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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met an awesome man almost a year ago and we slowly developed our relationship but we never really spoke about what our expectactions of each other are and now I found myself confused because it seemed like we were together but I didn't feel a sense of entitlement to him or the relationship so I asked him. He just said it's a bit complicated and we should talk about it! What could he not have told me for almost a year? We're both adults and we love each other but I'm really nervous about this talk he wants. Reply to this Question
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reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Who knows? You'd be surprised how long people can guard secrets if they are potentially damaging for them! I'd be nervous too - but just try to remain calm until you've had a chance to have that conversation. Obviously there is something going on for him - but it's not necessarily as sinister as him having a wife and kids, perhaps he has 'baggage' from a previous relationship, perhaps it's a clash of religious beliefs, perhaps he's being transferred for work...wait until you know what it is you're dealing with before you freak out.
When's the talk? You need to have that ASAP!
Let us know how it goes and write if you need to afterwards!
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