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writes:I've been seeing this guy, not exclusively (though neither of us has been seeing anyone else, we're just trying not to pressure what we have) for almost a year now. About 5 months ago, I moved 1000 miles away for work and we flew back and forth every couple of weekends to see each other, it was great, though not ideal. Then he left for Europe a couple of months ago for a holiday (he's still there for another month) and we've been emailing every day or so. We have this incredible connection - if it wasn't happening I wouldn't believe it was possible. We've talked about it and both feel it. I last emailed him about 5 days ago, saying I was feeling restless over here and thinking about quitting my job when my contract is up for renewal and maybe getting into a different area or traveling. I didn't want to say I want to travel with him and move back home mostly to be with him, so I just said I wanted to leave this city. I haven't heard back from him yet and (since his email has a chat option) I've seen that he's been online and checked his email, a few times, and still no reply. What can I do? I'm going nuts checking my email all the time! I miss him so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Well prehaps he's got a lot on his hands and plans on giving you a nice response but hasn't had the time to write one as long as he'd like to write it. Why don't you try to chat with him next time you see he is on? I woulnd't get your boxers in a bunch with worriment because it doens't seem probable that he stopped being interested in you over night.
Try to get away from the computer, eh? Don't focus on it so much and the time will fly much more quickly between one response and the next. Goodlcuk.. and let us know if he responds please!
~Sy.
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 well...dont get mad too quick, dear ;)
first of all, you said that your relationship hasn't been exclusive yet. So, yknow...you can't put too much expectation on him.
Or.. may be he just didn't know what to say about your problems
Or.. may be he's also having a "big" problem to think there
Or.. may be he just wants to have his space
my suggestion : just stay cool.. no need to send him the next email or text or even call him. Deal with your own problems, ask the suggestions from friends around you.
Trust me..this man will come back to you.. but please no mad @ him, ok? It's just a man behaviour..hehehe :D
Good luck ^-^
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