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writes:Hi there, well see the thing is, i had a boyfriend (Ben) for about 6months, but we broke up.theni had a 2year relationship with my other ex boyfriend (Bill) , and we got on great, but then things between myself and Bill seemed to go down hill and we argued a lot and he never seemed to make me happy. around this time Ben got back in contact with me, we had a few drinks together n the spark came straight back.due to this i broke up with Bill and got together with Ben, now myself and Ben are living together and have had a great relationship so far.... but i cant stop myself thinking of Bill. I saw Bill a few months ago at a party, and we got on good again and have been in regular contact since, but i can't stop myself thinking of Bill when i am with Ben. what does this mean? i feel i love them both and they both say they love me, Bill knows all about Ben and understands that Ben and I have a brillient relationshp. but i dont know what to do. should i like try again with Bill or stay with Ben? or like, cut off all contact with Bill and focus on Ben?i feel i love them all. and when i am with Biill i feel i am IN love with him, but when i am with Ben i feel i am IN love with him.I have NEVER cheated on either men, and Bill knows i would never even kiss him while i am with Ben. i just don't know wether to be JUST mates with Bill and carry on my relationship with Ben. or what?!please help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): You know how most kids have a comfort blanket that makes everything seem OK? It sounds to me like you've got 2 of them!!! Things are great at the start, but after a while things go bad, showing there's no long term hope in either relationship. Move on, find a new guy and resist the temptation to go back to your 'comfort blankets'
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): Sorry about the title - I just couldn't resist it!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=hcF9JSxkUSE
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