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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Has anyone else been in this kind of situation, please help me to understand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend has been honeytrapped by a girl he had a fling with before he met me. He told her he didnt want the baby but she went ahead anyway. She knows nothing about me despite his continued feelings for me and the fact we were together the whole time she was pregnant... (225 words)

A foursome led to me getting attached to another man, can you love two people at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years. We ended up having a four-some with his friend of 19yrs and his wife. Since then me and the friend have had a connection like non other. I love my husband very much and will pick him over anyone but i think i love the friend too. ... (73 words)

I have a problem with my penis during sex, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My foreskin never stays fully back when having sex and start to lose sensation any ideas pls... (18 words)

I see to be caught in a cycle of rejections from my boyfriends, how do I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - any i like does n,t show any interested me at all they don,t even ask my name or where i am. i never ever get asked out and i never even got my first boyfriend and let alone my first kiss. and isn,t due to lack of trying nether,guys just aren,t interested me that way. all t... (253 words)

I need to give our relationship some freshness, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf n i have been together for almost 6 months, even though it hasnt been long but it's getting kinda serious i know he loves me but still i cant trust him bcz of his history in cheats aw our relation is coming to a dead place where everything has become a routine and i ... (74 words)

Fell in love after internet relationship, now he's gone, did he fake the 3 years, we were together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - As it says there, i really didnt know where else to turn. i don't have many friends left.. So i'll start from the begining. it all started when i was only 13, i'm now 16. it started as an internet relationship and i never intended it to go far i didn't even know what love was, ... (178 words)

Want to move on, but don't understand why he left me, please help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i just get over him, he loved me but he left me without any good reason... i dont understand why is he doing this? dont know why he is being so horrible?... (32 words)

Improved myself but the boys are not interested, what else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey . Im a shy girl , introvert, and im struggling to get my next bf. I had only 3 bfs. What should I do? I already had cut my hair, got some new clothes but nah.. theyre not intrested... Please help ... (43 words)

He doesn't want to talk to me ever again, I love him, is there anything I can at this point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya guyz, i am in big trouble? i really luv d guy but he doesnt wanna marry me bcuz i had a bf before him, it's been 4 months he left me and today he decided he wont talk to me ever again.... (43 words)

How do I build up my confidence to leave this verbally abusive man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - these are some of the comments i receive from my boyfriend. fatty,u dress stale.u arent the cleaniness person,u smell. im with u cos i feel sorry for u.your mum is ugly and looks like a witch. im not looking foward to u getting old if u are going to look like that.youve out on ... (321 words)

What can I do about his attitude toward my friends who are male?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, i have a boyfriend that has a BIG problem with me havin home boys.... AND HEs always bring up a time where i went out with one of them.... WHEN WE were brokin up at the time i mind you... AND he hates that i had just friends when i lived with him... AND NOW for just havin ... (118 words)

I woke up to find my boyfriend having sex with me, could this be considered rape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope you can help! I woke up the other night to find by boyfriend having sex with me. He said that i had touched him and he thought I wanted sex. I feel used and hurt. Was this rape or am I being stupid? ... (52 words)

I buy my girlfriend gifts, but don't want her to buy things for me, how do I get her to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - No matter what I do or say my girlfriend keeps wanting to get gifts for me. I have been trying as hard as I can to tell her she is the greatest gift I will ever need but she won't listen. She say's that I do so much for her that she want's to buy me things in return, and I ... (120 words)

Is It Rape?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey a few months ago my ex forced me to have sex. i kept shouting at him n hitting him telling him to stop but he wouldnt.. i never told anybody except my best freind.. my ex is now saying it isnt classed as rape because we were a couple. it it true? x... (58 words)

It was only sex, I got attached, he didn't, should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a summer fling this summer. It was nothing more than sex. It was GREAT sex to be honest. And, of course, I did get attached to him. But, I knew going into it that it was just gonna be about sex and he is a player. Anyways, I ran into him 2 weeks after we last slept ... (270 words)

I have feelings for two girls, I am a girl, can you help me out here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi readers! I'm 14/female ; And i have strange feelings for my best friend, we are so sweet, we understand each other, sometimes she even skipped class just to see me. Is it right to think that she also have feelings for me? Ok! here is the real thing, i really need advices.... (179 words)

Why did he do the sim for my mate but not for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my and my boyfriend are going through such a bad time, my parents are not letting me see him because of a rumour that leaked home. (About him beating me, this is completely untrue) But this isn't the problem. A while ago, when our relationship was at the half way point, ... (192 words)

What are the reasons a guy wouldn't want a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear anyone, what goes through a guys head or why would they not want to have a gf? besides dat they might be gay... (27 words)

Was I just her experiment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Gosh. I'm feeling so down right now, and I really need help. Okay, there was this girl who I met on a forum. We only knew each other vaugely, but then I couldn't go on the forum for a few weeks (coursework at school) so I asked a load of people on there (including her) for thei... (504 words)

Questions on cheating and having sex in college...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, how can u tell if some1 is cheating on u especially in a sort of long distance relationship? (Houston to College Station) also, do people really have more sex in college even if they had a bf/gf? or though about it? ...wat was dis college experience like 4 u ... (61 words)

My husband is very quiet and doesn't make much conversation with anyone... including me! What can I do?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm at a loss as to what to do about my husband. He just doesn't make conversation- with me nor other people. He's got worse as he's got older, not better. And the worst thing about this is that i've got a really outgoing personality and i'll talk to anybody- but he'... (585 words)

I want to lose my virginity to a guy who's not a virgin, how can I please him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,im kinda in a jam.i have been in love with this guy for almost two years, and i was talking to him about us having sex.he seemed to like the idea.hes not a virgin, and i am.i know im ready to do this, and i am positive i want to do this. im not going to tell you my age ... (101 words)

How can I choose where to live... my country or his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i really need some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 years now..we are very much in love but are unable to decide where to set up home..in my country uk or his Malta. He is the only child and has elderly parents who rely on him and he being such a ... (132 words)

I want to sleep with another guy to see what it's like, but I'm shy! How do I go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old boy who has had sexual intercourse with women, not seeming to be big headed but i get told im good looking lots and a huge amount of girls want to shag me. I love girl i know that, but, deep down, i know, i would love just a one night stand with a man, i'd ... (103 words)

BV is ruining my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

- Please help I have BV (bacterial vaginosis)and it's so embarassing... I've had it for 8 months and taking pills only seems to make it come back stronger...what can I do to finally get rid of it. It's really ruining my life and getting me down...It can go for a while and then... (105 words)

I recently had an abortion...but now I can't stop thinking about the baby and baby stuff. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex and i fell pregnant but i got rid of the baby. I'm only 15 and my boyfriend is 17. But now i cant stop thinking about the baby and i keep looking at baby chlothes . Is there something wrong with me ? Anything will help thanks .... (58 words)

I'm nervous about giving a blow-job for the first time... any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am planning on giving my bf a blowjob for his birthday but I have never done it before and am a little nervous about doing it, I want it to be amazing for him but I just don't have a clue what I am doing and what to expect, I have been reading stuff on the internet with hasn' ... (90 words)

Why can't my husband get an erection?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) age - What could be the reason, that my husband, does not get an erection, from any stimulation from me. Not even blow job. He just stays soft. What is the most likely going on here? Is he not into me? Is he gay? I don't think he is sick, his hormons were checked and no me... (106 words)

Please help...we've broken up and I want her back, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a diffcult question that i can't resolve can anyone help! My girl and i have had a lovely time with each other, we always talked about everything and anything. When i met her a year and 1 month ago we started to date each other and no one else. I have been a smoke... (714 words)

I keep having dreams of being pregnant! What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I don't know if anyone can help but for the past two weeks every night I dream I'm pregnant, one dream I'm happy about the next I'm trying to hide it from my mom. And I've had the baby once and all that happened was I walked around and fed it. I'm only fifteen and I ... (71 words)

Are guys ok with oral, without it leading to sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and I really like him, I am not sure how long to wait before we should start taking things further because I don't want to come across as being easy, at the moment we have just kissed. I kno there is no set rule, he is wanting ... (97 words)

I think I broke my hymen... does that mean I'm no longer a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! i was wondering if you can help me with this it embarrassing to ask but i want to know if im wrong..... well im a virgen who started mastrabating with a vibrator so one day i was in shower and as i was mastrabating a little bit of blood came out of me could be that ... (87 words)

How can I cure my wedding fever??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I found out that I've got wedding fever.. I always want a ring on my finger.. What must I do? P.S. I don't have a bf.... (31 words)

I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and I don't want him to find ... (155 words)

My friend is constantly making digs about my skinniness and it's getting me down...What can I do to get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in my 30's and have always been a tiny frame, only a dinker at 5 ft 2, and if I put on weight it only ever goes on my belly so I like to run 4/5 times a week, for fitness and to keep myself toned. I have this one friend, who every time I go out, basically makes me feel like ... (223 words)

I'm sexually attracted to my best friend's ex... how do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help Me, I'm Becoming Attracted To My Best Friends Ex, We Started Flirting On Msn. and She Started Going On About Her Having Sex With Females For Fun And Going On About How She's Like To Be Bummed And Sh*t, What Should I do, Im Started To Want Her Sexually But I Know My Friend ... (62 words)

Does being asked to 'come upstairs' on a first date mean the guy's expecting sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on dating in New York City. This may sound really lame to some. I'm 29, and after years of always being in a "serious relationship," I'm single and dating. Which is great, and lots of fun. But I find that I keep hitting the same tripping point. I'm no... (258 words)

The girl I slept with is pregnant but the condom didn't split. How else could she be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i have had protected sex but the girl has become pregnant and i dont think the condom split are there anny other ways she became pregnant?... (26 words)

Should I tell my mom I went through a phase where I watched porn, just incase she finds out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right big problem! im 17, 18 at the start of next year. I used to watch porn ALOT! i went threw a big phase , was totally addicted. I fele so dirty about it now, becuase i feel liek its a man thing, even though i know other women do it. Ive doen some reseach 66% of wome... (337 words)

How can we make our relationship last, and stay in love with each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone..i have a relationship going on for about 3 months now.. we've been through many things together and we love each other very much..we're going to study abroad in the same country but in different cities..we're both really scared of the distance..but we want this to ... (137 words)

I've developed feelings for my best friend's ex. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend went out with this boy for about 14 months. They broke up about 4 months ago and she was heartbroken. She still likes him and he sometimes flirts with her but they are unlikely to get back together. Recently, I have got feelings for the boy and he sometime... (74 words)

Our relationship became sexual and now we're arguing. How can we fix this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - p /> I'm having some problems with my girlfriend. We've recently started having sex... or atleast trying to. We aren't virgins, but we are having some problems. We've tried having sex twice now. On both occasions there have been distractions/interruptions. ... (216 words)

Did my hymen break this time or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the first time i had sex, i did not bleed. 3 years later I met my boyfriend and we had sex and I bled. My partner was rather rough. I could feel his whole penis inside me in few seconds. So did my hymen break this time? I bled for only a little while after and it stopped. ... (60 words)

I have an annoying problem, all day I think about sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, im 14, male, and i have an annoyin problem, all day i think about sex and it bugs me and i want to know if theres something wrong with me and a get hard all the time for no reason can you please help, pleasee... (49 words)

What can I do to help him maintain an erection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently started having a friends with benefits kind of relationship with a guy I met through an internet dating site. It's a really good arrangement in most ways since we both just got out of really serious relationships and just want a little bit of company with no ... (190 words)

Share your story: Have you ever regretted ending it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Have you ever broken up with your boyfriend / girlfriend because you thought you no longer loved them and then later realized that you made a mistake? Have you had this experience? Were you successful in getting back together? Please share your story....... (43 words)

My wife is not as interested sexually in me as she was with her ex'es!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - what to do when my wife is not as interested in me sexually as she was with her exes? i've been married for just over two years. throughout our marriage my wife has never been that into sex with me. while we were dating, it was a problem. and it bothered me also because ... (449 words)

My Girlfriend of almost 2 years has split with me. She says if it's meant to be, we'll be together some day. Is there still hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of almost 2 years just broke up with me. She said that she loved me more like a brother than a boyfriend. She keeps saying that anything can happen and if we're meant to be together we'll be together. But she doesn't want to try to fix it, she just wants to wait. ... (295 words)

I don't fancy girls in real life so why do I like these from the mags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and we have a great relationship, however I find myself getting myself turned on by the girls in his lads mags (FHM, Nuts etc)which is bit worrying lol. I don't fancy girls in real life so why do I like these? ... (47 words)

I'm 16, my parents want me to marry this much older man (49) and have children with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and my parents want me to marry this much older man and have children with him. He's 49, has had 2 heart attacks and has no children, and is very wealthy. They tell me he's very wealthy from working in the business world and runs a lorry firm. I'm doing my GCSE's ... (340 words)

If he wants sex, I feel used. If he doesn't want sex, I feel rejected!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question to all: What would make you feel better given that you still love your ex and hopes to get back with, that he/she wants to have sex with you or that he/she no longer wants to have sex with you? Coz I am confused, my ex wanted to have sex with me but I refused t... (131 words)

I love my husband and would never intentionally hurt him, but I think I'm falling for someone else... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I often wonder how I ended up here, I mean right in this moment, pining for someone I can not have, when I have someone so wonderful by my side. I’m married and in over a week, we’ll be sharing our first anniversary, together. I believe in the vows we’ve made and I would ne... (639 words)

How can he like and keep two girls at the same time, should I continue this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am very confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. We've known each other for 2years now, and i got into the relatinship knowing he wouldn't marry me due to his family who din't agree his marriage outside of their caste. but we love each other alot so couldn't... (279 words)

Why are my guy friends being hateful towards my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My two best friends (who are guys) all-of-a-sudden started being very hateful to my boyfriend. I don't know why, I am clueless. This isn't anything new. We've been dating for three years. Could it possibly be the age difference (of nine years)? Some of their behaviour i... (92 words)

What can I do about my our sex life? Our honeymoon period didn't even outlast the honeymoon!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married just over a month now and the "honeymoon period" as it were, didn't even last through the honeymoon. We had sex on the wedding night, which by mutual agreement was fantastic. However on our honeymoon, which lasted over a fortnight we had sex a gr... (241 words)

Is it possible for me to be with him and have my independance too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I don't know who I have become. I've become someone I despise; an overbearing, desperate, needy girl. I never thought it would happen to me. I thought I was more independent than that. My bf broke up with me. I texted him and asked him to work things out. He said that ... (309 words)

I'm scared that the woman I cheated with is no longer interested....what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - OK I'm at my wits end. Over the last year, I've developed a relationship with a co-worker and I know for a fact that I've fallen in love. One problem. I'm married. My wife find out about the affair that started about a year ago. For awhile, we tried to make things work, ... (244 words)

Would you consider my boyfriend a paedophile because of the age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is about ten years older than me. The thing is, he and his parents are good friends of my mother and father. I've known him my whole life. Would you consider this a violation of trust? Many of my friends have called him a pedophile. Would you think so to... (63 words)

Caught up in a love triangle... what should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - damn it! I am so mad at myself now! i just relized the other day that i am in love with my best friend! i dont know why i am but i just relized it the other day when i found out he broke up with his latest girl friend, which happens to be one of my best girl friends. One tim... (576 words)

My boyfriend's off to college soon... do you think he would cheat on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My "boyfriend" is going off to college this year and I don't know how our relationship will turn out. I trust him and he trust me and we promised we would tell each other when we moved on or something. If you been through college this would really help... Do gu... (103 words)

How can I move on when I love him so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know my boyfriend loves me more than he's ever loved anybody. And i know that these feelings scare him. He always gets too scared and breaks up with me. He's done it twice. Recently i found out that the first time we broke up he slept with someone from his work and a week ... (210 words)

He's going to jail... will we ever have a chance of being together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My long-time good friend always liked me. Our age difference was too much for me at the time, but I did like him back. About 3.5 years ago I got into a bad relationship and lost contact with my friend. We recently started talking again and he told me he never stopped li... (497 words)

I don't know what to do about the lying and cheating I've done!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I love him more than anything in the world, and care about him immensely. We have an amazing amazing connection and are best friends. HOWEVER, 5 months ago he moved away for university. We agreed to stay together ... (590 words)

How can I distance myself from my toxic Sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an older sister. We're 3 years apart. We spent a lot of our younger years (before she was 10) being really close. Then, when I was in high school and my first few years of college, we became close again; even closer this times. We partied together and went out all... (785 words)

How do I win back the heart of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello, I was wondering if you could help me with some advice. I would appreciate it so much! I am in the process of getting my ex back. We spent a few months apart after he broke up with me. I dated other people, only to discover all other guys reminded me of how much I m... (543 words)

26 and tired of being a virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm 26 years of age male and really tired of being a virgin! have had opportunities in the past but it never felt right so I didn't do it! Lately though I'm becomming incresingly horny 4 it n feel like my lack of sexual experience is holding me back in life! Bn told I'm... (182 words)

I can't get up the nerve to tell him I want more from our friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My childhood friend and I have always had a strange relationship. We called ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend from the time we were 2 until we were 7 and ever since we have always been completly comfortable around eachother , I am normally shy around guys but around him ... (216 words)

He kept me waiting but didn't call me back, should I be upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are in what i think a good relationship... i also like to think we express our loves differently. for example i call him a lot more than he does and he says i love you more. but last night we had an argument that lead up to me not calling him sweet nick names ... (243 words)

Why did my ex get back with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

8 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently got back together with my ex. We broke up for many reasons, but one of her biggest issues was I could not enjoy the moment, I overthought everything. I never thought she'd get back with me but contacted me out of the blue. I don't really care why she got back... (93 words)

Erection problems are ruining my sex life!

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8 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I have somekind of erection problem and it is embarrassing me and somewhat ruinging my sex life. I thought maybe someone might have some good advice because I'm too embarrassed to go to the doctors unless absolutely neccessary. I'm 32, 20lbs overweight but n... (304 words)

I like my teacher... but I'm not sure if he likes me back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, look it's another teacher/pupil love question, though infinitely more complicated than others. And sorry. Well basically, my teacher is 26 (male) and all the pupils seem to hate him, he is quite irritating in truth sometimes, and quite geeky. But I love him, or I think ... (301 words)

Married but thinking of leaving the past is just too much to get over

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8 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband since I was 17 Im 25 now he is 29 now. He is an alcoholic/recovering alcoholic and he has doen some and said some horrible things in the PAST and thats my problem. I cant seem to forget about the past. He also seems to go through phases (mean not ... (194 words)

FWB but I'm falling in love with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I been dating this guy for over a year and we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. We're friends with benefits but everything we do feels like we're in a real relationship. Pretty much we do everything a couple would do. I met most of his family, I even met his rea... (193 words)

I finally acted out my fantasy and now I feel sick and disgusted

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8 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - To cut this as brief as possible,i had always had a fantasy of being gangbanged. I decided to do it with 6 guys. Unfortunately,i feel ill with disgust,the reality is i was lying there and they were just taking turns. I feel violated,it wasnt what i thought. I consented and i ... (68 words)

I feel men lack a moral compass

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8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have issues with men and am not really sure what else can be done. I dont like feeling this way and dont hate men but I simply feel that the majority of them lack a moral compass. I look around the world and see rapes and murders daily on the news and the majority of them ... (273 words)

Boyfriends sister goes to psychic and it seems to cause problems between him and I

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8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I always fight if our relationship last for a week we are lucky. Whenever we spend time together things are great right after I leave, he's not himself. He just have sudden mood swings. Sometimes I wonder if his bahaviour is due to the fact that he smoke, ... (173 words)

Years of unprotected sex and never got pregnant?

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8 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For a few years now I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend. The odd thing is I never got pregent once. That's always makes wonder is something wrong with me or is it him? I am thinking of getting myself checked out. You advice would be a great help, thanks.... (57 words)

Caught in the middle between Mom and Dad...help!

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8 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my parents got divorced a few years ago, and my dad is getting remarried . I live with my mum and everytime I go see my dad she will make little jokes when I get back home, she always says little smart ass jokes like "oh your dads wife" and laughs and its really annoying ... (151 words)

Why didn't I orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

8 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, So this is kind of embaressing really. Im 37 years of age and i have only just lost my virginity to a long term boyfriend because of lots of issues. But, during intercourse i did not orgasm at all? and i didnt feel like it was at all good? We are using condoms and be... (93 words)

Tell me--is this older girl interested in me?

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8 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 17and work at a camp. Lately I've become attracted to one of my friends who also works there. She is 19 and I think that she might like me but I am not sure. She always comes to visit me when she has time off and usually wants a hug from me. However, lately she has ... (189 words)