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writes:I'm a female and I just met a girl my junior year and we became best friends really quickly. We were unseperable and did everything together. We had a normal friendship for about 2 weeks. Things soon began to become a different attraction. We ended up kissing one night and ever since then, we pretended we were gay every chance we got. Since then, it wasn't a friendship anymore, it was a type of relationship without the labels. SheWould ask me if I was gay and I would deny it, but so would she. We always wanted to get drunk together just to have an excuse to make out w eachother. We would get jealous over everything and we talked like we were boyfriend and girlfriend. One night we had sex, sober...and she wanted to make sure I was okay with everything that happened and I was. A few day after that, she completely started ignoring me and now we are not friends anymore. The problem is, Im in love with her and can't let her go. Even though it seems like she has let go, I don't know why. I want to know what her problem is and how she feels about me. Does she like me?? Its been a month since we talked, is it too late??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): she is probably still a little insecure about being gay. maybe if you get in touch with her, you could suggest that the two of you go back to being just friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): A month?!
Well at least you've given her time to think about it...
But a month is excessive.
But there is still time you'd be glad to know.
I'd seriously recommend that you try and get hold of her. You possibly should've told her before, but the past cannot be altered.
You need to play tactically. Either way I feel you need to get hold of her as soon as you can. Just talk. See where that goes.
I think that you need to tell her how you feel. Possibly not that being the first thing you say - in fact I wouldn't make it the first thing you say - but at least it being on the agenda.
Seriously, try and get hold of her as soon as you can.
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