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writes: Some sensible advice please please please!I was with my ex for 6 years but split up after going through a lot together - it's been 3 years now and we have both had relationships and he had a child. His ex got pregnant within 6 months of us splitting up and now they have been separated for well over a year. We and my ex always laughed together, bounced off each other and had great chemistry. It's still there and has never gone away. I've seen him out a few times recently and we always end up side having fun. He has been having a real tough time, his mum is having Chemo for her spreading breast cancer (I was very close to his mum) and he has had to fight the courts for access to his daughter. He called me a few days ago and asked to come over, we talked, laughed,kissed and cuddled. He asked me to stay the night, even just for cuddles but I declined as I wouldn't just jump back into the sack with him just like that. If he wanted me - would he do everything he could to win me back or am I stupid for even contemplating it? I keep wanting to text him but I keep stopping myself cos if he wanted me I should wait for him to ask me for a date or something???? Help !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your advice - I text him to say it was lovely to see him and that he can contact me anytime. Time will tell I guess! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): You shared your life with this man for 6 years and broke up so there was obviously an issue with the relationship i think that as long as you have sorted your problems out about ur prev relationship then you should go for it. Lifes to short to wait so work up the courage and ask him out but make sure this is defo what you want.
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