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36-40,
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writes:NEED URGENT HELP. there's aguy i liked from the first sight but i was too foolish to tell him. days later, he said he liked me to my face and i felt "why should i just fall for him?" he has thi attitude of "I'm the bomb", though it is true he is. i just smiled and left him with ni answer. to that, he thought i wasn't in it at all and he is now just treating me like a friend. what do i do? there are girls arund and i dont want him to go for any of them, while i sit an watch. how do i call his attention without really telling him "i like you too" verbally? HELP AUNTS PLS Reply to this Question
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (9 July 2008):
Tell him you like him. Its the only way. Its scary and difficult but the best things in life dont come easy, like babies (9 months of discomfort).
Hinting that you like him without saying is possible but its is takes a lot of time and effort and you wont even know if he got the message.
My advice is, be brave and tell him you like him.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Well, I'm not a great fan of guys who "think they are the bomb". My experience is that narcisitic men don't make the greatest boyfriends because they are more involved with themselves than they are concerned about YOU. 'Nuf said.
If you do like him, the next time he flirts, flirt back! Or find out his number and text-flirt. It's okay to be a little bit forward! Try the old drop your books near him, or just wink if you catch his eye! There are lots of ways to flirt! Be creative! Good Luck, Hun!
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