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writes:i am 14 and i need help. my gf is 13 and we have been going out for 1 year. and i want her to kiss me but i dont know how to. plz help. Reply to this Question
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Boy, you're too young to be kissing girls! Kidding.
OK if you've been with your girlfreind year I can tell you how to do it. Its actually very simple in the approach but you can vary it depending on the situation.
Basically you use a hand to control her face towards yours. You can reach out to her face brush her cheek, bring it down to cup her chin, tilt it up towards you, you lean in and kiss. You can do the lean in without the hand, but the hand controls it before the lips take over. It controls your aim....it sets her up for it..and you can move your hand around her neck to make it tighter, then of course you embrace her as the kiss gets tighter.
Don't forget to close your eyes...she should do the same. In fact if you see her half close her eyes as you move in with your hand under her chin....she is telling you what she wants. Kiss the girl.
There are so many ways to approach a kiss and you will find your own style, but i just gave you the basics.
Of course she can do something like move your hand away, but why would she? She is waiting for you to kiss her! How can you wait this long? Take her.
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reader, centralbabe5678 +, writes (9 July 2008):
 girls never amke the first move its like a rule almost,
if its your first kiss do not try to make out, that would be horrible, if you're asking how to kiss the first time just soft and sweet, dont be forceful or eager, thats a huge turn off. take it slow when you lean in that way if she wants to she will and if she doesn't then she'll probably turn and you can pretend to tell her a secret to play it off. but just remember soft and sweet little peck
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reader, talker +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Just make eye contact. That's how it starts. You both look at each other, then look away, then look at each other again. You just look at her and then move closer. Lean in and she'll come the rest of the way to meet you. ;-) She's your girlfriend so she'll want to...she's just scared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): don't worry about it,
it took my boyfriend and i about a month and a half until we first kissed, and after words i wonder why i hadn't earlier.
honestly, i think you should just go for it.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 There's no point in fretting - just DO It :-D
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I'm pretty sure I've seen this question twice before.
It's not that hard, love - just pucker up and go for it. =)
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 kiss her. simple as - im sure she wont push you away since she is meant to be your girlfriend??
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