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anonymous
writes:i have been dating this guy for over a year now, excluding the two months we broke up from october to december. we broke up because he had been cheating on me. we got back together because he told me he changed himself for the better and he swore he wouldn't ever do anything to hurt me again, and that he was immature and foolish for doing anything like that before. anyhow, i was talking to one of his friends about him one day, and he said that my boyfriend had told him that he kissed this girl and was all over her at a party. when i confronted him about this, he said it wasn't true and that his friend only said that because he was angry at him, and just wanted to seek revenge. but i know this person isn't the type to lie. how am i supposed to know if he's cheated on me? and if he is, i have no idea how i'd leave him... please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Go with your instincts here. It sounds as if you already know the answer. If the person isn't the type to lie then why would they? Your boyfriend is the type to cheat so why wouldn't he? I think you need to get rid of him now before he embarasses you anymore. He isn't even being discreet about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): What does your gut tell you? Do you really believe he cheated again? Another thing to think about is if your boyfriend started acting funny the 1st time he cheated and is he acting the same way now. If you believe his friend and know for sure he could not benefit from getting you 2 to break up I would believe him.I know it would be very hard to end the relationship, but if he's a cheater he's no good for you and you will not be happy in the relationship. If you do break up just keep busy and spend alot of time the other people in your life you are close to.
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