I want him to ask me out again! How do I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Nine months ago, I became single after a two-year (not to mention shitty) relationship. Just over a year and a half ago, the guy I'm after became single after a four year relationship. We're both not exactly over our ex's but we're certainly not stuck on them, if you know what ... (230 words)

She never calls me and I feel stupid calling her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I,ve been dating this girl for some months now and we do call each other but recently she does'nt call i've always been d one calling her,and anytime i call and ask her why she did'nt call,she always apologise.without telling me why.i am scared of loosing her and she says she ... (87 words)

Why do I feel I NEED this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are together but my sudden problem is - I think that I NEED him. I don't really have many friends anymore. Everyone went their own ways for college and such. He is majoring in Aerospace Engineering and I am majoring in Social Working. I think because of the ... (145 words)

Too clingy and paranoid? Or does he just not love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone and thanks for taking the time to read my question. I'll try to keep this as brief as I can. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and love him madly. I'm never happier than when I am with him just cuddling and laughing at silly things that no-one else... (723 words)

Not feeling the same about my boyfriend anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and he treats me very well. he is a complete gentleman, he gets along with my family and i with his. I love him but i find that over the past couple of months i'm getting very irritated with certain things he does. we have ... (255 words)

2 years with boyfriend but still think of my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved here a 3 years ago and left back in my country a guy that I had been dating for almost a year. He loved me alot, and now I went back to colombia and saw him again. I had always kept in touch with him, even though we broke up. He has a girlfriend and she lives with him. ... (568 words)

After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had sex on the 10, then we had a ... (139 words)

My cousin's husband is "flirting' with me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like a kid so into his car and ... (300 words)

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and my boyfriend had sex for the ... (231 words)

Why the hell would my boyfriends dad send me 7 friend requests on Facebook?!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, been living with my boyfriend for 5 months now, been together for 5 years. I was checking my Facebook profile the other day when I was surprised to get 7 friend requests from my boyfriend's dad! Why would anyone need 7 Facebook accounts?? I dont get it! I a... (106 words)

What else apart from cranberry juice gets rid of cystitis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 20 and suffer from cystitus quite a bit doess anyone know of anything that helps to get rid of this when it starts apart from cranberry juice because i cant drink it. any answers would be a great help!! thanks... (48 words)

I want sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I first off I know that this is not a medical site but I am too self conscience to ask my doctor about this. I have a bf and we have a great relationship (been daing for 18 months) our sex life is beyond wonderful, but during the last 5 months or so I want more and more. We ... (196 words)

Went snooping through all of his things and found stuff from his past - do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know if this is a *me* problem that I should work on personally, or if I need to talk to my boyfriend about it too. I'll apologize for this being so long now. I just have a lot to say about the issue at hand. This morning, I have no idea what got into me but, I ... (715 words)

I want to go out with him, but I feel that the age difference is holding me back! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so Ive met this one guy online a few months. We live close and I actually found that we go to the same college. Well we met one day and hit it off. He is a sweetheart and I really like him. I think he has serious boyfriend potential. He is pretty much pefect and exactly my ... (130 words)

Making comments about when I was skinny..now he ignores me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfirend made a comment the other day about my weight. He said I looked so good when I was skinny. The other night I was eating a piece of chocolate and he said your never going to lose weight if you keep treating yourself to sweets. He used to be so nice to me when I was ... (93 words)

How can I get the relationship with my daughter back on track?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age - I have a 27 year old daughter who left home and does not speak to my husband, myself and my son. She does speak to my twin sister and my sister does not share what is going on in her life and that has made my sister and my relationship rocky. My sister says she is doing ... (119 words)

Somebody to talk to when she has nothing else to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok readers, i've got this little problem. I first started gettin to know a women over the net, it was all great at first, contact 24/7, she refers to me as babe, sexyful, and says she's misses me when she hasn't been able to chat to me. Thing is, we have gotten to the point ... (136 words)

Any ideas what it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there i have a dry patch of skin on the shaft of my penis toward the base. it started out as a an angry spot that subsided, and dry skin replaced it. its about the size of the top half of my thumb from the knuckle. its rarely itchy, but when i scratch or rub the the skin ... (97 words)

I'm in love with my friend, I can't live with her and I can't live without her! What do I do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been close friends with this girl for most of my life. For the past few years I have been in love with her. We went out but things ended badly and we didn't speak for 6 months. Luckily we were able to get past that and ar enow close friends again. The thing is I... (222 words)

If a girl says 'thank you' after you've been on a date, does it mean it's over? And how do I ask a girl from school out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) age 26-29 - [Mod note - two seperate questions were from the same poster, so I have combined both] Q1: im gonna ask this girl out. im 15, shes 16. I know her from school. Ask her out at school? If I do ask her out at school it cant be nothing super huge or fancy. what are some tips o... (99 words)

Is he trying to make me feel guilty for turning down sex? His use of words were inappropriate and put me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out on Saturday and I wanted us to sit down and have a grown-up conversation. I have to admit (I'm a chatterbox). Anyways, it was good because we brought a lot of things out in the open. In between that we were cuddling and he wanted to ... (255 words)

B/f convinced he's not the one for me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years for the first couple of years we got on great we never had a crossed word and we fell deeply in love with each other. But for the last year our relationship has been very up and down and my boyfriend belives that he is no the one for me ... (86 words)

I'm 46 and want to be more than a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age - I am not a young woman, I'm a 46 year old who has been dating a 52 year old man for 3 years now. I'm divorced and his wife passed away. I want marriage but he doesn't. I have an 18 year old son who lives with me and my boyfriend wants to wait til he's on his own before we do ... (140 words)

Ladies preferences on men: Hairy? Or Not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age - This question has probably been asked before but anyway here goes: Ladies; do you prefer your man, lover, partner, FWB, to be: A) Hairy B) Slightly Hairy C) Shaved D) Completely waxed and hairless all over including BCS.... (47 words)

Something seems to be missing in our relaitonship and I keep picking fights with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with a girl for nearly 6 months now and we were getting on great until about 3 weeks ago. I havent fallen out of love with her and still find as attractive as ever but something seems to be missing from our relationship. I find myself picking arguements ... (211 words)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when i asked him about it he said ... (276 words)

We want to tell that we caught them smoking but we are afraid!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! My best friends older brother and his friends were smoking, we knew it. We decided to find out of we were right. Then we accidentally walked in on them!! There faces showed it all, plus the cigarettes on the ground and the smoke. They were planning to not let us go th... (118 words)

Marriage-I wake up every morning thinking I made a big mistake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, OK - here is my question. I've been married for two years -- through the engagement, I thought about breaking things off multiple times. Now I wake up almost every morning thinking: I made a big mistake. There are several problems, but it all boils down ... (191 words)

My husband looks at she-male porn. Do straight men do this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband looks at shemale porn, but says he is not gay. The shemale's are cleary men with breast.what do you think? Are there any straight men that like to look at shemale porn? ... (34 words)

How do you get a diagnosis for bi-polar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age - Does anybody familiar with bi-polar mental illness? I think, it might be the reason that my husband and children are very hard to live with. There is no really anybody ,who can diagnose it, because it is not as serious,when it comes with all the symptomes. I think it might ... (177 words)

We got into a fight and I threatened to take the baby away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help as soon as possible, me and the love of my life, got in a fight, i lost my temper and threatened to take the baby away, and because of that we broke up. Shes currently pregnant with our child, and i regret saying that and wish i could take it back but i know ... (102 words)

I don't want a thrillsome threesome with my friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf has been talking about haveing a three some...and i was okk with it so i also have a gf I'm biisexual and my gf was my bestfriend 1st soo now my bf is talking about haveing a three some with her i don't feel rite with him haveing sex with her or any other girl then ... (76 words)

I think my step dad may be cheating on my mom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom has been married 4 a while now and i never liked the idea of marrying some one other then my dad soo now its been 9 years and i have gottten over it but now i feel my stepdad is cheating on my mom and don't no 4 sure but it sure does seem like it soo what should i do ... (78 words)

My partner is in love with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - This is so hard I broke u with my Patner last week we were really happy but I found out that he is love with his best friend and that he has been mailing her and wants to be with her but is unble to because he lives thousands of miles away and she said she is not ready to ... (206 words)

How often does it happen where a man can't get it up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I get the opinions of guys out there - how often do you have problems with not being able to "get it up"? The other night a guy I have just started dating and I tried to have sex for the first time. He's about 27. We were both very comfortable, we gave each other massa... (225 words)

B/f constantly accuses me of cheating but I'm not!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months now and we jus recently broke up and got back together bc he thought I was cheating on him and I've gave him my email address and password give him my phone everything jus to prove to him that I'm not cheating on him. ... (163 words)

He's snapping and yelling at me for no reason!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for about 5 years now. I recently moved into my boyfriends house. Its been pretty good with a few exceptions. He's been snapping at me alot. I told him I do not appreciate the way he is treating me yet he continues snapping at me and yelling at ... (71 words)

Trying to make amends for what I did wrong...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, my name is Mr Castillo. I have been married for 2 years to a very beautiful, wonderful woman and our connection is beyond the effort of having it verbalized. We make ourselves feel so alive in ways that are surreal, and most of all she is my best friend. Our energy is ... (1190 words)

I don't see a future for me and my now ex boyfriend... so how do I stop loving him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I split with my ex 6 months ago, after 4 years together- for all the right reasons, nothing in common, hes very childish, doesnt make me feel happy, he prefers time with his friends drinking than me- he is sort of like peter pan, lovable but infinately immature (and he's almost ... (247 words)

I've fallen in love with my ex co-worker...could the feeling be mutual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I met this guy where i work and as soon as he smiled at me I melted. Anyway, we got talking and started to email each other, then he went off to mexico. he's in the middle of travelling he world, but we kept emailing off an on, nothing serious, but flirty nonetheless. ... (285 words)

Can someone tell me the reason behind my ex's behaviour??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sooo confused:( My boyfriend and I broke up last month and I have been in bits. I really really love him and it hurts so much not being with him. The break up was his decision and I definitely played my part in the ending of the relationship by being highly strung about ... (374 words)

We want to move in together, but her family doesn't approve, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age - I am 17 yrs 0lder than my girlfriend, At first we were freinds for about 10yrs. And now have feelings for each other. She wants to move in with me which is OK. but when she told her mum her mum is dead against it and so is most of her family. ... (52 words)

New relationship, what should our conversations be based upon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - To begin with.let me say i'm a guy who just got into a new relationship.i need advice on how to begin,i.e d type of conversation we should start having.cos any time we talk,she always wants to hear more from me.so i just nid to know what our conversation should be based upon. ... (52 words)

This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i havent so i want to know is ... (120 words)

Where do I fit in with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

- I dont get it.... There's this guy who asked me out and asked was I single etc... I said I was and he met up with me. I knew him just from being in a club I'm a member of. He obviously took a shine to me. He then tells me he has a gf away he had in college. been together ab... (244 words)

What can I call him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - he is very affectionate towards me and calls me really sweet names.so i want to do the same with him but i need some ideas....... (25 words)

How to keep the fire going in a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got transferred to another country and find myself now in a long distance relationship. This is the 3rd month. We get to see each other twice a month. He does come at least once a month to see me. We cant do better than that cos its expensive. I prefer when he ... (152 words)

I sometimes give him head - will it affect our friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so ill give a lil bit of our history to this day so you can see whats going on.... We met in high school year 9.. and i had a lil bit of a crush on him when we became friends.. used to talk all the time.. He left at the end of year 10 and had a g/f so we lost contact for a ... (551 words)

Suddenly wife is changing both physically and mentally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30, and married with a 5-year-old son from a previous relationship (the mother walked out on him a year after he was born, and not seen him since). I've been married for 3 years now, and suddenly my wife has developed a personality change, both physical and mental. I... (472 words)

Missed opportunity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Hey all. Okay I met this really cute girl on a night out. Unfortunately she was drunk or at least quite merry ( she couldnt rememeber stuff that happened and hour ago). She kept on asking me any my friend back for a house party which rapidly appeared to just involve me and h... (179 words)

My mom makes it very difficult to be happy in our house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This might sound silly or strange but I felt like talking it out rather than just keeping it inside me. First of all today my mom was saying how cold it was. I immediately replied it's not cold. She then for some crazy reason makes a big fuss about it, and sulks and gets a... (319 words)

How can I make myself look hot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't feel confident at all when I realize that I'm an ugly one. It's hard for me to talk to a girl because girls like hot guys. I don't have blonde hair and blue eyes too. What should I do to make girls look over my appearance ? Thanks.... P.S I look Thai because... (67 words)

It appears he ended things because I didn't gel with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

- hi all , sorry this is long Im really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked me out . I was still maried... (517 words)

Did he tell me those things because he was drunk, or did he really mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me out here, as I'm not sure what to think. It's a little long but please bear with me, any advice helps. On Friday night at around 12:30 I recieved a phone call from this guy that I used to see/talk to pretty regularly from October last year to January this yea... (600 words)

In love with my best friend who is engaged. Please help!

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with my best friend. I have known my best friend for just under 10 years, and i have been in love with her for 6 of those years. She has been the greatest friend i could ever wished for. She recently threw me a surprise birthday party this year that was ... (488 words)

Is my best friend REALLY okay with me dating her cousin?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My 'best friend' and i had a fight a few weeks back, and it was about a sweet 16th party that she wanted to throw with me,(as in a joint party)which never went ahead because neither of us told our parents. The other thing she was mad at me about was that i am dating her cousin ... (351 words)

I'm in a casual relationship, but like someone I work with! What should I do?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.... I really thought that this day would NEVER come around. I have been in a what they call a causel relationship, of course one would think that something more to come of this relationship, its been on now for a year and a half, not a very easy year and a half but ... (253 words)

Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise.

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31 August 2009 (M)

age - I am a 45 years old and married for 8 years. My wife told me about her past affair when we were dating. She also told me that she is not a virgin. When I met her she was not that interested in me and after my persistence she started to get involve with me. I was absolutely nuts ... (199 words)

We broke up because her mom doesn't give her much freedom... is there any way of getting her back?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I wanna knw wat can i do to get back wit my ex? Its cause the reason she broke up wit me is cause of her mom. She would barley let her go out and we would barley see each other.But her mom said that she would have to meet me in person to see if i can get back wit her. But ... (125 words)

My g/f is depressed and I feel that I am developing strong feelings for my coworker!

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31 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I am having really mixed feelings. I have been with my current girlfriend for a little over half of a year. At first, things were pretty good. Lately, she is always depressed about something, never wants to do anything, and is an all around downer. I try to cheer her up, but it ... (385 words)

My brother caught me masturbating, what to do about it?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was watching a quiet porn video on my laptop while masturbating on my bed with my hands down my pants (all clothes were still on). I knew that my brother would be coming home soon, but i still left my bedroom door open. When i heard him come home, i kept on going thinking i ... (154 words)

Virginity and how can I make my body more ready for sex

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i am in need of advice.i'm a virgin and last night i tryed having sex for the first time.i've been wearing tampons for two months now, so obviously it's broken.but when we started to have sex, my hymen was stretching and i could feel it, but it was way to painful to ... (107 words)

I am 33 with four kids, can a relationship with a 21 year old work?

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31 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I’m a 33-year old mother of four, who is dating a 21-year old man for about two years. I have always been attracted to younger men. He is very compassionate, thoughtful, financially supportative, and he always goes the extra mile to prove that he is really into me. I guess I am ... (147 words)

How can I tell what she feels?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I wanna knw if my ex still loves me like she says she does? The reason she broke up wit me is cause of her mom. She barley let her go out and we barley saw each other. So my ex said its better if we just be frnds. We were goin out for 3 months and honestly i want her back i ... (100 words)

I know my guy is cheating on me!

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm having a very strange problem. I know my guy is cheating on me. He has taken hundreds of photos of other girls, while telling me he has not done so. This is not the problem. The problem is when I find out some of these photos (each time), with the anger I start shaking ... (119 words)

Why do his words change now? Does he want to play around?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iam a girl....lately...i contact my friend that he is also the man thai i have been waited for 3 years...last years...i have tell him my feelings towards him...but he get mad and he said"i just can take you as a friends..."i was really sad...and...the thing that make me feel ... (96 words)

We sneak away to be together, shoud I end this?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a guy who was already involved with someone about a few years back. So far, He lives with her and secretly comes over to my place. Lately I feel a built guilty and worried she may find out if this persists. We have been able to secretly pull this off on certain ... (86 words)

He's kind, loving, but never says "I love you," should I say something?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When is the right time to say I love you to someone?? I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months but he has never said he loves me. I don't know if its too early to bring it up or if I should wait. When he's drunk he tells me how special I am and how much he cares about me but ... (120 words)

Do you think he only wants me around for sex, without a comitment?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an unusual relationship with this guy, which is why I need help with it. Normally my relationships follow the same pattern - Guy likes me, I want to get to know more about guy, we get to know each other for about 6 months, he asks me to be his girlfriend, I say yes and ... (405 words)

He's 17, has two kids and still talks to his babies mothers, should I try to have a relationship with him?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I talk to this dude with Two kids he's only 17 n I no he still talks to his babies mamas but I really Lik him, and we was talk awhile before he got the pregnan.! What should I do?... (40 words)

Advice on sex please!

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. ok i need some sex advice. my and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon, we both know its right and we love and trust each other very much. we have been together for about 5 months, but we havent done anything sexually yet! its because i wanted to save it all for ... (126 words)

He heard from this 24 year old hottie, I haven't heard from him since, should I move on?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I bumped into this guy I used to work with years ago, went on a great date with him, and then in a post-date phone call, he tells me about this hot 24-year-old he'd dated four times a couple months ago. He's 38. She broke it off because she was still getting over a bad brea... (103 words)

She wants me only for a friend, I need more, I love her, what should I do?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have known this girl for about 1 year. During a period of time she was struggle with her bad relationship with her boyfriend. I support her by give her encouragement, also by standing by her when she needed a shoulder to cry on. etc... Unfortunatelly, as my luck brough to me, ... (153 words)

I dumped him but am having second thoughts -- should I contact him?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a really nice guy and we 'dated' for about two weeks. He asked me out each time, paid for all dates, was a gentleman. In the two weeks I knew him all we ever did was kiss lightly, no make out, no nothing else, he didn't push my boundaries at all. But during the first week ... (346 words)

I'm paranoid my boyfriend's friends,want him to break up with me, how do I get over this?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really terrified my boyfriend's friends don't like me. He is always saying that everyone thinks I'm really quiet which makes me think they are sitting around discussing me, I'm so paranoid they are telling him to break up with me. I wish I was more confident but I'm ... (60 words)

My boyfriend does not want me to go out or have any friends, he is insecure, what can I do?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend probably wants us to break up as he can't handle the fact that I now have a small social life. I am gutted and can't believe this reaction after five years together. I had been unwell and a bit of a loner for the start of our relationship. I have recently been ve... (351 words)

We hug and kiss, but he never wants to be more commited, what do I do?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy who I've liked for ages now, and whenever we meet up (which isnt often) we always act like we're a couple, kissing, hugging, and I had my first time with him. He was buying me meals, and drinks.. never used to let me pay for anything. Although nothings ever been ... (195 words)

Her LDR is going bad, and I really want her!

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend is a girl and we've known each other for way too long (about eleven years to be exact). We're now in the same university (we planned that considering we only knew each other was going to this school) and we've actually decided to room together. Nothing happens, ... (361 words)

Should I have sex with him or just keep it at oral?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im thinking about having sex with this guy who is older than me. he is like 26 and im almost 16. we have been planning on getting together soon. should i really go for it or jus keep our relationship at oral?... (42 words)

Confused from the signs -- does she want to end it, or is she just scared?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl on Christian dating service a month ago and we have been getting along really well until this past week. She has had her moments of being distant at times, but this past week she has really gotten very distant. Last weekend she and I had the best weekend ever and ... (299 words)

We have a sexual relationship only, should he at least have sent me a birthday card?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a sexual relationship with this man. We have been seeing eachother for a while, mind you mainly just for sex. It was my birthday the other day and he did not call to say Happy Birthday. I did not expect a gift but I was expecting a phone call. Was I asking for too ... (61 words)

Could I be pregnant, if we had unprotected sex?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so if been on birth control pills for about a year now. Like two weeks ago I stop taking them because of risks and stuff. Four days later after I stoped taking the pills me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he ejaculated inside of me. My question is can I be ... (93 words)

To kiss or not to kiss: That is the question?!??!

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with this guy for some time, I think about two months now, and we've gone out five times. Because of his schedule, he works all the time, which explains why we just gone out a few times. I like hanging out with him; he's smart and has a sense of humor. ... (301 words)

Should I tell him myself, or just hope that no one else does?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me, I need some piece of mind. Let me explain... in February, I lost a baby, which devastated me and my ex, and although I have two children from a previous relationship, this baby was my ex’s first, so I cannot comprehend the guilt I felt when I lost it. We had ... (597 words)

Is he serious about "just friends" or do we still have a shot?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so I was seeing this guy for about a month. He persued hot and heavy. Everything was going along fine until an ex hacked into my email and internet accounts. I had to fess up to the new guy about this "other" guy. It seemed to really freak him out. Said he needed to ... (125 words)

How honest is too honest?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it ever okay to tell "white" lies in relationships? How would you respond to these questions? Have you ever liked one of your female friends? Have you ever fantasized about being with another girl? Have you ever fantasized about someone else while sleeping wit... (126 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me, I cheated on him, got pregnant, how do I tell him?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend and he cheated on me and i wanted to pay him back, so i cheated on him and i am pregnant and i know that the baby belong to the other guy. How do i tell my boyfriend?... (42 words)

Going on dates but not "dating". How do we get back to where we were?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll try to make this short. The man I really loved/love broke up with me approx. 7 months ago. We went our own ways for a while and then one day (2 months ago), we found ourselves in bed together. Since then, we have been hanging out when he's in town, and he has gradually ... (427 words)

I hardly hear from him any more -- what can I do?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been feeling quite sad recently. My boyfriend ended up staying in states, in our hometown, for college. I left to a college five hours away from home. This first week of school has been tough, and I'm not referring to the books. It seems we've been talking less. He ... (246 words)

I've been talking to him on-line for almost a year -- should I go to meet him?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 years old and i have being going out with this 17 yr old boy that i met on the internet we have been going out for almost a yr and he says he has fallen in love with me and and i do love him honestly but we havent met each other in person :S he says all i have to do is ... (207 words)

It's been six years since our mom died -- how can we get dad to start dating?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I hope this doesn't confuse you guys on here. It's three of us talking (a girl and two boys). Our mom died when we were four, six, and eight. It's been six years since then and our dad still hasn't started dating yet. We love our dad and that's why we want to see him happy. He ... (127 words)

He can be selfish and occasionally womanizes -- how can I move on?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I move on from my 8 1/2 year relationship? I am 44 hes 48. I'm so exhausted and depressed I don't know what to do. I would love a new start somewhere but feel stuck. Afraid to make too many changes because of the economy. My kids are grown and my boyfriend of eight ... (331 words)

Two people deleted me from their Facebook, am I not cool enough, how do I get over this?

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31 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - two people deleted me from my facebook. I never really talked to them but I don't understand why they would do that. It really hurt my feelings. How do get over this?? I feel like i'm not cool enough for them. It affected my self esteem ... (46 words)

What's the best way to break the ice in an email?

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31 August 2009 (M) age 36-40 - There is this women at work who is probably 15 years older me but she is kind of sexy. I only see her about once a month but due to work we send emails every day. What is the best way to start flirting with her or let her know I am interested? Every time I write something and i ... (87 words)

I still love this girl even though she is getting married…what should I do?

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So this girl I been with for two months just agreed to marry her ex-bf. I knew about the other guy before we got together. She couldn’t marry him at the time cause he was leaving to work in another country and she had to stay because of work and school. The two months we be... (214 words)

What are the best ways to last longer and get pregnant?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... and we want to have kids but it doesn't feel like we r even tryin anythin we stick to the same ways that we usually do in bed and we never last for very long anymore is there somethin that we can do to last longer n please ... (71 words)

My gf wants sex, but I don't feel I'm ready ...

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm gonna be 15... and my girlfriend wants to have sex... I'm a guy of course I want to... I have been dating her since 7th grade (I'm a freshman now) and I don't know what to do... She means the world to me... and in the past I've turned her down (I'm als... (203 words)

My bf cheated and got someone pregnant -- should I forgive him?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated and had a baby. I found out 10 months later by accident Now he wants another chance. I am so torn because I love him but the entire family knew about it and they all kept quiet. They asked me to cosign for a house..this was before I found out. I felt so ... (62 words)

Should I break up with him if I don't feel I can trust him?

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I break up with my boyfriend? Or how do I trust him? My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 9 months now, and, overall, our relationship is pretty good. We treat each other with respect; he says he loves me no matter what; and we have fun. However, I hav... (302 words)

My gf is moving away to uni, I'm afraid that she's not as committed to the relationship as I am

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31 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 18. We've been together for 13 months now, and i thought everything was going great. I love her so much and she says she does too. I run my own business with my brother, and my girl has just finished her A levels and is moving away to universi... (580 words)

First-time sex help needed.

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 17 and I've started using tampons like about two months ago.So obviously my hymen IS broken.But deffinatley not stretched out enough for sex.Last week i attempted sex with my boy friend and when he tryed to go in, it just hurt WAY too much. I know I wasn't completely ... (95 words)

If you take a bath with your girlfriend or boyfriend, what part of their body should you view first?

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31 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - If you have the chance to take a bath with your girlfriend or boyfriend, when she/he get nude, what part of her/his body do you view first? ... (27 words)