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writes:Hey, I'm 17and work at a camp. Lately I've become attracted to one of my friends who also works there. She is 19 and I think that she might like me but I am not sure. She always comes to visit me when she has time off and usually wants a hug from me. However, lately she has become a bit distant, and I know that she isn't too eager to be in a relationship with a younger guy. We met at camp last year and have become good friends, but we didn't talk too much during the school year and the other day she made a joke about not talking to me anymore after camp is over.what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Hi there! Did you guys not talk during the school year because she goes somewhere else for school since she's older? That's understandable. Maybe that's also what she meant about not talking to you after camp is over too; since she'll be somewhere else. The age thing isn't such a big deal as time goes by. My bf is younger than me however, we have a lot of issues due to the fact that I can really see the immaturity in him still. I think you should just keep talking to her and try and figure out where's she's at. Maybe see if she wants to go catch a movie sometime and see how she reacts. Good luck!
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reader, happyhello  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 i've been in situations like this before. the best thing to do is ask her, or tell her you like her. it might sound really hard to do. but you dont want to regret never knowing. i regretted not pursing relationships in my life, but i just left them too late and the chance went away. its only two years its not that much of a difference (especially if you look older than you are or she looks young). maybe she's become distant because you took too long to catch on?
you should definitely talk to her more, and if you like her, spend lots of time with her and get her to see who you really are and hopefully she'll like you back. or you could just ask like i said.
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