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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hes 20, I'm 15 and parents are against it...heeelppp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im going out with a 20 year old and im 15. we both like each other a lot. my parents found out and wont let me go out anywhere or talk to anyone. what do i do? me and him have been talkin for a year. been together 6 months ago and broke up because of the age difference and ... (89 words)

He stills flirts but he has a girlfriend now.. so why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have know this guy for about 7 years. He’s a great guy, down to earth with A good sense of humor. He knows that I like him and have feeling for him. We saw each other off and on through out those years with out any commitment which was ok with me, But about 2 years ago ... (124 words)

Why do his feelings always seem to change for me every other day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 36 with 41 year old man he says I am the cause of him being unhappy. I have tried everything I can to make him happy. His big thing is that I don't see things his way that I never agree with him. He says I don't bring anything to the table. That I have no goals. He says tha... (205 words)

Why am I never happy... and so clingy?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why am I not happy in my relationship sometimes? I love him so much, this I know; but when he goes out with his friends, or goes on trips without me, I get mad at him. I don't know why I'm like this. I get so bothered if he even mentions the idea of doing something or going ... (70 words)

Should I email him to check in after he broke up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I send him an email. He ended it with me about two weeks ago. I just want to know how he is? Where he is? Was the ending as difficult for him as it was for me? I don't know the REAL reason he ended it, the underlying reason. We loved each other and got along well.... (59 words)

Do you think he could be serious about marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My BF came round to see me and meet my parents for the first time the other day. Whilst we were out walking together he made mention that maybe we should tell my parents that we were engaged just to see how they'd react. At the time I thought he was joking and laughed telling ... (323 words)

What are the signs that a girl likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, can anyone help me please? I have been working with a girl at work for nearly two years now and I REALLY, REALLY like her. I consider us to be very close friends but would really like to know how I could tell whether she fancies me too without asking her. I've ... (328 words)

How can I learn to play it cool when I'm interested in a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well am 22 years old female and am a good looking girl my problem is that i get so confused in front of good looking guys i mean i show that am so intrested and i dont wanna be that way , then when the moment passes i go crazy and blame my self for every thing i say, i really ... (115 words)

Can marriage ruin a relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A year after being married to my husband, its not working out and it feels like marriage has ruined our relationship. There's no closeness, tenderness, we pass eachother on a daily basis barely saying good-morning and when we go to bed at night, Im usually in bed reading a book ... (102 words)

After all the ups and downs in our marriage, she wants a divorce but I don't. How can I win my wife back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This will probably be a long post because a lot has happened in such a short marriage. My wife and I have been together for almost 5 years and married for a year and a half. I had a daughter with someone else prior to meeting my wife and when I met her, she made me such a ... (1643 words)

Is it true that masturbating tightens up the vaginal muscles?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I masterbate with my finger on my clit about every two or three days..I heard from one of my friends that masterbating tightens up your vagina wall muscles....Is this True?? If so am i making it difficult to have sex?... (41 words)

Should I lose my virginity to my friend's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I have a very important question......One night when I spent the night over my friend house her brother and I did some freaky stuff..and now since that night I been thinking that I wanted to loose my virginity to him he's 15 and im 14.....should I? ... (47 words)

Why does he lose his erection when he's about to ejaculate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - The sex is great but y does he loose his irection when it's time to cum. The only way he does cum is by oral or a handjob. It's frustrating he can't finish inside me. What can be wrong ? ... (41 words)

Do you think we could get back together? I miss him so much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my bf have been going out for about 10 months. He is my first love as well as I am for him. We have been through a lot thogether and we have both been there for one another through so much. He is so sweet and caring and lately he has not been. About for the past 3 ... (981 words)

How is this even possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just read an article about a young woman who came forward several years after some guy had supposedly forced her to give him a blowjob at a party. She claims that when this alleged assault was over with that most of the semen ended up in her mouth, but that some of it had ... (150 words)

We are always arguing and he is always saying hurtful things. I've gotten to the point where I can't take it anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i am 36 living with a 41 yearold man who thinks he is younger than what he is. Recently I have been receiving email from a woman who claims to be sleeping with him. De denied it of course but lately he seems to pick fights out of nowhere they get intense he says alot of ... (141 words)

I can't cope with the fact that, being next to my husband, I feel so ugly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - This is such a stupid question, I guess, but I would still like some answers please... When I met my husband 6 y ago, I was blown away. He was really hot, and I couldnt believe that he was interested in me! I am quite plain, you see. I was just swept away, and thought what... (350 words)

What should I do...try and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this guy . he is amazing. Ive liked him for a while and my sister told me to tell him how i felt cuz "you only livve once" and i took her advice and told him. before i told him, we were perty good friends. we would hang out and talk and all that. i thought ... (536 words)

I want our first kiss to be perfect, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few weeks now, we've been friends for a few months n we both decided to tell each other how we felt and things have been great. officially we've only been on 3 real dates and I havent yet kissed him. so far things have been perfect and I wa... (89 words)

Is it wrong to be attracted to a gay guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, basically I'm 15, and crushing really hard on this actor I saw in a music video (he's the most gorgeous guy I ever saw, I'm not kidding). Only thing is, I just found out he was gay. I know, of course, I won't ever be able to hook up with this guy anyway, but I won't deny... (99 words)

Help me get over my baby daddy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old with 2 little girls, a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. I was with my boyfriend for 15 months, I got pregnant right away. During a routine ultrasound, it was discovered that our baby will be born with spina bifida. That's when the spine is portruding from the back. ... (288 words)

Should I give us a chance to be friends? Did he even cared about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've meet this guy about 10 years ago, we used to work with eachother. He's 11 years older than I am. Few years back we started dating. Things were really good, until gradually he was start saying that age is a problem, and he feels that I would leave for someone else. I... (991 words)

Updated from last post.....Still really scared went to the police...unsure who to believe help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Updated!!! Boy friend complications Now what to do? Please help im scared and confused? Ok, in june I broke up with a guy because he was cheating on me. In may some guy called his law firm and tried to get us fired. I thought it was my ex but my ex said he didn't do it he ... (567 words)

Dear cupid has destroyed my life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A few months ago I discovered this website and started reading through the posts as a bit of general interest during my breaks at work (IT department so lots of spare time). But unfortunately I found the website a little too addictive and hence have been constantly reading ... (137 words)

True Love Waits. Is that okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend who met this guy who is eight and half years older then her, she met him when she was three. they sorta grew up together, he was so much like a big brother to her growing up she always sat in his lap and hold his hand and she played with him and she told me ... (567 words)

Should I move on and get over these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Twenty six years ago, I left a 13 year relationship because I felt like I was losing my soul. I left to return to my family and especially my daughter who never got along with my lover and lost respect in me because I had become dependent. After all these years, I still have ... (178 words)

Totally confused woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im from England, aged 24, and i used to work on cruise ships in 2007 and had the time of my life!!! i loved the lifestyle as i was constantly busy and meeting new people from all over the world. while i was there, i met a man who was from America and he was on vacation. we ... (236 words)

I've seen my crush in a different light!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not to sure what to think, I quite like this guy I work with and we flirt a lot and we were on a works night out last night and one of the girls I worked with got with another bloke and they were the talk of the office today. The guy I like kept asking me to find ... (146 words)

Did you ever go back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - have you ever been the person who broke up with someone, regretted it and then tried to reconcile? please share your story. How long did it take you to realize you made a mistake?... (37 words)

I'm not very experienced sexually but I want some interesting ideas to try with my boyfriend in the bedroom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya So I've been with my Bf for 3 months now and we've been sleeping together for a while. Recently he asked me if I had any fantasies or if there was any particular things that I wanted him to do to me or that I wanted to do to him. Problem is that I'm not very experienced... (263 words)

How much birth control is necessary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not on the pill but really want ot seep with my boyfriend, is it ok just to use a condom?... (22 words)

How do I ask her to meet me as a friend without leading her on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i went on this chatroom thing to find a few friends and got talking to a girl, i like her but only in a friendly way nothing else and i wanna ask her to go out and have a drink and chat or something but i dont know how i should put it so she doesnt get the wrong picture and ... (73 words)

I want him to think I'm amazing, but will he since I'm so inexperienced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am lookiing for some advice, I am quite a shy 25 year old female and I have fallen for a guy for the first time, he is the only guy I have ever felt attracted to and he seems into me as well, we have kissed a couple of times and I know it is early days but I am a little ... (166 words)

I love him but if doesn't return that, why can't he just be a gentleman about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I think it is time to let go of the man i have loved for years. he tells me he loves me yet he dont phone me when he say he will. he lives in england and that is were we did meet i have visit england many times and he has visit me 3 times. the last time was 2 years ago and we ... (110 words)

Is it normal to miss your boy friend after you break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of two years. I still love him but I had to do it because he was too controlling. I miss him though... Is it normal to miss your boy friend after you break up. Sometimes I'm happy and others I'm not. But I'm beginning to miss him more ... (77 words)

I'm trying so hard to be the bigger person but he's being a jerk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused and angry!! My boyfriend of six months and I broke up recently (his decision), and I have been a mess. I am dying to get back with him but I am holding onto my dignity and I am not contacting him or saying mean things about him or anything. However, he is... (127 words)

Rape or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, now this is not a trick question but rather a gathering of consensus among gender specific -especially female- opinions: When a woman start off kissing a man and it escalates to the man rummaging his hands all over the woman's body, then the next thing you know they're ... (153 words)

My wife doesn't want me to witness the OW's child birth..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a pregnant woman on the side and am married. The problem is that my wife doesn't want me to be there during the womans labor. If my wife has forgave me, shouldn't I at least be able to be there during the birth of this child?... (49 words)

There are trust issues, along with others.. should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I move on? Me and my fiance have been having problems because he doesnt like for me to tell him who he can hang around with,but theirs some girls and a guy that live 2 houses down from where his mother and my ex fiance lives, well the people that live there do drugs... (174 words)

I wish I could be religious to deal with this pain.. but I can't..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age - I'm not a religious person , but I wish I would be. I'm suffering a lot in this life, Right now just staring a painful divorce, but there is death and accident, sickness, and all.. Years ago , none stop. So ,actually I wish if I could be explain this to myself ,that it was s... (194 words)

If anyone has been in this situation, I would like to hear what you did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

- Hi all , I'm really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked me out . I was still maried at that point , ... (386 words)

How can I show her that she can trust me, and I don't want to hurt her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Why she doens't trust me? i have shown more than once how much I love her, she repeated it too, i did mistakes in the past, I've never been unfaithful but i have been not nice to herin the past, i haven't shown that i trust to her, but all that was past Now i don't do it, i did ... (252 words)

He got a new girlfriend and now I don't know what to say. What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in college and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. I went home for the summer to take care of some family issues. When I first left we called and texted each other all day, everyday, but soon that became less and less. We were testing each other yesterday and I ... (122 words)

We know we made a mistake, but it can't be changed now but she doesn't want me to meet their child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age - I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 2 years... yes he was still married when we started dating we were not intimate right away because he was married but once he decided that he would divorce we did become intimate. Yes I know that this is wrong but cannot be changed at ... (356 words)

I'm bipolar, I don't want to scare her away. Should I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have recently been seeing someone and we get along very well. shes lovely I like her a lot and vice versa. however I have something on my mind which is bothering me. I'm bipolar and I don't know if I should tell her this. It shouldn't be wrong to tell her this but I don't ... (70 words)

I'm 17 and pregnant and my husband keeps hitting me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 17teen years old iv'e been married for almost two year's and i need help and fast my husband is 19 and he keep's hiting me when we get into a fight in front of our 18month old and we have another baby on the way i'm 15weeks and he keeps hiting should we split up or what ... (69 words)

I need to better myself, should I stay in this situation or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I stay or should I go? I'm a 29 year-old, divorced and a single mother of a toddler. I've lived in the same city for 10 years where I've worked many jobs and received a bachelor's degree. I have close friends with children and a couple family members that live here. ... (276 words)

Oh no! I think I've gone and made myself like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so the other day, i was txting my friend ryan and randomly i sent him "ima going to call you boyfriend now :)" as a joke cuz we LOVE to flirt and joke around without really liking each other. and we still txt and he would call me girlfriend and it was just silly and fun and ... (96 words)

I'm so horrible! I'm going to lose everyone.. I don't know what to do.. help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Wot is wrong with me! Im so depressed its unbelievable. About 3-4wks ago i come off anti depressants for post natel depression, been on them 4 just over a yr. Thing is im so horrible, i dont just snap i lose it completly. With any1 even my beautiful daughter :-( i shout, scream ... (130 words)

My bf stopped talking to me because of his family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex had been together nearly 10 months and we broke up just over a week ago. everyone said we was so much in love and we had been engaged and went on holiday 3 times together, we was also going to try for a baby. when he left i kept calling him and trying to get him to ... (291 words)

How do I finger my girlfriend to orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So im not retarded but i have a very simple question How do i finger my girlfriend to orgasm???? i have been fingering her for about a year or so and she is very tight or so i would guess because we have never had sex. And well when she used to finger herself she didnt use a ... (87 words)

Should I stay friends with my ex in the hope that we'll get back together, or leave him and try to find someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we then split after both of us cheating. It is now just over a year and a half later, but ever since we split we have acted as a couple but have never been officially a couple. But have both accepted that each other have kissed ... (241 words)

Should I tell her why I didn't call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who has an eight year old son who tried to commit suicide and was admitted to a mental hospital on a Friday night. On Saturday, she sent out a text message that she was still having "Girls night out". I didn't go because I had plans already and going out seemed ... (270 words)

He's still an Internet cheat, and I need to confront him, but I'm scared that he'll try and cover it all up!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - alright some of you helped me before with your input and im looking for it again just found some inappropriate sites on his phone and found out he still has his email account although i dont have the password to find out exactly whats going on but something in my gut is ... (143 words)

He's not ready to grow up yet, should I wait or go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello.. I've been in a relationship for almost 5 years. I am 22 and he's about to turn 23. We have been together since the middle of senior year in high school. We have been through A LOT. We have been in a semi-long distance relationship. We went to different schools but only... (692 words)

Are we "friends with Benefits"? or is there something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Are we "friends with Benefits"? or is there something more? First of all, we met like a year ago and really developed a strong friendship and apparently as I found out a few months ago, we also share a strong physical attraction. After a few nervous encounters, we landed up ... (235 words)

Help! How can I stop him from making me feel stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now. He was newly divorced when we first got together. I love him and he is good to me but when we get into an argument he talks to me like I am stupid and then he always threatens to leave. Sometimes he does leave for the night. I have ... (112 words)

How hard would you fight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you fight for the person who dumped you?... (9 words)

Why do older men perv on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and, recently, I've started to notice much older men perving on me. When I was 12 or 13, teenage boys used to tell me they fancied me or asked me out, and I didn't mind that. But, nowadays, I've had a guy in his twenties flirting with me; I've twice spotted men much... (198 words)

Am I being ignored? What would you do in my situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So I've met this new guy at the grocery store, he got my number and we'd been texting. We've went out twice and while I'm definitely attracted to him (he's really cute!) I haven't really seen much of his personality. He seems kinda... boring I guess. See I like a guy who ... (213 words)

I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need urgent help; I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop. He's away on holiday, and I've been getting close to this guy the last month or so. Last night we went to the cinema and he held my hand and stroked my leg, then on the way home we made out in his car. At the t... (188 words)

Does education matter in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this wonderful man, fell in love, everything was going great until he told me that he would not marry me until I earned my bachelor's degree. At first I didn't care because I was in college when he met me and I intend to finish with or without him. Now though, he puts ... (179 words)

I need opinions on this. What's the difference between love and lust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What's the difference between love and lust? Loving someone or lusting after someone?... (13 words)

Is he likely to get back in touch???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi If you were seeing someone on a sex only basis because you were both in relationships, would it be reasonable to assume that when one of you (i.e. him) goes on holiday with his girlfriend for a month, that he will not contact you during that time, but will contact you when... (1039 words)

He's never shown signs that he was interested but all of a sudden he gave me a hug!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am new to this forum and would really appreciate some help. I am attracted towards a man whom I know for more than 2 years, I can tell that there is a spark between us. However, until now we have been like friends. He has never touched me in what ever way. W... (98 words)

I feel so hurt, he wont speak to me because I told people about our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy, i really like him, we have had sex a few times and he wants to keep it discreet although i know he is seeing other people, he has told me a lot about what he gets up to. He wont speak to me cos i have told people ive seen him! What should i do, how do i get ... (71 words)

I'm missing something during sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is very sensitive about her body. I have managed to raise her confidence and she says during sex she is more open than with exes, but sill i´m missing something during sex. I have a few questions. She doesn´t want me to pleasure her orally because she doesn´t want ... (144 words)

I had a phone call claiming that my husband was having an affair with his bos, what do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I got a phone call last night from someone (who didn't want to reveal their name, for some reason) claiming that my husband had been having sex with his boss for the past four years. The individual claimed the affair started in February 2005 and has continued up until now ... (518 words)

Should you ever give a controlling boy a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should you ever give a controlling boy a second chance? I was with my bf for over 2 years, and just recently I broke it off with him. I love him and that was the hardest thing i've ever done. I miss him, but I had to do it because I was living my life for him. I didn't do the ... (175 words)

Do I take my boyfriend back after he's been seeing another girl for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people..ive just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. he lives like 4 hours away from me but i didnt think that he would do that. at first i found out the he kissed a girl he denied it at first and then admitted it and apoloigised and he said he would do anything like ... (264 words)

We have gone from a non-existent sex life to a very adventurous sex life, but I cant help feel concerned!

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6 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I have a question... My husband and I are in our late 30's. Married 5 years. both on 2nd marriage. Sex life almost non-existent past year or so. It happened insiduously. Probably due to stress and work and forgetting to stop and focus on the other one. We finally realised... (277 words)

Does she consider me a friend, or more?

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there, i think i am a man full of confusions when it comes to man-woman relationships. i am a 24 years old virgin never had a girl in my life, i think it is not bcause i have negative feelings for girls, rather i am a strong believer that girls light-up a MAN's life. I ... (276 words)

In love with my also gay friend who is in a relationship - should I open up to her?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in love with a close friend. She is gay as am I but she is in a long term relationship. We seem to connect, and I have built up feelings for her for a long time now. I have always had questions over her relationship as her mate still seems attracted to men. I have wond... (96 words)

How can I keep my stomach flat? I'm desperate!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi every1!im 15.im tall n slim but i have a problem with my staumach,sometimes its so flat and sometimes its not!!!!!!!and because of my bad luck when i have a party or when i plan 2 go 2 the beach with my friends guess what?i wake up in the morning with a staumach so not ... (106 words)

Why does my baby's father treat me like this?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my baby father i been with him since i was 15 and we have two kids and he cheats he calls me names he dont come see the kids he dont care about me i never cheated he make me feel like im not worth it no man will ever want me what should i do do he really care about me and his ... (77 words)

Do you think I've still got a chance with him? And if not how can I get over him?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi every1!i'm 15 yo.i had this huge crush on this boy called'wb'we go 2 the same school but now its summer break n i havent seen him since the last day at school!!!!!he went 2 canada i think!! i still think of him all the time and i dream about him mostly everynig... (138 words)

I haven't had sex but I'm still worried I might be pregnant... what are the chances?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have been going out with a guy for just over a year. We have never actually had sex, but he has lay on top of me when both our trousers have been off (underwear still on) and it is a possibility that wet could of touched wet and I hear this can lead to pregnancy ... (134 words)

Sister rivalry... should I go to her wedding or not?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's my sister's wedding this weekend and I really don't want to go. I'll tell you why. I got engaged to my fiance two and a half years ago and we're getting married in seven weeks. Around this time last year, my younger sister and her boyfriend announced that they were g... (483 words)

A few questions about boy's behaviour...

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every girl in this world looks for that one boy who will always stand by her side,the one who will love her til the end « from start to finish »,the boy who protects her and the boy who would die for her.poeple say :there are always a boy and a girl who belong together,who were ... (242 words)

What are the chances of me being pregnant?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - had sex with my boyfriend on sunday and have been expecting my periods between tuesday and this coming saturday. he tells me that there has been a 20% chance that he PARTLY "came on me". how lots are the chances of me becoming pregnant? please help,i am very nervous and do not ... (81 words)

I wish and wish I could go back in time and undo my terrible mistake, but I'm scared it's going to haunt me forever.

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so scared that I've ruined my life. When I was in college, I didn't know what I wanted to do, and I had to work a lot because my parents wouldn't help me out. I graduated with HORRIBLE grades (my GPA was either a 3.2 or 3.4, I don't remember). I became a highschool tea... (658 words)

My boyfriend needs a break from our relationship, how do I get through this?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 8 months just recently told me that he needed a break from the relationship because my friends were putting to much pressure on him. He told me that he honestly does love me and that he just needs some time to get everything ok again, but the part that is ... (93 words)

How can I trust her now?

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. My problem is.. When I first met my girlfriend she was seeing another guy. We worked together but seemed to connect really well. One day we made out in a private room at work. After that we started hanging out together and we would occasionally kiss. I never felt ri... (845 words)

If we are around each other for more than a few hours all we do is fight!

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i"m with my girlfriend for the last four years it used to be wonderful had great laughs really enjoyed each others company but now if we around each other for more than a few hours we do nothing but fight. i am hooked on golf i love the sport i am quite good at it and am trying ... (214 words)

I want to help him but I cant because I am part of the problem!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out win my bfriendfor a year and we recently moved in together. We live off campus the university I attend. We have anoher roomate, his best friend bill. Things have been going pretty bad see since I got back from a 2 week vacation. We've been fightingna lot ... (559 words)

Triplets at 15!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 15 and pregnant i have already told my perants and have just had my first scan and found out i am having triplets!! i cannot believe it i have just found out this morning my mum cannot believe it .... i dont know how i am gonna cope money wise and mentally .... i ... (103 words)

How do I win him back?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated my ex-boyfriend for a year. He proposed after I pressured him to move to the next level. I don't think he was ready and I felt betrayed by the "false" proposal. Things got tense and headed south. A month later we were broken up. We tried getting back together, but to... (181 words)

Having a hard time just now, and I don't know why!

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm not sure whats wrong with me. Ever since i came back from my holiday life has been sh*t. Before that i got a new group of friends and I've been really happy. Then after two weeks away i just can't be f*cked with anything. I just sit around all day 'till 7 o'clock when ... (154 words)

How do I deal with my BFs crazy mother?!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been with this guy for over 4 months. He is 17, will be 18 in December. He has a very overprotective, crazy mom. Some of my friends have said it's because it's her only son and I'm his FIRST girlfriend. But anyways, at the beginning of our relationship, before we ... (944 words)

Survey: Is finding a mate a trial and error thing?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just wondering.. I just broke up with my bf and I promise myself not to stumble with someone like him anymore. But how will I make sure I wont attract the same type of person? Right now, I have met one online. And to be honest, I am hesitant to proceed further. ... (110 words)

I'm 30 and I need to grow up, I've lost the love of my life!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - God ive f*****g ruined my life.or any chance of getting my girlfriend back. I tell u she is the best thing thats happened to me and i screwed it up. B4 i met her i slept around with lots of girls i mean nearly 100. I had nothing really ive got two kids by two different women. ... (447 words)

Are there any pills you would recommend to help me lose weight?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i lose weight? are there any pills that you would recommend? i am 14 5ft2 and about 10 1/2 stone. i would really appreciate any advice. please don't recommend any diets because i am not allowed to follow any of them. ... (43 words)

My girlfriend told me she loved me but I don't know what to say back to her!

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - well it has been 1 month and a half in the relationship. just the other day she told me that " i love u" on the phone. i did not know what to say back to her, i just was in shock. dont know what to do... help.... (48 words)

I had sex with my friend and then he acted like it never happened!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok a few months ago i was hanging out wit my best guy friend and we started making out and he fingered me and i gave him a hand job we also went all the way and only a handful of ppl knew but he acted like it never happened was he not satisfied with me? then a couple of days ... (106 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm making new social gay friends online and want to meet them?

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I joined a gay website to make new friends and it is working well. I am meeting a guy for a drink and probably a dance on Friday. I really need more of a social life. BUT BUT BUT I don't know how to tell my boyfriend! He only has female friends and doesn't like to go o... (241 words)

Technically I didnt cheat but I'm worried that this will ruin my chances of getting back with my ex!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me. me and my ex split 5 months ago, when i suffered a miscarriage and he told me he didnt love me anymore, but since then we have carried on seeing each other all the time and acting like we are together. he has told me consistently that we will never get back ... (271 words)

Are these symptoms of a possible pregnancy, or am I being paranoid?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and i'm starting to get a little worried about possibly being pregnant.. I lost my virginity to my bf on the 28th of june.. we had sex three times that day: once protected, once not, and then protected again. He never "finished" inside me, even when he did have a c... (189 words)

Should I approach the subject of marriage and children, or wait for him to take action?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years (lived together for 1.5 years). I am 28 and he is 30. I am ready to get married and start a family. He says I am his soul mate and says he wants to be with me forever. However, we have never really discussed marriage and ... (122 words)

Our marriage fell apart, now he's seeing another woman after 3 weeks! How could he move on so quick? And what did his silence mean?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband asked for a divorce after 7 years because I put my children (from a previous marriage) before him. Three weeks later he is dating another woman. For closure I needed to know how he could move on so fast and just act like I never existed. So when he called me I asked ... (144 words)

15, pregnant and don't know what to do. Can someone shed some light on my situation?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out I was pregnant about a week and a half ago. I told my parents the next day I found out. My mother has become supportive to non supportive to some-what supportive within this past week and some. My parents boyfriend are also aware, but don't come from a stable en... (274 words)

What can I do about my mums behaviour? Or am I making a mountain out of a molehill?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm really worried about how my mum is acting, she has broken many of my things when in a bad mood and even the littleist things get her annoyed. she threw my straightners into a wall and made a hole and now she has thrown and broken my ipod. she can be really nice sometimes ... (79 words)

How do I let him know that I want a relationship with him?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 4.5 years, i'm stuck in a dead-end relationship, no future whatsoever. I'm 31 never been in love. i've had really long relationships, but for some reason i don't fall in love. i approach things very logically. I have a friend whom i've... (335 words)

Please help...Since we got married I haven't been able to have sex with her.

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am from India...I got married in Dec 2008, It was a Love marriage..and me and my wife since 6 Years... As if I used to be a very very romantic with my wife before our marriage...but since our marriage I am not able to even Intercourse with her ..Cant no why? I Love h... (104 words)

Can anyone clarify if we are officially engaged?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half and hes been talking about marriage alot and me too. Ive been discussing it with my bf and my mum but my boyfriend told me he was going to get a ring and ask me in oct as we go to the southport firewo... (376 words)

I moved to be with the man I love, now I have no options

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, here we go , I am gay who was working flight attendant for one of the best airlines in the world , my life was good , not perfect , but I was me , myself , I was satisfied , but there was something missing which is Love hehe I found the love , but my lover was living... (682 words)

Why does he say thank you when I say 'I love you'

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would just like to know, why it is every time i tell him that i love him he says thank you or i know.... Does he not believe me, does he not feel the same about me? Its really starting to get to me.... Thanx :)... (47 words)

How do I show my BF I wont put up with his crap?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I explain to my boyfriend I won't put up with his bullcrap anymore??? I don't like the way he treats me some times. He doesn't pay as much attention to me as I would like him too. He is not as attentive as I was before. He says I am also not as cool and fun as I was ... (110 words)

Love thy neighbour... why hasn't he approached me?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have this big crush on my neighbor i'm sure he's interested in me but never has made a serious move. It's the little thing he was doing like watching me jog on the track,staring and smiling all the time but why hasn't he approched me? ... (48 words)

She has a baby with him, but he's a cheater, how can we get him to be a family man?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My best friend is 17 and is in a relationship with a 22 year old. They have been together for 3 years and have an infant child together. He is constantly cheating on her, so she leaves him but he always comes running back and begging for her to take him back, sa... (96 words)

Is he playing games, or does he want to get back with me?

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6 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Why does my ex keep calling me twice a month and talking for only about 10 minutes when he has told me he doesn't want to be together anymore? Sometimes he says things to make me feel like there may be a chance for us and then he does the same thing again. I am so tired of this ... (65 words)

She's beautiful , popular and I trust her, how can I stop being jealous?

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently started dating, but we have been friends for a long time and we know each other very well so I know what kind of girl she is and I know that she is COMPLETELY trustworthy and I do trust her 100%...however, I have been hurt in the past and have ... (212 words)

Trouble with the boyfriends close knit group and family! Please help!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been dating a guy for almost 2 years. He has been friends with a group of people for 15 years (he's 31) so since high school. His brother is married to one of the queen bee's in the group. My boyfriends ex girlfriend (dated two years) is the other queen bee in ... (525 words)

I'm hurt, losing my best friend, and need help coping please!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - sorry this is long but i need help im really hurt here.. someone who i considered to be my best friend has recently become new "best friends" with a woman P -who she is going to open a business with at the end of the year. P is wealthy, loud, witty and confident, P ... (480 words)

I've lost my ability to love please help!

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so once long time ago there was a 14 year old girl who loved everything! now she got hurt so much by a guy that she cant love anymore.. she let him go but the pain remains.. long story short.. she dosent love anyone not even her family! what should i do?? i cant love... (69 words)

I'm confused and sad because maybe he never even loved me..

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid; ive been dating my boyfriend for around a year with some breaks in between, i had my first time with him..the relationship has never been stable sometimes it is super nice sometimes it is bad...i had many arguments with him for little things such as he erased a... (181 words)

She's clingy and melodramatic and I always end up feeling guilty!

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have a great relationship but she is terribly clingy. We have had petty arguments lately and she is very emotional and atop that has been through some very rough times as of late. We live together and spend a whole lot of time together and she disagrees, ... (229 words)

My girlffriend isn't as passionate anymore and won't talk about why.

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 20 year old male and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been dating year and a half. We do not have sex because we are waiting for marriage. In the past couple of months, she gets in the mood to make out/fool around less and less. When we do hook up (which ... (152 words)

Is sex the same after childbirth?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possivle for a man still to be able to enjoy sex with a woman once she has had a child naturally ? MOD NOTE: most likely is meant vaginally, not naturally.... (34 words)

My girlfriend is super paranoid about her health and I don't know how to handle it?

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - For the last six weeks, my girlfriend has been experiencing pain around the entrance of her vagina when we make love. Because of something that happened around a year ago (she was treated for a cervical erosion) she thought it must have been the same problem all over again. She ... (282 words)

My fiance would rather sleep on the couch than with me..

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, I wonder how common this is: my fiance will not sleep with me in our bedroom, and has not for 7 months. she prefers the couch. i do not like this at all. we used to snuggle and fall asleep in eachothers arms everynight. i have made my feelings clear about this.... (230 words)

Is there such a thing as a non boyfriend?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey this is a long one but i really need opinions here so please read through :) about 4 months ago months ago, one of my housemates and i started hooking up (gonna call him Tim). hes 27 and im 21. at first it was just fun making out and stuff but it was kinda on the dow... (408 words)

Its been 3 days should I text or call her?

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6 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl at a festival she came over and talked to me and we hit off, I got her number and called her the next day and we met at the festival again and hung out all day. It went well. When I went home she said she would call or text me, just wondering what I should I ... (76 words)

Why won't she kiss me?

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6 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why wont she kiss me ? I have been friends with this girl sense January and over the last few months it has become more. we talk all the time and text like 20 times a day. we have been intimate in bed, only. I have tried to kiss her like two times but I either got no resp... (87 words)