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writes:ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and hes aready told me that he loves me. he told me about an incident when he slept round his ex girlfriends and she tried to kiss him. and recently his ex contacted me and told me a different story, that he kissed her and they were both to blame and that he sent messages to her saying he still loves her and always will and he doesn't think he will be with me for much longer. but now i dont know who to believe because hes cheated before not with me but on my friend and i dont know his ex in person. what should i beieve? please help me! it hurts to know he could have cheated on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): First of all, why are u dating yiour friend's ex, that says something about your character..just had to get dat out...but in any case, u should definitely let him go. It's only been two months and has already cheated on you apparently more than once. Once a cheater always a cheater/. Let him go, and if he comes back then you know he truly wants to make it work, if he doesn't then now you know he doesn't want to be with u and u can move on and find someone worth your time.
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (9 July 2008):
 i think you have to confront him about all of this and see what he has to say if he has been cheating then you need to seriously think about why you are with him and if you can trust him i know it hurts but it will hurt more if you stay because he could do it over and over again then you will be left mabey ghis ex is just jelous and is trying to plit you too up but you have to ask him first
good luck xxxx
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reader, RawrrJoJoBabii  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 If i was you i would confront him about this. I would tell him what i heard and that i don't believe her but i thought i should ask you about it and i want you to be 100% honest with me and tell me if you actually did kiss her.
I understand how you feel because i've had someone cheat on me with his ex too. It's a pretty hard situation to be in when you're the new girlfriend and she's the ex but they may still have feelings for each other.
The best thing you could do is try to trust him but make him understand that you don't tolerate the cheating if he has and that it really hurt you. If he has cheated maybe you guys should split up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Of course it hurts to think he cheated on you, you love him, its normal to feel like that. From an outsiders point of view I'm afraid I would believe that he did kiss her.
Did he only tell you about this so called kiss because he was worried you would find out that he infact encouraged the kiss.
I know its hard but as you're only two months into this relationship my advice would be to get out now before it gets harder, this is a warning sign and you should take it seriously if you want to avoid further heartbreak. I've been there and done it.
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