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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:HiI am 16 and literally the only person I know and am on a level with that hasn't lost their virginity. I dont think this bothers me too much as i DONT usually conform to peer pressure. However I am ready and do want to lose my virginity. The thing is, I have been thinking slightly wierdly recently in that I am thinking about the best way/ place to lose my virginity so that I can look back on it afterwards with affection/ laugh/ pride I don't know. I realise this is really wierd. What does everyone else think? This seems really calculating? should i just let nature take its course even though I REALLY want to have sex now?Thanks for your help but, please, spare me the lectures on saving it for a long term relationship or someone I love as I do not want or have spare time to find a boyfriend or someone I love as my sex drive is high NOW and i am too busy for a relationship.Thanks
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (19 October 2008):
don;t plan things like that, because the reality of it is far from what u imagine. guys that age don't last long, they don't know what they are doing and well the whole situation is just awful. also it hurts and is uncomfortable. you're better of to just wait untill you are in a nice relationship with someone who cares about you. it will mean so much more then. what's the rush anyway, forget everyone else. remember that at your age alot of girls and guys lie about loosing their virginity to make themselves look good to their peers. don't feel presured just because everyone else is doing it. it's not a race!
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reader, questions64  +, writes (18 October 2008):
hi, I myself was 16 and understand your
Sexual desire... Saving the lectures.. LOL
I suggest because you don't have a boyfriend
And no time or interest in finding one,
I would get yourself a great lifelike dildo
And lots of lube start caressing and massaging
Yourself and enjoy your pleasures until you find a boyfriend!
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reader, troubledinlove +, writes (18 October 2008):
loose it if you want however take it from someone who knows make sure its right so you dont get hurt like i did and use pertection so u dont end up with a baby with no dady like i did
ok?
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