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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I her drunken mistake or does she want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I hooked up with this girl (who I’ve flirted with at prior parties) at a party but didn’t have sex with her because we were both too drunk. I got her number, been texting each other lots about whatever, and have made out with her once since our hookup (at another party). Anyway ... (185 words)

How do I leave with no money, no help and get the children to understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 13 yrs now and I'm pretty sure I am no longer in love with him. We have 2 children together 6 and 11 and I’m afraid to leave because I don't want to hurt them. Although he doesn't spend much time with them I know they would be devistated. I've ... (348 words)

What's up with my ex-boyfriend!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone! I was the one that dump him. It's been about 6 months since we broke up. Well my ex-boyfriend is always asking people about me, or when was last time they have seen me. He also always acts like he is a "big- shot" with a big ego like he doesn’t "care". lol if h... (129 words)

I'd like to hear about women's experience with implants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is about breast implants and confidence. I have very small breasts which appear very far from one another and no matter what I do they will not grow. Even on birth control they haven't changed in size or fullness and it really affects my confidence having to wear ... (114 words)

How do I get him back? He's afraid I'll hurt him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do? Ok, so...my boyfriend and I broke up in June. We still talk and we still see each other. I still love him very much and he still loves and cares about me. He’s just afraid of being with me again because he doesn’t want me to hurt him again. What I did wasn’t too ... (98 words)

How do I obtain an explanation from him about his feelings related to our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 4 months recently told me he did not think our relationship was working out. This is very confusing to me because last week, he said we could not break up because we're both in this for something serious (marriage) and we both have met each other's families and ... (684 words)

Would these be signs of an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when I masturbate I get this rush of blood over my face and body, My muscles go really tight, I feel like I'm going to pee, my uturus goes warm and expands and my heart pounds really fast. Would this be the signs that I am having an orgasm?... (50 words)

I feel bad that I haven't been touching him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I currently have a great boyfriend. He has been coming over and we have been making out and he has been touching me. But I haven't been touching him. He wants me to though. And I feel bad I haven't been. Should I feel this way? And also what should I do if he keeps ... (83 words)

Any experience with the effectiveness of prayer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I wonder if someone would share some of their experience with me, the effectiveness of praying... I'm not a religious man, yet, but I really would like to see, what God would tell me if I would ask him. Some people has beautiful stories, how praying was answered ,and I ... (104 words)

How do I resist smoking at this festival and not be a kill-joy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All I'd really appreciate some good advice. I'm 30 and I quit smoking 5 weeks ago, after being a smoker of cigarettes for 15 years. During this time I have quit so so many times it's unreal, and obviously I've never suceeded but this time, i really want to suceed. I... (396 words)

My husband stopped having sexual desire!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age - I really need some good advice here. I'm having lots of trouble finding it out why my husband stopped having sexual desire. He went to the doctor and they said he is healthy, so it's must be some psychological stuff. Now ,we also went to sex therapist and it remains a myster... (124 words)

He says the age difference bugs him, but why doesn't he even try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I grew up and I am a lot more mature and smarter when it comes to relationships and guys. And yet, I have a question and it has been bugging me for so long. I REALLY like this guy, he is smart and sweet and funny, all I want. I can talk to him about anything and basically ... (305 words)

How many times a month or a year do you feel sick?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question. Not anything to do with relationships but I’ll ask anyway. I would like as many people as possible to answer please. Just in general, how many times a month or how many times a year do you feel sick? Like just not feeling well such as headache or stomach ... (84 words)

I don't feel that I am in love with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me! I am very confused about my relationship. I am a 23 and my girlfriend is 24 and we have been dating for about a year and 2 months. The problem I have is that I don't feel like I am in love with her. I definitely have love for her and care for her very much but I ... (199 words)

He's great and I want everyone to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright...so my boyfriend and i have been together for about two years and i lovee him. He’s always a gentlemen and is such a sweet guy to me.however his style, haircut, and lack of shaving has been driving me crazy lately. There is no doubt I love him no matter what, but it’s ... (101 words)

Should I tell my husband about this hug? I worry this guy's attracted to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age - So, I am totally thrown for a loop! A friend of my husband just came by to pick up my husband. I was taking out the trash and he waved from the car, I waved back. I went in to let me husband know he was here and when I opened the door to take the bag out he had gotten out of ... (129 words)

Will they grow? Do I have time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I’m 17 years of age, going into my senior year of high school. All the girls around me have big breast and I’m a simple 34A... will they still grow? Do I have time? I’m not too confident with my small boobs. Honest opinion and information. Thanks ^_^ -SilentGirl ... (52 words)

Recently been bleedin during sex.. but I never have before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been having sex with my long term bf for over a year now... and never had any after pains or bleeding... but past few weeks I have been bleeding during sex and for a day after.. I’m not due my period and I have no pain but I’m a bit worried... is it normal?? Is it my body ... (82 words)

He doesn't spend his money on us, his family and he is violent! I need suggestions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I have much married life problems in my life. My in laws are very kind to me but my husband create many problems. He is very kind to his friends, his relatives, and different people. But all time he has a problem with his own mother, me, his children, his br... (149 words)

Deep French kissing and dry humping: did he get satisfied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts What do you think the norm is to this question? I belive I have the answer but would like you input. 24 year old guy deep french kissing and dry humping (with clothes on) for a couple hours. do you think he got satisfied? thanks in advance for your help... (63 words)

I like her a lot, but I'm scared she only sees me as a friend. NEED HELP !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know a lot of people probably have the same problem, or something similar, but either way i wanted to write my own question because it kinda helps me feel more personal about the advice. Ok, so there's this girl that I've known for a long time since school, and now we even ... (606 words)

What makes a woman want to do that for her man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This has happened to me on more than one occasion, the chick I could be with, goes down on me, and I'm thinking(assuming really) that she knows what she's doing. It starts off nice, it feels good, I get into it, annnnnd. TEETH. SCRATCH. SCRAP. CHEW lol. the object of giving ... (166 words)

Should I tell the new guy about my ex's attack on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just met a really nice guy who could be the perfect boyfriend for me, the trouble is that my ex boyfriend attacked me while I stayed at his house for the weekend, should I tell my new boyfriend about my past, as at the moment I don’t think we will be together much longer ... (97 words)

I think I'm just the trophy wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my husband has been having a few problems regarding his ex wife, I think he is still in love with her and I’m just here as the trophy wife. If she asks for anything he gives into her and I’m left with no opinion on anything. I don’t think I can take it anymore. Should I ... (68 words)

I want to leave him but I can't risk losing the property!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I’m 25 my husband is 61. The problem is I only married him on the rebound trying to hurt my ex. I only ended up hurting myself, as me and my ex have been in touch and finally admitted our feelings are mutual and we were both young and naive. I currently have my mum living ... (174 words)

Would a court take my baby and give it to that monster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out I was pregnant two weeks ago and I'm only in my seventh week. A week before I found out I was pregnant I broke up with my boyfriend who I had been on and off with for 4 years. Ironically, I was finally through with him for good because he just wasnt growing up. ... (445 words)

We seemed so happy together and then all of a sudden it was gone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's a summary of before and current. Bf and I broke up a mo ago - said he was no longer feeling it, which Is BS because he messaged/saw me daily*he has financial/work problems*.Hung out as friends/ended up having sex. I messaged and he always replied but then id stop ... (432 words)

We can't afford to be together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with the most amazing man for two years. I love him more than I have loved anyone and I can't imagine my life without him. The problem is I am having a hard time seeing a future with him. We are both single parents and have separate lives during the week. We see ... (197 words)

Boyfriend is copying all my hobbies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts, maybe this is a strange question but here goes. I've dated my boyfriend for about 11 months. He is older than me. I think he was quite the introvert before I met him. I didn't mind that. I am not a needy or clingy person and I need to be by myself more than is ... (227 words)

What's the best way to tell her about my weight issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Referring to question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-for-meeting-a-girl-i-met-online.html What's the best way to approach/tell her about the weight thing?... (29 words)

Everyone thinks I should just get over it, but I cannot form a relationship with my abusive father!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My father was raised by an abusive step-father and willfully blind mother who did nothing to stop the violence and probably participated in the emotional abuse. It was, by any account, a rotten way to grow up, and it scarred him deeply. He married my mom when they were both ... (450 words)

Is he like only using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well again, There is this dude I fancy. He is in a local band in my area, and i found out he likes me! But alot of people say hes a player, and I totally agree with them, he does get around haha. But its little things he does that makes me think that we could go out. Like hes... (116 words)

Why bother taking me out on a date if he was just going to disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all another man in my life, another weird situation. I met this guy back in May, we started seeing each other, almost every day and things were going well. He had just come out of a long relationship, so he was holding back and not saying too much, but he was into me, text... (325 words)

We've told each other how we feel and now are feeling worried that we'll lose our friendship or be awkward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me And my friend are close mates and recently went away to devon for a holiday. Since then we have got really close and have feelings for each other. We have both told each other how we feel but are worried that if the realtionship doesn't work we will lose the friendship we ... (136 words)

Married, slept with a women at work, am a wreck, what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Met this women at work, we love to talk to eachother and we find eachother attractive, i've been married for ages and am in my 40s, shes 12 years younger. I've been resonably happily married, i always felt a little lonely, i love contact and intimacy and my wife is sadly th... (445 words)

Urgent help needed, an ignoring boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - right, me and my boyfriend have been on and off for the past four years. we've planned to have kids in the near future, annd all that. we both lost our virginity a few months back to each other. but this last month things have got difficult, and i know relationships have the... (132 words)

I don't like the type of communication between my boyfriend and this girl...what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and we both love each other but recently hes been getting very ratty with me n taking me for granted when he asks me to do stuff for him n if i say no he goes off on one. recently as he was going away on a trip he ... (171 words)

Almost 21 and never had a boyfriend... will I ever find my true love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never had a boyfriend and I am turning 21 this year! To be honest, I am very worried now as I am already in the third year of my university life...... And I often gets depressed when I get questions about why i never have boyfriends before. There are guys chasing me then ... (119 words)

I'm bored with this LDR, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old girl and i know that my boy friend loves me too much but we are so far and i am too borring about this long distance relation ship.so plz suggest me that what should i do?... (44 words)

I don't think I'll trust someone again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 going to be 21 this year and have never had a boyfriend before. Actually, there were several guys who pursue me last time and I almost got into a relationship with a guy (J) this year april after dating for around 3 months. We agreed to keep it from our common friends ... (200 words)

Why is my gay ex still trying to date women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out last monday that my boyfriend has been going on craigslist having sex with men/transexuals and answering heterosexual personal adds from women. When I confronted him, at first he responded by saying he didn't know why he did it, that he was just online looking ... (494 words)

He's become a 4plus beers a night kind of guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has always enjoyed a few bottles of beer after work and in evenings. But a few beer is turning into up to 4 a night. Me and his family are very worried that he is now alcohol dependant. What should we do - he wont admit that there is anything wrong with it sayin ... (125 words)

My b/f proposed for the 3rd time and I accepted but this other guy is on my mind

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i get this guy off my mind? I have been working at it for the past year now without success. I have a bf and he is the sweetest and most loving person i have ever known. I was very much inlove with him until i met this new guy, Jason.Jason and i have so much in common, ... (298 words)

How can I deal with the problems in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and half years and for the past couple of weeks I have been wondering if it is worth going any further with the relationship. When we fight he'll tell me to F-off, and use phrases like "get F**ked". This doesnt supprise me because when ... (298 words)

Orgasms since I was six, is that unusual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm male, in my 30's. And I've been able to have orgasms since I was 6. Maybe even younger. Serious. (Of course I was shooting blanks back then). Is that normal? Anyone else?... (36 words)

Stories about getting back with the ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Have any of you out there ever successfully gotten back together with your ex? How did you do it? How much time passed? What is your story? Please share! Thanks...... (34 words)

Turning "off" into "on" in the relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age - Hi all, I hope there is someone here that can give me some pointers into turning an on off relationship into an on one. I have been seeing this guy for over 2 years, we get close then he backs off, and it can be weeks before he contacts me again, then it all starts again. I ... (251 words)

Husband stuck on porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't show it to my husband how much he hurts me, but it really bears down heavily Before our wedding my husband was really a great prince to me. Too late. We're married...and I depend on him financially now, although this could change if I move out and get a job. Ever ... (247 words)

Males: Does jelquing work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Have any of you males out there tried Jelqing? If so, did it work for you? I'm thinking of trying this. My penis is the average size, it varies in length between being slightly under 6 inches to slightly over, and about 4.5 in girth. Anyway,the reason I want to try is to see... (85 words)

2 years and no proposal..no love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf of 2yreas hasnt yet pr0posed and its seri0usly geting t0 me. im 18 and he 23. he never even bringz up the subject. cud it be that he doesnt l0ve me?... (33 words)

Sick from alcohol, not illness, should I worry about pill's effectiveness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, heres my dilema and im not sure of the chances of me getting pregnant, please tell me your views... I take the contraceptive pill mycagon30 (not sure how its spelt lol) i took it at about 7pm-ish, (as i do every day) me and my bofriend had sex that nite. however we then ... (116 words)

With friends like this....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so im seventeen and ive never actually had a boyfriend, i was more interested in my school work, i was interested in boys, but felt i was too young for a relationship.. etc :) well recently, me and this guy (dean) have been talking, alot. we went to the same college and ... (327 words)

Damage through prostate massage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Earlier this week, I gave myself a prostate massage. Since then, I have struggled to get an erection or even become aroused. Is it possible that I have somehow damaged myself? I've never felt like this before. My Penis feels sort of... not "numb", but different to how... (77 words)

Wife tied me up for bondage then proceeded to list all the things I did wrong, and no sex!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi aunty,I got married for 6 months now..2 nights back,we decided for bondage sex,so my wife tied me down to the bed with handcuffs..intially she teased me and kissed..once I was tied up properly and at her mercy..she slapped me..and then yelled at me,she told me a list of ... (104 words)

Am I a slimebag and need to stop stringing ex along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Help everyone Im so messed up at the moment i dumped my ex as my ex gf the mother of my child told me to so we could get back together, which i dumped my then gf, but my thenmother of my child wh said we could start again if i got rid of her well it didnt happen and this ... (246 words)

Feeling alone, when is a person at the bottom of the barrel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sometimes in the past I have found myself in a situation of extreme loneliness. Like not being able to find a friend in the world:(. During those times I found slight comfort in reading or masturbating, but nothing really cured the desire to go out with friends or be in a crowd ... (209 words)

We've just moved in together and it's me that's doing all the work! I can't move out, so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just wondered if anyone has any advice...I've just moved in with my boyf, but we have been together three years. He doesnt do anything around the house. No cooking, cleaning, Nothing!!! I lend him my car to take to work every day, which cuts his journey time down by 4/5... (259 words)

Older women Vs younger... What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Datin older women, its a fad that's taking over under the radar more than you think. I love older women, between 28 and 39 is awesome, they just know more about what they want and either already have it or are very close to getting it. I have been intimate and dated an older ... (113 words)

Is it a problem if my right breast is bigger than my left breast?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please, is it a problem if my right breast is bigger than my left breast?... (15 words)

My wife's sex drive is nearly extinct and I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wifes sex drive is nearly extinct, I don't know what to do, 9 times out of 10 she states she doesn't want sex when I try to start intimacy, or she has some other excuse. My wife (common law)is a very sexual person, in the first 3 years of us being together we had sex at ... (378 words)

My husband wants me to be more dominent when having sex, but I don't enjoy it...What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I have a sex question. My husband and i have been married 5 years and our sex life has declined a lot. We have sat down at long last and talked about it, which was good... But what came out of it, is now a bit of a problem for me. This happened over the course of ... (369 words)

Should I meet only women who can handle me in bed? And if so, how should I treat her in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My post this time really isn't a problem, its more of a brag, but its not intended to be. See I have a very high sex drive, I haven't ran across many women can stand it, longevity is what I like and what I practice when I have sex. I believe I'm well endowed, above average at ... (280 words)

Is it wrong to be Bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anything wrong with being Bi? I think I am Bi, Bi-curious at the least... But people have assumed that I was a lesbian in the past and always took the piss out of me for it. Especially anyone who was religious would always be like "ewr... that is so wrong and ... (76 words)

Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they may have a good understanding ... (191 words)

I want her back. How can I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hii, i was in a lesbian relationship with my best friend 3 years ago. the relationship lasted for only 6 months and during tht we didnt have sex or anything.. we just kissed.. i am still friends with her but i want her back as my lover. Please suggest how can i ask her to be ... (69 words)

I can't seem to bring myself out of my shell. Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I've never dated before. I have asked out girls in the past (and got rejected obviously), and I've tried to work out what is wrong with me - the things that are making me undesirable - and I've pretty much got the jist of it. And what a long list it is. On the 'l... (575 words)

Could this lead to something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey theres this girl i really like and she sent me a msg saying that outta the 3 other guys shes talkin to im the only one who hasnt asked for sex or photos and she thanked me for it and said she told the other 3 other guys to leave her alone. but i know thta shes still been ... (104 words)

We both think going down on each other is gross. What can we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im dating a guy who was a virgin before i met him. we have basically done everything except oral on me. he tried oral on me once but didnt like it. he thinks its gross because of my natural scent. i told him there is nothing wrong but he insists its gross. the scent and ... (82 words)

Is it satisfying to a man to just fool around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, What do you feel the norm answer to this question is. If a guy 20 something has been deep french kissing and dry humping (clothes on) for a couple of hrs, do you think he got satisfied? Thanks in advance for any answers.... (51 words)

Is he playing with my feelings, or does he really love me?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hai, well,i have a boyfriend,and i really love him.Its just tht..whenever i needed him,whenever i have a problem,whenever i want to talk to him,he's not always there.He said he loves me and all,but Like last month,i really didnt expect him to forget my birthday,and it hurts me... (82 words)

I can't afford to do what we planned for our 2 year anniversary...what else could we do?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - come the 1st of september this year i shall have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. to celebrate, the origional plan was for us to go to blackpool for the weekend, go to the pleasure beach fair and out for a nice meal together. as well as just hanging out. thing is, now ... (142 words)

Can relationships work if one smokes weed and the other doesn't?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. As far as I know, he only does it with his roommates and doesn't pay his own money for the weed. I've smoked a few times when I was younger, and had bad expierences with it, so I generally say no when they offer me the bong. I convinc... (201 words)

She's 16, I'm 25, and I fear that the changes she'll go through in the next few years will cause us to break up. What can I do?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 25 and my girl friend is 16.I love her more then anything in life and she admits i am her first love and I believe it for the fact that i known some of her exs that sh dated for awhile and never had sex with them.we dated one month before she told me that she really wanted ... (331 words)

Out of no where he ended things because he said he's too busy for a relationship, could there be more to this?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, about a month ago I started dating this guy, we've been friends for about 5 years. He is at uni and i am studying part time while working.... He broke up with me yesterday. He said that he has so much work to do and is under a lot of pressure that he cant be in a ... (106 words)

Am I part of the reason why he's hurting?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Say a guy turns 40 and soon after, his 29 year old girlfriend of 6 years dumps him unceremoniously for a 20 year old. I know that's going to hurt, badly, but I'm wondering how I fit into it: I'm a very attractive (not to toot my own horn, but I get told that a lot) 23 year old ... (104 words)

Broken up with ex but still living together... what's the best way to deal with this?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I miss my ex to the death, and I love him so much ,we broke up 2 weeks ago and we still living together in the same place because its our place that we bought and no one of us is willing to leave He broke up with me with out any reason , it was just little fight witho... (325 words)

I'm married with a child but I'm still in love with my ex from 10 years ago, who I work with! How do I get out of this mess?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't stop thinking about him, I saw him a couple of weeks ago in a new band project I play bass guitar in that my musician friends threw together, one guy who did put it together told me my ex was still in love with me, what am I suppose to do, I am still in love with him ... (1343 words)

I want to get back into a relationship with my best friend, but she has a boyfriend...who's also my friend! How do I handle this?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - alright so heres the deal, theres this girl that ive been best friends with for about a year now and ive always had very strong feelings for her. i love this girl and i want to be with her more than anything else in the world. we started off as just friends but then we started ... (291 words)

I lost my virginity to my now ex-boyfriend, but according to him I wasn't a virgin before him! What do you make of this?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my 1st sex last year when I was 20 wid my ex-boyfriend. But according to him, I was not virgin. I actually didn't understand what he meant. As according to him, I didnt suffer any pain much, and everything went so smooth. I got a lil confused and upset after that and ... (88 words)

I'm attracted to my wife's best friend and curious of what it's like to sleep with another woman! What should I do?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 11 years now and she has been the only woman I have ever had sex with. For about 9 of those years she has had a lot of issues physcially and mentally that has caused her to totally lose her sex drive. For the most part, I have never begged her ... (159 words)

Will my 'bent penis' affect my ability to have sex in future?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age - Have had a normal sex life as a maried man. Lost my wife about 10 years ago and apart from masturbation have not had a partner since. Recently I noticed that my penis is bent almost at 90 degrees when erect. The more erect it becomes the more it bends upward. What has happe... (70 words)

Is my semen safe enough for my wife to consume?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Am married man. My wife has fetish for oral sex.. she loves all time to sawllow my semen atleast 3-4 times in a week. as she like the taste and smell.. she often applies to her face and she believes its gives wonderful results on skind. what i worried is, consuming semen is... (144 words)

I feel like I'm going to have a relapse with my eating disorder because of this insecurity toward my boyfriend!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a trust related issue with my bf of three years. I went camping with my family for the weekend and left him home. He told me that he stayed home and hung with some guy friends and whatnot. What he lied to me about was that he went to a party, met a girl, gave her ... (133 words)

My husband keeps taking money from our bank account and we're financially struggling!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband seems to be doing better as of this week. But as a general rule he is constantly getting into the bank account and taking money. He doesn't tell me this or include it on the ledger so we have bounced numerous checks and have had repeated financial problems. He always ... (114 words)

I still have feelings for my friend...so should I tell him?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi.. Well my freind is bi and so am I. My freind told me he used to like me but now he's sayin that I told him that he wasn't my type. I nevr said that. I still hav feelings for him but since Now he sayin that and has a bf that don't like me I'm afraid of telling him I like him ... (86 words)

Was it too soon to have sex?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am worried that I have made a big mistake. I met a guy a few weeks ago, and we are both in our 40s. We really hit it off and have had a great time just being together. He acted very interested in me--lots of heavy kissing, etc. Well, Friday night things got more heated ... (188 words)

I have no interest in sex whatsoever with husband

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29-year-old female, and I have been married for four years, during which time I have become less and less interested in physical intimacy with my husband. Over time this has become a difficult matter for me, and for the last year I haven't even been able to bring myself ... (85 words)

We don't have sex anymore and I don't know why!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heres my story i bin with this guy for two years now and we do not have sex anymore i just dont get why im not ugly im thin im not loose what so ever im definetly not boring in bed i have done everything and when we use to have sex or id give head id always change it up so ... (96 words)

He made plans on our day off without consulting me first!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have lived together for almost 5 years now and recently became engaged. We moved into a new place a few months ago and are just starting to get to know our neighbors better. Our HOA president lives right accross the street from us and just happens to be a ... (182 words)

I really love this girl, and I'm confused about what is happening!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in this situation for about 6 months. Basicaly I am a girl and I'm in love with another girl. She is 13 and I am 14, and she knows I am, or atleast I think she knows I'm in love with her. I told her sometime in July that I loved her through IM, but that's only because ... (277 words)

Can relationship work if we can't see each other for 2 years?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my girlfriends mom wont let me see her. i am 18 she is 14. i love her and want to be with her and she feels the same. i dont know if it will work though. will we be able to make our relationship work without seeing eachother for 2 years?... (51 words)

Is it just my pills?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok I have been on birth control fir about 8 yrs now I have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for two years. these last two months I spotted with my period for one day each month. I have taken 3 pregnancy tests all negative. could I be pregnant. should I get ... (70 words)

How do you get over being cheated on?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I do not want to have sex with my husband anymore. I found out he cheated on my five months ago and since then I have had absolutely no desire to have any kind of sexual contact with him. We have been through couseling, but it seems like nothing was accomplished. The ... (111 words)

Am I a stupid wife or just an untrusting wife?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recenty got suspicious of my husband. Normally following business trips over ten years he leaves me to unpack his case and now he empties it immediately and washes his dirty laundry that he never does laundry. Last week I was involved in a minor car accident and got up at one ... (351 words)

B/f says I need to be more sexy

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend says I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen, except I need to be more sexy...what does this mean?... (27 words)

He said he needed a week and maybe things could be saved

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because we argued too much. I asked him today if we could give us a week to think about whether we can be saved, and he said yes. I was wondering if this is a good sign? ... (51 words)

He doesn't want kids but I do, how can I talk to him about it

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now and we have been really close friends for 6 years prior to starting an actual relationship. I moved in with my boyfriend and his family two months into the relationship due my roommate not paying her portion of the rent. ... (277 words)

Friends for 3 years, sex, and now I don't know where we stand

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The first person I met in college has been one of my best friends for three years now. I have had feelings for him on and off through the years but never anything serious and I don't know if he's ever had feelings for me. Recently I felt very strongly for him despite the fact ... (440 words)

How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she likes". So I'm asking, short and ... (96 words)

My g/f hangs out with guys late at night, we're in a LDR

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, my girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time and we have a long distance relationship for now. We are seriously committed to this relationship and I want it to last forever. Because frankly I love her more than I have anyone or anything. The thing that has ... (309 words)

I'm married but in love with a man overseas

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am completely confused in my life now. I have been married for about 15 years. I was completely left lonely by my husband so many of the years and finally i met someone who is so sincere and meaningful to me, online and he lives overseas. Him and i have been talking for 8 ... (301 words)

Do my feelings mean I'm not ready to date yet? How do I let this guy down gently without feeling bad?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy who is about 3 or 2 years older than me asked me out on a date. he always calls me babe and he said he would be honored to take out someone as pretty as me. but the thing is iv never gone out on a date, i want to though but for some reason going with him makes me unc... (160 words)

I fantasize about my boyfriend cheating on me

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I fantasize about my boyfriend cheating on me, not the sexual part but the part where I find out and he is so sorry and feeling an insane amount of love for me and is so guilty and I am this noble innocent victim. What could this fantasy mean? I think about it a lot, I love the ... (101 words)

Why are all of these guys married?

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16 August 2009 (F)

- Thanks in advance to all who take the time to answer. I have been single about three years. I have dated a bit but not a lot. It seems to me that every man I meet and talk to mentions his wife within about thirty seconds of my meeting him. I am getting a bit of a ... (148 words)

Why does my sister flirt with me?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My sister and i are a year apart im 23 shes 22 we didnt gro up togather and dont have a close relationship. Im seeing her more often now becuse she moved to my state and stays with my other sister that i am close too. When ever i go around she begins to flirt with me i think,... (540 words)

He spat on my vagina to lubricate it! Now I don't want him to touch me!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age - While making love, my vagina was a bit dry so my partner spat into my vagina to lubricate it. i feel so degraded by this i cannot bear him to touch me since. Am i over reacting?... (37 words)

If he really wanted to be with me, he just would be, right?

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m in a really confusing situation right now. I'm sorry this is so long, but in order to help you've got to really understand what's going on. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up in February. We started talking about going back out in March, but it never happened. He started dating ... (543 words)

I have always wanted to wait until marriage. Now I'm having second thoughts...

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always wanted to wait until I was married to have sex... but recently I've been really wanting to go further with my girlfriend. I want to now (or soon, at least), but at the same time I want to wait. I really love her and I really want to have sex with her so badly... but ... (75 words)

Husband's bad breath, horrible care make me only want to be friends with him!

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, just looking for some support. I love my husband a lot but only as a good friend/partner. we have been together 10 years and have 2 kids. I feel NO attraction to him whatsoever. The main thing is he doesn't take care of himself, showers only every few days even though ... (281 words)

I feel like my social life has been ruined by this guy!

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 , recently i became friends with *J*. A guy who i ha been friends with in the past but he always dropped me for his other friends who dislike me . He apologized and seemed much nicer . All my other friends hated him and so they stopped being my friend . He then... (212 words)

Why does ex invite me to a party when his current g/f is going to be there?

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16 August 2009 (F)

- Right okay I'm sorry if at any point this question doesn't make sense I'm pretty damn angry right now!! Basically my EX boyfriend invited me to a party that he's throwing at his and then I find out he has a girlfriend... Whats the point?!!! Why invite me? ... (116 words)

I wish I could tell him that I love him but I can't

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16 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Advice really appreciated here.... I really like one of my best friends. Hes the nicest guy ever, he always looks out for me and listens to me when I have a problem and makes me laugh when I'm upset. Were spending a lot more time together recently and I've definitely falle... (134 words)

Ugly woman thinks I'm her b/f just because I'm nice to her!

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, There is this girl that lives in the room and board house I'm at who is very attracted to me, but I can barely look at her because she's so ugly. To describe just how ugly she is, not only is she horribly overweight, but she looks like a man with her broad face, bu... (157 words)

Is there still hope?

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16 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Two months ago now, i dated three times with a girl who is four years older than me. I met her at school, about a year ago. We kissed and, to cut a long story short, i fell in love with her. But after that date, wich was quite perfect, she started to ignore me. I've called ... (163 words)