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female
age
30-35,
*atax
writes:There's this guy (let's call him A) who asked me out a few days ago. Before then, I had only known him for three weeks and had already heard many rumours of his womanising behaviour and lack of respect for his girlfriends and girls in general. However, he seems to treat me very well and tells me not to believe stupid rumours when I confront him about them.I do have some feelings for him, and we have just started a relationship - but all my friends hate him. They say that it would be better for me not to risk getting hurt by him and they all think that he hasn't really changed from his earlier reputation of one-night stands and general nastiness. But all his answers to my confrontations seem true and convincing - there's no hesitation or signs of nervousness at all. Either he's a really good liar or it's actually the truth ... I don't know!I don't know what to believe - him or the rumours - and I also don't know whether I should continue this relationship with him. What should I do?
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reader, catax +, writes (7 December 2008):
catax is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, I am currently doing just that. :) I hope it works out ok!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): give him a chance.. it's all about now. people change. and rumors aren't always true. be cautious with him and don't get too attached in case all this stuff is true, you don't want to get too involved and then get hurt. if you're cautious and aware of what might happen, then it wont be as hard. good luck and take care. xx
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