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Archived questions from: 23 August, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I set aside tradition and family and just go for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I go for her? She's my first girlfriend and the girl I ever truly loved. We broke up about 4yrs back because I didn't want to cause problem in both of our families. She went into about 4 relationships that didn't work out and she is now not a virgin. She's my friend b... (105 words)

I'm stuck between 2 rocks!!! HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I know these 2 wonderful women. I know one girl from one place, the other from another. It hit me the other night that I love both, I was like "WTF!?" I can't choose one for God's sake! I'm confused and don't want to hurt either of them...... (49 words)

Ex is threatening me and my new boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14, live with my parents and finding it hard to see my boyfreind. my ex is not happy that im moving on with my new boyfriend, and has threatened me and my boyfriend against seeing eachother. i love my boyfriend but dont want him to get hurt by my ex. my ex is ... (94 words)

Gran chose a horrible man over us and I want to know how to fix this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am having so much trouble recently, my Gran is with a man who has done horrible things but she won't leave him, it has been going on for so long and my parents have resorted to not letting my Gran in our lives anymore, the problem is, I miss her so much. I have spoke to my ... (123 words)

Can having sex bring on a period 11 days early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupids, Just wondering whether anyone knows if having sex can bring a period on 11 days early? I have a 30 day cycle and after having sex got my period super early. I had no cramps( which I usually get really bad) and none of my other pre-period symptoms.It lasted a few days... (63 words)

Am I allowed to buy condoms at 15?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I think that you can buy condoms under the age of 18, and I'm 15, and I'm going to buy condoms. But there are lots of condoms..thin, thick, textured, pouchy, coloured, latex, polyurethane etc. Will the shop sell ANY pack of condoms to me or am I only allowed to buy a pack of ... (76 words)

Is texting to blame for relationship problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I am not asking for advice but perhaps starting some sort of poll. Who thinks that texting is to blame for a lot of relationship problems and affairs etc?!!! ... (40 words)

Am I post natal? Not in love? Or living in the past??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I'm all out of love? please help....I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and half years.we have 2 sons aged 2 and 9 months.so as you can see I fell pregnant soon after we met.my problem is I don't know if were just not right for each other or I'm post natal a bit maybe. when I ... (216 words)

Wife has no sex drive, but I want her all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age - I have a 47 year old beautiful wife of 4 years and she seems to have no sex drive but yet I want her all the time. How can I convince her to have more? I love here very much but I need a wife not a roomate.... (48 words)

Please don't let me be the next 40 year old virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and a virgin.. my girlfriend is the same age however she has had sex with one person. She said it was a mistake. We have been dating for a little over 2 months. Every thing is perfect except for every time we try to have sex I go limp. We have tried 3 times. When she ... (107 words)

Can't stop thinking about fat and calories, can't stop making myself sick!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, haven’t been here in a while but I’m just sick of everything at the moment and I’d rather vent on here than to anyone in person. I really struggle to open up to people and I feel that by telling someone I don’t have the problem, because it’s so secretive. I can’t st... (231 words)

How long before its ok to introduce your bf/gf to your friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How long when dating someone should you introduce them to your friends...? I've been on a few (3) dates with this particular guy... He is moving this weekend and has friends coming up to see him and spend the weekend with him... then the weekend after he is going away for t... (132 words)

Mum is being judgemental and treating me like a child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I need some serious help! I'm in my early 20s, going into my last year of university. During the summer months I live at home w/my parents but during the year I live on my own. I've noticed during this summer at home my mom is becoming a control freak. She is stres... (432 words)

How can I convince my parents that the person I'm dating is a good guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

23 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Some of you may remember my first question, about which guy I should choose, and I chose the guy that my parents don't like. We have been secretly dating, but then my parents came home while he was here, and they were furious. How can I convince them he's a good guy? ... (68 words)

Is it really worth giving up everything and running away with my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had sex and got caught by her parents that night and for the first few weeks her parents were mad at us but still wanted us to be together. but as time went on they completely have changed there minds and now wont let us talk or see eachother at all. and to ... (135 words)

I've tried being 'just friends', then detaching myself from her completely, but I still love her! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, this is a long one, so I'll post a quick summary below but if you have the time to read it all I hope you do. There's a girl that I met three years ago in college. She was a beautiful girl that was down to earth and I loved her personality. When we first met, I tho... (1159 words)

How can I increase sensitivity on my circumcised penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I increase sensitivity on my circumcised penis? I have never been able to achieve an orgasm from oral sex with any of the many partners I've had, and am only able to achieve orgasm in vaginal intercourse with extreme difficulty. Many times I've been at the point where I ... (143 words)

I'm falling for someone who doesn't want to be tied down in a relationship. Should I stop seeing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been seeing this guy for a while, i have really fallin for him , but he doesnt want a relationship with anyone , he says he has been hurt by his last girlfriend and doesnt want to be tied down by having a new girlfrind, he says he just wants to enjoy life been single, ... (128 words)

Should I talk to him about bringing up our baby with me, or just settle it legally by getting him to give me child support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not seen my ex since I found out I was pregnant with his chid. Part of this is due to the fact that he's been out of town due to work. He's due to come back 9/12. I've spoken to him over the phone only to be insulted and told I need to abort Im 19 weeks and told him ... (187 words)

I snooped around into my girlfriends accounts, and found that she had been talking to another guy in secret; and even met him!! How can I confront her about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So... I've been with my GF for nearly two years. We've had a lot of fun, and our relationship has always been very fair and loving, despite some rough patches involving money (being out of work mainly). We've lived together for about half this time, maybe a bit more, but in ... (391 words)

We were getting along great, and now he's completely backed off! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy friend who I like and me and him were getting along great. Until i noticed that he became distant and now he doesn't talk to me at all. Last week out of the blue he texted me asking about our school scheduale. I first was like wow he still has my number. Maybe ... (175 words)

What are the signs of a guy liking you, even though he's made it clear he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Erm... what are the signs of a guy liking you who right now doesnt want a relationship and wants to be single? The reason i say this is this guy in my class seemed to really like me, the way he looked at me, the tensionn between us and everything. Trust me there were big s... (432 words)

I don't want a relationship with him, but I don't wanna be a one night stand either! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been single for a year now, and enjoy clubbing regularly, At the spot theres a DJ who really has made an impression on me. Hes not even mega anything, Not too cute just handsome enough - Dresses rather nicely though. We'd been making eyes, he'd play the songs I like, Ra... (424 words)

Is there a third date rule?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If girl slept with a guy on the 3rd date does that make her easy....?... (15 words)

My best friend is dating a loser, I've got to the point where I'm sick of hearing about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best freind has been dating a loser for 4 years. He's addicted to cocaine, is violent towards her and her 5 year old child (both physically and emotionally abusive), walks in and out of her life when he wants and basically treats her like dirt. He's jealous, possessive, ... (184 words)

I love my boyfriend and wouldn't cheat, so why was I tempted?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend very much, and have never had the need or want to look elsewhere. I'm very monogamous and could never cheat on anyone, nor have I ever done so. He's had to go away for a few weeks, and I've really missed him. I went out last night with my girl friends, an... (280 words)

I want to get with him but I can't tell my parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. right basicly. this boy really likes me, and i like him but i cannot go out with him because i'm too embarressed of telling my parents, it makes me feel sick and i go red. what i am supposed to do because it's upsetting me so much :'( i can't hide it from them? ... (56 words)

The guy I like is best friends with the guy I used to like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically I Saw this boy at this convention I been through 3 days I kind of no him But I never spoke to him.He was watching me 3 days blah blah its really long yeah I had 3witnesses watching him and they said Yeah he does preety much Like me,I emailed him this...: But Th... (910 words)

Am I wrong for trying to push my boyfriends "best friend" out of his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my boyfriends "best friend" this girl cam out of nowhere in his life. And I can't stand her. Today I got another friend of mine to send her some very hateful messages. And I am glad I did. Hopefully she will get out of his life now. What I want to know now is. Am... (70 words)

We broke up because he was very ill, now we're back together, scared of being hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for 3 months a year ago, last summer. He became very ill after about 6 weeks of us being together and was hospitalised for near on a month. I know 3 months isn't very long in terms of relationships, and even though it's likely it was lust more than lov... (458 words)

I've been cheating on him for years but don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 22 yr old married woman, iv been maried since 20 and been with him since 18. but all along iv been cheating on him. i dont know why. hes such a good man, and a wonderful father to our little boy. im in the service and hes not, so were seperated for periods of time. he ... (112 words)

He's gone on holiday and not really kept in touch, I feel hurt, am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 5 months. It's brilliant, we're very much besotted with each other, no problems. But he's gone on a holiday with his best friend (just the 2 of them, a chilling out holiday, not a clubbing one) which I'm fine with. But I feel a bit gutted that he h... (110 words)

I couldn't have sex with my boyfriend, I feel I've let him down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (?)

- I tried to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 months last night and i couldn't. His penis felt like it was too big for my vagina. It was so painful that I felt sick and shakey. This has put me off ever having sex again yet I know that my boyfriend will want to. I feel really ... (73 words)

Will they sell lube to a 15 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to buy this...DUREX PLAY CHERRY PUMP LUBE.. http://www.superdrug.com/DUREX-PLAY-CHERRY-PUMP-LUBE-50ML/invt/512109 and bklist= im 15, will probally get it from Superdrug or something, will they sell it, and things like this, to me?? thanx... (34 words)

Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. Now for the details so you all ... (592 words)

I find it hard to make friends, no one likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a really big problem... no one likes me. I've always found it hard to make friends or talk to people, I think I might have panic attacks sometimes I don't know if its social phobia. I never know what to say to anyone or how to start a conversation. And im always paranoid ... (136 words)

I need some advice on giving massages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. It's not really a problem, just something I'd like some advice on. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a while and we like to try new things. We've recently starting giving each other massages but I'm not very good at it. I don't really know what ... (108 words)

I want to emigrate to the USA

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age - This is not a relationship question but more related to settling in the USA. I am British and teach and own two houses and would like to emigrate to the US eventually. How easy is it to get work there. I was thinking of coming over on an extended vacation and trying to ma... (84 words)

My brothers wife is so controlling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago my brother got married to a girl i had never met before (i had been living away in a different city). He came out of a 6 year relationship only 8 months before they got married. We are very close only a year between us. He's never kept anything from me but he didn't ... (295 words)

Who do I do this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice here or if I just wanted to type this out. Hopefully that makes sense, but to me sometimes typing something out for others to see can be as therapeutic as actually telling someone what's on your mind. The thing is, I am 33 years old and... (680 words)

Good dating websites in the USA?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age - This is a question for American users. Is anyone familiar with any good American Dating sites as I am sick and tored of my so to be called relationship now and have always wanted to start a new life in the US. Any suggestions?... (48 words)

She wants to seperate and I'm shocked and heartbroken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age - My first marriage ended after 17 years and it was heartbreaking. We had 5 children together and it took me a long time to get over it. Eventually I met my second wife and she was the girl of my dreams. We had 16 great years together, raising her children and my children under ... (264 words)

Can I trust him? He's telling other girls he wants to be with them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I been this relationship for 2yrs now,, in the first couple of months we had some problems or at least i had some problems with him. such as his bm called my phone and then another time a girl called my phone talking bout they been together for 3mths and other things she was ... (262 words)

I have a crush on my boss, should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a huge crush on my boss for the past seven months but have not done anything about it. I joke with him as I do with the other employees at work but I don't flirt with him because I know that a relationship with the boss is not appropriate. He may be fired soon for ... (108 words)

My wife constantly wants to move

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have been in a relationship for 12 years now we are married and have a daughter together. my wife is always unhappy where we live so we are constantly moving about 5 years ago we moved to the uk, to make a frsh start. she then went back to our home country and left me ... (372 words)

What's the most important thing in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Pls what is most important in a relationship that would make the best for marriage? is it the time they share together, the shown love or the spending? for i know poverty is not a choice, and also some know how to show love while others dont though they truely do. so what ... (58 words)

One on one dinner with a friend of the opposite sex - yay or nay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a great relationship where there is a lot of trust between my partner and I. I have many male friends that I hang out with or communicate with on a regular basis and he has female friends too. This is of course fine. But the other night, a female friend of his (that he... (164 words)

Married but sexually incompatible

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 yr old woman married to a 38 yr old man. We have been married for almost a year and everything else about our marriage is good except that we are completely sexually incompatible. When we were dating he was very slow moving in the sexual department and when he was ... (189 words)

How can I kick my ex bf out of my place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi :-( I'm a college student in a foreign country.My ex and i are still living together in an apartment that i pay for and the lease is on my name.We broke up about 2 years ago. Our breakup was not a bitter one, since no one cheated or anything.We just drifted apart. The prob... (184 words)

How should I go about re-establishing contact with a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to re-establish contact with a friend of mine and I'm thinking on what to write in an email. -We haven't talked/seen each other for more than a year. -We are from different countries. -We were very close (although never in an official relationship) and conta... (109 words)

How can I make her show her feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a girl,i love so much. We have been together for about 5 months. She gets angry easily and we always quarrel. She doesnt ever show her feelings for me but i do and i always feel bad about it.How can i make her show her feelings for me and bring ... (59 words)

Should I contact my ex after bumping into him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, I really need help, first of all I'm gay, so here's what happened to me. Last night I went to a club with my best friend and I found my ex-boyfriend so I said hi to him and we ended up dancing and kissing for a while, so later on we had a conversation abo... (439 words)

Is he interested at all or just playing games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I kissed this guy a year and a half ago but the following night he said that he was drunk that night. I met him a few times since but nothing ever happened and we just talked. I bumped into him in a bar last weekend and he apologised for what happened a year and a half ago. We ... (208 words)

I need help in seeing the right from wrong in my first love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. However, he treats me like a door step. He pushes me, he yells so close to my face that I can feel his spit, and he tells me that he is the best guy that I will ever find. I know I sound stupid, but it's hard for me to let ... (146 words)

Am I losing out on who might be the only one for me or will I meet someone like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, im having quite a bit of love life trouble. 4 months ago i split up with my girlfriend (who we'll call EMMA) of 2 and a half years. she was my first love and we loved each other very much. the main trouble in the relationship was that she has a toddler and i just couldnt ... (367 words)

I need help in this situation with my online boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,I'm 15 years old,and I have this online boyfriend. We've been "dating" for 2 and a half years now. He's from U.S. and I've never met him before. He's 17 years old,and he will be coming here this year after he graduates from highschool. I've talked to him on the phone several ... (203 words)

Please help me... We love each other but cant be together, I'm having a breakdown.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the last 3 months. We love each other so much it sometimes scares me. She makes me happier than I have ever been in my life. About a month and a half ago we were having some drinks, then a fight started, she pushed a glass off the table, i... (598 words)

Do I move away and follow my heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age - My wife and I got separated in December and we have been apart for 8 months now. We have 3 woderful kids aged 10-16 who we are both unbelievably close with. The kids have handled the separation and impending divorce well. Our relationships have stayed great, their social life ... (274 words)

Side effects of the morning after pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just taken the morning after pill prescribed by my doctor, but didn't think to ask what exactly is going to happen to by body, and I can't find it any where on the internet. I was just wondering if any one else who has taken it can tell me, not like potential side e... (81 words)

Guys: pretty face? or fit body?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is directed to guys on the site really...but I was just wondering whether guys are more attracted by a pretty face or a fit body? ...Not that it matters eventually when you find love but which is initially more attractive?... (45 words)

I want to have sex but don't want to get pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im in love with my boyfriend verry much and he lives in texas he is comming down to see me next summer and we planed on making love but im afraid i have done it b4 but now i can get pregnant and i realy want to with him but i dont know what to do plz help... (59 words)

What to do when medical condition makes sex impossible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a healthy man in my mid-thirties and in a relationship with a wonderful woman for many years (not married). Years back she developed a health condition that got worse and worse, which is unfortunately not well understood and doctors don't know if it can be cured. Thi... (188 words)

I have a girlfriend but I like another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and this girl have been dating for like 3 weeks now and i really like her and she likes me but i dont wanna be with her any more but in a way i do i just dont know wat to do. cuz there is this other girl who is great. see me and my girl friend now got like 2 or 3 things in ... (89 words)

Husband trying to turn back time..acting like a teenager!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 42, and my husband's 38. Has he recently hit a midlife crisis or something - he's started going to clubs with teenage kids 18 - 21, going to the gym, eating out every night, and smoking and gambling a lot, and even dresses like a 20something lad! He's now even planning... (264 words)

I'm a virgin, he wants to make love but I'm so scared!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I am really akward when it comes to boys, but there is this particular one who is sooo sweet, and he is just beutiful inside and out, but one day when we were alone, he began to touch me, it felt so good, but as he began to try and unbutton my pants I began to freak out ... (90 words)

Should I keep making excuses for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is a pretty shy and clueless guy when it comes to girls. I'm his first girlfriend, and we've been dating for about 3 months. I'm 19, he's 22. We've been working together since fall of last year, and we first went out in January...and didn't again until Apri... (741 words)

Wife left to visit parents across the country and won't return! How to convince her to come back until we can both move away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, sorry for the long message, question is actually quite short, but needs the background to properly understand: I need advice / help on how to keep my marriage from falling apart. Some background info: my wife and I have been married for 6 years. We live across the count... (784 words)

My ex keeps going back and forth between me and his new girlfriend. Should I tell him to get lost and let his girlfriend know he's cheating with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

age - ex spends time with me spends 3 to 4 nights a week at my place then he calls and come over we still go places together but then he dissapears and goes to his new girlfriend and wont answer his phone i think he is playing with my heart he dont really want me just want to ... (107 words)

He wants to move to be with me, but should I tell him not to because I know I wouldn't do the same for him? We're both very close to our families!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

23 August 2009 (F)

- My bf lives in another city to me. We are about a 14 hour drive apart from each other, or a 3 hour flight- yet that can be expensive. I really think he is 'the one'. When I am with him, it just seems so right. I have never had this feeling before. I have finally found a ... (319 words)

Do I stay with my drinking husband because of our daughter?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age - I am a 49 year old female with a 14 year old daughter. I have been married 15 years and for the entire time I have known this man he has drank; but it seems every year his drinking is getting worse. Even though I am married, I feel like a single parent. He does nothing with ... (134 words)

They don't know it, but I keep going back and forth between 2 girls

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am so confused its even got me suffering deppression i hate me so much i am in love with 2 people and i cant work my way around it and they love me 2 but they dont know about each other and i have broken with one and went to the other then i broke up with her and went back ... (85 words)

Is it cheating to kiss another guy?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over three years and never ever cheated on him. I'm so loyal so I feel really guilty because I kissed a very nice guy that I met the other night. He kissed me first and I went along with it for a few seconds. Is that cheating? He was drinkin... (149 words)

Should I just leave her alone or at least try to be friends?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm in a situation right now that i'm sure has happened to many people before, but i am completely lost and i'd just like some good, honest advice. i had a girlfriend a while back and at the time we broke up, we'd been dating for close to 3 years. and before that, we ... (221 words)

I feel things are unfair but I don't want to be selfish or ungrateful..

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm living with my mum to finish off my last year of high school while my dad has been sent overseas for work. he comes to see us maybe once a month so its not too bad. the thing is, i feel like because of that i have less freedom than my other friends. im not allowed out ... (209 words)

Am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to propose?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for five years now. It was a fairly good relationship, there are arguments however we manage to clear the air eventually after each argument/fight. However, I can't help but become insecure as most of our friends are engaged or getting married next ... (206 words)

We're ready to get married but his parents won't consent - is there a way around this?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old mother of 2 beautiful boys and their father is only 17..we are trying to get married so he can go of to the army but its becoming impossible because his mother does not approve..we have been together for 4 years now and were truly in love.how would it be ... (67 words)

He likes her but loves me...I think he's confused! Should I break up with him or not?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i asked my boyfriend to be honest with me and tell the truth, i said "do you like anyone besides me?". he said no but i think sonni(a girl he's liked for awhile) is hot which i understood because im not the only pretty one in the world but 2 days later he said ask me one ... (113 words)

Am I wrong to feel like I was lied to?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had plans with my boyfriend to cook dinner for him on a Wednesday night. He gets out of school at 5:30 and I called him 2 or 3 times between 6 and 7 when he hadn't shown up. He finally calls me at about ten after seven stating he had been talking to his professors and that he ... (132 words)

We want to date - but the 'kids' think it's too weird, what should we do?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age - I am interested in having a relationship with my daughter's boyfriend's dad. We like each other and would like to date.We live on opposite ends of the country but communicate each day.We will get together when we can.Here's the problem though, my daughter and her boyfriend are ... (130 words)

Her ex is like a Calvin Klein model - how can I stop feeling like I can't compete?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, i've had something on my mind for a few weeks and its eating at me so i thought i'd post on here and get the general consensus... I have recently got a new girlfriend, and it turns out that her most recent ex partner was into bodybuilding, he is on steroids and is a... (197 words)

Should I follow my heart and see her despite my mother's insistance I stay focused on studies?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid.... I have met this girl in high school, and also in junior high, but I only had a small crush on her back then. But now, 10 years later, I typed her name on facebook..and she is there. Well, testing my courage, I typed her that I like her. Guess what? she asked me ... (286 words)

Is wanting t be friends with ther gay men a betrayal of my boyfriend?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in what feels like an impossible situation. I have been in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for five years. I never really had many friends but of late have started making them. I am gay and would like to have some gay friends as well as straight ones. M... (256 words)

He isnt the man I used to know...I need help with this!

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my bf for over a year now and we have lost our romance!! i asked him to take me out... but he would rather sit at home. i've been asking him for months to take me out to dinner but i always get a straight out NO and it annoys me. i dont know what to do? when... (116 words)

Trouble with my husband's affair and flirting..

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Moderator's note: OP asked two seperate questions and they have been combined below. Question 1: i had just found out - my husband had an affair with a married woman for about 4 mounth. he told me it was over and he would never see her again. i knew who this ow was and she ... (259 words)

How far should a boyfriend be allowed to go with the other woman in a threesome?

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23 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - If you are bisexual and want a threesome with another woman, how far would you let boyfriend (long-term boyfriend) go with her?... (22 words)

Masturbating to pictures of friends?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is masturbation to pictures of your friends okay? I have printed out pictures of a few of my friends that our females and I have masturbates to them. I printed the pictures from myspace and facebook. Is this behavior normal?... (45 words)

Does my ex really want to be best friends?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, just feelin quite confused and wondering if someone may be able to shed my situation.. Basically about 6 months ago I met a guy who I was pretty into. We were together about 3 months but it ended... for a new couple we had a lot going on.. timing was terrible as we'd... (614 words)

Why do Men/boys do this?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was waiting for my mother to pick me up from the subway for about an hour...and so this clearly older guy, wearing "young" clothes (they looked to materialistic for his age) approache me. He had the audacity to tell me that he was 28 years old, LOL! So we started talking he ... (163 words)

Cheating wound

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and i absolutely love her. Our relationship is pretty flawless in almost every way and im pretty sure she is the one for me. however in the beginnings of the relationship, she kissed four different guys at various parties ... (202 words)

Which one do I choose? My boyfriend or my soulmate?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke off a 5 year relationship with a guy. But it wasn't just an ordinary break up. During the latter part of the relationship, I kept ignoring thoughts that I was not in love with my boyfriend as much as I was when we were starting out. I got tired of his mat... (673 words)

Why do people look at couples (even friends) walking together?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Everytime I am talking to a guy everyone notices us. I am always walking by myself on campus, but it seems that everytime I have a male companion, the guys would give him dirty looks. It was so weird, last time I was talking to this guy and he looked at me and liked his lips ... (239 words)

I didn't enjoy the sex with my date and I can't figure out why?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my one month ago , and I feel better because we broke up Because he wasn’t nice to me , he didn’t appreciated me and he wasn’t the ideal partner Unluckily, I still see my ex, we work in the same place, and we have to talk I don’t miss him , just a little... (315 words)

I could not climax this weekend.. what is wrong?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, well the basic idea is that I can't cum during a blowjob or handjob from my girlfriend recently. This weekend I haven't been able to do it. I did it once when my girlfriend gave me a handjob, she gave me my first blowjob(s) this weekend plus handjobs. She wants me to cum ... (113 words)

She has a horrible past.. do I look passed it, try to fix it.. tell her parents?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - There's a girl. She was abused as a small child and after a while being fostered was put up for adoption at the age of 4. This needs to be taken into account I think when you consider that she says she... Lost her virginity (willingly) when she was 11. Went through the ne... (400 words)

She's slept with 5 guys in 1 1/2 years, should I be with her?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so like a year ago i got really close to this girl, we made out alot and for a moment things almost went all the way. i recently started speaking to her again and i still feels this sexual attraction we had back then, im not sure if she does but i have a feel we could be... (89 words)

I feel as if I can't stop thinking of her!

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I work as a Navy Seal, and from that domain I know this girl, we were going out before (From that domain couple of years ago.) But then I re-meet with her, she's a fine and good gal, she has personal problems and sticks to me more often, she changed a bit, and I feel as ... (97 words)

At 33, could this be just a mid-life crisis?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 9 years and majority of the time it was good till recently. Lately it seems he doesn't care if I'm here or not. I feel he is looking for things to do to deliberately make me mad. Lately I do nothing right in his eyes and he complains about ... (133 words)

I like him but he lives 4000 miles away

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this guy for 2 years now. we go to the same sleepaway camp. i really really like him and im almost positive he likes me. theres only one problem. he lives 4000 miles away and i will probably never see him again. I know your going to tell me to let it go but i dont ... (85 words)

What can I do? Clash of cultures and family scandal...

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I am a white woman and for 3 years now, with a break in between I must admit, I have been with my BF who is Asian. He's Pataan and his family is Muslim; he does not share their views but out of respect for his parents, who are quite old now, he tells them that he ... (334 words)

I want to ask her to the prom for next year and need some ideas...

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and our school's Prom is next year and its made out as a pretty big deal. Everyone is arranging stuff already and starting to ask people and agree with people who they're going with. The girl I want to go with, there is some competition for her and I need to ask her ... (133 words)

Is there any thing I can say to him to see if he still likes me?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in LOVE with this boy that went to my bible camp and he likes me too. we went out but we thought we were too young so we broke up. we live about 20 away from each other but i talk to him on IM. is there any trick of words i can use to tell if he still likes me?... (64 words)

I'd like to convince her that it was a jealous, weak moment and I can change! Any advice?

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23 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently started dating the most amazing woman I have ever met. I am 36 yrs old, and in all my years I have never met a woman as precious and unique as her. Problem is, after two months, I ended up showing her a side of me I never knew existed or had: jealousy. I've never ... (218 words)

How do you get rid of an oily back?

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23 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey again lads! Just wondering if any1 knows about oily backs. I am going to two debs in about 2 weeks. It kinda runs in my family, we all have kinda oilyish backs! Its very annoying and basicly i am just asking if any1 knows how to get rid of it!!? Thanks lads... (60 words)