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writes:Hi im 16 and i want to know how to flirt? because i get really nervous when approaching women and dont know what to do and say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): Dear Poster
Flirting is one of life’s pleasures. It can be great fun; cost’s nothing and can be good for your health. It can also boost your self-esteem and confidence.
Flirting is also a way of showing someone that you are interested in them and would like to know them better. Many relationships started with a flirtatious encounter; this is a very enjoyable stage for most people; allowing yourself to be slightly risqué; with the knowledge that greater intimacy might follow.
The art of flirtation needs to be practiced wisely; if misused; it can arouse bad feelings and create problems.
The golden rules of Flirting:
DO keep it light; humor is a vital tool for successful flirting. Playfulness is more engaging than trying to be a Casanova or a femme fatal.
DON’T flirt with someone you know has a serious crush on you that you don’t return.
DO maintain eye contact for just slightly longer then normal. This registers your appreciation of the other person without being too intrusive.
DON’T flirt to score points against your partner of to provoke him or her.
DO be aware of your body language. Angle your body towards the person and mirror his or her posture without being to o obvious.
DON’T flirt with someone if you know his or her partner is prone to jealousy.
DO draw attention to yourself by adjusting your hair or clothing slightly; toy with an earring; adjust your tie; smooth your hair back or away from your face.
DON’T overdo it; you are out to have FUN, not to embarrass yourself in public.
Always keep SMILING.
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reader, troubledinlove  +, writes (19 October 2008):
ok its simple let the girl know u like her without actually saying it play with her but dont ever actually say it be a really close freind to a girl and when ur ready and and u think she is ready to accept it tell her u like her
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): first of all just relax.. be yourself is the main key and look approachable..do not look worried and fold ur arms etc
smile at the women and ask her questions about herself..most importantly make her laugh :) it always works..if shes smiling back etc just ask for her number
good luck hun.x
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reader, keilta +, writes (18 October 2008):
 hey well im a gurl so i may help well the thing that may help is just be confident like u rule the world lol haha well just be like "hey" in the girl "hi?" be like "so wats your name n try to get to know her like give her time to talk lol but like my brother says "you dont need to be good looking all you need is the mouth piece. just be confident and dont act like your hard to get
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