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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm sexualy attracted to other girls more than my girlfriend. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I need help, I'm 16 years old, I have a girlfriend that I love very much and don't get me wrong she turns me on, I mean I sometime I jerk off thinking of her. I mean when I'm with her I watch her when she walks and even when we're in church I look down her shirt and when ... (152 words)

He ignored me then text me two months later? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would your friend whos a guy rarely talk to you and then all of a sudden text you about your school scheduale? He could've asked his friends or his cousin but why did he ask me! It seems to me that he kept my phone number!Last year he knew my schedule, so appeared sometimes ... (140 words)

Is ultimatum the wisest thing I can do for myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Met this guy for over a month. I play hard to get, he creeps under my skin really smoothly. I set boundaries, he runs on all fours after me. He drives a long way to see me whenever i can squeeze 30mins with him. We have great chemistry, our minds think alike. He offers to do ... (585 words)

How can I get rid of her insecurities and strenghten our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, I have been with my girlfriend now for ten months - we have all the makings of a great relationship - we have mutual trust, care about eachother, have shared interests, same morals, differences which interest each other, sexual compatability, we have open and honest ... (336 words)

Everytime I have sex it hurts and I get a brown discharge, what is this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend has been together for quite a while now and we have started having sex quite regular but the problem is everytime we have sex i am left in quite abit off pain and a browny discharge happens :S.. the very first time we did it this discharge happen... (198 words)

How do I make girls notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old boy still at school and have never been kissed or have had a girlfriend and it's getting me down. I am able to talk to girls relatively easy but most of the time they never give me the chance to either by sitting in a big group or ignoring me. I don't think ... (187 words)

How do I make my toenails bigger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - it is not a big deal,but it bothers me that my toenails are so tiny. my big toe nail is big and the rest and very tiny,the pinky toe is like a little tiny triangle.when i grow my nails they just get annoying so i cut them and when i do they are tiny again. i dont understand why ... (85 words)

I've lost my bestfriend and boyfriend. How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend dated this guy for 6 months and I don't know how they lasted that long because she didn't treat him the way he shouldve. when they broke up they both got over it within a week. he late told me that he had liked me all year even when he was dating my best friend. ... (312 words)

His ex can't seem to move on, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, Ive Been With my boyfriend for 3 or 4 months now he was my best friend before we started dating.We are madly in love.Both of our last relationships ended because our exes didn't like the fact we were so close. My Ex Has Moved on but his just cant seem t... (177 words)

Is it normal for periods to be messed up after giving birth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had a baby two months ago and i got my period after i had him for 3 weeks but i have not had one after that, could i be pregnant again or is it normal for a period to be messed up after having a baby? I am not on no birth controal but i have been using condoms. I havent ... (91 words)

I don't know his new girlfriend and shes questioning people about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - DEAR AUNTS HELP ME =[ Last weekend I didn't attend a party because I was busy helping my bff plan her wedding.the party i was suppose to attend, my ex was there..the host told me everything. my ex asked the host if i was coming? also the host and my ex got into a long conv... (327 words)

My ex got back in contact now hes backed off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused:( My ex finished with me last month and I cut off all contact because I heard it was the best thing to do if I really wanted him back. Last week he initiated contact with me again and was telling me he loved me, missed me, etc and he was saying that he ... (168 words)

He seems to have changed from controlling and obsessed to indifferent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologise for the long question in advance. Me and my boyfriend have been in a Long Distance Relationship for a year and 5 months now. I live in the UK and he lives in America. The first time I went to America, everything was perfect. As soon as I went home he was ... (636 words)

I'm bothered by what she did with another guy before we were together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - how can i get over the fact that my girlfriend kissed another guy and let him touch her all over before we started dating .... (25 words)

He'll be 18 and I"m scared he'll want sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this boy have been talking about dating and all that stuff, the fathest we've gone is makeout. i really like him, but i'm 15 and he's 17. thats not bad, but he'll be 18 in March and i'll still be 15 until junee. i'm a sophmorevand he's a senior. and were both virgins, ... (104 words)

He's going to leave me and our daughter to marry his other baby mama!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 19 and currently my ex boyfriend/baby daddy are not together. He has a older son by his first baby momma and my little girl would be his youngiest child. Well when he comes home he's planning on marrying his first baby momma only to leave me and my daughter to the side. I ... (221 words)

4 years and 2 kids isn't enough for him to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, im not sure where t start, i have been with this guy for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. i love this man with everything i have. well we live in his home town and my home town is 1200 miles away where all my family and friends live. i dont work i stay home all day and ... (270 words)

Ten years have passed and I still feel the betrayal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was kissing my boyfriend of 4 yrs when he told me that he's getting married next month with her ex- girlfriend. it happened 10 yrs ago but till now i still feel the betrayal. never have a boyfriend since then. how can i move on....... (46 words)

I want to walk away from my cheating husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30yrold female I have been married for 7rs and have a 7yr daughter. I want a divorce from my 37yrold husband who has had a baby boy which is 6yrs old now and repeatly is cheating on me with the same girl, what shall i do? I do not trust him and I do not think I will.... (61 words)

He wants to sleep with me, but this would threaten my job. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im working as a housekeeper. my lady boss told me that her husband is in love with me. i was asked several times already by my male boss if i want to sleep with him which i refused, he didnt force me though. i like my job and dont want to resign. what shall i do?... (56 words)

Is she still in mourning, or is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girl has been acting differently for the past two weeks or so. She's 30, I'm 28. We met in church years ago, she was dating a guy I went to high school with back then (he's actually getting married in three weeks). We've been dating for 10 months now but latetly she has been ... (394 words)

How can we strike a compromise on our religious beliefs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now, and recently, a discussion came about regarding marriage and children. First let me say, he is Catholic, I am Episcopalian. He's not extremely religious at all, but when the aforementioned topics came up, he first de... (337 words)

I'm scared that I'm depressed again. What can I do to get myself back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - How do I know if I've fallen out of love? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years (next week). In the beginning, obviously, everything was perfect. Then after a few months, I got depressed (for about 2 months), and I felt like nothing (not even him) was that important ... (694 words)

How can I withhold sex until I know the guy better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, can anyone help?... I want to be in a relationship but whenever i try to wait for sex it doesnt work... I havent had that many but I dont know how to withold sex till I know the guy... what do I do?... (44 words)

How can I convince her to forgive me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all, got an issue , if you could drop in a suggestion. I have broken the trust of a close one a close friend.for namesake its friendship , but i love her and its not the other way round. she was into a relationship but had broken up and was looking for my shoulders to ... (511 words)

How do I cope with this break from my boyfriend? Does this mean we're over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my boyfriend just asked for a break! it sucks!! It came up all of a sudden for me. We arent seeing other people which im really really happy about but this hurts!! He wants No communication between us. he decided to have this break and when it will be over. I have been ... (115 words)

Why am I so lonely? What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling lonely for a while. I feel like nobody gets me, I don't know if it's a phase that every teenager goes through but why do I feel this way? My life has been on hold, well, the same, forever. It seems everybody is getting on with their lives but me, my life isn't ... (89 words)

I'm not sure where I stand, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've gotten to know a boy really well. We did stuff that felt intimate to me whilst he still had a girlfriend. However, he recently split up with her and when i asked him if it meant anything he said "not particularly". Despite this, we talk on msn and text each oth... (95 words)

My husband is going through a midlife crisis. How can I help him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) age - My husband is going through some midlife crisis, or just serious depression. He can't see that, or talk about that. But I see him turning more and more bitter day by day. I can't convince him, he thinks I'm critical. He stopped being affectioante with me a long time ago. W... (209 words)

How can I get her to be my GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - how could i impress a girl to b my girlfriend/?... (10 words)

Christians: is it a sin to have sexual feelings?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - as a christian,having feelings of sex when growing up,is it sinful?... (11 words)

Her ex destroyed my property, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, my girlfriend's 23, and we've been dating for 6 months. Her ex has tried to complicate things though - he threw a brick through our window, let the tyres down on my car, and has tried to follow me to work. I reported it to the police, but they were uninterest... (206 words)

Should I have gone in for the kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age - Hi i need some advice. A couple of months ago a met up with an old firend on facebook she 51 i 47 now both single both have early teen kids.We have met up four times now getting on really well been for meals ive been to her place a few times now and we seem to be getting ... (205 words)

Please help! My best friend broke up with his girlfriend and I'm falling for her, but he's still not over it yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - help!! please my best friend broke up with my other best friend,who is a girl and now i feel i am falling in love with her but she is fine with it but my other best friend still has feelings for her so i dont want to tell this girl that i like her because im afraid my other ... (64 words)

My boyfriend bought a 'truth' game but doesn't like to play it with me. Do you think he doesn't like to talk about his past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend bought a truth game with his brother but doesnt want to play when i asked him. he said he doesnt like it and it gives wrong answers. but im starting to think he doesnt want me to know about something although hes answered all my bad questions like cheating, loving ... (80 words)

Me and my boyfriend were caught in the house together so my dad hit both of us!! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im 15. my parents caught me meeting my boyfriend twice at my house when my parents werent home. hes 19. the second time we got caught my dad beat him and slapped me twice and tied out heads together with a belt and almost threw us out together but my mom stopped him and they ... (133 words)

How do you feel about lending your partner money? My guy asked for £1,000 and I said no!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of eight months has asked me to lend him £1000. He says he needs it to pay his landlord. He's generally an honest person but this came out of the blue and its a lot of money. I'd be happy to lend smaller amounts, but I'm currently unemployed. He's now upset with me ... (146 words)

I'm confused...my father's choice of a suitable guy for marriage or mine?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help my agony aunts! i have a boyfriend whom we promised marriage together. he is the best person i have ever known. he could spend his last penny on me though he isnt so rich, he is comfortable and i know he loves me so much but his paents dont really want us coz i i come fro... (264 words)

Is it possible to tell someone you love them through Telepathy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you let someone know you love them by Telepathy?If two people love each other but dont know about each others feelings can you send these feelings through some form of telepathy? I have experienced it with someone and I don't really know how to call it, the only thing I ... (132 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want people to know that we're together... is this because she's shy or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I got together with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along pretty well, but she doesn't seem to want to let other people know that we're together. Well, she has no problems with her close friends knowing, she feels somewhat uneasy with my friends knowing,... (105 words)

Family vs girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is kind of complicated, but I'll try to simplify as best as possible. I recently stared with a secret relationship with girl who is older than me and she and I are actuallly starting to fall in love with each other. There's plenty of reason's why people would say th... (295 words)

B/f friend masturbates over friend's pictures!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for your bf to masterbate over your friends, by either thinking of them or looking at pictures of them? My bf has admitted that he does this. He also sed he likes the thought of cheating on me, is this normal? He often brings up the idea of having a threeso... (82 words)

Best friend always wrecking guys heads!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my best friend is messing my guy pal (who i really like) around and he is coming to me for suppport but i don't like it. she is always getting into scrapes with guys and wrecking their heads. she seems to always be leading them on by being too touchy feely with them and es... (217 words)

Falling in love so easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - why do i fall in love so easily every girl i see i'm thinking she's hot blah blah and if the girl starts checking me out im like falling in love and then i leave and start all over again why?... (47 words)

He was a great friend. Should I contact him after all this time to offer my condolences.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Before I make a terrible mistake, I thought its best to ask for some advice. Please respond honestly and be blunt if need be. I just need an outsiders perspective. I was with my first love for almost two years. This time last year he broke my heart. We were on/off until th... (390 words)

He turned down my marriage proposal, now what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for five years, we have been living together for three years. We are both in our 50's and divorced with three teenage children between us. He is my soul mate, we have built a stable loving home together for the kids and we are generally happy. ... (270 words)

I want to be with him but I think things just started going too fast and he got scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I guess I will start with a little background first....me and my ex had met 9 years ago. We were both young and he was in the military (still active duty). We dated for over a year (6months of that long distanance I had to travel for work) when we broke up (he broke up w/me). ... (1325 words)

We never do anything together but she just says that I complain too much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for around a year now, And we are currently on an 8 week holiday from college, And I've only seen her once in 6-7 weeks. And that was only after I spoke to her and told her that we never do anything together, Seeing as I proposed to do so... (166 words)

I'm horny all the time yet I'm too nervous to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why am i so horny yet im to nervous to have sex is that normal? i have had opportunities and there's always strippers but i always get too nervous. When ever im out i will see women and there so sexy especially in summer they look amazing. I even find my self looking at ... (629 words)

What do you do when you feel all alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so basically i broke up with my partner because i wanted to be single,this was 2 weeks ago. at first it was good because i was out with mates and having fun. now they have all found gfs and now im all alone. i guess the saying be careful what you ask for is true. so what... (74 words)

When is the best time to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 14, i had sex on friday night when me and a few others stoped at my lads mates house and we were not drunk we were sober and i was messing around with this lad and then we went upstairs because this lad had a bad sholder and i said i would masage it for him so we we... (143 words)

Should I follow my instincts or should I stay with him for our kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 22 yrs old and I'm married I have two little boys. I'm not happy in my marriage, my husband has disappoint me a lot. We've bee together for 4 yrs and we jump into getting married. When I got pregnant with our first baby he said he would change and till this day he still ... (312 words)

Does this guy really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i met last week a really cute guy,but i'm not sure if he really likes me or is just playing me.here are some important things that happened since we met:he always stares at me for a really long time;he starts up conversations with me on very random topics;he told someone i know ... (153 words)

I've decided to end our marriage but I'm concerned about the effect it will have on our children, should I wait until they are older?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age - I posted a letter last week saying that my wife finally confessed to her affair after i had a mental breakdown. I want to thank you all for your advise in particular to the lady that said i should have a reality check. I know in my heart that everything you said was true but ... (220 words)

The girl I like has a boyfriend but I think she likes me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

19 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im almost 15 and i really like this girl she is in my grade but i think she has a bf but i dont think they are very close i think she might like me we text back and forth a lot but i dont dare ask her. what do i do ... (53 words)

I'm pregnant and have just found out my boyfriend has another 3 babies on the way!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pregnant by my boyfriend. I told him he wants nothing to do with the child. Found out he has 3 babies on the way. I don't want a abortion because I had one when I was younger. I just turned 30 years old. He's 26 years old. I've been seeing him for 2 and a half months even ... (126 words)

Should I move on or should I wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hey, Well I was going out withh my girlfriend for around 19 months. Things were good, except at the end I guess it got kinda bland ? Aruge over shit things. Anyway, we / she decided we should break up and stay friends for a bit. Problem is however, we live 500 M away from ... (340 words)

Is it normal for a 22 year old man to only want a friendship with a 40 year old woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm 40 and have been divorced with 2 children for 6 years. I have always been on my own, have a good circle of friends, but not dated in that time. I'm friends with a guy at work whose only 22 (and single) he comes out with me and the children on days out and we phone/tex... (103 words)

Rough sex didnt hurt me so now my boyfriend thinks I have slept with other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i had very rough sex the other day and it didnt hurt at all.. Basically he wanted me 2 scream ive only ever had sex with him, we've been together two years and been doing it for about a year and a half. Its upsetting him that it doesnt hurt me because he thinks ... (85 words)

How many women are insecure about their vaginas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How many women are insecure about their vaginas? AND Is it normal to have large labia? Will men care?... (25 words)

Was he just testing the waters to see if he still wanted me in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me last month and it became very messy. I have been devastated but I cut contact with him because I heard it was the best thing to do if I ever wanted him back. Last week he got in contact with me and was telling me that he still loved me, that he ... (168 words)

We are very sexually attracted to each other but when it came to sleeping together for the first time he lost his erection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy for a month we decided to wait for sex until we was both ready so we went away for the weekend just gone...we get on great...were very sexually attractive to each other...hes 29 im 22....so the night came and we kissed etc we was about to have sex when ... (148 words)

Is he sending me mixed signals in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am currently living with my boyfriend and legally a spouse according to Ontario legislation. Recently while filling out a form to go on his work benefits as his spouse I noticed that he filled out another form at the same time for life insurance and said that he does not have ... (160 words)

Should I break my friendship or break my lover's heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friends brother has fallen in love with me and he told my best friend and she is pissed and never wants to talk to me again....what am i supposed to do; break my friendship or break my lovers heart....i'm so confused....... (43 words)

I still love my boyfriend but this relationship just isnt working anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont even know how to start this, I will try my best to keep it short telling you my problems it might be a little confusing as i am telling 5 years of built up frustration in a couple of paragraphs, but here goes. Ok well i have been in a serious relationship with my b/f ... (511 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I feel uncomfortable with his ex girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - should i tell my boyfriend i feel uncomfortable with his ex girlfriend? she was his first love and one of my ex best friends. they didnt really do anything couples did in their seven month relationship, they were both shy. she broke up with him and ignored him for two years. ... (217 words)

Is it normal for a man to stop his sexual advances and tell the woman to approach him for sex instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my question. I am wondering if it is normal for a man not to approach a woman sexually in a relationship but instead tell her it is up to her to approach him for intimacy etc? It used to be that my boyfriend would aggressive... (173 words)

How do you know if a man has had sex already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you know if a man had sex already? would it take time for them to ejaculate? and if they havent had sex in a while would they ejaculate quicker?... (31 words)

Can my virginity affect my growth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I am 22 and I am a virgin. I am slim, I want to ask can my virginity affect my growth? because people say that if u are a virgin that u will not be fully developed. ... (38 words)

Should I forgive and forget about the past and give my relationship a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my boyfriend 6 months ago after 4 years as he didn't want the same things as me i.e. I wanted kids and to get married he didn't. I meet someone else and have been living with them for 2 months I've had no contact with my ex as I've ignored any emails and changed my ... (281 words)

I don't know how to trust my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, the last 7 months have been hell for me and my partner. i love him and he love me but i found out in january that he cheated on me in the first month of our relationship with his ex. since then we have both been through so much. we have both been trynna make this work ... (335 words)

I feel like I am always the bad guy in our relationship!

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys its been awhile. my girlfriend just recently dumped me just cuz i told her there was a few things that made me uncomfortable. like when i was teasing with her she uses a knife on me as a joke, personally i think she went too far, but she accused me it wasnt a threat w... (107 words)

What happens to a woman if she has sex or masturbates?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dont laugh but ive been wondering for a while what happens to a woman if she has sex or masturbates . every porn ive seen the guy just comes all over the girl at the end and thats it. i read that women have orgasm so what happens and in some porn the woman says shes going to... (79 words)

Is my best friend jealous of my relationship?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 29 and have been in a relationship with the love of my life for almost the past year now, we are living together almost 7 months and have both been in long term relationships before. I was once engaged before after a short relationship that dramatically changed when i got ... (528 words)

Holiday romance and the boy back at home.....what do I do now?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and have just got back from holiday .. on holiday i met this guy ..he didnt really seem my type at first but then we got talking and i realised he was so nice we spent i spent the whole holiday with him from 12 in the afternoon till 1 at night ..i really liked him... (145 words)

Is it love or passion? I am confused!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i dated a guy for a year and he broke up with me because i cheated on him with a cousin, i found another guy that i tend to love as well but am not too sure of whether he really want me as a long term material. the thing is ,my ex boyfriend was the one who taught me how to ... (239 words)

Any warnings or tips about oral sex?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend of 3 months recently indicated she would like to move on and have oral in a few days, i was wondering if there are any warnings or tips? thanks... (34 words)

My partner keeps having sex with me in my sleep, even if we have had sex before sleeping!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner and i have a very active sex life, we have been together 14 years, we still have sex 3-4 times a week, however he goes through phases, of having sex whilst im sleepin, my partner is quite a dominate man, and ive let him be, when i start getting independant, this ... (128 words)

Now I'm pregnant my boyfriend has started watching porn, and the worst thing is he lies about it!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - whos in the wrong? my boyf and i have been together for a year and a half. before i got pregnant he wouldn't look at porn, now im 9 months pregnant he looks at it all the time.. and i can understand why.. i look terrible. but i have told him when i was 4-5 months that if h... (264 words)

How do I get over my trust issues and start believing there really are nice guys out there?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts / uncles. i have trust issues when it comes to relationship and i always second guess myself and the other person. i got bullied when i was younger so i know thats why i dont think a guy will find me attractive and had a few partners who have cheated on me. is it rea... (186 words)

Seeing each other too much?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I see my girlfriend almost everyday or every other day as she only lives a few roads away. We love seeing each other but im a little worried were seeing each other too much and that we're getting a bit bored. Is it possible that we're seeing each other too much?... (54 words)

Why is my boyfriend acting like this?

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19 August 2009 (F)

- Is it abuse if your bf tries to force you into sex through making you feel guilty? By saying things like 'if you loved me' or 'if you wanted to see me happy you would do it', 'if you cared about me' etc. Is it abuse if he doesnt respect you when you say no and still tries ... (241 words)

I lied to him about my age and now he wants to visit me, what should I do?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so, I was on a chat room one day, bored out of my mind, telling people I was 17 when I actually, I had just turned 14. Well, me and this guy (he was 17) got talking and exchanged emails. We got to know eachother and I guess he started liking me. So, he asked me out, and ... (147 words)

What does it mean when a guy tells you that you have a "fat cat"?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What exactly does it mean whan a guy tells a girl that they have a fat cat. I was told this after having sex and still can't seem to fully understand what it means!!! I think I know but want to make sure it means what I think it does!!! Thank you for any answers anyone can give ... (59 words)

My new partner is traumatised from a past relationship and still allows her ex to control her, how do I deal with this?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am dating a girl who about six months ago come out of a very physically/mentally abusive relationship. They had been married for ten years and the abuse was consistant throughout. They had actually been legally divorced 4 years ago, but reconsiled a year later. I have two... (245 words)

How do I get past my insecurities and make more of an effort in my relationship?

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19 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for going on three years. We have been through a lot in our relationship and I believe he really loves me. He always tells me how he wants me to marry him and have his kids and how I am the only one for him but yet I still dont feel confident ... (126 words)

How do I cope with these mixed feelings? He was abusive towards me but I still hate the idea of him being with someone else!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I just got out of an abusive relationship and I am consumed with lots of mixed emotions and I'm just looking for some guidance and advice. Above all I want to understand why I still have feelings for him. He is acting so nonchalant about the break up and about everything ... (880 words)

He broke up with me and yet he still treats me like his girlfriend!

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19 August 2009 (F)

- My bf and I just broke up. He is the one who ended it. He said it wouldnt work because we are too different- fair enough, I understand that. Mind you though, I think it has more to do with the fact that he wasnt willing to wait for sex any longer. I told him I wanted to wait ... (469 words)

I'm 13 and pregnant! please help me!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am Samantha and im in a terrible situation.... I think I'm pregnant. I'm only 13. I have missed my period for about 2 months, and i am really scared. There are 2 possible fathers to this baby... I have not told either of them... What should I do please help me... My mom ... (180 words)

I won't swallow, so now he doesn't want oral, is this really a big thing for guys?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age - I am deeply in love with my man, was giving him head until a week ago when he suddenly said you don't have to. I asked him what that meant, he said it is because I won't swallow, Is this a really a deciding factor for men, He loves the way I give head, but since than he won't ... (82 words)

Is my fetish keeping me from intimacy?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright I have a foot fetish and I would like to know if that's something women can appreciate I mean when I was in high school it seemed like I was some kind of freak and now I feel like like that's why I get turned down it seems like its a giant road block and I just can't ... (86 words)

Do you think my ex still has feelings for me?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been broke up with my ex for about two years now my heart is still heavy when i see him my heart beat fast but i cant understand why? he always say you still crazy with a big smile? and when he see me from afar he look at me real hard ? do he still have feelin for me or ... (78 words)

Me and my best friend have fallen out, and it feels like a real break-up!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my (best friend) have been friends for 6 years..we had a unique friendship, we were sisters, she was my other half, my life, my everything. her house was my second home. I mean in most friendships this was the case but me and hers was rare..i would do anything ... (591 words)

How long should I wait, or am I just wasting my time?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 16 years ago I met the man of my dreams. But we have never been any more than friends. I never did tell him how I felt about him. He eventually got married and his wife cheated and got pregnant by someone else. They divorced. Before this happened he and I had lost track of ... (407 words)

After a difficult break up, I still love my ex and can't move on. What can I do?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - This is probably going to be a long one so prepare yourself. About a year and a half ago I was hanging out with a friend in my apt circle like i did most days. I happened to go over to her house one day and she had a friend over. Now, back then i was the kind of guy to see a ... (1233 words)

How can I handle the financial situation between me and my sister? She owes me money from 3 years ago!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Previously i've asked on advice on a money matter, my sister and her family just recently moved in with us and her husband doesn't respect my parents the kids refuse to do chores and my parents are old and on pension my son and i have always stayed with them never moved well ... (162 words)

My husband has not called me after an argument more than a week ago

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I left the house after an argument with my husband 10 days ago. He does not have an easy temper. I sent him an email with the demands of no more drinking and a couple others. It has been one and a half week and he has not answered my one email explaining him my feelings or ... (145 words)

Best friends who became more and now its a mess

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 now, but I met this guy when I was 17. We started out as friends. I never wanted to like him, mayb because he doesn’t look like the type I’d date. But nothing ever happened. Hed never tried to do anything. We moved out together 1 yr after we’ve been friends. So we were ... (611 words)

We haven't had any private moments lately

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I haven't made out in awhile, mostly because pda can get you in decent trouble at school and we havent really had any private moments lately. I thought I'd try something new next time. Any ideas on new or better ways to make out? Thanks in advance!... (50 words)

I am changing, and my boyfriend isn't....

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have lived together for almost 2 years. I love him very much. I can't imagine my life without him. But, we are experiencing a lot of strife due to the fact that I feel like I am growing as a person much more rapidly than he. Maybe I am just being pompous, but ... (333 words)

Did my message scare him away?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey so I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend who I let go about two years ago because I was afraid to fall in love with him. Well we hung out recently and things went great and he text me a few times after saying how much fun he had and then said we should do it again. ... (386 words)

I find myself sexually attracted to him! But he's 7 years younger!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to keep this quick and simple. There's this boy I watched grow up.I'm 7 years his senior. We lived in the same building for a few years. His family and my family are very close. And i dated his older brother a few years back. Now time as passed and I've watched him ... (135 words)

He cheated, she told me, and he's worked hard to make amends.

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here it goes... I met my boyfriend online a few years ago, but we didn't fall for each other until we met in person last year. I have several strings attached at the moment where I currently am so it's tough for me to make the big move. He's a few hours away from me and driv... (807 words)

Where's the line between too flirty and what is not flirty enough?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just met a great guy and we've been on one date so far. He left town for work reasons the next day and has been gone for about two weeks. In that time we've sent texts each day and he's called me a few times, and we've been on the phone for hours each time. He's coming ... (240 words)

We met three weeks ago, would he tell me if he was feeling love for me?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age - I met this guy three weeks ago and I have really fallen for him. I know three weeks isn't a long time, but I feel like I'm definitely falling in love with him. This is what worries me--I don't know if he feels the same. He does call or text me every day and we have gone out ... (183 words)

Didn't like what I saw on my husband's facebook. Am I overreacting?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I recently stalked my husbands facebook account (no I don't think its wrong!) and I found that the adage 'look hard enough and you will find what you're looking for' is annoyingly true. I found out that he was ading random (and very beautiful/slutty) girls, wh... (178 words)

Confused about what to do with my shy guy....

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started dating a little under two months ago, during our break, and when we'd go out with our friends or just by ourselves things would be great. I'm his first girlfriend and he's obscenely shy in the first place, so it took a lot just to get him comfortable ... (207 words)

Coping with my jealous and hypocritical new husband. Any ideas?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello agony aunts, I'm hoping you can all help me get some perspective and advice on how to deal with an extremely jealous and hypocritical husband... I recent got married to my partner of three years. We haven't had a perfect run, we we love each other dearly and try o... (335 words)

In love with my friend for 10 years, but he's attached and I don't know what to do!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love, and I don't know what to do about it. Now, this might seem like a bit of a lovey dovey statement, and I am sure, you think I've got some silly crush - I'm 26 years old, I know what they are and this certainly isn't it. I have known this guy forever, and I have ... (373 words)

Still in love with her. Should I just say it and find out what happens?

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19 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me this day 2 weeks ago(5th). We were going out for nearly 21 months and she broke with me saying she wanted to be single. I was fine with it at 1st but the last few days I've done nothing but think about her and cry. I'm still madly love with her ... (115 words)

I don't know what to do. I love him, I think?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused. After 4 years of staying true to one person it seems pointless. I have been in love with one person for the past four years and I just recently told him. He said I kinda like you and I have thought about you a lot. I do feel something there, but I don't know ... (392 words)

Is there a way to have soundless Fanny Farts?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been trying to find a solution to avoid Queefs (fanny farts, varts, vaginal air...) I came accross this reply to this topic that suggested "As soon as you're done lie on your back open your legs and press your stomach to the air will naturally come out." Anothe... (105 words)

He watches porn but he won't have sex with me!

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19 August 2009 (F)

age - i have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and getting more and more frustrated with our sexual relationship. we have not had sexual intercourse for the past year. he blames it on his high blood pressure pills. i know he watches porn at least once a week in the ... (139 words)

Why does this hurt so badly?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 years. I consider myself to have been very supportive towards him during this time as he suffers from a mental health disorder. He continually drinks himself stupid. When he does this he gets verbally abusive towards me. During these ... (286 words)

Should I ask my close friend to quit smoking before our relationship goes further?

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19 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my incredibly close friends lives in (and is originally from) Germany. I met him while he was visiting the U.S., and even after he returned home--over a year ago--we remained very close friends. It's difficult to describe the nature of our relationship...we have both ... (568 words)