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My wife has this fantasy of watching me having sex with another man, I don't understand why...

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Question - (18 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a married man for 11 yrs. Recently during foreplay and sex talk my started telling me how hot and horny she gets when she has fantasies of me have oral and anal sex with another man. Just watching her getting her self worked up and touching her self made me nuts. I have never been with a guy or have I ever even thought about it.

I love my wife and would do anything and everything for her. I quess I don't understand why she would want to see me give and receive sex with a guy. She doesnt want to be included or have the other guy touch touch her. She just wants to watch me and who ever. What do think this is all about, and why does she get so excited thinking and picturing me in this way?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

I'm sorry that this world is so confusing in regards to sex these days. I'm sure your wife loves you and is just wanting to act out0something she has seen in porn. The only other explanation would be if she wants to know wether or not you fantasize about girl on girl action. This could be one of those situations that confuse men......women not being direct in their conversations.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

Maybe she is after a bit of variety after 11 years of marriage, and maybe she has always had this as something that turns her on (IE gay guys) and she wants you to know this so she says that she would like to see you do it. I wouldn't take it personally, she obviously loves you, some people have strange fantasies that they wouldn't 'actually do' if it came down to it. Tell her you love her but it freaks you out and makes you uncomfotable, I'm sure she'll understand. Imagine if it were the other way round! Good Luck :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

she is probably just into it, like some guys are into lesbian sex she may be into gay sex. maybe you could ask her?

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