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You won't believe this..

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Question - (5 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, you are not going to believe this, but..

My gran works for a very rich man, and she is very friendly with him. I used to help out my gran, and so me and this gentlemen both new each other. This was around 7 years ago, so when I was 10-11. My family moved, and I did not see him again.

Recently my gran has been saying that he really wants me to go round to talk to him. He came round to our house a few weeks ago, as my mum was throwing a birthday party for my gran.

I do not know his exact age, but he must be over 60, and my mum has informed me that he is gay. That did not cause a problem in the slightest, until the handshake he gave me was a little too intimate for my liking.

My gran always used to talk about his young 'nephews' that came round to visit him, and until now, I believed him (by young I mean 20+).

He is a friend of my grans, and a multi-millionaire, but I don't know if I feel comfortable going round to see him for this talk.

I do not know for certain that his interest is sexual, and he may simlply want to help me out either financialy or though advice.

Please can somebody advise me on how to go about this, and what to say to him and my family.

Thank you

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (5 December 2008):

petina1 agony auntSounds a bit dodgy to me. If you really can't resist the urge to go round and see him, take someone with you. Do not be in his company on your own. Your gut feeling is telling you that things arent right and only you know your own mind. Tread carefully in any dealings with this man. good luck. hope this helps.

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