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Is she still a virgin if the penetration didn't succeed? Is it normal that we noticed blood later?

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Question - (18 October 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2008)
A male Lebanon age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i tried to penetrate my gf but it was too tight and couldn't get in so we couldnt have sex.

no blood came out right away but she was saying that she feels a little burning in her vagina.

2 hours later she showed me little bit of blood on her underwear means that blood came down after 1 hour or maybe more. but the thing is we did not have sex and it couldnt penetrate at all.

is she still virgin?

is it normal that at first we never saw a single blood and later after hours blood came down by itself? where was blood hiding??

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A female reader, shna Ireland +, writes (1 November 2008):

shna agony aunthey , you should relax a girls first time having sex usually isnt the nicest the thing . for girls it can be very pailful and becuase girls can focus in on the pain there is usually no consern for any great feelings . dont worry about it the next time you become more intimate it will be a lot better . it just takes time x

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A male reader, DieRomantic United States +, writes (18 October 2008):

DieRomantic agony auntHey man dont worry i practically had the same problem when me and my girlfriend did it for the first time. Its nothing to worry about you just tore it a bit its normal for the first time. just next time start off with figering to lossen her up a bit and itll make it much easier. be safe. take it easy. peace.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2008):

it just means her hymen broke, which is normal if she is a virgin. kinda where the saying "pop the cherry comes from" sometimes girls who do horse back riding,etc don't experience this as their hymen has already broken through riding,but it's normal and she was probably a little sore because your penis would of stretched her vagina. she's not a virgin anymore, if you pentetrated her then she lost her virginity.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

It just means that you tore her a little. It's very delicate skin. Don't worry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

It sounds like you tore the hymen, and that's normal that there is bleeding, and it may not happen right away. I guess there are different ways of looking at whether she is a virgin or not, but I'd say no.

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