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Should I continue my friendship with my teacher? I don't want to fall in love!

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Question - (5 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, *9Cassy writes:

Hi, I'd really apperciate it if you read this and give me some feedback because I am reallyy confused!

I had this " student teacher " that is now attending school. So he doesn't teach at my school anymore.

I've always thought he was attractive and the way he looked at me was Insanely seductive !

We always chit chatted here and I'd catch him checking me out but thats nothing!Few months after he left I noticed some students were adding him on this social Network chat place, So being the jelouse girl I am, I added him too.

We Started too talk, and we'll talk about anything..

Family, Friends, Girls.. , Boys, Sports ect ; )

The guy is 25 first of all. I'm 15.

Soon enough It felt like we were bestfriends.

Im Not in love with him.. Just too attached.

He'd always send me messages and he even added me on Msn.. But I'm wondering am I just some girl too pass his time? Sometimes he gets upset and I have no idea why, and he wouldn't talk too me. That's what really ticks me off, and kind've scares me too. He's planning too Visit my school before Christmas. Ps: He called me pretty and Said im " wise " for my age, also called me boo, and baby.. which im getting used too know.

I just don't wan't too start falling for this guy !

Sure he's hot.. but I just know he's not a keeper from what I know about him now. Should I continue my friendship with him? Should I flirt back?

All I say is thank you when he compliments me I try too stay on the safe side.

This isn't really your typical " teacher crisis"

HELP !

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A female reader, 19Cassy Canada +, writes (12 December 2008):

19Cassy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

19Cassy agony auntThank you, and I have realized he's a fool,

perverted, immature, and just not worth my time.

I didn't wan't a relationship too begin with,

it just seems like he was upto something. But I never knew what. Anyways he's still coming for the visit ( dance ), and I have no Idea how too react/act when he arrives.

I'm pleased too announce, I stopped talking too him online, but didn't have the strength too delete him , lol.

vicky you shouldn't be sorry, i totaly agree now.

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A female reader, VickyBaby United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2008):

VickyBaby agony auntok so theres 10 years between you both,

It may sound cool now, talking to one of your teachers asecialy when there "hot"

But the thing is, its not only against the law. Its wrong.

Please take this from a girl whos been through it all and tried having a relationship with a guy older then me,

It may seem cool at first, but it will come straight back to bite you on the bum.

I know your probally sick of the wholee "Its against the law" crap. But seriously. Its not clever and itsd not big, ive been through it all. Stop now before it goes any further. He doesnt sound very perfesional.

Im sorry to say this butt, He sounds like a bit of a perv.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008):

You are to young, he is breaking the law, this is all wrong teachers must be professional, get on with your school work and dont end up with a lot of baggage to carry about in the future

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